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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.


DATING TRANSFORMATION WITH CONNELL BARRETT

DatingTransformation.com

Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.

If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:

1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend

Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.

Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.

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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.


DATING TRANSFORMATION WITH CONNELL BARRETT

DatingTransformation.com

Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.

If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:

1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend

Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.

Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.

    How To Be a Confident Man

    How To Be a Confident Man

    Would you love to be a LOT more confident when you see an attractive you want to talk to …but the fear of rejection holds you back? Or maybe there’s a girl you know who you’d love to ask out, but you don’t want to get turned down, or be seen as creepy.

    The fear of rejection is one of the biggest problems that today’s men face, which is why in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, we turn to the renowned coach Shana James to help you become rejection-proof… and learn how to be a confident man.

    Shana has coached hundreds of men in all areas of life, from dating to business to mindfulness. She also shares her wisdom every week on her Man Alive podcast. (More than 300 5-star reviews!)

    Today, Shana and Connell have a lively conversation that’s jam-packed with funny stories and practical advice, so that you can…
    - Get EXCITED about your dating life, instead of see it as a drag.
    - Bring true authenticity and vulnerability to your dates
    - Take those romantic risks—like approaching and asking out your crush—with total confidence, and no fear of rejection.
    - PLUS: Shana shares one of the best tips from her Rejection Proof coaching program.

    Listen now, so that Shana can help you go from anxiousness and fear of rejection, to authentic confidence and becoming rejection-proof! It’s time to learn how to approach women.

    Want to learn how to be a confident man? You’re in the right place!

    TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SHANA’S COACHING PROGRAMS FOR MEN:
    Shanajamescoaching.com

    GIVE HER PODCAST A LISTEN!
    Man Alive Podcast

    BECOME A MAN WHO’S REJECTION PROOF:
    shanajamescoaching.com/rejection-proof/

    Quotes:

    "We want the men to feel alive and lit up and turned on and not this toxic masculinity that we see out there." - Shana

    "I'm so grateful that there are men out there teaching that authenticity is awesome and sexy. It warms my heart." - Shana

    Special mentions in the episode:

    What 1000 Men's Tears Reveal
    Ted Talk by Shana James
    Check it here: https://youtu.be/GGIq5_Ll4zk

    Featured in the episode:

    Shana James
    Love and Leadership Coach, Facilitator, Author
    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shana-james-3004065
    Podcast: https://shanajamescoaching.com/man-alive-podcast
    Website: https://shanajamescoaching.com
    Subscribe: https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters:

    00:00 Intro
    02:21 Shana's Ted Talk
    05:50 Why did Shana start coaching?
    08:36 How to approach women with confidence
    10:30 How Shana helps people achieve a successful dating life
    13:11 How to be rejection-proof
    17:24 Game-changer tips from Shana
    39:09 Advice for introverts
    41:48 Conclusion

    Produced by Heartcast Media.
    https://www.heartcastmedia.com/

    • 52 min
    How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App

    How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App

    How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App

    Chances are, you struggle when it comes to how to start a quality conversation on a dating app. Maybe you get few (or zero!) good matches, or the connections that you do get don’t lead to dates.

    And if you struggle on the apps, it can lower your confidence and make you want to give up on dating.

    The great news? This episode of Dating Transformation will give you some game-changing
    online-dating tips to help you know exactly how to start a conversation on a dating app.

    Today, Connell is joined by Helen Virt, one of the bright, innovative minds behind the Hily
    dating app. Hily—which stands for Hey, I Like You—is among the top 10-ranked dating apps in the USA. And in Connell’s opinion, it’s the best dating app for men… period.

    Connell and Helen talk about how Hily has grown so fast (25 million users worldwide), and how you can use Hily to take your dating life to the next level.

    This episode will reveal…
    -The biggest online dating mistake you’re making… and you don’t even know it!
    -Connell’s favorite dating-app opener that works 80% of the time
    -Exactly what to write on your bio to ignite quality conversations
    -PLUS: How Hily’s innovative features can help you learn how to start a conversation on a
    dating app.

    So listen now, and go from endlessly swiping and swiping… to starting quality conversations on Hily, or any dating app.

    CHECK OUT HILY ON INSTAGRAM:
    @Hily_App

    GO TO THEIR WEBSITE FOR MORE DATING HELP:
    Hily.com

    FOLLOW THEM ON TWITTER FOR DATING TIPS:
    @Hilyapp

    GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:
    DatingTransformation.com

    • 1 hr
    How To Talk To Women

    How To Talk To Women

    How to Talk to a Beautiful Woman

    Do you want to learn how to talk to a beautiful woman, but you struggle with what to say? Are you not sure what to write when you’re sending a dating app opener, or texting a girl? Do you run out of things to say on dates?

    Not knowing how to talk to a beautiful woman leads to awkward silences, bad dates, and major frustration.

    In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell talks to a man who can help you always know how to talk to women, so that your dates, texting, and conversations become fun and flirty.

