Ex-Homeschoolers Club

Jacob Gooden
Ex-Homeschoolers Club

Welcome to the Club! This is a place to discuss the Good, Bad, & Ugly of Growing Up a Homeschooler. Every week, you'll hear from me and my childhood friends as we share stories from growing up with our parents for teachers.

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    Why I Deconstructed My Faith

    I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my journey of faith, doubt, and discovery. Reflecting on the intersection of my Christian upbringing and homeschooling experience, I share the struggles I faced reconciling my beliefs with hard questions, and how I eventually found the courage to embrace agnosticism. This year-end reflection is my raw and heartfelt exploration of identity, community, and the ongoing search for truth. Themes include my childhood faith, deconstructing religion, and rebuilding community after stepping away from traditional beliefs. Key Takeaways: - The Foundation of Faith: Growing up in a devout Christian household shaped my early worldview. - Critical Turning Points: I wrestled with the Bible’s literal interpretations and observed inconsistencies within the church. - Community and Loss: Leaving church life brought challenges of isolation and rebuilding my sense of identity. - Deconstruction Journey: I moved from evangelical Christianity to agnosticism by questioning and exploring my beliefs. - Encouraging Open Dialogue: I now embrace curiosity and strive to foster respectful conversations about belief and doubt. Resources Mentioned - Dirty Rotten Church Kids: https://www.instagram.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids/?hl=en - Ear Biscuits Deconstruction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qbna6t1bzw&list=PLLxmqs8vQskUbE_KnXQhA2gXmEg5dVMp3 - Ken Ham vs. Bill Nye: https://www.youtube.com/live/PPLRhVdNp5M?si=HC8GrldP_zzkYmWl - The New Evengelicals: https://www.thenewevangelicals.com/about/ Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Year-End Reflections 00:20 The Gooden Family December Episodes 00:42 Sharing My Christian Journey 01:36 Gratitude and Listener Engagement 03:42 Nervousness and Vulnerability 05:34 Early Christian Experiences 11:05 Church Involvement and Music 16:04 Transition to Reality Church 27:25 College and Faith Challenges 31:31 Reconciling Evolution and Faith 32:01 Overwhelmed by Religious Commitments 33:21 Questioning Biblical Literalism 34:26 Exploring Different Perspectives 36:40 Burnout and Leaving Church 39:13 Deconstructing Faith 49:59 Embracing Agnosticism 53:21 Building a New Community 59:10 Final Thoughts and Future Plans If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub Email me at exhsclub@gmail.com

    1 ч. 1 мин.
  2. 11 ДЕК.

    How My Dad Went from Homeschool Skeptic to Advocate

    I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9 In this heartfelt episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with my dad, Keith Gooden, for an in-depth conversation about homeschooling, fatherhood, and personal growth. We reflect on his evolving role in my education, the pivotal moments that reshaped his involvement, and how challenges like a hip injury and a cancer diagnosis sparked his commitment to health and resilience. Together, we discuss the joys and trials of homeschooling, the importance of parental involvement, and the life lessons we’ve both learned along the way. Keywords: homeschooling, fatherhood, personal growth, family dynamics, education. Key Takeaways: - Homeschool Evolution: How Keith transitioned from a "hands-off" principal to an active teacher and advocate for homeschooling. - Parental Involvement: The value of fathers participating in their children’s education and extracurricular interests. - Resilience in Adversity: How health challenges reshaped Keith’s mindset and inspired a commitment to fitness and personal development. - Creative Education Methods: Incorporating history through movies, discussions of controversial books, and hands-on learning. - Building Strong Family Bonds: The role of shared activities like airsoft and home projects in strengthening relationships. If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub Email me at exhsclub@gmail.com

    1 ч. 27 мин.
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    Behind the Homeschooling Curtain (My Mom's Tells All)

    I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9 In this heartfelt episode, Jacob Gooden sits down with his mom, Susan Gooden, to explore her decision to homeschool, the challenges of starting out, and the unexpected joys of building a homeschooling community. Susan shares how she navigated the pressures of tailoring education for two vastly different kids, balancing personal growth with parental responsibilities, and transitioning out of homeschooling into a fulfilling post-homeschool life. Her candid reflections offer valuable insights for parents considering or currently homeschooling. Tune in for relatable anecdotes, laughter, and timeless wisdom. Key Takeaways The Why of Homeschooling: Susan’s journey from public schooling to homeschooling inspired by conviction and community. Overcoming Challenges: Navigating failed curriculum choices and building an adaptable approach. Building Community: The role of co-ops, support groups, and friendships in sustaining the homeschool journey. Transitioning Out: Finding new purpose and joy after homeschooling ends. Parental Growth: How homeschooling fostered personal growth alongside her children’s education. Resources Mentioned Curriculums: A Beka, Math U See, and Sunlight Books: The Well-Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer Organizations: CHEA, ACHEV, and Group Solutions Events: The CHEA Convention Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with a friend! Follow us on Instagram @exhsclub or send us your questions at exhsclub@gmail.com for future episodes.

    1 ч. 16 мин.
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    Did I Grow Up In A Homeschool Cult?

