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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”

Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 790 Ratings

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”

Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Love in the time of Corona' Facebook groupCheck out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    Are You Using Dating Apps All Wrong? w/ Heather & Laura from Thirsty

    Are You Using Dating Apps All Wrong? w/ Heather & Laura from Thirsty

    As that essential tool we love to hate, the question remains: are apps the problem or are you just using them wrong? We're diving into it all as we chat with Laura & Heather on their podcast Thirsty about how we can leverage dating apps to their highest power and (perhaps) find the love of a lifetime. We discuss how to make great connections that may go somewhere, why better dates may actually result from dating less, and ways to attract the matches you want.

    Follow Heather & Laura on Instagram @thirstythepodcast and check out their podcast
    'Thirsty: The Podcast' wherever you get your podcasts.

    Make sure to subscribe as Season 18 starts next week!

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    • 1 hr 13 min
    Best of Brunch Talk: What To Do When They Don't Text Back

    Best of Brunch Talk: What To Do When They Don't Text Back

    One of the worst feelings in dating is sending that text and only to be left on read 4 hours later....yup, you too? We're going back to our OG Brunch talk episode – the first one ever with a topic that continues to be top of mind. Join us as we discuss why we put so much weight on texting, how to get out of the anxiety cycle of waiting, and ways you can stop compulsively looking at your phone and live life!

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

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    • 18 min
    How To Get Through Valentine's Day w/ 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose

    How To Get Through Valentine's Day w/ 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose

    Whether you're newly single after a breakup or you're just trying to figure out how to navigate the day with someone new in your life – we got you. Valentine's Day (aka Singles Awareness Day) can bring up all sorts of feelings and concerns so we're answering your v-day questions in this special episode and re-airing an episode we did with 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose to inject some humor into the day. Remember, no matter your "status", love is all around you. Enjoy!

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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    • 56 min
    Best of Brunch Talk: Should You Go On A First Date If You're Not 100% Sold?

    Best of Brunch Talk: Should You Go On A First Date If You're Not 100% Sold?

    We're diving into another crowd favorite and incredibly common question we hear over and over again: should I go on that date if I'm not sure about them? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing knowing the limitations of dating apps vs. trusting your gut, how to set up a date for success before even going on it, and ways you can change your mindset about what a first date even means.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGot a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

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    • 15 min
    Prepping For Your Great Relationship w/ Julia Mazur

    Prepping For Your Great Relationship w/ Julia Mazur

    Single for V-day? We got you! Get ready for all the feels as we speak with Julia Mazur, ex-Tinder employee turned confidence coach, about what it's like to release the pressure of needing to be in a relationship and embrace being single for this season of life. We're discussing the ultimate masturdates, how to find a healthy relationship through valuing yourself, and why this time in your life is just prepping you for the great relationship bound to happen ahead!

    Follow Julia @pmdpod @jamazur and check out her podcast 'Pretty Much Done'

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    • 1 hr 8 min
    Best of Brunch Talk: What's The Difference Between Being Picky and Not Settling?

    Best of Brunch Talk: What's The Difference Between Being Picky and Not Settling?

    If you've ever been told you're being "too picky" or you have a fear of settling, this brunch talk is for you! We're re-airing one of our most popular episodes about the difference of being so particular that no one can meet your standards vs being smart to hold out for the right person. We're discussing why settling gets a bad rap, ways you may be settling without even realizing it, and how to gage against the standards that actually matter.

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    • 26 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
790 Ratings

790 Ratings

Hdj42 ,

Insightful, Informative, Hilarious and Relative

This podcast is by far one of my favorites for navigating the world of dating and relationships. The insight, perspective, and advice are relatable, practical, and most importantly useful. Regardless of your relationship status, age, gender and lifestyle, there’s an insurmountable amount of advice and insight you can learn by listening. I love how a part of our lives we take so serious can be discussed with humility, candor and a sense of light heartedness reminding us that yes, dating is hard but if you take the time to self reflect, learn from others, and realize you’re not alone in the journey, successful relationships are actually achievable! Please keep posting, ladies! You guys are the best and so enjoyable to listen to!

FoolishMortal33 ,

My favorite podcast, and not just for dating!

These two gals are hilarious and an amazing resource for learning and perspective when it comes to dating, life, meeting people… I look forward to listening to every episode!

I find that when I listen in, I am reminded of why I’m dating the first place, what I want out of it, and how I want to show up when I’m in it. It’s been incredibly supportive over the past year for me personally as I’ve been on and off dating apps; their perspective has brought me back from the feelings of frustration and has brought back the excitement and joy that can come from meeting new people.

blazerfan7 ,

Thank you Yue and Julie!

I’ve been listening to this podcast for over a year now and it’s completely changed the way I view dating and relationships. I appreciate all your insights and the guests that you bring on. I love learning about different dating perspectives and challenging my own biases around relationships. Dating used to be so daunting and there was always a sense of dread around going on dates. I would settle for people that weren’t aligned with me, but because of this podcast, I feel so more at peace with myself and confident in the qualities I’m looking for in a partner. I can’t wait to see what episodes 2024 brings!

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