The Dr. Maliheh Paryavi Podcast

Maliheh Paryavi, Ph.D.
The Dr. Maliheh Paryavi Podcast

Maliheh Paryavi, Ph.D. is a Harvard-trained behavioral economist and expert in women’s leadership, decision making, and empowerment. She brings you authentic and powerful conversations with world-renowned leaders and pioneers. From beginning to end, every episode is full of inspiring insights as Dr. Paryavi and her guests explore how we can live our best lives, pursue and thrive in leadership positions, and transform the world both within and around us.

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  1. Angela Duckworth: What are the Keys to Success?

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    Angela Duckworth: What are the Keys to Success?

    Angela Duckworth is a Professor of Psychology at University of Pennsylvania, Founder and CEO of Character Lab, winner of the MacArthur Award (Genius Award), and New York Times Bestselling author on grit. In this episode, Professor Duckworth and Dr. Paryavi explore the keys to success while sharing reflections from their own growth experiences. Their conversation is full of great insights, reminders, and advice to help us reach our goals and live our best lives.   Episode Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD:    "Psychologists have spent decades searching for the secret of success, but Duckworth is the one who found it." - Daniel Gilbert, Professor of Psychology, Harvard University   I feel so grateful for having had the opportunity to host the amazing Angela Duckworth as my first guest on this podcast. Angela is a Professor of Psychology at University of Pennsylvania, Founder and CEO of The Character Lab, winner of the MacArthur Award (Genius Award), and New York Times Bestselling author on grit. I had been following Angela's work for quite a while and was so excited when I finally had the chance to meet her. We had a wonderful time as we explored the keys to success. Angela also enriched our conversation with candid stories from her own life and growth journey. This episode is full of great insights, reminders, and advice to help us reach our goals and live our best lives.  Enjoy!   Episode Breakdown: 00:59 - What are key factors to success? 03:09 - Importance of grit 05:45 - How can we become experts at anything? 08:34 - How to embrace challenges 10:39 - How to cultivate a growth mindset 13:31 - How to deal with fear, anxiety, and self-doubt 18:20 - How to deal with perfectionism and failure 24:17 - How to set goals for success 32:57 - How to deal with expectations 35:55 - Embracing curiosity and character development 38:19 - How to reach for your goals even when feeling unprepared 40:27 - How does Angela manage all of her responsibilities? 43:38 - Importance of saying “No” 46:57 - Importance of self-care 49:36 - How to balance it all! More about Angela Duckworth: Angela Duckworth is the Founder and CEO of Character Lab, a nonprofit whose mission is to advance the science and practice of character development. She is also the Christopher H. Browne Distinguished Professor of Psychology at the University of Pennsylvania, faculty co-director of the Penn-Wharton Behavior Change For Good Initiative, and faculty co-director of Wharton People Analytics. A 2013 MacArthur Fellow, Angela has advised the White House, the World Bank, NBA and NFL teams, and Fortune 500 CEOs. Prior to her career in research, Angela founded a summer school for low-income children that was profiled as a Harvard Kennedy School case study and, in 2018, celebrated its twenty-fifth anniversary. She has also been a McKinsey management consultant and a math and science teacher in the public schools of New York City, San Francisco, and Philadelphia. Angela completed her undergraduate degree in Advanced Studies Neurobiology at Harvard, graduating magna cum laude. With the support of a Marshall Scholarship, she completed an MSc with Distinction in Neuroscience from Oxford University. She completed her PhD in Psychology as a National Science Foundation Graduate Fellow at the University of Pennsylvania. Angela has received numerous awards for her contributions to K–12 education, including a Beyond Z Award from the KIPP Foundation. Angela's TED talk is among the most-viewed of all time. Her first book, Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance, is a #1 New York Times best seller.

