Embracing Enough

Dina Scippa
  • 5.0 (20)
  • Self-Improvement
  • Updated Monthly

Embracing Enough is a podcast redefining what leadership really looks like - especially for women who are done performing perfection. Each episode invites bold, honest conversations with women who are leading, healing, and unlearning the stories that told them they weren’t enough. Together, we explore what it takes to show up with confidence, courage, and authenticity - in the workplace, in our relationships, and within ourselves. This isn’t about climbing ladders or checking boxes. It’s about leading from the truth of who we are - messy, powerful, and enough exactly as we are.

  1. 134. The Real Reason Leaders Struggle Isn't Confidence

    4h ago

    134. The Real Reason Leaders Struggle Isn't Confidence

    For years, I thought my work was about confidence. I built programs around it. I coached women through it. I spoke on stages about it. And over and over again, I found myself returning to the same question: Why do so many brilliant, accomplished women still struggle to believe they're enough? But during my time in Goldman Sachs' Black Women in Business program, something unexpected happened. As I was pushed to get clearer about my business, my differentiation, and the problem I was actually solving, I began looking back across six years of coaching hundreds of leaders, facilitating workshops, and listening to countless stories. And I realized something profound: Confidence was never the throughline. Decision-making was. Again and again, I saw the same patterns emerge. Leaders hesitating. Waiting for more certainty. Seeking more consensus. Delaying action. Revisiting decisions that had already been made. Not because they lacked capability, but because they didn't fully trust themselves. In this deeply personal episode, I share the journey that led to the creation of the Decision Velocity Index™ (DVI) and the surprising insight that changed how I think about leadership, confidence, and growth. Because what if confidence isn't the thing we're actually after? What if confidence is simply the byproduct of trusting ourselves enough to make a decision and act? In this episode, we'll explore: The unexpected insight that emerged during Goldman Sachs' Black Women in Business program Why decision-making - not confidence - may be the hidden challenge for many leaders The relationship between self-trust, action, and leadership effectiveness How hesitation quietly impacts our lives, careers, and organizations Why your next level of confidence may be hiding inside a decision you've been avoiding This episode marks the beginning of a new conversation - one that I believe has the power to fundamentally change how we think about leadership. Because confidence isn't something you wait to feel. It's what happens when you trust yourself enough to move. *********** If this conversation resonates, and you're curious about how these patterns might be showing up in your own leadership or organization, we'd love to hear from you. The Decision Velocity Index™ was built to help uncover the hidden decision-making patterns that influence how we lead, act, and execute under pressure. This is just the beginning of the conversation.Learn more here https://decision-velocity-index.lovable.appand if you want to bring the DVI to your team, send us an email at hello@enoughlabs.com

    23 min
  2. 133. Lonely AF: The Hidden Loneliness Behind Success, Confidence, and Having It All Together | with Dr. Sylvia Kalicinski

    Jun 4

    133. Lonely AF: The Hidden Loneliness Behind Success, Confidence, and Having It All Together | with Dr. Sylvia Kalicinski

    What if loneliness isn't a sign that something is wrong with you? What if it's a signal pointing you toward something you deeply need? In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, Dina sits down with trauma-informed therapist, speaker, and author Dr. Sylvia Kalicinski to explore the hidden reality of loneliness - especially the kind that exists beneath achievement, competence, leadership, and success. Drawing from her new book, Lonely AF: A Therapist's No-BS Guide to Feeling Less Alone, Sylvia shares her own journey through grief, emotional isolation, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and the lifelong search to feel truly seen. Together, Dina and Sylvia unpack: Why loneliness is far more common than we admitHow high-achieving women often hide loneliness behind successThe connection between confidence, belonging, and emotional lonelinessWhy "I'm fine" and "I've got it" can become emotional prisonsHow comparison quietly fuels disconnectionThe role family dynamics play in shaping our relationshipsWhat happens when we stop performing and allow ourselves to be seenSmall but courageous steps toward connection, trust, and healingThis conversation is honest, vulnerable, funny, and deeply affirming for anyone navigating uncertainty, transition, burnout, or the feeling that they're carrying more than anyone realizes. Because sometimes the bravest thing we can do isn't push harder. It's admitting we don't want to do it alone anymore. Connect with Dr. Sylvia Kalicinski: Author of Lonely AF: A Therapist's No-BS Guide to Feeling Less AloneFollow Sylvia on social media @dr.sylviakLearn more at sylviakalicinski.comIf this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that loneliness is not a personal failure - it's part of being human.

