519 episodes

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!

Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!

If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.

Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review!

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 825 Ratings

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!

Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!

If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.

Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review!

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

    The Secret To Enjoying Dating: A Flashback For Instant Positivity + BIG ANNOUNCEMENT reveal

    The Secret To Enjoying Dating: A Flashback For Instant Positivity + BIG ANNOUNCEMENT reveal

    Our BIG ANNOUNCEMENT is here....along with a flashback to one of the most positive guests we've had on the pod. We guarantee you'll feel more hopeful and optimistic after hearing Meredith's story about how she's been able to actually enjoy dating in her 30's and thrive being single – even after a brutal breakup that involved infidelity. We discuss how detrimental breakups can be the catalyst for growth, how to actually enjoy the process of dating (even on the apps), and why personal growth is the most important gift you can give yourself while dating.

    Trigger Warning: We discuss infidelity

    Follow Meredith at @meredithtx

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    Pre-order our book HOW TO BE DATEABLE now!
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    • 1 hr 20 min
    Best of Brunch Talk: How To Tell When Someone Likes You

    Best of Brunch Talk: How To Tell When Someone Likes You

    Do they like you? Or not? We're bringing back one of our most listened to #brunchtalks to dissect the age old question of how to tell if someone likes you, especially in times when it's not entirely clear. We'll discuss how to navigate situations where there are mixed signals, why you can have that fabulous first date (make-out sesh included) and never hear back from the person again, and the #1 thing you should be asking yourself when you are dating.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating

    Pre-order our book HOW TO BE DATEABLE now!
    www.Howtobedateable.com

    Our Sponsors:
    * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
    * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
    * Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: viiahemp.com
    * Equilibria: Get 15% wellness solutions at www.myeq.com with the code DATEABLE
    * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
    * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
    * VIIA: Get 15% off + a free pack of their award winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE

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    • 19 min
    The Science Of Attraction: A Flashback to Our Most Popular Episode

    The Science Of Attraction: A Flashback to Our Most Popular Episode

    What makes you attracted to one person and not another? We're bringing back our most popular episode ever with Dr. Paul Eastwick about his work at the UC Davis Attraction Lab of how people form and maintain relationships. We discuss how ideal partner preferences play into partner selection, why we often think we know what we want when we don't, and the secret of when attraction can build over time. Plus we'll kick off the episode with a new intro recapping Yue's solo trip + the intimacy workshop she attended, and Julie's bday highs and lows. Plus BIG announcement coming next week!!!

    Check out Paul's work at http://pauleastwick.com/ or @pauleastwick on Twitter.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    Pre-order our book HOW TO BE DATEABLE now!
    www.Howtobedateable.com

    Our Sponsors:
    * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
    * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
    * Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: viiahemp.com
    * Equilibria: Get 15% wellness solutions at www.myeq.com with the code DATEABLE
    * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
    * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
    * VIIA: Get 15% off + a free pack of their award winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 1 hr 20 min
    Best of Brunch Talk: Should You Leave a Relationship That's Good But Not Great?

    Best of Brunch Talk: Should You Leave a Relationship That's Good But Not Great?

    Would you rather stay in a mediocre relationship than to start over and be single? The thought of dating "from scratch" can be daunting but does it really justify staying in a relationship not meeting your needs? We're re-airing one of our most popular brunch talks, where we explore whether to try to make your current relationship better or cut bait – and how to reframe your mindset about what "starting over" even means.

    Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    Pre-order our book HOW TO BE DATEABLE now!
    www.Howtobedateable.com

    Our Sponsors:
    * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
    * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
    * Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: viiahemp.com
    * Equilibria: Get 15% wellness solutions at www.myeq.com with the code DATEABLE
    * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
    * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
    * VIIA: Get 15% off + a free pack of their award winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 25 min
    Quickie w/ Yue: The Quickest Way To Stop Bad Dating Behavior

    Quickie w/ Yue: The Quickest Way To Stop Bad Dating Behavior

    Are you sick of the ghosting, bread crumbing, flaking, zombie-ing, and the myriad of other bad dating behavior? Yup, us too. Yue is discussing her theory on why it seems to keep getting worse every year, but more importantly how we can all squash this type of behavior and head into a dating utopia.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    Pre-order our book HOW TO BE DATEABLE now!
    www.Howtobedateable.com

    Our Sponsors:
    * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
    * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
    * Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: viiahemp.com
    * Equilibria: Get 15% wellness solutions at www.myeq.com with the code DATEABLE
    * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
    * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
    * VIIA: Get 15% off + a free pack of their award winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 10 min
    A PSA To Women: A Flashback to Our Most Controversial Guest

    A PSA To Women: A Flashback to Our Most Controversial Guest

    Have you ever wanted to get into the mind of men who act like they're interested only until you have sex? We're bringing up a spicy one from the archives of our most controversial guest to-date, Leon (if you're an OG listener, you probably remember this one!) who is here to deliver a PSA to women as a reformed f*ckboy who is now married and settled down. We're giving this a reboot to reflect on this current day, now that we've processed this "PSA" with updated takeaways to remind us that all guys aren't like this and how to not let the bad eggs get in the way of finding love. And for the good guys out there: this may give more understanding to experiences women may have with not so great men.

    Trigger Warning: This episode shows a manipulative side of men which may be triggering if you've experienced this type of behavior yourself.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    Pre-order our book HOW TO BE DATEABLE now!
    www.Howtobedateable.com

    Our Sponsors:
    * Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
    * Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
    * Check out VIIA and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: viiahemp.com
    * Equilibria: Get 15% wellness solutions at www.myeq.com with the code DATEABLE
    * Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
    * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
    * VIIA: Get 15% off + a free pack of their award winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    • 57 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
825 Ratings

825 Ratings

Lucy M.P ,

So good!

This podcast is brilliant! Yue and Julie bounce off each other so well and the advice and insights they give are helpful and applicable.

KnottyFroggy ,

Love the show! -question for brunch talk

I’ve been sleeping with someone on/off for 15 years. It’s always good and uncomplicated and I enjoy this person and the time we spend very much. Recently I’ve been seeing more political posts from them and we absolutely are on opposite sides of the spectrum. Now I’m very turned off especially when they post on topics of women’s rights etc. How can I and/or should I overlook this? Because…hell…because I want to get laid! Thank you ladies so much.

Rachsess ,

Love these girls!

I am in a relationship, but have found that I can relate to the topics. Most of the topics very relatable, or at least entertaining. It’s time to start doing tours girls! SOMEONE PLEASE TEACH JULIE HOW TO SAY EXACTLY! This is literally one of the most annoying things I’ve ever heard.

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