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  2. Iris Bohnet: How to Close the Gender Gap in Leadership

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    Iris Bohnet: How to Close the Gender Gap in Leadership

    Iris Bohnet is a Behavioral Economist and Professor of Business and Government at Harvard University, Academic Dean of Harvard Kennedy School, Co-Director of the Women and Public Policy Program, and author of the award-winning book, What Works: Gender Equality by Design. In this episode, Professor Bohnet takes you through her scholarly journey and shares how she manages all her demanding commitments and finds the motivation to keep going. Professor Bohnet and Dr. Paryavi also discuss the importance of having more women in leadership positions, and present strategies and insights for promoting gender equality and closing the gender gap in leadership.   Episode Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD:  I had the great fortune of having Iris Bohnet as my Ph.D. advisor at Harvard. In all the years I’ve known her, we would always prioritize discussing my growth, dissertation, and our research. This was the first time we had the chance to actually talk about her! I was able to see a whole new side to Iris during this podcast recording, and I feel so grateful to have had this opportunity. Iris opened up about how she balances all of her commitments as a scholar, leader, and mother, what energizes her, and what keeps her going. We also talked about why we need more women in leadership, “what works” to get them there, and how to make sure they thrive. Enjoy!   Episode Breakdown: 01:28 - How does Iris manage her numerous commitments? 04:37 - How does Iris keep a work-life balance? 09:11 - How does Iris stay motivated? 12:58 - Iris’ inspiring journey towards becoming a leading scholar on gender equality 17:29 - Why is it so important to have more women in leadership positions? 22:13 - Is promoting gender equality a zero-sum game? 27:38 - “What works” to close the gender gap in leadership? 34:03 - Having the right support to thrive as a leader 37:03 - How to challenge the status quo: I introduce my idea of imagining a “Women Designed World” and discuss it with Iris.   Exercise: Imagine a “Women Designed World” For the most part, we have inherited a world that was originally designed by men, for men. Imagining what I call, a “Women Designed World” is an exercise to help us identify the gaps in our world, challenge the status quo, and create systemic changes that will improve everyone’s lives. Listen to the conversation starting at 37:03, then allow yourself to imagine a different life in a different world. What do you think a woman designed world would look like? What would it be like to live in a world designed by women? If you can’t think of anything, start by imagining how you would redesign your own life to better meet your unique needs. What would you love to change? Share your ideas! #womendesignedworld And remember: You have the power to redesign your life, your organization, and your world! More about Iris Bohnet: Iris Bohnet, the Albert Pratt Professor of Business and Government and Academic Dean at the Harvard Kennedy School, serves as co-director of the Women and Public Policy Program, an associate director of the Harvard Decision Science Laboratory, and the faculty chair of the executive program “Global Leadership and Public Policy for the 21st Century” for the World Economic Forum’s Young Global Leaders. She serves on the boards, advisory boards or as a patron of Credit Suisse Group, Applied, Edge, genEquality, TaketheLeadWomen, We Shape Tech, Women in Banking and Finance, and the UK Government’s Equalities Office as well as numerous academic journals. She was named one of the Most Influential People in Gender Policy by apolitical in 2018, a Leading Thinker of Victoria, Australia, 2016-2019, and has received an honorary degree from the University of Lucerne, Switzerland, in 2016. Professor Bohnet teaches organizational design, decision-making, negotiation and gender in public policy and leadership in degree and executive programs, and ha

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  3. Anousheh Ansari: How to Find Your Passion

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    Anousheh Ansari: How to Find Your Passion

