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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.

Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.

If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:

1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend

Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.

Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.

Dating Transformation Connell Barrett

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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.

Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.

If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:

1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend

Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.

Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.

    How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)

    How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)

    In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


    READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

    • 27 min
    How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity

    How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity

    Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


    READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

    • 41 min
    10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach

    10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach

    Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.



    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact



    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3



    READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend



    Quotes

    "Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett

    “Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett


    Featured in the episode
    Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website:https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


    Chapters
    00:00 - Introduction
    01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions
    03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation
    12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company
    13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around
    17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes
    21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations
    23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro 

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    • 25 min
    The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!

    The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!

    If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3



    READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


    Quotes

    "All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"

    Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett


    Featured in the episode

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


    Chapters
    00:00 - Introduction
    01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract
    05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences
    09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching
    10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception
    15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable
    18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates
    20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration
    25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection
    28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations
    32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings
    36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations
    37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule
    38:40 - Outro

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    • 39 min
    Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”

    Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”

    Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact



    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3



    READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend



    Quotes

    "Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett

    "Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell Barnett


    Featured in the episode

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website:https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation



    Chapters
    00:00 - Introduction
    00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App
    03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy
    04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness
    07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love
    10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece
    12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book
    13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach
    17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery
    19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women
    20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love
    23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits
    24:00 - Outro

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    • 24 min
    The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly

    The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly

    If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


    READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


    Quotes

    "When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett

    "Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell Barnett


    Featured in the episode

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
    Website:https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


    Chapters
    00:00 - Inrtoduction
    00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula
    05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting
    09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames
    10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call
    14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements
    18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits
    20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques
    23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates
    24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date
    26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense
    29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness
    31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication
    33:24 - Outro

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    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

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9 Ratings

mistanyce ,

Best Show Ever!!!!!

AWESOME SHOW!!!! ive actually known connell from a few years now and he is such much different than other coaches. he has such a genuine heart and cares bout his clients and tailors his coaching to you. listen to this man!!!!! he is definitely yoda status

Willthethrill!!!!! ,

Amazing Podcast

Incredibly insightful - highly recommend his book as well

NikoCosmos ,

Amazing Podcast

Really great podcast!

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