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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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4.7 • 809 Ratings
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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!
Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!
If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.
Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review!
Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
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#brunchtalk: Do You Give Them Another Chance?
If they flaked, ghosted, or slow-faded away, do you give them another chance if they come back into your life? Join us this week as we chat about why – or why not – someone may deserve a second chance. We're discussing what to look for in their words and actions, how you can hold your ground and share your needs, and why the early stages often reveal a lot – but not always everything.
Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Quickie w/ Julie: The #1 Quality To Look For While Dating
We're back for another “Quickie” where we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie shares the one quality that's pivotal to look for when you're dating – a foundational trait that you need in a partner in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. Enjoy!
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
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S18E9: Dating ADHD w/ Sussan Nwogwugwu
In today's fast-paced dating world where it's so easy to be distracted, we're diving into how to bring more focus into dating – whether you're diagnosed with ADHD or not. We're also bringing in an expert: Sussan Nwogwugwu, PMHNP from Done to talk about ADHD's impact in dating and relationships. We're discussing the difference of having a short-attention span and ADHD, how you can understand yourself or your partner better on the ADHD spectrum, and strategies to stay more present in texting, dating apps, and our conversations.
Learn more about ADHD at Done: https://www.donefirst.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Learn more about ADHD at Done: https://www.donefirst.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
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Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
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#brunchtalk: Should You Be Able To Check Your Partner's Phone?
A debate only this generation would have: should couples be able to check each other's phones freely or is each person entitled to their level of own level of privacy? We're digging into our thoughts as we discuss the motivations for needing to look at your partner's phone in the first place, the benefits and downfalls of giving one another access, and how you can actually discuss with one another what's behind the ask.
Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
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Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast
Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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Quickie w/ Yue: Reset The Algorithm Of Your Love Life
We're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Yue is sharing how with all the changes with the eclipse, now is the perfect time to take control and move out all the noise of what has been clouding your path before. Enjoy!
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
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S18E8: Understanding Digital Body Language (in Dating) w/ Moe Ari
Are there universal signals of digital body language? What does your DBL say about you and the way you date? We're chatting with licensed marriage and family therapist Moe Ari about the virtual cues we send in our online communication that are crucial to dating in today's digital world. We're discussing why understanding DBL can help you while dating, how to avoid overanalyzing/ misinterpreting communication, and ways you can strengthen your DBL with anyone you date.
Follow Moe @loveoutproud and learn more about his work: https://theemoeari.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast
Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable
310 Nutrition: Get 15% off, up to $100 off your first order using the code DATEABLE at https://310nutrition.com/
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Customer Reviews
Great show!!!
As a slutty, polyamorous gay man, I did not think two straight women would have anything to tell me about dating, but this show has given me a lot to think about as I’ve made some changes in my approach to dating over the last year and has been one of several things that’s helped me get to a much better place!! They cover a really diverse range of topics that have helped me recognize some of the patterns that were not serving me.
They stay pretty true to the accurate but often overwhelming idea that being authentically yourself and approaching others with curiosity, vulnerability, and empathy is the real way to find your person or people, while also bringing in practical advice that makes that huge undertaking feel more manageable, and they do it in a way that explores a vast diversity of ways that we desire to love and be loved!!
Verbal abuse and dating
I’m learning so many useful tips on dating from your show! Thanks for your objectivity and helpful advice. My question; I’ve been dating my partner for close to two years and I’m concerned about his yelling. He typically has unusually loud outbursts for road rage and he often screams at his dogs for what I consider silly stuff. Case in point dog is barking at birds and got screamed at to shut up.. ouch 😭 He has never screamed at me directly, however I’m very concerned about his lack of regulation. How can I navigate this path. I consider my partner to be otherwise reasonable. Help!
Best dating podcast
Started listening to this podcast on walks to dates with new people and truly helped get into the right mindset! Went on dozens of dates in SF that went nowhere and this podcast has helped me realize that it was all part of the process and, with a couple adjustments, dating has become quite fun
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