Embracing Enough

Dina Scippa
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Embracing Enough is a podcast redefining what leadership really looks like - especially for women who are done performing perfection. Each episode invites bold, honest conversations with women who are leading, healing, and unlearning the stories that told them they weren’t enough. Together, we explore what it takes to show up with confidence, courage, and authenticity - in the workplace, in our relationships, and within ourselves. This isn’t about climbing ladders or checking boxes. It’s about leading from the truth of who we are - messy, powerful, and enough exactly as we are.

  1. 130. Manageable ≠ Leadership: The Trap High-Performing Women Fall Into

    APR 5

    130. Manageable ≠ Leadership: The Trap High-Performing Women Fall Into

    What if the very thing you’ve been praised for… is the exact thing slowing your leadership down? In this episode of Embracing Enough, we’re getting honest about a pattern too many high-performing women know intimately - but rarely say out loud. Because most women weren’t actually taught leadership.We were taught how to be manageable. Easy to work with.Easy to direct.Easy to overlook. And while those traits get rewarded early on, they quietly start to cost you - visibility, authority, and the ability to lead at the level you’re actually capable of. Inside this episode, we unpack: The subtle ways women are conditioned to prioritize likability over leadershipWhy “non-promotable work” and emotional labor are keeping you stuck in the backgroundThe real difference between being valuable to your team and being seen as a leaderHow the confidence cliff (yes, it starts young) follows women straight into the workplaceThree powerful shifts to help you move from manageability to authority...without becoming someone you’re notThis is not about becoming more polished, more agreeable, or more likable. It’s about telling the truth:Leadership isn’t about being easy. It’s about being clear. If you’ve ever caught yourself holding back, softening your voice, or over-carrying the emotional weight of your team - this episode is your wake-up call. And maybe, just maybe, your permission slip.

    24 min
  2. 129. High-Functioning. Self-Aware. Still Exhausted with Paul Lubicz

    MAR 29

    129. High-Functioning. Self-Aware. Still Exhausted with Paul Lubicz

    Season 7 of Embracing Enough is about saying what’salready being said in the group chat - out loud. And today? We’re talking to the woman who has done all the work. Therapy? Check.Books? Highlighted.Podcasts? Saved.Breathwork app? Downloaded. You know the language.You can explain nervous system regulation in a meeting.You’ve taught other people about boundaries. And you are still tired. Not collapsing-on-the-floor tired. High-functioning tired.Polished tired.“Of course I can take that on” tired. I’m joined by Paul Lubicz, executive and transformationalcoach, and we go straight at the question most leaders avoid: What happens when resilience turns into self-abandonment? When discipline becomes disconnection? When “doing it right” slowly becomes overriding yourself? Because here’s the uncomfortable truth: A lot of self-aware leaders are not actually connected. They know the tools. They just don’t trust their own signal. They still call exhaustion commitment. They still call hyper-control maturity. They still confuse self-control with self-trust. And no one’s calling it out because from the outside? You look great. This conversation is not about becoming a better version of yourself. It’s about admitting that somewhere along the way,productivity replaced presence - and you left part of yourself behind. We talk about: The difference between understanding yourself and actually listening to yourselfHow urgency drowns out intuition - especially in leadershipThe emotional labor successful people carry but rarely nameThe truth high-achievers are afraid to admit: “I don’t actually feel connected to what I’m building.”And what rebuilding self-trust looks like - without turning it into another optimization project If you’ve ever walked out of a meeting replaying everythingyou said - even though everyone else thinks you’re confident… If you’re tired of performing wellness while privatelywhite-knuckling it… If you know, deep down, that your body has been trying toget your attention… This episode is not about fixing yourself. It’s about finally listening. To learn more about Paul Lubicz, visit ⁠⁠https://www.thewellbeingmanager.com/⁠⁠or follow him on Instagram at @thewellbeingmanager.

    43 min
  3. 128. Hypervigilance in Heels: The Confidence They See vs. The Doubt You Live With