    I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9 In this weeks episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm sitting down with Alyssa Gaona to explore her unconventional homeschooling journey. From growing up in a restrictive and cult-like environment to discovering her passion for teaching and biology, Alyssa shares her struggles and triumphs. Together, they discuss the impact of childhood experiences, the importance of mental health awareness, and how education shapes identity. This episode highlights Alyssa's journey from surviving a challenging upbringing to pursuing a career in teaching with hope and resilience. Key Takeaways Alyssa's experience with minimal educational structure and the challenges it created. The influence of supportive mentors and how they shaped her aspirations. Insights into mental health awareness and its intersection with homeschooling. Alyssa’s decision to pursue teaching, specializing in biology and early childhood development. Practical advice for parents on fostering healthy educational environments. Resources Mentioned California’s Educational Standards: Official Website Alyssa’s Instagram: @TheMexicanPerson Enjoyed this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend! Connect with us: Instagram: @EXHSclub Email: exhsclub@gmail.com

    1 ч. 3 мин.
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    Does Homeschooling Give You an Edge in Creative Careers?

    I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9 In this episode, we’re joined by Keara Minshall, a filmmaker and homeschool alum, who shares her inspiring journey through homeschooling, the challenges she faced, and her pursuit of a career in film. Keara reflects on the pivotal role her homeschool community played in shaping her love for storytelling, from creating backyard productions to studying film in college. She candidly discusses her professional path, the impact of COVID-19 on the film industry, and her recent work on Netflix’s "The Electric State." Join us as we explore the highs and lows of homeschooling, creative passions, and the evolving world of storytelling. Key Takeaways - Homeschool Journey: Keara's experience highlights the adaptability of homeschool education and its impact on creativity. - Creative Beginnings: Early exposure to filmmaking through homeschool classes sparked Keara’s passion for storytelling. - Industry Insights: Challenges and shifts in Hollywood, plus Keara’s journey into commercial directing. - Community Building: Importance of finding and fostering friendships and support networks, especially in a homeschool setting. Resources Mentioned - The Electric State by the Russo Brothers (Film, releasing March 14) https://youtu.be/9gUDaPTPxwo?si=w2pWfldE233MIzeS - Home-Schooled series on Roku https://app.pureflix.com/series/292224550859/home-schooled - Chuck Testa Commercial https://youtu.be/LJP1DphOWPs?si=qHlGgk0SB_1VLPsG Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 01:04 Keara's Homeschool Journey 06:20 Transition to Public School 07:57 Homeschool vs. Traditional School 14:22 Discovering a Passion for Filmmaking 16:49 College Experience and Video Production Club 20:27 Post-College Career in Filmmaking 23:25 Working on The Electric State 28:05 Insights on Storytelling 29:38 Reflecting on the Purpose of the Show 30:30 Homeschooling Stories: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly 31:05 The Direction and Outcome of Storytelling 32:03 Current Projects and the State of Hollywood 32:42 The Rise of Podcasting and Scripted Audio Stories 33:43 Challenges in the Film Industry 38:05 The Magic of Movie Theaters 40:50 Directing Commercials: A New Venture 44:04 Nostalgia and Early Creative Endeavors 47:18 The Importance of Friendship and Community 54:54 Concluding Thoughts and Staying Connected If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub Email me at exhsclub@gmail.com

    57 мин.
  6. 6 НОЯБ.

    A Boy Scouts Guide To Surviving Homeschool

    I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9 In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, Jacob Gooden reconnects with longtime friend John Slagboom to share stories from their homeschool days and discuss the journey since then. John shares hilarious anecdotes like “The Finger Incident” and his unique experiences teaching wilderness survival to fellow homeschoolers. They also dive into deeper themes, including how their upbringing influenced their college years and personal growth. John reflects on homeschooling's impact on his faith, social skills, and his approach to raising his own children. This episode is a blend of nostalgia, life lessons, and humor, perfect for anyone interested in the homeschool experience and its lasting effects. Key Takeaways: The Finger Incident: John recounts his infamous “finger incident” and the surreal moment when his pet bird tried to eat a piece of his severed skin. Teaching Wilderness Survival: John’s experiences teaching wilderness skills and why he chose “Lord of the Flies” as part of the curriculum. Homeschool Dynamics: Insight into homeschool cliques and the unique social landscape they navigated as teens. Life Beyond Homeschooling: How leaving the homeschool bubble influenced John’s college experience, career path, and parenting. Resources Mentioned: Lord of the Flies by William Golding Boy Scouts of America Connect with Ex-Homeschoolers Club Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Ex-HomeschoolersClub Email me at exhsclub@gmail.com Subscribe to Ex-Homeschoolers Club for more stories from the past and lessons for today. Don’t forget to leave a review if you enjoyed the episode, and visit our website for more resources!

    1 ч. 13 мин.
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Welcome to the Club! This is a place to discuss the Good, Bad, & Ugly of Growing Up a Homeschooler. Every week, you'll hear from me and my childhood friends as we share stories from growing up with our parents for teachers.

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