    Anousheh Ansari is the CEO of the XPRIZE Foundation and Co-Founder of The Billion Dollar Fund for Women. She captured headlines around the world when she embarked upon an 11-day space expedition, accomplishing her childhood dream of becoming the first female private space explorer, first astronaut of Iranian descent, first Muslim woman in space, and fourth private explorer to visit space. In this episode, Ms. Ansari and Dr. Paryavi explore the keys to finding passion and purpose in life, while drawing upon Ms. Ansari’s inspiring journey. They shed light on how we can become curious explorers and the steps we need to take to fulfill our biggest dreams.   Episode Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD:    One of the themes that keeps coming up in my work as The Leadership Ellevator is about the importance of cultivating curiosity. Curiosity is an essential skill that can be developed and is accessible to all of us. It can help individuals break internal and external barriers, find creative solutions to challenging problems, and discover new horizons. I was fortunate that a long-time mentor and dear friend introduced me to Anousheh Ansari, who is an excellent example of someone who has had a lifelong practice of cultivating her curiosity. I flew across the U.S. to meet Anousheh, and it was definitely worth it! She is truly one of the most inspiring individuals I have ever met. She shared how trusting her curiosity has empowered her to pursue her passions and continue to find new ones. She also had some wonderful advice on how we can find our passion, achieve our dreams, and change the world for the better. Enjoy!   Episode Breakdown: 01:15 - What has propelled Anousheh to break so many barriers? 02:48 - Origins and significance of cultivating curiosity 05:25 - How did Anousheh deal with resistance to her curiosity and passions? 06:45 - Importance of asking questions 09:43 - How to overcome fear of failure 11:19 - How to discover your passion 12:55 - What Anousheh felt when she was about to launch into space 15:19 - How to connect the dots in life 16:13 - How to identify and take the first step towards your passion 21:40 - How to find your life purpose 24:00 - Anousheh’s advice for dealing with naysayers 26:03 - How to challenge the status quo: I introduce my idea of imagining a “Women Designed World” and discuss it with Anousheh. 27:50 - How is Anousheh redesigning her world? 32:33 - Anousheh’s take on work-life balance and her self-care practice   EXERCISE: IMAGINE A “WOMEN DESIGNED WORLD” For the most part, we have inherited a world that was originally designed by men, for men. Imagining what I call, a “Women Designed World” is an exercise to help us identify the gaps in our world, challenge the status quo, and create systemic changes that will improve everyone’s lives. I talked to Anousheh about this (starting at 26:03), but I first introduced this idea in Episode 2 with Harvard’s Iris Bohnet, so make sure to check out that conversation as well. Next, allow yourself to imagine a different life in a different world. What do you think a woman designed world would look like? What would it be like to live in a world designed by women? If you can’t think of anything, start by imagining how you would redesign your own life to better meet your unique needs. What would you love to change? Share your ideas! #womendesignedworld And remember: You have the power to redesign your life, your organization, and your world!     More about Anousheh Ansari:   Anousheh Ansari is the CEO of the XPRIZE Foundation, the world’s leader in designing and operating incentive competitions to solve humanity’s grand challenges. Ansari, along with her family, sponsored the organization’s first competition, the Ansari XPRIZE, a $10 million competition that ignited a new era for commercial spaceflight.  Since then, she has served on XPRIZE’s Board of Directors.

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  4. Dr. Susan David: How to Thrive with Emotional Courage

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    Dr. Susan David: How to Thrive with Emotional Courage

    Susan David, Ph.D. is one of the world’s leading management thinkers and an award-winning Harvard Medical School psychologist. She is the author of #1 Wall Street Journal bestselling book, “Emotional Agility,” and her TED Talk, “The Gift and Power of Emotional Courage,” went viral with over 1 million views in its first week of release. In this episode, Dr. Paryavi asks Dr. David to share how we can develop the emotional courage and agility to manage our inner worlds and truly empower ourselves to thrive. Dr. David describes life-changing strategies and techniques for navigating our emotions and using the critical information they provide to transform how we live, parent, and lead.   Episode Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD:    “How we deal with our inner world drives everything.  Every aspect of how we love, how we live, how we parent, and how we lead.” - Dr. Susan David  By the time I discovered Dr. Susan David’s TED Talk, I had spent years engaging in research, self-exploration, and lots of trial and error to learn how to manage my inner world and befriend my emotions. As I heard her speak, I kept thinking, “Where have you been all this time?” I started following her work and when I decided to launch this podcast, I knew it was critical to feature Susan’s message. We had an enriching conversation about how we can all learn to heal and manage our inner worlds, develop emotional courage and agility, and empower ourselves to thrive. From beginning to end, this episode is packed with powerful life and career-changing insights and inspiration. Enjoy!   Episode Breakdown: 00:57 - What does it take, internally, to thrive in the world? 04:38 - Why trying to “be positive” could be undermining your wellbeing and success 08:35 - Why avoiding difficult emotions devalues your mental health, wellbeing, and ability to reach your goals 12:14 - How to deal with and move through difficult emotions 16:39 - What are your emotions trying to tell you? 17:49 - Importance of being self-compassionate 19:08 - The power of labeling our emotions 21:07 - Embracing discomfort to have a meaningful life 24:17 - How to strengthen your emotional courage and raise emotionally agile children 29:30 - How to promote emotional courage in the workplace 32:09 - How to model emotional courage and lead by example 34:15 - The importance of learning to be with yourself and your emotions 37:15 - How to connect with your intrinsic wants and sustain your goals 40:52 - How to make small changes to transform your life 45:54 - How to free yourself from limiting beliefs and stories 50:26 - How to continue exploring your inner world   More about Susan David: Susan David has a PhD in psychology (clinical) and a post-doctorate in emotions research from Yale. She is on faculty at Harvard Medical School and is co-founder and co-director of the Institute of Coaching at McLean Hospital, a Harvard Medical School affiliate. She has been awarded many prizes and scholarships for her academic work. Named on the Thinkers50 global list of the top management thinkers, Susan has a passion for keynote speaking and management consulting, and is a renowned executive coach, who applies her knowledge of emotions, human motivation and change to individuals and organizations. She frequently works in the areas of personal leadership, culture, engagement, and people strategy.  Susan has been an advisor to numerous leaders faced with difficult situations, including mergers and acquisitions, leadership transitions, and strategic revisions. She routinely consults at the most senior levels of Fortune 500 companies, and with other global organizations from industries as diverse as financial services, information technology, healthcare, utilities, pharmaceuticals, and mining. Her world-wide client list includes Ernst and Young Global, the World Economic Forum, the United Nations Development Program, BHP Bill

