Helping Families Be Happy

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With help from guest authors, experts, and community and business leaders, the Familius Helping Families Be Happy podcast explores topics and issues that connect families to the nine habits of a happy family: love, play, learn, work, talk, heal, read, eat, and laugh together.

  1. -23 H

    How Lunch Makes a Happier and More Successful Family

    How Lunch Makes a Happier and More Successful Family In this episode of "Helping Families Be Happy Podcast," Christopher Robbins welcomes Bri DeRosa to discuss the importance and benefits of family meals, not just during dinner but also lunch. They highlight research showing that sharing meals improves happiness and mental health across all ages. The conversation delves into the impact of shared meals on children, touching on topics like academic performance, reducing anxiety, and promoting early literacy skills. The episode also offers practical tips on simplifying lunch preparation and encouraging children to pack their own lunches to foster independence. Episode Highlights 00:00:09: Introduction to the "Helping Families Be Happy Podcast," host Christopher Robbins, and guest Bri DeRosa, who discusses the value of family meals. 00:01:48: Bri expresses her enthusiasm for talking about lunches and family meals. 00:01:58: Christopher transitions into discussing research about shared meals and their importance in making people happier. 00:02:20: Brie discusses the global research findings that shared meals, such as lunch, contribute significantly to happiness and well-being. 00:03:29: Christopher asks about the specific benefits of eating together for children, such as reduced anxiety and improved academic performance. 00:03:50: Bri affirms the benefits and elaborates on how shared meals positively impact children's mental health and educational outcomes. 00:05:35: Discussion about introducing vocabulary and literacy through shared meals, emphasizing the benefits of exposing children to novel words. 00:06:13: Transition to the practicalities of packing lunches, with Bri providing simple strategies for meal prep. 00:06:29: Bri advises that lunch preparation need not be elaborate, focusing on what children will enjoy and eat easily. 00:08:39: Discussion about the sensory and social challenges children face during school lunches and tips on mitigating them. 00:09:55: Advice on simplifying school lunches and helping children manage lunchtime stressors with an introduction to self-reliance in meal preparation. 00:13:02: Encouragement for parents to involve children in packing their lunches to foster independence. 00:15:35: Christopher and Bri discuss dinner leftovers as a resourceful way to prepare lunches, offering creative ideas. 00:19:36: Christopher concludes the episode, encouraging families to eat together more frequently and highlighting resources like the Family Dinner Project. Key Takeaways Shared meals, whether breakfast, lunch, or dinner, contribute significantly to individual happiness and family bonding. Family meals improve children's mental health, reduce risky behaviors, and enhance academic performance. Encouraging children to participate in meal preparation fosters independence and builds self-reliance from a young age. Incorporating literacy and vocabulary into mealtime conversations can bolster children's early literacy skills. Tweetable Quotes "Sharing meals with others makes you a happier person, even more so than employment or health status."- Bri DeRosa "Eating with your kids boosts their early literacy skills and reading scores even more than reading to them." - Bri DeRosa "Don't be afraid to give kids responsibility in packing their own lunches; it builds self-reliance and independence." - Bri DeRosa

    21 min

  2. 10 SEPT.

