Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships Podcast

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted! Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday! If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world. Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review! Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    S19E2: Healing From Relationship Pauses & The No Man Diet w/ Kylie McBeath

    If you're feeling stuck in dating or your relationship, maybe the solution is a....no man diet. Wha? We're chatting with Kylie McBeath about how despite having an incredible partner (ahem Mark Groves who we talked to last season), there was something standing in her way of moving forward with him– so much that it caused her to end the relationship and enlist in a no man diet to get to the root of her dependency on men. We're discussing how taking an intentional pause can give you the necessary clarity, why there's so much more to avoidant tendencies than meets the eye, and ways to feel more secure so you can finally be all in (like Kylie was eventually able to do with Mark!) Creating a Relationship 2.0 w/ Mark Groves Healing Your Dating Wounds Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Related Episodes: Creating a Relationship 2.0 w/ Mark Groves Healing Your Dating Wounds Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 7m

  2. 6 DAYS AGO

    #brunchtalk: How Do You Stay Motivated To Date?

    With so much happening in life, it can be hard to stay motivated to date –especially when you're not meeting the right people or having the results you want. In our first #brunchtalk of the season, we're discussing how to create a dating consumption strategy that's balanced with the right of life, how to better integrate dating into your life, and ways to manage both your time and energy when it comes to dating. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    21 min

  3. AUG 29

    Quickie w/ Julie: Dating Is Rarely As Personal As It Feels - And Here's Why

    It's hard not to take dating personally – especially when someone can't commit or doesn't want to see you again. But what we've learned is that it often has nothing to do with you, despite what we may think. Julie's diving into this topic as it's something that's been a challenge for her while dating – and even into her current relationship. Hopefully this will help you not take things as personally and use dating for what it's meant for: to find the right match. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    6 min

  4. AUG 27

    S19E1: The Paradoxes of Modern Dating

    Dateables! We're so excited to be back start Season 19 with a bang, diving into the many contractions with modern dating and relationships that completely baffle us every day – and what action we can actually take with this information. We'll discuss what to do when it feels like there's no one good out there, why we're so afraid to settle yet we settle for situationships, and how we can approach dating with more connection instead of the disconnection so prevalent today. Related Episodes: The Reason You Don't Need To Be Good At Dating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/s18e1-the-reason-you-dont-need-to-be-good-at-dating/id1084105171?i=1000647343899 An Alternative To Dating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/s18e18-an-alternative-to-dating/id1084105171?i=1000660174935 Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    56 min

  5. AUG 25

    Best of Brunch Talk: How Much Should You Share On A Date?

    How much do you need to share about yourself, your upbringing, or your past relationships in the early stages of dating? In this week’s best of brunch talk we’re chatting about the line between oversharing and not sharing enough, how you can spin conversations you’d rather veer away from, and why the last thing you want to do is trauma dump on a first date. And PS get your questions in because all new brunch talks start NEXT WEEK! Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    17 min

  6. AUG 20

    How To Date When Dating Is Harder Than Ever Before w/ Damona Hoffman

    We're back with our last episode before Season 19 begins next week!!! And this is a good one as we reair an episode we did with Damona Hoffman on her podcast, Dates & Mates, about how you can date with intention in a world that makes dating harder than ever before. We discuss why dating is harder than ever before – but also what you can do about it and have the best relationships of your life. Plus Damona closes out with a question around dating breaks and resets so if you're feeling burnout at all – this episode is for you! Related Episodes: F the Fairy Tale w/ Damona Hoffman: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/s18e2-f-the-fairy-tale-w-damona-hoffman/id1084105171?i=1000648160861 or https://open.spotify.com/episode/5W493uTZsYZYU0y3WV36Hk?si=fAnCGq8MS9u4Augv2wFvww Follow Damona on Instagram @damonahoffmanand check out her podcast Dates & Mates on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever else you listen to podcasts. PS their new season starts today, so check it out! Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    52 min

  7. AUG 18

    Best of Brunch Talk: Is Bad Sex A Dealbreaker?

    What happens when you meet someone great but the sex is well not so much? On this best of brunch talk, we're diving into how to handle this mismatch of expectation versus reality, why sex can fall short in the early stages even when the chemistry is there, and how to navigate the situation so you can turn this ship around (or get off in which ever way you interpret that). We're sharing some of our own stories and experiences, so whether you've been here before, experiencing this current day, or just want to get ahead of the situation, you'll likely relate and laugh along the way. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    25 min

  8. AUG 16

    Quickie w/ Yue: Poop Anxiety (In Early Dating)

    How many of you get anxiety about using the bathroom when you're just starting to date someone new? Anyone? Yue is going there: taking us through her own bathroom anxieties while being utterly perplexed that her friend did not share the same sentiment in the slightest – so much that it lead to an investigation on the topic and this quickie for all of you. TW: Talking about bathroom activities in this one. If this is not for you, check out our many other episodes. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Our Sponsors: * Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% your entire first order at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get your lifetime membership for 50% off with access to all 25 languages using the code TODAY at www.rosettastone.com/today * VIIA Hemp: Get 15% off their award-winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted! Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday! If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world. Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review! Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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