    Tripp Kramer—author of the how-to dating book “Magnetic”—is a master at the art of how to talk to women. His insanely practical “How to Talk to Girls” podcast is one of the most popular pods in the dating industry. And has a LOT of wisdom to share today.

    In this episode, Tripp Kramer will help you to…

    -Avoid “interview mode” and have engaging conversations with women
    -Stop sending texts that go nowhere, and start texting your way to more dates -Use his top 3 “game-changing tips” for how to talk to a beautiful woman
    -PLUS: Tripp and Connell talk about how to be flirty WITOUT being creepy

    Listen now so you can stop running out of things to say and start getting girls giggling, flirting, and meeting you for (great) dates.

    CHECK OUT TRIP’S PODCAST:
    How to Talk to Girls Podcast

    VISIT HIS INSTAGRAM FOR MORE TIPS AND ADVICE:
    @trippadvice

    TO LEARN MORE OR TO WORK WITH TRIPP:
    Trippadvice.com

    GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:
    DatingTransformation.com


    Quotes:

    "This crazy emotional rollercoaster we experience happens when we’re going through growth or going through something that challenges us." - Tripp Krazmer

    "As long as they do the homework and they stay consistent, it still shocks me sometimes, even though I'm the one who has the program for them." - Tripp Kramer

    "Being able to be successful with women will also give us good results and accomplishments in other areas too such as career and personal development." - Tripp Kramer

    "Shyness is temporary and it will not always be part of our personality." - Tripp Kramer

    Featured in the episode:

    Tripp Kramer
    CEO at Tripp Advice
    Website: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/
    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tripp-kramer-2b2a686/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdvice
    Podcast: How to talk to Girls by Tripp Kramer
    Book: "Magnetic: Cultivate Confidence, Become Rejection-Proof and Naturally Attract The Women You Desire" https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BOFHRSW/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction
    01:54 Tripp’s dating problems in the past
    06:03 Connell approaches a woman for the first time
    06:56 Tripp’s breakthrough moment
    14:26 Tripp steals Tom Green's girl
    18:37 Learning from mistakes in dating
    24:39 How to take action
    30:23 Success stories
    34:58 How getting good with women...

    • 1 hr 2 min
    What Women Want In Men

    What Women Want In Men

    It’s the age-old question: “What do women want from men?” If you’ve ever had your approach rejected, or you THOUGHT a date went great but then she ghosts … well, you know what it’s like to struggle with how to read women.

    Special guest and TV celebrity Dr. Viviana Coles is here to help! Dr. Viviana is a sex and relationship coach who spent seven seasons as the expert on Lifetime’s “Married at First Sight.” Her mission? To help YOU have the most fulfilling intimate relationship—including great sex—of your life.

    On today’s Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell asks the brilliant Dr. Coles to “crack the code” on how to read and connect with women, and she does not disappoint. In this episode, Viviana will teach you what women want from men, and she’ll show you…

    -The simple, charming way to approach a woman at a social event, and make her smile
    -The way women WANT you to move in for that first kiss
    -How to confidently—and respectfully—lead a new relationship to the bedroom for the first time, in a way you’ll both love
    -PLUS: Connell shares a great piece of love advice from Viviana’s bestselling book, “The 4 Intimacy Styles”—a tip on how to keep the wonderful woman you make your partner

    Also, she’ll explain why penis size does NOT matter nearly as much as you think, and what matters to women instead.

    Listen now, to go from feeling confused by what women want from men, to knowing exactly what women want from men… so you can attract (and keep!) an amazing woman.

    TO GET DR. VIVIANA COLES’ BOOK OR LEARN ABOUT HER COACHING:
    doctorviviana.com

    SIGN UP FOR HER NEWSLETTER FOR TIPS, ADVICE, AND INFO ON HER UPCOMING COACHING PROGRAMS, FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES:
    Houstonrelationshiptherapy.com

    GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:
    DatingTransformation.com

    Quotes:

    "In dating, you need to be polite and have some tact, but other than that, authenticity is most important." - Dr. Coles

    "I want to help people round out their intimacy style." - Dr. Coles

    Book Mentioned:

    The 4 Intimacy Styles: The Key to Lasting Physical Intimacy
    Check it here: https://doctorviviana.com/product/buythebook/

    Featured in this episode:

    Dr. Viviana Coles, President and Lead Psychotherapist at Houston Relationship Therapy, President of the National Sex Therapy Institute, Director of Intimate Connections at Erosante Luxury Retreats, Resident Intimacy Expert at Bloomi, and Certified Sex Therapist. Featured on "Married at First Sight."
    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorviviana
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/DoctorViviana
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana
    Website: https://doctorviviana.com

    Connell Barrett, Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters:

    00:00 Intro
    01:52 Dr. Coles' background
    07:50 What happened on Dr. Coles' first date with her husband?
    10:34 The Intimacy Quiz
    17:24 Connell & Viviana discuss coaching
    20:34 Thoughts on couples who have less intimacy
    24:50 What makes men attractive to women?
    27:04 What is the problem with the provider-mentality among men?
    33:11 Tips for...