    Raising a Happy and Thriving Only Child

    Raising a Happy and Thriving Only Child In this episode of the "Helping Families Be Happy" podcast, host Christopher Robbins and guest Rebecca Greene, a mental health therapist, delve into the complexities of raising an only child. Rebecca shares insights from her book "One and Done: The Guide to Raising a Happy and Thriving Only Child," addressing common concerns such as loneliness, social skills, and the pressures on an only child. The discussion covers the importance of socialization, balancing extracurricular activities, and the significance of finding solitude over loneliness. The conversation also touches on the positive perspectives of adult only children, emphasizing that a single-child family can indeed thrive. Episode Highlights 00:00:10: Introduction to the podcast and host Christopher Robbins, discussion on family and relationships. 00:01:12: Guest introduction, Rebecca Greene, her background, books, and focus on one-child families. 00:02:19: Host's perspective on being an only child and having nine children; introduction to common concerns of raising an only child. 00:02:50: Discussion on concerns like loneliness, selfishness, social skills, and future caregiving responsibilities of an only child. 00:04:15: In-depth discussion on the myth of the "lonely only" and the findings that only children are not lonelier than those with siblings. 00:05:54: Suggestions for parents on how to reduce loneliness via early socialization and engaging in extracurricular activities. 00:07:17: Benefits of team sports and activities as tools for building family-like relationships outside of school for only children. 00:08:31: Exploring the difference between solitude and loneliness; red flags indicating loneliness in only children. 00:11:18: Tips on avoiding overscheduling and ensuring a balance between structured activities and free play. 00:13:57: Importance of mental respite and moments of creativity found in unstructured time. 00:14:39: decision factors for having one child and insight into therapy for processing this decision. 00:16:18: Positive feedback from adult only children on their childhood experiences and benefits. 00:17:51: Finding happiness in any family structure and information on where to find Rebecca Greene's work. Key Takeaways The stereotype of the "lonely only" is largely unfounded, with research indicating no significant difference in loneliness between only children and those with siblings. Early socialization and participation in extracurricular activities can significantly benefit an only child, reducing feelings of loneliness and improving social skills. A balance between structured activities and free play is crucial for children's development, avoiding potential overscheduling and allowing for creativity. Parents of only children should be attentive to signs of loneliness and should actively create opportunities for social engagement. Many adult only children reflect positively on their childhood experiences, enjoying the benefits of being the sole focus of their parents' attention. Tweetable Quotes "Research shows only children are no more lonely than children with siblings." - Rebecca Greene "Socialization and team activities are key to reducing loneliness in only children." - Rebecca Greene "The difference between solitude and loneliness is crucial for a child's development." - Rebecca Greene "Finding balance in structured activities and free play is essential." - Rebecca Greene "Many adult only children cherish the unique benefits of their upbringing." - Rebecca Greene

    19 min

  3. 3 SEPT.

    The Ten Habits of Happy Families

    The Ten Habits of Happy Families The podcast episode, introduced by Christopher Robbins, co-founder of Familius, focuses on the 10 habits of a happy family. Christopher shares a personal story about his grandfather's influence on his understanding of habits and character. The episode dives into the essential family habits like eating, healing, laughing, learning, loving, playing, reading, talking, working, and giving together, emphasizing their impact on building a successful, happy family environment. Christopher also highlights the importance of serving others, especially during challenging times like the COVID pandemic, to cultivate happiness and improve social connections within families. Episode Highlights 00:00:10: Christopher welcomes listeners to the Familius Weekly podcast and explains the motivation behind the podcast's focus on family habits. 00:01:06: Christopher recounts a memorable vacation with his grandfather and shares a favorite quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson, emphasizing the importance of thoughts and habits in shaping character and destiny. 00:02:02: Christopher discusses the challenges and realities of family life, recognizing happiness and sadness as part of existence and the role of habits in maintaining a happy family. 00:02:55: The first habit discussed is "Eat Together," highlighting the benefits of family meals, including reduced risk of eating disorders and improved self-esteem. 00:03:47: "Heal Together" is introduced as a family habit, focusing on the importance of collective healing through support and kindness during difficult times. 00:04:46: "Laugh Together" is covered, illustrating the health benefits of laughter, such as increased resilience and creativity, and its role in alleviating family stress. 00:05:50: "Learn Together" highlights the lifelong benefits of collective learning, promoting curiosity and expanding knowledge within the family unit. 00:06:47: "Read Together" discusses bonding through reading, citing personal family experiences and the benefits of improved vocabulary and life lessons. 00:07:42: "Talk Together" emphasizes effective communication as fundamental to building trust and resolving issues within the family. 00:08:41: "Work Together" advocates for collaborative efforts in family projects to instill perseverance and character-building. 00:09:35: "Give Together" explores the happiness derived from serving others and how contributing to the well-being of others positively affects family dynamics and personal fulfillment. Key Takeaways The foundation of a happy family lies in cultivating positive habits that foster love, communication, and collaboration. Engaging in activities such as shared meals, laughter, and communal learning strengthens family bonds and improves individual well-being. Serving others as a family not only enhances social connections but also instills a sense of purpose and collective joy. Balancing work and play and maintaining open communication are critical to handling family challenges effectively. Tweetable Quotes "Sow a thought and you reap an action. Sow an act and you reap a habit. Sow a habit, and you reap a character; sow a character, and you reap a destiny." - Ralph Waldo Emerson "The family who eats together stays together." - Christopher Robbins "We work to fall in love, but without work, we can fall out of love." - Christopher Robbins "Losing ourselves in the service of others makes us happy and improves our outlook." - Christopher Robbins

