295 episodes

Tammy (Child Custody Coach) shares her experience and insights gained from her own divorce and subsequent step family. She also worked alongside her late husband, Attorney Thomas D. Ferreira, for over 15 years as a paralegal and mediator before beginning her child custody coaching practice in 2019. Thomas passed away on May 1, 2023 and Tammy continues to share the wisdom she gained from Thomas through the years as well as her own perspective. Tammy specializes in helping parents who are dealing with co-parents that have high-conflict personality traits such as narcissism, borderline personality disorder and bipolar.

Divorce University Online Tammy R. Ferreira

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.7 • 31 Ratings

Tammy (Child Custody Coach) shares her experience and insights gained from her own divorce and subsequent step family. She also worked alongside her late husband, Attorney Thomas D. Ferreira, for over 15 years as a paralegal and mediator before beginning her child custody coaching practice in 2019. Thomas passed away on May 1, 2023 and Tammy continues to share the wisdom she gained from Thomas through the years as well as her own perspective. Tammy specializes in helping parents who are dealing with co-parents that have high-conflict personality traits such as narcissism, borderline personality disorder and bipolar.

    When Child Custody Feels Overwhelming

    When Child Custody Feels Overwhelming

    When Child Custody Feels Overwhelming – Episode 290 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The issues in child custody are not great in number, but great in detail. Many small decisions are needed to resolve the overall problems. It’s like being pecked to death by chickens! So, what do you need to focus on and how do you best manage all the tedious details. In this episode, I’ll help you create a strategy to wade through the details with confidence and ease. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

    • 31 min
    Creating Child Custody Magnets

    Creating Child Custody Magnets

    Creating Child Custody Magnets – Episode 289 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. One of the challenges separating parents face is creating two worlds for their children. Many times, parents feel it’s best to leave the children in the family home and not force them to transition between homes. And if you have teenagers, they can be very resistant to transitions due to their own selfish motives. So, if you’re the parent that leaves the family home, how can you “magnetize” your world to draw the children in so they want to spend more time with you? To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

    • 26 min
    It Won’t Always Be This Way

    It Won’t Always Be This Way

    It Won’t Always Be This Way – Episode 288 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We tend to feel like our day-to-day life is static and that whatever we are going through will last forever. However, life is contact change. So, if you’re in a rough season or trial, the good news is that it won’t last forever and if you’re in a good season, the lesson is to cherish it because it won’t last forever either. We are approaching the one-year anniversary of losing Thomas and in this episode, I’ll share some memories of Thomas and his hard-earned life wisdom. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

    • 27 min
    Exchanging the Children

    Exchanging the Children

    Exchanging the Children – Episode 287 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Even though exchanges of children generally happen one to three times per week depending on your parenting schedule, we rarely seem to talk about how to have them go smoothly. These exchanges are obviously stressful for divorcing or separating parents but they can be exponentially stressful for the children. In this episode, I’ll give you strategies to help ensure a smoother transition, less stress for you and less stress for your children. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

    • 30 min
    The Nature of the Narcissist

    The Nature of the Narcissist

    The Nature of the Narcissist – Episode 286 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding the nature of the narcissist is one of the keys to managing them effectively. Narcissists do not see the world the same way a non-narcissist sees the world. Our values and morals don’t typically match the values and morals of the narcissist. To win the game, you must understand the rules. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

    • 26 min
    3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case

    3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case

    3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case – Episode 285 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Giving testimony on the witness stand is one of the most stressful parts of a divorce or child custody case. But there are strategies you can use to help you stay calm and make a good impression on the Court. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

    • 27 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
31 Ratings

31 Ratings

dont be a troll ,

Sanity saver!

You’re no nonsense approach of the Family Court system has been a sanity saver for me! I personally have never had to go through divorce or custody I have been the support person first for my sister an ex fiancé and my current partner. I found you when our daughter was three months old and his ex-wife filed false allegations causing the courts to restrict his access to his three boys. This was an emotionally traumatic roller coaster and the combination of Thomas and Tammy‘s insights helped me be the best support for my partner as he walked a very tough road. If only every couple who had a child would seek out the information in this podcast before ever trying to file paperwork against the parent of their child. Anytime I have a friend or family member going through some thing I send them your podcast! A topic search can give a vast array of tools!
Tammy I’m so struck by what you’ve gone through, the sister I co-parented with passed away in 2020, she was also an organ donor. We were not spouses, obviously but we did raise children together and were best friends. You are in my prayers as you walk out this new season of life!

bdavil2 ,

So Freakin Helpful!

Tammy and Thomas have SO much insight on things that no one explains to you when you’re going through a divorce. I would be totally lost without them. They’re really funny too, so the podcast is entertaining!

mirnburn ,

Best information

Love this podcast! I’m currently going through a divorce and this podcast is helping me so much! Thank you guys !

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