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Welcome to ’Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution’, a journey into the unexplored intersections of sexuality, relationships, and personal growth. Your host, Destin Gerek, renowned sexologist and author of ’The Evolved Masculine’, invites you to traverse beyond the boundaries of conventional understanding.

In each episode, we dive deep into human potential, where the realms of sex, love, and conscious evolution converge. Engage in intimate conversations with experts, innovators, and influencers from the fields of sexuality, relationships, and personal development.

Together, we challenge societal norms, broaden perspectives, and inspire listeners to redefine their understanding of love and intimacy. This is more than a podcast; it’s a transformational journey. From reigniting passion in relationships to fostering personal growth and evolution, ’Diving Deep with Destin’ equips you to discover new pathways to connection and embrace your full sexual expression.

Dive deep with us to unlock and explore the rich possibilities of human experience and connection.

Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, and Evolution Destin Gerek

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    • 5.0 • 13 Ratings

Welcome to ’Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution’, a journey into the unexplored intersections of sexuality, relationships, and personal growth. Your host, Destin Gerek, renowned sexologist and author of ’The Evolved Masculine’, invites you to traverse beyond the boundaries of conventional understanding.

In each episode, we dive deep into human potential, where the realms of sex, love, and conscious evolution converge. Engage in intimate conversations with experts, innovators, and influencers from the fields of sexuality, relationships, and personal development.

Together, we challenge societal norms, broaden perspectives, and inspire listeners to redefine their understanding of love and intimacy. This is more than a podcast; it’s a transformational journey. From reigniting passion in relationships to fostering personal growth and evolution, ’Diving Deep with Destin’ equips you to discover new pathways to connection and embrace your full sexual expression.

Dive deep with us to unlock and explore the rich possibilities of human experience and connection.

    010: CENSORED: Sexual Health in the Digital Age with Jackie Rotman

    010: CENSORED: Sexual Health in the Digital Age with Jackie Rotman

    Destin Gerek engages in a riveting conversation with Jackie Rotman, the force behind the Center for Intimacy Justice. We explore the vast and often shadowy landscape of tech censorship, its profound implications on sexuality, and the pioneering efforts to combat it. My guest, Jackie Rotman, founder of the Center for Intimacy Justice, sheds light on a struggle that touches the core of our digital existence. Her organization's relentless pursuit against the Goliath of tech censorship not only highlights the disproportionate impact on women's sexual health businesses but also underscores a broader societal challenge. Rotman's journey, marked by personal trials and an unyielding commitment to justice, provides invaluable insights into the complexities of advocating for sexual health and freedom in the digital age. This conversation isn't just about confronting censorship; it's a clarion call to reclaim our collective right to knowledge, expression, and intimacy in a world increasingly mediated by algorithms.



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    Key Insights:


    The pervasive impact of tech censorship on sexual health education and the digital expression of intimacy.


    Jackie Rotman's relentless crusade against the giants of tech, advocating for the right to knowledge and freedom in the digital age.


    Strategies for navigating and combating digital suppression in the quest for a sexually liberated society.





    Notable Quotes:

    "Challenging the digital gatekeepers is the first step towards reclaiming our right to intimacy and knowledge."

    "In the shadows of the internet, a battle rages for the soul of sexual expression."



    Timestamps:

    00:03:20 - Introduction to Jackie Rotman and the Center for Intimacy Justice

    00:17:40 - Unveiling the digital curtain: The battle against tech censorship

    00:31:15 - The journey from personal trauma to global advocacy

    00:45:00 - Successes and challenges in the fight for digital sexual rights

    00:58:25 - Envisioning a future of liberated digital intimacy

    01:12:50 - How to get involved and support the cause for digital freedom



    Guest Bio:

    Jackie Rotman is the visionary founder of the Center for Intimacy Justice, a pioneering organization dedicated to combating censorship and fostering freedom of expression in the realm of sexual health and education. Through her leadership, Jackie challenges the behemoths of the tech industry, advocating for equitable policies that honor the complexity and richness of human sexuality. Her work is a testament to the power of resilience, advocacy, and the relentless pursuit of justice in the digital age.