    MAR 22

    128. Hypervigilance in Heels: The Confidence They See vs. The Doubt You Live With

    Season 7 is about saying what the group chat already knows - out loud. And today’s truth? You are not “low confidence.” You are high-functioning and hypervigilant. This episode is for the woman who leads the meeting.The one with the title.The one people describe as “so confident.” And then the Zoom ends…the door shuts…and the spiral begins. Did I talk too much?Was that too direct?Did I look annoyed?Did he interrupt me because I sounded unsure?Did I just expose myself? From the outside, you look steady.Inside? You’re running a full audit. Replaying the meeting while unloading the dishwasher.Rewriting your answer in the shower.Adding exclamation points so you don’t sound like a villain. Monitoring your tone like you’re your own HR department. And here’s the part no one names: That’s not insecurity. That’s vigilance. That’s a nervous system that learned a long time ago that being capable wasn’t enough - you also had to be palatable. In this episode, we unpack: Why high-achieving women don’t lack confidence — they redirect it into self-monitoring How the “confidence cliff” at 8 or 9 years old turns into chronic second-guessing at 38 The invisible tax of walking into rooms thinking “Will this be received well?” instead of just “Here’s what I think.” Why you’re running two operating systems at once: lead… and protect yourself from leading And the uncomfortable truth that the real fear isn’t incompetence — it’s social cost Because sometimes the doubt isn’t: “Am I capable?” It’s: “If I actually take up the space I’m capable of… will I still belong?” This isn’t about hyping you up. It’s about telling the truth. Confidence at this stage of your life isn’t eliminating doubt. It’s recognizing the old monitoring instinct - and refusing to rearrange yourself anyway. If you’re successful on paper but exhausted from supervising yourself in every room… If you’re tired of being both the leader and the compliance department… If you’re ready to stop shrinking in ways no one else can even see… This one will feel personal. Because the problem isn’t that you’re not confident. It’s that you’ve been trained to watch yourself more than you trust yourself. And that training?We’re done letting it run the show. *********** If you want to learn more about what Enough Labs is about, head to https://www.enoughlabs.com/ and follow us on Instagram and TikTok at @enoughlabs

    27 min
  4. 127. Exhausted from Doing Everything Right with Sophia Mikelionis

    MAR 15

    127. Exhausted from Doing Everything Right with Sophia Mikelionis

    In this episode, Dina sits down with Sophia Mikelionis, founder of Gearing Together, to say the part out loud: You can do everything “right”… and still feel completely drained. Sophia’s résumé checks every box. BBA in Finance from Howard.MBA from Syracuse.Climbed the corporate ladder.Delivered. Performed. Excelled. On paper? Thriving. Behind the scenes? Exhausted. Running on deadlines, pressure, and the promise that relief would come “after this quarter.” (You know. The mythical next week.) This conversation is the one women have in the group chat but rarely in public. We talk about what burnout actually looks like for ambitious women - and why it hides in plain sight when you’re high-performing. Because here’s the truth: Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like being wildly competent… and quietly resentful.Smiling in meetings.Crying in the car.Telling yourself you’re lucky.Wondering why it still feels heavy. We unpack: Why corporate culture rewards over-functioning and then calls it “leadership potential”How guilt keeps high-achievers stuck long after their bodies have started protestingThe identity crisis that hits when you realize you can’t keep running at this paceAnd why stepping back can feel scarier than staying exhaustedThis isn’t an episode about quitting your ambition. It’s about interrogating who taught you what ambition was supposed to cost. If you’ve ever thought: “I should be grateful.”“I just need to push through.”“Everyone else seems to be handling it.” This conversation will feel uncomfortably familiar - in the best way. Because sometimes the bravest thing you can admit isn’t “I can’t do this.” It’s: “I don’t want to keep doing it like this.” ************* To learn more about Sophia Mikelionis and her work with Gearing Together, visit https://www.gearingtogether.com/ or follow her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sophia-mike/

    46 min
  5. 126. The Group Chat Is Right: Boundaries Change How They See You

    MAR 8

    126. The Group Chat Is Right: Boundaries Change How They See You

    Let’s say what the group chat already knows: Boundaries don’t feel hard because you’re confused. They feel hard because the minute you set one… the temperature in the room changes. This episode is for the woman who: Knows how to say no; but still explains it for three minutes. Knows she’s overextended; but keeps picking up the extra lift. Knows she’s capable; but still manages the room like it’s her job to keep everyone comfortable. Here’s the truth we’re telling out loud: Women are trained to equate Being needed with being safe.Being agreeable with being promotable.Being accessible with being valuable.So when you set a boundary, it doesn’t just feel logistical. It feels social.It feels political.It feels like you might lose something. In this episode, we unpack: Why high-achieving women are rewarded for over-functioning...until it becomes the expectation The real reason you over-explain your “no” How managing everyone else’s emotions became part of your leadership identity Why authority requires tolerating a little discomfort in the room And what shifts when you stop performing accessibility and start practicing discernment Because here’s the uncomfortable truth: If everyone is always comfortable with you, you’re probably over-functioning. Boundaries will change how some people experience you. The real question is —are you ready for that? This is leadership without self-abandonment. And yes, it will cost you being the easiest person in the room. But it might finally make you the most anchored. ************* To learn more about me and what we're building at Enough Labs, visit https://www.enoughlabs.com or follow us on Instagram or TikTok at @enoughlabs