    11 min

  4. 26 AOÛT

    Better Family Photos with Matt Payne

    Better Family Photos with Matt Payne This episode of the Helping Families Be Happy podcast is hosted by Christopher Robbins and features guest Matt Payne, a professional landscape photographer from Colorado. They discuss the intersection of photography, family experiences, and nature, with insights into making photography an integral part of family moments. They explore how to capture authentic family moments, overcome children's reluctance to engage with nature, and create a mindful connection with the outdoors. Matt also shares his insights on the importance of creativity in photography and preparing to publish a book focused on Colorado's natural beauty. Episode Highlights 00:00:10: Introduction to the podcast and today's guest, Matt Payne, with a brief overview of his background and achievements. 00:01:17: Matt's work and passions are discussed, emphasizing his advocacy for family and children engagement in nature. 00:02:02: Conversation on the challenges and joys of parenting, especially with a large family, with humor and personal anecdotes. 00:02:49: Matt explains how his early experiences in nature influenced his passion for photography and shaped his values and ethics. 00:04:06: Discussion of a childhood memory that underscores the powerful lessons of respect and reverence for nature. 00:06:13: Advice on focusing on capturing authentic family experiences in photography rather than technical details. 00:08:19: The value of capturing candid life moments rather than staged photos is discussed. 00:09:42: Strategies for encouraging children to enjoy outdoor activities and engage with nature. 00:11:34: Use of phones for both entertainment and photography in natural settings as a tool for engagement is suggested. 00:12:36: Nature as an analogy for parenting and as a source of lessons and inspiration. 00:14:27: Opportunities for photography in everyday settings right outside one's front door are encouraged.00:15:38: Tips for improving photography by focusing on creativity and dismissing negative self- perceptions. 00:16:46: Starting photography with a smartphone as a practical first step for beginners. 00:17:31: Discussion of Matt's upcoming book celebrating Colorado's awe-inspiring landscapes. 00:18:21: Closing remarks with information on where to find more about Matt Payne's work online. Key Takeaways Photography is about capturing the essence of experiences and emotions, not just technical perfection. Encouraging children to engage with nature can start with simple, fun activities, linking interests like photography and creativity. Allowing children to make mistakes and learn from their experiences outdoors is crucial for developing independence and problem-solving skills. Great photographs can arise from capturing everyday life moments and authentic interactions, not just grand, planned photo shoots. Using a smartphone camera can be an excellent way to start exploring photography without a major investment. Tweetable Quotes "Focus on celebrating those experiences and those magical moments you have with people that you love." - Matt Payne "Nature is an amazing place but it's also a dangerous place and you need to give it respect." - Matt Payne "Let nature be a good teacher and let people make mistakes. You're gonna learn a lot faster from them than just preventing the mistake." - Matt Payne "Nature is providing pretty much everywhere, even in your own backyard, with bugs and plants and weird things you find under nooks and crannies." - Matt Payne

    19 min

  5. 20 AOÛT

    A Couple's Guide to Happy Retirement and Aging

    A Couple's Guide to Happy Retirement and Aging The Helping Families Be Happy podcast, hosted by Christopher Robbins, features Dr. Sara Yogev, an experienced clinical psychologist. They discuss the effects of retirement on personal identity and relationships, emphasizing psychological and emotional preparation in addition to financial planning. Dr. Yogev highlights the common issues retirees face, such as changes in relationship dynamics, communication challenges, and the need for meaningful engagement in retirement. Key strategies for maintaining healthy relationships include open communication, understanding, and compromise. Episode Highlights 00:00:09: Introduction to the Helping Families Be Happy podcast, hosted by Christopher Robbins, highlighting its focus on family, love, and relationships. 00:01:19: Introduction of guest Dr. Sara Yogev, her background as a clinical psychologist, and work on dual-career couples and retirement. 00:02:12: Discussion on the topic of gray divorce and how divorce rates have increased for those over age 50. 00:02:28: Introduction of personal anecdotes, noting changes in family dynamics as children leave home. 00:02:53: Exploration of how retirement affects relationships and the importance of psychological and emotional preparation. 00:04:30: Discussion on the individual impact of retirement and the necessity to find a new purpose post- retirement. 00:07:00: Emphasis on preparing psychologically for retirement and planning how to spend time during this stage of life. 00:08:24: Analysis of retirement’s impact on marital relationships and the need to renegotiate time spent together and apart. 00:10:19: Importance of maintaining good communication to navigate retirement transitions. 00:12:45: Negotiating time with friends and family as another domain of focus during retirement. 00:14:06: Potential issues related to division of household work post-retirement. 00:16:15: Discussion on changing financial dynamics and spending habits in retirement. 00:18:21: Highlight of real-life examples where expectations differed within retirement plans. 00:19:07: Importance of successful communication, listening, and understanding in retirement relationships. 00:22:40: The potential beneficial role of therapy in retirement for better communication and relationship management. 00:23:13: Personal insights from Dr. Yogev on her own experiences with retirement negotiations. 00:23:41: Conclusion with advice on the importance of flexibility and continuously adapting within relationships. Key Takeaways Psychological and emotional preparation are as crucial as financial planning for retirement. Retirement can drastically change relationship dynamics, requiring open communication and renegotiation of roles. Finding a purpose post-retirement is vital to maintaining mental health and personal fulfillment. Therapy can be a valuable tool for couples to navigate the challenges of retirement successfully. Tweetable Quotes "It's important to prepare not just financially, but psychologically and emotionally for retirement." - Dr. Sara Yogev "In retirement, find a reason to get up in the morning to feel more fulfilled." - Dr. Sarah Yogev "Good communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship, especially in retirement." - Dr. Sara Yogev "Remain flexible; the dynamic of your relationship will evolve as you navigate retirement together." - Dr. Sara Yogev