    Connect with Jackie and the Center for Intimacy Justice:

    IG: http://instagram.com/intimacyjustice

    Website: https://www.intimacyjustice.org/





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    Connect with Destin:

    Website: ⁠https://destingerek.com⁠

    Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/destingerek⁠

    TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@destingerek⁠

    Youtube: ⁠https://youtube.com/@divingdeepwithdestin


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    • 1 hr 13 min
    009: Relationship as Spiritual Path with Justin Patrick Pierce

    009: Relationship as Spiritual Path with Justin Patrick Pierce

    Destin Gerek engages in a profound conversation with Justin Patrick Pierce, a leading figure in the exploration of intimate relationships and co-author, alongside his wife London Angel Winters, of "Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship." They delve into the transformative potential of sacred sexuality, the pivotal role of personal evolution within relationships, and the journey toward deeper intimacy and connection. This discussion offers insights into harnessing sexual energy as a tool for spiritual awakening, understanding the intricacies of masculine and feminine dynamics, and the importance of presence, sensitivity, and equanimity in nurturing a fulfilling partnership.



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    Key Insights:

    Exploring the depths of sacred sexuality and its role in spiritual awakening.

    The significance of integrating awareness, sensitivity, and equanimity into intimate relationships.

    The impact of personal and relational evolution on achieving a deeper sense of intimacy and connection.



    Notable Quotes:

    "Intimacy is not just a path to connection; it's a journey back to oneself."

    "Through the conscious engagement of our sexual energy, we unlock doors to profound spiritual experiences."

    Timestamps:

    00:03:05 - Introduction to Justin Patrick Pierce and the essence of sacred sexuality

    00:18:30 - The foundations of a transformative intimate relationship: presence, sensitivity, and equanimity

    00:32:15 - Personal anecdotes and lessons learned from Justin's journey with London Angel Winters

    00:45:40 - Strategies for deepening connection and intimacy in relationships

    00:58:05 - Insights from "Playing With Fire" and the integration of spiritual practices in love

    01:10:30 - Justin's advice for couples and individuals seeking to explore the spiritual path of intimate relationships



    Guest Bio:

    Justin Patrick Pierce is a thought leader in the realm of intimate relationships, co-authoring seminal works with his wife, London Angel Winters. His approach blends ancient tantric wisdom with modern insights into relationship dynamics, offering pathways to deep intimacy and spiritual growth. Justin's teachings emphasize the importance of presence, polarity, and devotion, guiding individuals and couples towards fulfilling, love-filled lives.



    Connect with Justin:

    Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/



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    For guidance on your journey towards evolved masculinity or femininity, reach out at:

    Website: https://⁠DestinGerek.com⁠

    Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠

    TikTok: ⁠http://tiktok.com/@DestinGerek⁠Youtube: ⁠http://youtube.com/@DivingDeepWithDestin


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    • 1 hr 24 min
    008: Navigating Masculinity: From Tradition to Transformation w/Connor Beaton

    008: Navigating Masculinity: From Tradition to Transformation w/Connor Beaton

    Destin Gerek sits down with Connor Beaton, the visionary founder of ManTalks, an initiative dedicated to fostering growth, health, and success in men’s lives. They delve into the intricacies of modern masculinity, the journey towards authenticity and integrity, and the role of vulnerability and competence in shaping a man’s identity. This discussion spans the challenges men face in today’s society, touching on the importance of self-reflection, the value of men’s work, and the transformative power of understanding one’s emotions and inner world. This episode not only offers insights into evolving masculine identities but also provides a practical roadmap for men seeking to navigate their journey with authenticity and purpose.

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    Key Insights:


    Integration of Emotional Intelligence in Masculinity: Modern masculinity benefits from integrating emotional intelligence, which enriches traditional virtues with empathy and self-awareness. This evolution enables men to navigate relationships and personal challenges more effectively.


    Navigating the Shift from Traditional to Modern Masculinity: As societal expectations change, men are redefining strength to encompass internal growth alongside external achievements. This redefinition is key for their success and fulfillment in an evolving landscape.


    Importance of Mentorship and Community: Mentorship and communal support are pivotal in men's personal development, providing role models and a space to address vulnerabilities. This collective approach fosters growth and counters isolation, highlighting the collective nature of personal evolution.



    Notable Quotes:


    "Redefining strength includes embracing our vulnerabilities as sources of power."


    "Navigating masculinity today requires a blend of courage and compassion, challenging us to redefine what it means to be strong in a rapidly changing world."



    Timestamps:

    00:03:00 - Introduction to Connor Beaton and the mission of ManTalks

    00:18:25 - Discussing the modern challenges of masculinity and identity

    00:35:40 - The role of vulnerability in men's growth and evolution

    00:50:15 - Strategies for men seeking to navigate their path with purpose

    01:04:50 - The importance of community and mentorship in men's work

    01:20:30 - Insights on fostering deeper connections and living authentically

    Guest Bio:

    Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an organization committed to supporting men in their journey towards becoming more authentic, vulnerable, and integrated individuals. Connor is a respected speaker, facilitator, and coach, who has dedicated his life to understanding the nuances of masculinity and providing men with the tools they need to evolve in all aspects of their lives.