    23 min
  6. 125. The Lie We Were Sold About Discipline with Courtney Townley

    MAR 1

    125. The Lie We Were Sold About Discipline with Courtney Townley

    What if the reason you feel “inconsistent” has nothing to dowith your willpower… and everything to do with self-betrayal? In this episode of Embracing Enough, Dina sits downwith Courtney Townley, author of The Consistency Code and host of the Grace and Grit podcast, for a leadership truth-telling conversation about the lie women have been sold about discipline. High-achieving women are taught to equate discipline withworth. Productivity with virtue. Burnout with commitment. And when that formula inevitably collapses, we blameourselves. This conversation pulls the curtain back on how wellnessculture and leadership norms quietly condition women to override their bodies in the name of “doing it right.” Together, Dina and Courtney reframe consistency not as white-knuckled control - but as self-trust. Not as rule-following - but as self-honoring. This is not an episode about food plans, habit hacks, orfitness routines. It’s about authority. Agency. Embodiment.And the uncomfortable freedom that comes when you stop outsourcing leadership - including leadership over your own body. If you’ve ever said, “I just need to be more consistent,”this episode might change what you think that actually means. To learn more about Courtney Townley and her work, visit https://graceandgrit.com/programs/ and follow her on Instagram at @gracegrit

    36 min
  7. 124. From Reliable to Powerful: The Identity Shift No One Talks About

    FEB 22

    124. From Reliable to Powerful: The Identity Shift No One Talks About

    You’ve been told you’re exceptional. Dependable. The one they can count on. And you are. But what if the very trait that made you indispensable… is the thing quietly capping your authority? This episode is not about time management. It’s not about delegation hacks or color-coding your calendar. It’s about identity. Specifically, the identity of being “the reliable one” - and why that role feels powerful while simultaneously keeping you boxed in. If you’re the leader who: Rewrites the deck before it goes upstairs so no one looks sloppy Smooths tension in meetings before it becomes visible Fixes the half-baked idea instead of letting it breathe Absorbs emotional undercurrents like it’s part of your job description Feels constantly “on,” even when you’re technically off This conversation is for you. We’re unpacking the over-functioning pattern that so many high-capacity women fall into - not because they’re weak, but because they’re competent. Because they care. Because somewhere along the way, leadership fused with self-sacrifice. Here’s the uncomfortable truth:When you are the emotional glue, you are rarely the strategic threat. Systems love the fixer. They reward the stabilizer. They pile responsibility onto the one who makes everything run smoothly. But authority?Authority doesn’t go to the person who keeps everything comfortable.It goes to the person willing to let discomfort surface long enough to redesign the structure. Inside this episode, we explore: The hidden contract of reliability (and why it keeps you typecast) What actually happens when you stop rescuing Why letting things “wobble” is data, not disaster The ego hit of no longer being the hero The difference between indispensability and impact And five practical shifts to move from shock absorber… to architect Because here’s the real question:Have you built a team — or have you built a dynamic where you are the safety net for everyone else’s growth?

    31 min
  8. 123. When Doing Everything Right Feels Wrong

    FEB 3

    123. When Doing Everything Right Feels Wrong

    In the opening episode of Season 7 of Embracing Enough, host Dina Scippa pulls back the curtain on what women in leadership are actually carrying - and why so many are exhausted despite doing everything “right.” This episode isn’t about fixing confidence or pushing resilience harder. It’s about naming the deeper, systemic patterns that make leadership feel heavy, isolating, and emotionally taxing for women - especially those who are competent, committed, and conscientious. Dina reflects on the evolution of the podcast and introduces a season rooted in honesty over polish, truth over platitudes. She speaks directly to the quiet exhaustion women leaders feel but rarely say out loud - the fear of sounding ungrateful, weak, or incapable if they admit how hard it really is. This season moves the conversation away from individual shortcomings and toward the unspoken realities of leadership culture: the emotional labor, the silence, the pressure to perform composure while absorbing the weight of expectations that were never part of the job description. Embracing Enough becomes what it’s always meant to be - the group chat, the hallway conversation, the truth-telling space where women don’t have to pretend anymore. Key Takeaways Leadership exhaustion is widespread among women—and it’s not a personal failure The fatigue many women feel is rooted in systemic expectations, not workload alone Women leaders often feel stuck despite being capable, successful, and qualified There is a silence problem around naming the emotional cost of leadership This season prioritizes honest, unpolished conversations over performative confidence The focus is shifting from “fixing women” to examining leadership systems

    17 min
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Embracing Enough is a podcast redefining what leadership really looks like - especially for women who are done performing perfection. Each episode invites bold, honest conversations with women who are leading, healing, and unlearning the stories that told them they weren’t enough. Together, we explore what it takes to show up with confidence, courage, and authenticity - in the workplace, in our relationships, and within ourselves. This isn’t about climbing ladders or checking boxes. It’s about leading from the truth of who we are - messy, powerful, and enough exactly as we are.

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  • Creator
    Dina Scippa
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    131
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dina Scippa
  • Show Website
    Embracing Enough