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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.

Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.

If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:

1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend

Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.

Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.

Dating Transformation Connell Barrett

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The Dating Transformation podcast helps men overcome self-doubt and attract their dream girlfriends, by being truly authentic. It's about finding love as the best, most real you.

Welcome to the Dating Transformation podcast, where we help single guys gain confidence, get more dates, and find their dream girlfriend.

If you’re a single guy who lacks confidence or dates, you’re in the right place! Dating coach Connell Barrett—author of the No. 1 Amazon bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”—is here to offer you three things:

1: Confidence with wonderful women
2: Tested dating tips and strategies
3: A practical plan to attract your dream girlfriend

Bonus? You’ll learn to date with "radical authenticity," and zero creepy “pickup artist” tricks. Because women like you for YOU.

Join Connell and his expert guests every week, so you can gain confidence and find your dream girlfriend.

    Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag

    Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


    Featured in the episode

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


    Robbie Kramer
    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/


    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage
    04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone
    07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages
    11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging
    14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully
    17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy
    20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date
    26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality
    28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified
    30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock
    35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition
    39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts
    41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges
    47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity
    49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating
    52:10 - Outro

    Produced by Heartcast Media
    https://www.heartcastmedia.com

    • 52 min
    Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge

    Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge

    If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

    Quotes

    Featured in the episode
    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts
    03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats
    08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste
    10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast
    11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces
    12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts
    15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist
    19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match
    21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile
    22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
    25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
    29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates
    30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity
    31:17 - Outro

    Produced by Heartcast Media
    https://www.heartcastmedia.com

    • 31 min
    The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!

    The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!

    Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!

    Quotes

    "When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell Barrett

    Featured in the episode

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website:https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection
    05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice
    06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement
    10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport
    14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries
    16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection
    19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles
    20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest
    25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance
    27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You
    30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness
    33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment
    36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey
    37:00 - Outro

    Produced by Heartcast Media
    https://www.heartcastmedia.com

    • 37 min
    The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women

    The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women

    If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.

    Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…

    2:17 The first rule of flirting
    4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection
    7:31 The right posture and eye contact
    8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date
    14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love
    17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you
    21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her
    24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you
    26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension
    27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into you

    Listen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    Quotes

    "Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell Barrett

    Featured in the episode

    Connell Barrett

    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website: https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps
    03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations
    08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts
    12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts
    15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor
    19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches
    22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
    25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
    29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates
    30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile
    31:03 - Outro

    Produced by Heartcast Media
    https://www.heartcastmedia.com

    • 37 min
    LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!

    LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!

    Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?


    You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.


    Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…


    5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates

    9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)

    14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send

    17:10 Why authenticity is what women want

    21:00 How NOT to overshare with women

    35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident

    44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new

    52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

    • 59 min
    Client Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, Too

    Client Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, Too

    If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!


    In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup moves
    needed.)


    John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options.


    Connell and John are about to teach you how to…
    How to stay out of the Friend Zone*Make first-date moves that women enjoyGet HER to kiss YOU first and chase for your interestFlirt and text in a charming, classy way women love.Be more self-confident TODAY
    And a lot more!


    Are you ready to get more dates, more confidence, and find your dream girl? Listen to John’s rock-star success stories with women, and go find the great, gorgeous girlfriend you deserve.


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
    www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


    Quotes

    "In any given moment, our confidence or lack thereof is going to come from what we focus on and how we interpret that focus." John

    Featured in the episode

    John

    Connell Barrett
    Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
    Website:https://datingtransformation.com
    Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

    Chapters
    00:00 - Introduction
    04:26 - Confidence Boost and Refreshed Dating Skills
    08:40 - Finding the Right Setting for Successful Dates
    12:12 - Building Connection through Touch on Dates
    13:17 - Fun Dates: Intimacy, Rapport, and Compatibility
    18:19 - Embracing Confidence and Mindset, Letting Go of Insecurity
    21:41 - Pre-Date Confidence Boost: Reciting Notepad Words
    23:22 - Self-Reflection: Work Trip to Italy, Blake Shelton
    28:07 - Memorable First Date Leading to an Unexpected Kiss
    31:36 - Training for Improved Dating Success and Confidence
    35:48 - Authenticity Over Fakeness: Good Dating Advice
    37:34 - Having Fun Authentically: Showing Her the Way
    42:53 - Outro

    • 46 min

Customer Reviews

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7 Ratings

mistanyce ,

Best Show Ever!!!!!

AWESOME SHOW!!!! ive actually known connell from a few years now and he is such much different than other coaches. he has such a genuine heart and cares bout his clients and tailors his coaching to you. listen to this man!!!!! he is definitely yoda status

Willthethrill!!!!! ,

Amazing Podcast

Incredibly insightful - highly recommend his book as well

NikoCosmos ,

Amazing Podcast

Really great podcast!

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