    Connect with Connor:

    Website: https://mantalks.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/

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    • 1 hr 19 min
    007: A Queer Journey to Embracing Womanhood with Genevieve Rudolph

    007: A Queer Journey to Embracing Womanhood with Genevieve Rudolph

    Destin Gerek engages in a profound conversation with Genevieve Rudolph, International Best-selling Author of The Orgasmic Arc™: Mastering the Six Steps to Pleasure. They dive into Genevieve's transformative journey from embracing a queer and gender non-conforming identity to a profound realization and embrace of her womanhood and heterosexual desires. This episode explores the complexities of navigating identity, personal healing, and the quest for authentic connection, offering a nuanced discussion on the fear of betraying community expectations and the courage to voice unique experiences that resonate with many.

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    Key Insights:


    The intricate process of identity evolution and embracing new aspects of self.
    Healing from within: How addressing past wounds can lead to profound personal discoveries and shifts in identity.
    The significance of giving voice to controversial or underrepresented experiences in the context of community and personal growth.
    Navigating the balance between honoring one's true self and respecting the diversity of identities within communities.

    Notable Quotes:


    "Embracing our full selves requires courage to face the unknown and the strength to voice our truths, even when they challenge community norms."
    "True healing brings about transformation not just in how we see ourselves, but in how we relate to the world around us."

    Timestamps:
    00:03:15 - Introduction to Genevieve Rudolph's work and journey
    00:18:30 - Discussing the shift from a queer identity to embracing womanhood
    00:34:50 - The role of healing in identity transformation and desire
    00:47:05 - Exploring the impact of a cancer diagnosis on self-perception and sexuality
    01:02:20 - Strategies for navigating community expectations and personal evolution
    01:15:40 - Genevieve's insights on using sexual energetics for empowerment and healing

    Guest Bio:
    Genevieve Rudolph is an International Best-selling Author and a leading expert in utilizing sexual energetics for transformative healing and empowerment. With a background that spans over 15 years, including her start as a Professional Dominatrix in NYC, Genevieve's journey of personal and professional evolution offers a compelling narrative on the power of embracing one's truth, the healing process, and the impact of sexuality on identity and personal growth.

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    For more on how to evolve your own masculine or feminine journey, reach out to us at:
    Website: ⁠DestinGerek.com⁠
    Instagram: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠
    TikTok: ⁠@DestinGerek⁠
    Youtube: ⁠@DivingDeepWithDestin


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    • 1 hr 5 min
    006: Living Authentically: The Courage to be Vulnerable in Growth and Love w/Allana Pratt

    006: Living Authentically: The Courage to be Vulnerable in Growth and Love w/Allana Pratt

    Join Destin Gerek and intimacy expert Allana Pratt as they delve into the intricacies of emotional resilience, the beauty of living with authenticity, and the essential role vulnerability plays in our journey towards self-discovery and genuine relationships. Together, they explore the journey of embracing vulnerability as a strength, the power of living authentically, and the profound lessons learned from intimate relationships and self-discovery.

    This conversation delves into overcoming personal adversities, the significance of emotional resilience, and strategies for cultivating deeper connections with oneself and others.

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    Key Insights:


    The transformative power of embracing vulnerability in the journey toward authentic self-discovery.
    Strategies for overcoming personal adversities to foster growth and emotional resilience.
    The role of authentic living in cultivating deep, meaningful connections in love and relationships.



    Notable Quotes:


    "Embracing our vulnerabilities opens the door to our deepest strengths and connections."
    "True intimacy begins with being authentically seen, first by ourselves and then by others."



    Three Unmissable Moments:


    Unveiling Sexual Trauma's Silver Lining: Allana Pratt shares an intimate moment of revelation, uncovering how her darkest experiences with sexual trauma became the catalyst for her deepest healing and awakening, challenging listeners to reconsider their own scars as sources of strength and enlightenment.
    The Naked Truth of Intimacy: A raw and unscripted exchange where Allana describes the transformative power of standing emotionally and physically naked in front of a partner, not just in the literal sense but in the metaphorical exposure of one's deepest fears and desires, prompting a profound reflection on the essence of true connection.
    The Breakdown that Leads to Breakthrough: A gripping recount of a moment when vulnerability felt like a public spectacle, detailing a personal breakdown that occurred in an unexpected and highly public setting, illustrating the potent, often uncomfortable, but ultimately liberating process of shedding societal masks to embrace authentic self-expression and freedom.