    25 min

  6. 13 AOÛT

    What You Need to Know if You Live Abroad with Melissa Dalton Bradford

    What You Need to Know if You Live Abroad with Melissa Dalton Bradford This episode of the Helping Families Be Happy podcast features Christopher Robbins in conversation with Melissa Dalton Bradford. Melissa, an experienced global citizen, shares insights into the intricacies of living abroad and raising a family across multiple countries. They discuss practical aspects such as learning the local language, understanding legal regulations, education options for children, and the emotional impact of frequent relocations. Melissa reflects on the personal growth and resilience developed through her family's international experiences, while also acknowledging some challenges and solutions learned along the way. Episode Highlights 00:00:10: Introduction to the podcast and host, Christopher Robbins. 00:00:41: Introduction of guest, Melissa Dalton Bradford, and her background. 00:02:02: Melissa talks about adjusting to Germany's weather and nature. 00:03:22: Discussion on the importance of learning the local language for integration. 00:04:18: Overview of the countries Melissa's family has lived in and the languages they speak. 00:06:40: Challenges and considerations of living abroad with children. 00:10:23: First experiences of moving internationally and encountering language barriers. 00:15:19: Strategies for helping children adapt to new school systems and environments. 00:21:55: Considerations for deciding the duration of living abroad and integration level. 00:24:40: Necessity of healthcare coverage and other financial aspects for expatriates. 00:25:08: Personal reflections on the benefits and challenges of living abroad. 00:29:59: Information on where to find Melissa Bradley online. Key Takeaways Learning the local language is crucial for true cultural integration and building meaningful connections. Research legal regulations, health care requirements, and residency permits before moving abroad. Understand educational options for children to ensure their smooth transition and academic success. Balance commitment to new cultures with maintaining psychological stability for children and adults. Tweetable Quotes "You can get by in English, but you can't get in." - Melissa Dalton Bradford "For every author, there's never enough publicity and the royalty checks are never large enough." -Christopher Robbins "I know how to make this work. I'm gonna make it work." - Melissa Dalton Bradford

