Did Homeschooling Prepare Us To Be Adults?

In this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, Jacob Gooden sits down with Makeila Harrell (Mahoney) as they delve into the unique experiences of being raised in a homeschooling environment with strong religious influences. From the pressures of being a pastor’s kid to transitioning into adult life and exploring career paths in event management and marketing, Makeila shares her journey of faith, mental health, and the pursuit of personal identity. Together, they reflect on the value of community, overcoming “church hurt,” and embracing authenticity in a world that often misunderstands homeschoolers. This episode is a must-listen for those curious about the intersections of homeschooling, mental wellness, and the freedom to redefine success. Key Takeaways: - Finding Your Path Beyond Traditional Schooling: Makeila shares how she pursued event management and marketing without a traditional college degree. - Mental Health and Church Influence: Insight into how faith-based environments impact mental health, including dealing with the pressures of a pastoral family. - Embracing Healing and Growth: Makeila’s experience with personal growth, including how psychology, therapy, and family dynamics influenced her journey. - Rediscovering Faith and Community: The importance of finding a balanced spiritual community and reconnecting with childhood friends. Resources Mentioned: New York Institute of Art and Design: https://www.nyiad.edu/ The Enneagram Personality Test (understanding personality types): https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club 01:46 Homeschool Beginnings and Family Dynamics 03:20 Homeschool Groups and Social Life 06:00 High School Choices and Homeschool Benefits 12:41 Transitioning to Adulthood and Career Choices 14:00 Event Management and Career Growth 17:54 From Events to Marketing 24:15 Entrepreneurial Beginnings 25:02 Homeschooling Reflections 25:56 Mental Health and Homeschooling 27:43 Exploring Enneagrams 29:20 Church and Mental Health 31:00 Family Dynamics and Church Politics 33:18 Transitioning Away from the Church 40:39 Healing and Helping Others 44:15 Reconnecting with Old Friends 45:38 A Surprise Party Story 48:14 Final Thoughts and Call to Action If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from Makeila’s story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub Email me at exhsclub@gmail.com