    Guest Bio:

    Allana Pratt is an intimacy expert who specializes in helping individuals cultivate deeper connections with themselves and others. She is an author, coach, and a beloved speaker, known for her insightful and compassionate approach to healing, personal growth, and relational dynamics. Allana's work empowers individuals to embrace vulnerability, foster authenticity, and create meaningful, loving relationships.



    Connect with Allana:

    Website: https://allanapratt.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt/



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    Website: ⁠https://DestinGerek.com⁠

    Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/DestinGerek⁠

    TikTok: ⁠https://tiktok.com/@DestinGerek⁠

    Youtube: ⁠https://youtube.com/@DivingDeepWithDestin


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    • 1 hr 12 min
    005: Psychedelics and Sexual Awakenings w/Dr. Cat Meyer

    005: Psychedelics and Sexual Awakenings w/Dr. Cat Meyer

    Destin Gerek is joined by Dr. Cat Meyer, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and psychedelics, to explore the multifaceted nature of sexual awakenings and the therapeutic interplay between sex and psychedelics. They delve into personal experiences and professional insights, discussing the importance of continual self-discovery, the role of psychedelics in healing and expanding our sexual and spiritual consciousness, and the transformative power of embracing our playful and authentic selves.

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    Key Insights:


    Sexual awakening is not a one-time event but a series of discoveries throughout life.
    Psychedelics offer a unique lens through which to explore and heal our sexuality.
    Embracing playfulness in sexuality can lead to profound personal and relational growth.
    Creating safe spaces for sexual exploration is crucial for healing and expansion.

    Notable Quotes:


    "Sexual healing and exploration can significantly benefit from the intentional use of psychedelics."
    "Each sexual awakening we experience unlocks a different part of us, revealing deeper layers of our authentic selves."

    Timestamps:
    00:03:20 - Introduction to Dr. Cat Meyer and the Intersection of Sexuality and Psychedelics
    00:11:45 - The Continuous Journey of Sexual Awakening
    00:20:30 - The Role of Psychedelics in Sexual Healing and Exploration
    00:29:10 - Playfulness as a Pathway to Sexual and Personal Growth
    00:37:50 - The Importance of Safe Spaces in Sexual Discovery
    00:46:15 - Personal Stories of Transformation through Sex and Psychedelics
    00:55:40 - Practical Tips for Integrating Playfulness and Psychedelics into Sexual Exploration
    01:04:25 - Closing Thoughts on Sexual Awakening and the Future of Psychedelic Research

    Guest Bio:
    Dr. Cat Meyer is a licensed psychotherapist, sex therapist, and leading expert in the integration of sexuality and psychedelics. She combines her extensive academic background with esoteric practices to facilitate holistic healing and growth.

    Connect with Dr. Cat Meyer:
    Website: SexLoveYoga.com
    Instagram: @SexLoveYoga

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    If you found value in today's conversation, please Subscribe, Rate us, leave us a Review on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from these transformative insights. Your support helps us grow and continue to bring you impactful discussions like this one.

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    Website: DestinGerek.com
    Instagram: @DestinGerek
    TikTok: @DestinGerek
    Youtube: @DivingDeepWithDestin


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    • 1 hr 6 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
13 Ratings

13 Ratings

Rayvn Star ,

A sexual conscious evolution podcast for everyone!

Wow my mind is blown! Destin is leading a sexual conscious evolution with his work and featuring the best of the best in sex, love and intimacy on his podcast. I have learned so much by just listening to these episodes.

Destin is truly diving DEEP and is a great interviewer - he is tuned in and all of his questions reflect his deep presence and awareness. I also really enjoy watching the videos on Spotify to see the engagement of Destin with his guests. So well done!

Highly recommend to anyone from the sexually curious to the full on exhibitionist!

PurpleStarRose ,

Dive deep into this masterpiece!

Destin Gerek's podcast is an absolute gem in the realm of personal growth and exploration. Destin's insightful discussions and captivating storytelling dive fearlessly into the depths of human connection, intimacy, and pushes the boundaries of our programming.

Destin’s profound insights will resonate with you long after the episode ends.

He’s an amazing interviewer! Destin's authenticity, warmth, and genuine passion for his subject matter shine through in every episode, creating a space that feels both welcoming and transformative. And he’s hilarious! Five stars without hesitation – 'Diving Deep with Destin' is a true masterpiece in the world of podcasts. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Denver's ,

The Best Type of Interviewing!

Destin’s style of interviewing is the best: a real conversation. He isn’t on auto pilot. He legiamtely cares and legitimately shares. You can tell he’s genuinely interested and the guests he brings on compliment his own curiosity and commitment. Love this podcast!!!

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