    31 min

  7. 6 AOÛT

    The Nature of Color with Kimberly Collins Jermain

    The Nature of Color with Kimberly Collins Jermain In this episode of the Helping Families Be Happy podcast, host Christopher Robbins introduces Kimberly Collins Jermain, a painter, teacher, and architectural color designer. They discuss Kimberly's new book, "The Nature of Color," which serves as a field guide for exploring color in the natural world. The conversation delves into the science of how humans perceive color, differences in color perception between men and women, and the emotional and relational impact of color. Kimberly emphasizes the importance of being outdoors to truly appreciate and learn from nature's palette. Episode Highlights 00:00:10: Introduction to the Helping Families Be Happy podcast and Christopher Robbins. 00:00:10: Christopher introduces guest Kimberly Collins Jermain and her work as a painter, teacher, and author focused on color. 00:02:03: Kimberly shares her journey of creating a more engaging approach to color theory for her students. 00:03:09: Discussion on how humans perceive color through the eyes' rods and cones. 00:04:44: Differences in color perception between men and women are explored. 00:06:01: Understanding that individuals may perceive the same color differently and its impact on art and architecture. 00:07:15: How color influences mood and family dynamics is discussed. 00:09:06: Kimberly explains why nature is crucial for learning about color. 00:10:07: Insight into using "The Nature of Color" book as a field guide for personal exploration in nature. 00:11:41: Kimberly's approach to appreciating different artists and how personal interests guide artistic exploration. 00:13:02: Christopher shares his admiration for Van Gogh's unique painting style and its possible origins. 00:14:48: Kimberly's hopes for what readers will gain from her book. 00:16:45: Discussion on experiencing vibrant fall colors and the natural world. 00:17:00: Encouragement to engage with nature and use the book as a simple guide. 00:17:32: Kimberly provides information on where to find her work online. 00:17:55: Conclusion encouraging subscription to the podcast and exploring books from Familius. Key Takeaways The perception of color is subjective and can vary between individuals, genders, and environments. Nature serves as a rich, diverse palette that can teach us about color theory and its application in our lives. Color significantly affects human emotions and should be consciously used in personal and architectural spaces. Kimberly's field guide offers a practical method for documenting and understanding color experiences in nature. Tweetable Quotes "Nature is the source for everything, and that's where we learn the most about what's important to us as humans in this great cosmos." – Kimberly Collins Jermain "Explore outdoors and find where your interests lie and how color makes those interests more lively and important to you." – Kimberly Collins Jermain "It doesn't really have to be called a hike if you don't wanna call it a hike. Just find ways to enjoy using the resources that we have in our environment." – Kimberly Collins Jermain

    19 min

  8. 30 JUIL.

    How to Connect with Family When on the Road

    How to Connect with Family When on the Road  In this episode of the Helping Families Be Happy podcast, host Christopher Robbins speaks with Brian Brown about parenting on the road while maintaining a full-time job. Brian shares his experiences and strategies for staying connected with his family despite travels that take him away from home. The discussion covers the importance of genuine communication, creating traditions such as collecting books from different locations, and involving children in understanding the parent's work life. Listeners will find valuable insights on nurturing relationships with their children while balancing professional commitments.  Episode Highlights  00:00:09: Introduction to the podcast and guest, Brian Brown, and the focus on parenting while working full-time away from home.  00:01:42: Brian expresses pleasure in participating and remarks on the importance of being real to maintain family connections.  00:01:46: Exploring how to be an engaged and loving parent even when miles apart by prioritizing real and honest communication.  00:03:09: Brian discusses making proactive efforts to call at times that are suited to his and his daughter's schedules, reflecting prioritization.  00:04:17: Introduction to the power of parental gifts, with focus on tangible and intangible gifts, and Brian's book collection tradition.  00:05:09: Brian describes his tradition of buying children's books from local bookstores worldwide during his travels.  00:07:21: Encouraging children to appreciate the parent's work life by involving them in meaningful conversations and sharing experiences.  00:08:07: Engaging children in genuine conversations by asking specific questions that elicit better and more extensive responses.  00:09:59: Host Christopher Robbins summarizes the recommendations and invites listeners to connect with Brian on LinkedIn.  00:10:21: Closing comments thanking participants and encouraging listeners to explore literature to engage families and improve happiness.  Key Takeaways  Prioritizing real and honest communication builds stronger connections with family members even when physically apart.  Being proactive in scheduling calls during travel demonstrates prioritizing family over work engagements. Creating a tradition, such as collecting local books, can reinforce thoughtful engagement with family while providing meaningful memories.  Encouraging genuine conversations through specific questions helps build deeper relationships and better understanding between parents and children.  Involving children in understanding the parent's work life can lead to increased appreciation and engagement in both lives.  Tweetable Quotes  "Being real in our conversations often builds the bridge back home, no matter how far the distance." "A simple book from the road, with memories inscribed, can connect us back to those we cherish the most."  "Ask your kids something specific about their day—it's where the true stories unfold." "Quality time is less about where you are and more about where your heart is."  Show Notes by Barevalue.

    11 min
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With help from guest authors, experts, and community and business leaders, the Familius Helping Families Be Happy podcast explores topics and issues that connect families to the nine habits of a happy family: love, play, learn, work, talk, heal, read, eat, and laugh together.

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  • Création
    Familius
  • Années d’activité
    2020 - 2025
  • Épisodes
    100
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