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  5. Dr. Christiane Northrup: How to Achieve Optimal Health

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    Dr. Christiane Northrup: How to Achieve Optimal Health

    Christiane Northrup, M.D. is a leading authority on women’s health and wellness.  She is a board-certified OB/GYN, a three-time New York Times bestselling author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom, The Wisdom of Menopause, and Goddesses Never Age: The Secret Prescription for Radiance, Vitality, and Well-being, and one of Oprah Winfrey’s Super Soul 100. In this episode, Dr. Paryavi shares her healing journey with Dr. Northrup, and together, they explore how we can all empower ourselves to achieve and sustain optimal health and wellbeing. Dr. Northrup also shares insights and inspiring stories from her amazing life and career as a pioneer in women’s health.   Episode Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD:  “The secret to thriving is the knowledge that we are never simply victims of our bodies. We have within us the ability to heal from anything and go on to live joy-filled lives.” - Dr. Christiane Northrup   I strongly believe that achieving and maintaining physical health requires a holistic approach that needs to honor and connect the mind, body, and spirit. When I was planning for this episode, I knew that I couldn’t find anyone else in the world who could speak to this with greater authority and in a more loving and empowering way than Dr. Northrup. I had the pleasure of visiting Dr. Northrup in Portland, Maine and simply being in her presence was a healing experience for me. I truly hope our conversation inspires you to love and befriend your body, feel empowered to tune into your inner guide, and design a life and career that honors you as a whole - mind, body, and spirit. Enjoy!   Episode Breakdown: 01:02 - Maliheh’s healing journey 03:26 - An empowering and holistic approach to health 07:34 - The shortcomings of modern medicine 09:34 - The power of the mind 11:32 - The body's infinite capacity to heal 12:11 - How to begin healing your body 16:34 - Finding your own path to healing 19:18 - Connecting with our emotions and finding our purpose 26:20 - Healing the parts of us that need to mature 29:06 - The healing powers of loving thoughts and gratitude 33:04 - Loving, appreciating, and accepting our bodies 37:35 - Tuning in and honoring our individual needs 44:24 - The unrealistic expectations and pressures faced by women 45:59 - How to redesign our world to better honor women 49:08 - How embracing your authentic self impacts your health 52:29 - The challenges of childcare 56:33 - Dr. Northrup's inspiring journey as a pioneer in women’s health and her advice for others   (Information and insights provided in this episode are for informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice. Please consult a medical professional directly for any health concerns.)   More about Dr. Christiane Northrup: Christiane Northrup, M.D. is a visionary pioneer and a leading authority in the field of women’s health and wellness.  She is a board-certified OB/GYN, former assistant clinical professor of OB/GYN at the University of Vermont College of Medicine, and a three-time New York Times bestselling author of “Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom,” “The Wisdom of Menopause,” and “Goddesses Never Age: The Secret Prescription for Radiance, Vitality, and Well-being.”  In 2013, Reader’s Digest named Dr. Northrup one of the “100 Most Trusted People in America.”  In 2016, she was named one of Oprah Winfrey’s Super Soul 100, a group of leaders who are using their voices and talent to awaken humanity. And in 2018, Dr. Northrup received the first Mind/Body Healing award, a special category within the New Thought Walden Awards, honoring those who use empowering spiritual ideas and philosophies to change lives and make the planet a better place. Internationally known for her empowering approach, Dr. Northrup embraces medicine that acknowledges the unity of mind, body, emotions, and spirit, and teaches women to create health by tuning into

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  6. Amaney Jamal: On Belonging, Self-Acceptance, and Success

