Diary of a Matchmaker

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Diary of a Matchmaker

Getting married is tough for the vast majority of Muslims in the West. We know because we’ve been there. My (Zaid) journey spanned nearly nine years. It was filled with rejections and self-doubt. While I (Hiba) didn't know there was a journey to be on in the first place. After we got married we decided to create something different to help single Muslims complete their deen. And so our matchmaking service Halal Match was born.  After a few years of interviewing singles, a friend suggested we journal our stories. We tweaked that idea and turned it into a podcast. In ‘Diary of a Matchmaker’ we’ll take you through this unfamiliar world of matchmaking. We’ll share our stories, experiences, and much more. So say Bismillah and tune in. Do you have a story to share? Email us at: info@halalmatch.ca  Find us on:  Website: https://halalmatch.ca/  Youtube: https://shorturl.at/ywE8NInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/halalmatch.ca/ The Compatibility Challenge on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/mtdeefsh#muslimmarriage #muslimpodcast #islamicmarriage #singlemuslim #muslimcouple 

  1. Considering Marrying a Convert? Listen First w/ Aiah Neamatallah

    -4 ДН.

    Considering Marrying a Convert? Listen First w/ Aiah Neamatallah

    This week, psychotherapist Aiah Neamatallah joins us to talk about what many converts face after the shahada, especially when it comes to marriage, from feeling caught between two worlds to navigating power dynamics in relationships. We dig into what converts should know before getting married, what born Muslims and their parents often overlook, and how communities can do better. Whether you're a convert, marrying one, or just curious, this episode is packed with honesty, empathy, and practical takeaways. To connect with Aiah and other amazing counselors go to: https://muslimcounselling.ca/ Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    30 мин.
  2. Financial Habits Every Single Should Know w/ Jesse Reitberger

    6 ИЮН.

    Financial Habits Every Single Should Know w/ Jesse Reitberger

    Money talks before marriage don’t have to be cringey, they’re actually a must. We brought in Jesse Reitberger, an Islamic finance expert and founder of Canadian Islamic Wealth, to break down why it’s not about the salary number, but how that money’s made. Spoiler: halal income beats a fat paycheck every time. Jesse drops gems like the $10K question, halal mortgage hacks, and why men need to own their provider role while recognizing the reality of dual incomes today. Plus, his top tip? Start saving now, even $25 a month can seriously change the game. Whether you’re single, engaged, or just curious, this episode is packed with straight talk and smart advice. Get in touch with Jesse at: https://manzil.ca/wealth jesse@manzilwealth.ca Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    55 мин.
  3. The Productivity Shift Every Single Needs w/ Mohammed Faris

    30 МАЯ

    The Productivity Shift Every Single Needs w/ Mohammed Faris

    🚨 Heads up: If you only listen to one episode of this podcast, make it this one. We’re obsessed. What if preparing for marriage wasn’t about ticking more boxes, but about aligning your effort with purpose, intention, and barakah? We sat down with Muhammed Faris, founder of Productive Muslim, and the conversation honestly blew us away. He unpacks what productivity actually means for single Muslims, and it’s not what you think. We talk about shifting from hustle to heart. From scarcity to trust. From doing more to doing it better, with Allah in mind. Faris shares practical tools and deep mindset shifts that can completely change how you approach your search for a spouse. It’s grounding, insightful, and exactly what we needed to hear, and we have a feeling you might feel the same. Follow The Productive Muslim on Instagram.  Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    53 мин.
  4. Forget Small Talk: Try This Instead!

    25 МАЯ

    Forget Small Talk: Try This Instead!

