Delight Your Marriage

I took the Masculinity Reclaimed course about 22 months ago. My wife Started the intimate freedom course at the same time. We were open in conversation about “sex”(NOTICE: I did not say physical intimacy) being “a thing” and it having it’s own pulse in our relationship. I was aware that link of the chain touched and affected (and was an integral supporting link to) every other link of the chain. We had a significant biblical understanding of what the God was calling us to. We were stuck in implementing many of these things practically. We both agreed that seeking help from Belah was a good idea. Her character on the podcasts was deeply confirmed while spending time with her on the courses. What you hear and see on the podcasts is what you get, only tailored specifically to your current situation, with the same biblical insight, dedicated loving service, honesty, sincerity, grace and steadfastness for your good. Since taking the courses my wife and I are playful, our communication with and acceptance of each other the way we are is unrecognizable from the beginning. It’s truly amazing. We knew God designed marriage for more. The reason we ultimately decided to take the course was because we knew and agreed that God designed marriage and specifically PHYSICAL INTIMACY (NOTICE The change In verbiage looking back). Physical intimacy has now become the culmination of all other expressions of intimacy in our marriage. Ephesians 5 parallels marriage with Christ and the church and it being “a profound mystery”. Oh, is it. God desires our deep, complete, unbridled intimacy with Him. He desires that we respect and honor Him and His authority. He desires to be completely known and accepted. He wants us to affirm him to himself as well as in front of others. So does the husband. He was made in the image of God with masculine energy. Jesus came as one who submitted to a higher authority, submissive and obedient to that higher authority, took his place and purpose under that authority as the utmost importance in His life. He was loving, gentle, sincere, graceful, kind, self-controlled, joyful in all situations, peaceful and peace giving and patient. What more do women desire more deeply from her husband than these things? God desires to be deeply known by us. For us to accept who He is, as He is! He wants us to cherish Him for who He is. To show Him off to others as our prized possession. For Him to be the star of the show. He desires to be listened to, to be understood, to have emotionally intimate time alone with us. He wants to be affirmed in who he is. He wants us to acknowledge who He is and “compliment” Him for the things He does in our lives. So does the wife. She was made in God’s image with feminine energy. Praise God for His timing and praise God for Belah Rose and her obedience to God’s call on her life!! We love you Belah. Update. It’s been over 4 years now. Having gone through the courses we have continued to grow in many different ways. Most noteably for me has been my ability to focus on my mental health and overcoming trauma from my past. Alongside this, leading in many other areas of our lives including things that do not make her happy at the time are areas of growth for me. Thanks again Belah!!

I had been searching for something to better my marriage. When I joined Beulah’s delight Your Marriage program, it wasn’t just about improving my marriage, but improving me as a person and building my relationship with God. It completely changed my daily focus. My life has been so much better since joining our program.

DYM is doing work to change lives and marriages! You get an inside look to the principles as well as people’s experiences applying them in the podcast! There is so much authenticity, hope, and biblical wisdom offered here on marriage and sexuality. Dive in!

I have been listening to this podcast for over a year now and I am continually blown away by how spot on the material and suggestions are. Wow! Belah does an amazing job at letting the Holy Spirit guide her talks and material. It is so evident she loves Jesus with all her heart and uses that relationship to bring forth solid, Biblically based content to help us grow in our marriage relationship. Even if you are the only one listening and putting into practice what is shared, God will change your marriage as He changes your heart. I have learned more about how humility and following Jesus’ example will help me love my wife in a more fulfilling way, change the atmosphere in our home and change how she responds to me in a more positive way. Lives and marriages are being changed by this ministry and it is super inspiring!