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    Amaney Jamal: On Belonging, Self-Acceptance, and Success

    Amaney Jamal is a Professor of Politics at Princeton University and Director of the Mamdouha S. Bobst Center for Peace and Justice. She is a Carnegie Scholar specializing in political behavior and development, and the author of the award-winning book "Barriers to Democracy." In this episode, Professor Jamal and Dr. Paryavi discuss challenges of representation in academia, belonging, self-acceptance, and women's empowerment. Professor Jamal also shares her inspiring journey as a scholar, leader, and mother of four.   Episodes Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD:   I’ll never forget the first time I met Amaney Jamal back in 2014. We were at a workshop in Abu Dhabi and I was completely awestruck. Seeing and meeting her had such a significant impact on me as a PhD student. I start the episode sharing this and thanking Amaney for being such an inspiring presence. Having the opportunity to give gratitude in person, host her on this podcast, and hear her amazing journey meant so much to me. She is a remarkable example of how we can break through barriers and succeed when we combine grit with embracing who we are. I truly hope our conversation inspires you to continue to honor yourself and live your life to the fullest. Enjoy!   Episode Breakdown: 00:55 - Amaney's impact on Maliheh as a role model 03:57 - The importance of descriptive representation 06:05 - The challenge of diversity in academia 08:05 - Empowering yourself though education 11:20 - Amaney's journey as an academic 13:28 - The challenges of belonging and how to belong 15:48 - Importance of self-acceptance 18:45 - Assimilation while staying true to yourself and your values 22:39 - The possibility of multiple modernities within the modern world and what that could mean for women's empowerment 26:15 - Shifting attitudes towards women's empowerment in the Middle East 32:13 - Honoring one’s personal spiritual path 34:40 - Importance of taking breaks and gaining perspective 35:39 - Balancing responsibilities as a mother of four 38:59 - Inspiring children through own success and leadership 41:12 - Following your passion while facing conflicting external pressures and expectations 44:15 - The importance of prioritizing self-care   More about Amaney Jamal: Amaney A. Jamal is the Edwards S. Sanford Professor of Politics at Princeton University and Director of the Mamdouha S. Bobst Center for Peace and Justice. Jamal also directs the Workshop on Arab Political Development and the Bobst-American University of Beirut Collaborative Initiative.   Her book, Barriers to Democracy (2007), which explores the role of civic associations in promoting democratic effects in the Arab world, won the 2008 American Political Science Best Book Award in the Comparative Democratization section. Her other books include, Of Empires and Citizens and her co-edited volume Arab Americans Before and After 9/11. Jamal’s articles have appeared in the American Journal of Political Science, Journal of Politics, Comparative Political Studies, Journal of Conflict Resolution, Comparative Politics, Perspectives on Politics, International Migration Review, and other venues. Her article “Does Islam Play a Role in anti-Immigrant Sentiment: An Experimental Approach.”, in Social Science Research 2015 won the 2016 Louis Wirth Best Article Award: American Sociological Association, International Migration Section.   Jamal is the co-Principal of the Arab Barometer Project (Winner of the Best Dataset in the Field of Comparative Politics (Lijphart/Przeworski/Verba Dataset Award 2010), and has secured over 4 million dollars in grants for this and other projects from the Middle East Partnership Initiative (MEPI), National Science Foundation (NSF), NSF: Time-Sharing Experiments for the Social Sciences (TESS), Qatar National Research Fund, (QNRF), United States Institute of Peace (USIP), the International Development Research Centre (IDRC),

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  7. Valerie Jarrett: How to Find Your Voice

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    Valerie Jarrett: How to Find Your Voice