    • 1 hr 6 min
    How to Flirt with Girls Online

    How to Flirt with Girls Online

    How to Flirt with Girls Online

    Do you struggle with how to flirt with girls online, not to mention when you approach and when you’re on dates? Do you think your conversation might be boring to women, causing them to ghost you or reject you? Not knowing how to flirt with girls online can cost you lost confidence and fewer dates.

    But we got you! Today’s incredible guest will help you learn how to flirt with girls online, whether you’re approaching, messaging on an app, or texting before your big date.

    Instagram Influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar joins Connell on the Dating Transformation podcast to talk about her wildly popular dating podcast, We Met At Acme, and to give you tons of useful dating tips from the female POV. Lindsey knows the way women think, so listen now and a TON of practical dating tips, including…

    -How to approach women at the gym or at bars in a charming, non-creepy way that the ladies love
    -What to text on the apps, and what NOT to text
    -A Tinder opener that’s charming, flirty and funny… and that gets girls writing you back
    -PLUS: Lindsey reveals what you should definitely NEVER say to a woman you just met, and what to say instead

    Listen now, so you can finally get out of your head, and learn the art of how to flirt with girls online and IRL too.

    FOLLOW LINDSEY ON INSTAGRAM, WHERE SHE OFFERS TONS OF DATING TIPS FOR MEN:
    @wemetatacme

    CHECK OUT HER ADDICTIVE DATING PODCAST:
    We Met At Acme

    GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS:
    Wemetatacme.com

    GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:
    DatingTransformation.com

    Quotes:
    "Men usually listen to fix problems, whereas women listen to be empathetic towards the problem." - Lindsey Metselaar

    "Women want something funny, women always want to laugh." - Lindsey Metselaar

    Featured in the episode:
    Lindsey Metselaar
    Creator and Host of We Met At Acme
    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsey-metselaar-6ba01a5b
    Website: wemetatacme.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website: Dating Coach - Connell Barrett - Dating Coach For Men Worldwide
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:28 The origin of "We Met at Acme"
    03:28 Why Lindsey started a podcast
    05:13 What is unique about dating millennials?
    08:04 Lindsey’s worst date
    11:18 Why if you're feeling confused she's probably not that into you
    12:43 What are some signs that women are interested?
    17:37 Being vulnerable in dating
    23:54 How men and women approach dating differently
    28:13 How to text a woman without being weird
    31:34 Topics women want to talk about on dates
    33:23 Best practices for approaching women
    35:27 What do women want to see in a dating app profile?
    43:55 Dating tips from Lindsey

    Produced by Heartcast Media
    https://www.heartcastmedia.com/

    • 59 min
    How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend

    How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend

    How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend

    Do you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too.

    Help is on the way! Dating coach Connell Barrett can help you fix ALL those problems, starting TODAY, using the power of “radical authenticity.” The Dating Transformation podcast will teach you how to gain confidence, flirt with charm, and find a great girlfriend—and do it all as your best, authentic self… NOT some “pickup artist” creep.

    In the debut episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell welcomes a VERY special guest—thought leader and bestselling author Dr. Robert Glover, author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy.”

    Connell’s conversation with Dr. Glover will teach you…

    -The secret to instant self-confidence with women
    -Dr. Glover’s favorite technique to stop being “too nice” with women, and awaken your
    best, most magnetic self.
    -3 things you should NEVER say when flirting, and what you should say instead
    -PLUS: Dr. Glover shares a simple move you can use TODAY to get over your fear of
    rejection and start confidently approaching women.

    Listen now, so you can go from dateless “Mr. Nice Guy” to your most confident, authentic you.

    LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER AND THE COURSES HE OFFERS:
    drglover.com

    GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:
    DatingTransformation.com

    Quotes:
    "Nice guys seek approval and validation from others. Everything a nice guy does or says is at some level calculated to gain someone's approval or avoid their disapproval." - Connell

    "There's a certain percentage of women out there who's going to love the you that you are just the way you are." - Dr. Robert Glover

    "A certain percentage of women out there are going to love you just the way you are, as the REAL you." - Dr. Robert Glover

    Featured in the episode:
    Dr. Robert Glover
    Author, therapist, coach, educator, and public speaker
    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/dr_r_glover
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drrobertglover
    Website: https://www.drglover.com

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:58 What is the nice guy syndrome?
    12:14 Why do nice men seek women’s approval?
    15:38 Monogamy and dating are not in our DNA
    22:06 Women and security
    36:11 Embrace rejection
    51:01 Game-changing tips
    55:36 Conclusion

    Produced by Heartcast Media
    https://www.heartcastmedia.com/

    • 1 hr 15 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
6 Ratings

6 Ratings

mistanyce ,

Best Show Ever!!!!!

AWESOME SHOW!!!! ive actually known connell from a few years now and he is such much different than other coaches. he has such a genuine heart and cares bout his clients and tailors his coaching to you. listen to this man!!!!! he is definitely yoda status

Willthethrill!!!!! ,

Amazing Podcast

Incredibly insightful - highly recommend his book as well

NikoCosmos ,

Amazing Podcast

Really great podcast!

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