    Let’s be honest, courting can feel like a weird mix of awkward silences and overly intense “So, where do you see yourself in five years?” vibes. Today, we're sharing a better way: playful, thought-provoking activities designed to spark real connection without killing the vibe. These aren’t your typical icebreakers. One minute you’re ranking your top values, the next you’re arguing (respectfully!) over whether a $3,000 mattress is worth the splurge. And in the process, you’re learning how someone thinks, what they prioritize, and how they deal with pressure or disagreement. The best part? You might learn a few things about yourself too. Because compatibility isn’t just about knowing the other person, it’s also about understanding what matters to you. So if you’re navigating the courting world and want less awkwardness, more depth, and maybe a few laughs along the way, this episode’s for you. Curious to try these games yourself? The Compatibility Challenge lives here: Amazon or halalmatch.ca. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    35 мин.
  5. Ghosting: The Breakup You Never Saw Coming

    16 МАЯ

    Ghosting: The Breakup You Never Saw Coming

    Ghosting sucks, especially when you’re serious about marriage. You start overthinking: Did I say something wrong? Is it my looks? But usually, it’s not about you. In this episode we get real about ghosting, from both sides. Zaid admits he once micro-ghosted because he couldn’t be honest, while Hiba shares the pain of being left hanging. We break down why ghosting happens so much in Muslim courting, why silence feels “easier,” and what Islam says about honest communication. Been ghosted or done the ghosting? This episode’s for you. Share your story on the Single Muslim Hotline! Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    27 мин.
  6. Istikhara Myths That Need To Go

    9 МАЯ

    Istikhara Myths That Need To Go

    You made istikhara... now you're just confused, dreamless, and wondering what’s next. Sound familiar? If you're in the marriage search scene, you've probably bumped into the mysterious world of istikhara, or worse, been "istikhara’d" (aka ghosted with a religious excuse). Today we’re breaking down what istikhara is really about: seeking goodness from Allah, not outsourcing your decisions. We’re busting myths and sharing real stories from our matchmaking experiences where istikhara was misused as an emotional escape hatch. Whether you're about to say yes to a proposal or just curious, this episode will help you make decisions with your heart, mind, and faith aligned. Plus we have a funny blooper for you to enjoy!  Got an istikhara ghosting story? Drop us a voice message! Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    32 мин.
  7. Can a Father’s Wilayah Be Taken Away?

    2 МАЯ

    Can a Father’s Wilayah Be Taken Away?

    What do you do when your dad turns into a one-man dating app filter… and swipes left on everyone? In this episode we’re talking about something major: when your father’s wilayah (guardianship) can actually be removed. Yep, it’s a thing, and it’s not taken lightly. We’re diving into real stories, like the woman who aged out of her prime while her parents waited for Mr. Perfect Ethnic Match, and another whose mom basically ran the rejection department. We break down what wilayah is really supposed to be, how it's misused, and what to do if you're stuck in a no-win situation.  Hit download if you’ve ever wondered: Is this protection… or control? And send this to a friend who's been “almost married” 17 times. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    28 мин.
  8. Misyar Marriage: A Loophole or a Lifeline?

    25 АПР.

    Misyar Marriage: A Loophole or a Lifeline?

    Misyar marriage—halal but hotly debated. In this episode, we break down what it actually is, why some people turn to it, and why scholars aren’t exactly cheering it on. Think: waived rights, complicated intentions, and a whole lot of ethical gray area. We cover everything from divorced moms looking for companionship to men using it as a loophole—and why that’s a problem. With shifting gender roles and evolving needs, Misyar is becoming more common, but is it the right move? We get into the real talk: when it works, when it hurts, and what to know before diving in. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

    33 мин.
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Getting married is tough for the vast majority of Muslims in the West. We know because we’ve been there. My (Zaid) journey spanned nearly nine years. It was filled with rejections and self-doubt. While I (Hiba) didn't know there was a journey to be on in the first place. After we got married we decided to create something different to help single Muslims complete their deen. And so our matchmaking service Halal Match was born.  After a few years of interviewing singles, a friend suggested we journal our stories. We tweaked that idea and turned it into a podcast. In ‘Diary of a Matchmaker’ we’ll take you through this unfamiliar world of matchmaking. We’ll share our stories, experiences, and much more. So say Bismillah and tune in. Do you have a story to share? Email us at: info@halalmatch.ca  Find us on:  Website: https://halalmatch.ca/  Youtube: https://shorturl.at/ywE8NInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/halalmatch.ca/ The Compatibility Challenge on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/mtdeefsh#muslimmarriage #muslimpodcast #islamicmarriage #singlemuslim #muslimcouple 

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    Halal Match
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