    Valerie B. Jarrett, former Senior Advisor to President Barack Obama, is a senior advisor to the Obama Foundation and Attn, a Senior Distinguished Fellow at the University of Chicago Law School, chairman of the board of When We All Vote, co-chair of The United State of Women, and author of New York Times bestselling book, Finding My Voice: When the Perfect Plan Crumbles, the Adventure Begins. In this episode, Ms. Jarrett and Dr. Paryavi discuss their struggles and journeys in finding their voices and the key lessons they have learned along the way. Ms. Jarrett also shares invaluable advice on how we can all find our voices to empower ourselves, empower others, and speak up for racial equality.   Episodes Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD: “I believe in the power of each voice to make the impossible, inevitable.” - Valerie B. Jarrett I knew that the first season of this podcast would be incomplete without an episode on the importance of finding our voices and using them to empower ourselves and others. As I was in search of a guest to help bring this topic to life, I stumbled on one of Valerie Jarrett’s book tour interviews. In the interview, she shared how she was born in Shiraz, Iran and how she struggled to find her voice, an inspiring journey she details in her book. I was also born in Shiraz and struggled for years to find my voice, which I’m always continuing to develop and refine. I quickly ordered her book and could not put it down. I related to many aspects of her story and knew that I had to speak with her. It so happened that we ended up speaking in the midst of the coronavirus pandemic and the largest racial justice movement in the history of the world. Needless to say, we had a lot to talk about, including how we can each find our voice to fight systemic racism. I hope you enjoy our conversation!   Episode Breakdown: 01:25 - How systemic racism in the United States led to Ms. Jarrett being born in Iran 03:09 - The importance of being open to life’s pivots 04:16 - Maliheh’s struggles in finding her voice 06:57 - Ms. Jarrett’s journey of finding her voice 10:08 - How to listen to your inner voice 10:54 - Importance of patience, resilience, and self-compassion 12:28 - What to do when the perfect life plan crumbles 13:09 - Building trust in your capacity to rise above adversity 14:39 - Making the change towards a more fulfilling life and career 16:21 - Coronavirus pandemic as a wake-up call and an opportunity to reset, reevaluate, and redesign our lives and organizations 19:00 - Understanding the deep pain and struggle for equality in the Black community 20:57 - How to speak out against racial injustice 24:17 - The importance of being educated voters 28:25 - How to make sure your voice is heard as a woman in leadership   More about Valerie Jarrett: Valerie B. Jarrett is a Senior Distinguished Fellow at the University of Chicago Law School, and a senior advisor to the Obama Foundation and Attn. She serves as chairman of the board of When We All Vote and co-chair of The United State of Women. She also serves on the boards of Ariel Investments, 2U, Lyft, the Innocence Project, the Economic Club of Chicago and the John F. Kennedy Center for Performing Arts. Her New York Times bestselling memoir, Finding My Voice: When the Perfect Plan Crumbles, the Adventure Begins, was published in 2019 and updated in 2020. Ms. Jarrett was the longest serving Senior Advisor to President Barack Obama. She oversaw the Offices of Public Engagement and Intergovernmental Affairs and Chaired the White House Council on Women and Girls. Ms. Jarrett worked throughout her tenure at the White House to mobilize elected officials, business and community leaders, and diverse groups of advocates. She led the Obama Administration’s efforts to expand and strengthen access to the middle class, and boost American businesses and our economy. She championed the creation of equality and o

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  8. Dr. Kristin Neff: Thrive with Self-Compassion

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    Dr. Kristin Neff: Thrive with Self-Compassion

    Dr. Kristin Neff, Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, is a pioneer in the field of self-compassion research, co-developer of the Mindful Self-Compassion training program, which is taught by thousands of teachers worldwide, and the author of Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself. In this episode, Professor Neff and Dr. Paryavi discuss the transformational power of self-compassion and how it enables us to thrive in every aspect of our lives, especially as parents and leaders. They also share advice on overcoming fears, anxiety, and self-criticism, and finding positive motivation, inner peace, and joy.   Episode 8 Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD: I can’t even begin to describe how much practicing self-compassion has transformed my life! I see developing self-compassion as an invitation to heal our relationship with ourselves, allowing us to grow and thrive with greater ease and joy. As you’ll hear in my conversation with Dr. Kristin Neff, the pioneer in the field of self-compassion research, practicing self-compassion can truly transform our lives and it is accessible to us all. Of course, we are always deserving of kindness and compassion, but after the year we’ve had, if there was ever a time for us to start being kinder to ourselves, that time is now. I hope this episode gives you the insights and inspiration to be more gentle with yourself and give yourself the warmth and support to truly thrive and keep on shining. Enjoy! Episode Breakdown: 01:35 - What is Self-Compassion? 02:47 - How self-compassion helps motivate us 04:10 - Why do we resist being compassionate towards ourselves? 06:35 - How self-compassion helps us overcome fear 07:22 - The difference between self-esteem and self-compassion 08:50 - How to develop a healthy relationship with ourselves 10:21 - How to overcome self-criticism 13:59 - The importance of engaging with different parts of ourselves 14:49 - The difference between self-compassion and self-love 16:55 - How to develop self-compassion 24:45 - How self-compassion can help us through challenging times 26:30 - How to find joy and happiness 27:45 - Advice for parents: How to teach self-compassion to children 32:12 - Insights for leaders: How to enhance leadership capacity, develop empathy, growth mindset, grit, and courage 44:08 - Gender differences in self-compassion and finding balance within 49:22 - Resources and tools for developing self-compassion 50:26 - Kristin's pioneering journey and impact of self-compassion on her life More about Dr. Kristin Neff: Kristin Neff received her doctorate from the University of California at Berkeley, and is currently an Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. Kristin is a pioneer in the field of self-compassion research, creating a scale to measure the construct almost 20 years years ago. In addition to writing numerous academic articles and book chapters on the topic, she is author of the book Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself, and in June 2021 she will be releasing her new book Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power and Thrive. In conjunction with her colleague Dr. Chris Germer, she has developed an empirically supported training program called Mindful Self-Compassion, which is taught by thousands of teachers worldwide. They co-authored The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook as well as Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Program: A Guide for Professionals. She is also co-founder of the nonprofit Center for Mindful Self-Compassion. For more information on self-compassion, including a self-compassion test, research articles, practices, and Dr. Neff's teaching schedule, go to www.self-compassion.org.

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  9. Tina Tchen: How to Ensure Women's Safety in the Workplace

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    Tina Tchen: How to Ensure Women's Safety in the Workplace

    Tina Tchen is the president and CEO of TIME’S UP Now and TIME’S UP Foundation, Co-Chair of the United State of Women, and former assistant to President Barack Obama, executive director of the White House Council on Women and Girls, and chief of staff to First Lady Michelle Obama. In this episode, Ms. Tchen and Dr. Paryavi discuss the state of women’s safety and equality in the workplace, and share advice on how to build a world where workplaces are safe, fair, and dignified for all. Ms. Tchen also shares powerful insights from her own leadership journey.   Episode 9 Notes from Maliheh Paryavi, PhD: Sexual harassment is pervasive across industries. None of us are immune and the odds are that you or someone you know has been impacted by sexual harassment in the workplace. In fact, according to the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), up to 85 percent of women in the United States report having experienced sexual harassment at work. Most of these incidents go unreported and a new Time’s Up report shows that more than 70 percent of survivors who do speak out face subsequent retaliation. These alarming statistics are symptoms of deep structural inequalities and the time has come to face them head-on and make lasting changes, once and for all. We each have a role to play, and to get advice on how we can make these changes, I had the honor of speaking with Tina Tchen on this episode. She is at the helm of TIME’S UP Now and the TIME’S UP Foundation, working to build a world where workplaces are safe, fair, and dignified for all women. She shares her inspiring journey as a trailblazer, her advice for employers, women leaders, and men in leadership, and her insights on how we can all join the efforts in ensuring women’s safety in the workplace. Please tune in and join us! Episode Breakdown: 01:03 - The many forms of sexual harassment in the workplace 04:51 - The importance of including women in all aspects and levels of the workplace 10:06 - Ms. Tchen’s leadership journey to the White House and to TIME'S UP 14:59 - The impact of the pandemic on women’s employment and the workforce 16:24 - The historical opportunity we have to create lasting change NOW 19:14 - Advice for young women and women leaders 26:26 - Exploring the root causes of sexual harassment and retaliation in the workplace 32:16 - Shifting the culture and perceptions of gender roles and women in leadership 37:51 - Safety on college campuses 41:56 - Changing organizational cultures worldwide 45:02 - Advice for employers, including a powerful message from a survivor of workplace sexual harassment 48:42 - Advice for men in leadership 51:53 - Vision for TIME'S UP going forward and how we can all get involved MORE ABOUT TINA TCHEN:  Tina Tchen serves as president and CEO of TIME’S UP Now and the TIME’S UP Foundation, overseeing the organizations’ strategic plans to change culture, companies, and laws in order to make work safe, fair, and dignified for women of all kinds. In 2017, Tina co-founded the TIME’S UP Legal Defense Fund with Robbie Kaplan, Fatima Goss Graves, and Hilary Rosen; since then, the Fund has connected thousands of people to legal or PR support for sexual harassment across dozens of different industries. A former assistant to President Barack Obama, executive director of the White House Council on Women and Girls, and chief of staff to First Lady Michelle Obama, Tina has worked to advance gender equality, particularly for working women. At the White House, Tina spearheaded the first-ever White House Summit on Working Families and helped form the White House Task Force to Protect Students from Sexual Assault. Prior to taking the helm at TIME’S UP, Tina was a lawyer specializing in workplace culture, advising companies on gender inequity, sexual harassment, and diversity. She has served on numerous strategic advisory boards for organizations, businesses, an

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  10. Alexandra Carter: On Asking for More from Negotiations, Our Lives, and Our World

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    Alexandra Carter: On Asking for More from Negotiations, Our Lives, and Our World

    Alexandra Carter is a world-renowned negotiator, best-selling author of Ask for More: Ten Questions to Negotiate Anything, and Clinical Professor of Law and Director of the Mediation Clinic at Columbia Law School. In this episode, Professor Cater and Dr. Paryavi discuss how negotiation applies to every aspect of our lives and leadership. They share insights on how to ask for more from negotiation to promote expansion and value creation for all, and become more effective negotiators to improve our lives and our world.   EPISODE 10 NOTES FROM MALIHEH PARYAVI, PHD “You can never be truly lost in life. Find comfort in knowing that each step you take, each path you turn down, is exactly where you’re supposed to be. Trust your journey. Everything works out the way it’s supposed to.” - Alexandra Carter When I stumbled upon this quote in one of Alex’s social media posts, I had a feeling that Alex and I we may be very aligned. I’m so grateful that I trusted that feeling, reached out to her, and that she accepted my invitation to join me on the podcast! We had so much fun connecting and sharing in this episode. Truly, everything does work out the way it’s supposed to as I couldn’t have imagined a more perfect guest to wrap up this first season of the podcast with. In fact, when I look back at the previous episodes, all of my guests have had to “ask for more” and negotiate their way to where they are in their lives and careers as pioneers and change-makers. And in this episode, Alex and I share our insights about how you can do the same. Enjoy! Episode Breakdown: 01:12 - The importance of negotiation in leading fully empowered and authentic lives 08:02 - What does “Ask for More” really mean? 09:17 - The key to a great negotiation: connecting with ourselves first 11:08 - The importance of connecting with our needs 17:37 - Taking life and negotiations one small step at a time 22:40 - Advice on getting through times of stress 25:00 - Not everything needs to be up for negotiation: knowing and setting your boundaries 26:55 - How connecting with our humanity may help us see the humanity in others and reduce global conflicts 29:22 - Core strategies for negotiating directly with others 35:11 - The importance of observation and deep listening 39:40 - The three key mindset shifts that are needed to ask for more 45:38 - How asking for more applies to gender equality 48:22 - Asking for more by reimagining and redesigning our post-pandemic world 54:00 - The importance of developing our “mediation capacity” to create lasting change 57:55 - Alex’s inspiring journey and how she found her calling 01:02:42 - On trusting the process and the joy of soulful connection   MORE ABOUT ALEXANDRA CARTER Alex is a Clinical Professor of Law and Director of the Mediation Clinic at Columbia Law School. She has spent the last eleven years helping thousands of people negotiate better, build relationships and reach their goals. In 2019, Alex was awarded the Columbia University Presidential Award for Outstanding Teaching, Columbia University’s highest teaching honor. Alex believes that negotiation is for everyone. She is a world-renowned negotiation trainer for groups and individuals from all over the world—including the United Nations, Fortune 100 companies, the U.S. government, foreign governments, not-for-profit organizations, universities and private law firms. Through the Mediation Clinic at Columbia Law School, Alex and her students provide free conflict resolution services and training to many people and organizations who otherwise would not be able to afford it. Prior to joining the Columbia faculty, Alex was associated with Cravath, Swaine & Moore LLP. She also worked at Goldman Sachs in the Principal Investment Area. She spent a year in Taipei, Taiwan as a U.S. Fulbright Scholar. Alex received her Juris Doctor degree in 2003 from Columbia Law School, where she earn

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Maliheh Paryavi, Ph.D. is a Harvard-trained behavioral economist and expert in women’s leadership, decision making, and empowerment. She brings you authentic and powerful conversations with world-renowned leaders and pioneers. From beginning to end, every episode is full of inspiring insights as Dr. Paryavi and her guests explore how we can live our best lives, pursue and thrive in leadership positions, and transform the world both within and around us.

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