    50 min
  3. 132. The Permission You're Waiting For Isn't Coming

    May 5

    132. The Permission You're Waiting For Isn't Coming

    No one is coming to tell you you’re ready. And honestly? That might be the most freeing thing you hear today. In this episode of Embracing Enough, we’re getting into the quiet, invisible pattern that keeps so many brilliant women stuck - not lack of capability, but the habit of waiting. Waiting to be chosen. Waiting to be validated. Waiting for someone to say, “It’s your turn.” In this episode, Dina breaks down the myth of readiness and calls out what’s really underneath it: the fear of being seen before you feel fully secure. Because let’s be real - this isn’t about preparation. It’s about permission. If you’ve ever: Held back from applying, speaking up, or going after something biggerTold yourself you just need a little more time, experience, or polishFelt the tension of knowing you’re capable of more but waiting anywayThis episode is going to hit. We’re talking about: Why “readiness” is often just a socially acceptable form of self-protectionThe real reason high-performing women hesitate at the exact moments that matterHow leadership is actually measured (hint: it’s not about being the most prepared person in the room)The cost of waiting - and how it slowly erodes your self-trustWhat it looks like to move before you feel ready and build confidence in real timeThis is the conversation behind the scenes of leadership - the one that usually only happens in group chats or after the meeting ends. Because the truth is: the women you admire didn’t feel ready either.They moved anyway. If you’ve been waiting for a sign… this is it. By the end of the episode, try asking yourself: Where am I waiting for permission I don’t actually need?

    23 min
  4. 131. Confidence Was Never the Problem with Jess Weiner

    Apr 21

    131. Confidence Was Never the Problem with Jess Weiner

    What if confidence was never something women lacked; but something that was interrupted? In this conversation, I sit down with Jess Weiner - cultural expert, author of A Very Hungry Girl, and longtime advisor to brands like Dove and Barbie - to unpack the deeper story behind how women learn to see themselves, lead, and show up in the world. We go beyond surface-level “confidence” talk and get into the real work:- how social conditioning shapes women’s relationship to authority - why self-monitoring becomes second nature - and what it actually costs women—especially in leadership and high-stakes environments. This episode explores: The early conditioning that teaches girls to prioritize likability over self-trustThe hidden toll of constant self-editing and performanceWhy confidence isn’t missing—it’s been disruptedHow body image, identity, and leadership are more connected than we admitWhat it really looks like to unlearn these patterns as an adultThis isn’t about fixing women.It’s about questioning the systems that taught them to hesitate in the first place. If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing what you already know, softening your voice in the moment it matters, or feeling the pressure to be both exceptional and acceptable—this conversation will hit.

    40 min
  5. 130. Manageable ≠ Leadership: The Trap High-Performing Women Fall Into

    Apr 5

    130. Manageable ≠ Leadership: The Trap High-Performing Women Fall Into

    What if the very thing you’ve been praised for… is the exact thing slowing your leadership down? In this episode of Embracing Enough, we’re getting honest about a pattern too many high-performing women know intimately - but rarely say out loud. Because most women weren’t actually taught leadership.We were taught how to be manageable. Easy to work with.Easy to direct.Easy to overlook. And while those traits get rewarded early on, they quietly start to cost you - visibility, authority, and the ability to lead at the level you’re actually capable of. Inside this episode, we unpack: The subtle ways women are conditioned to prioritize likability over leadershipWhy “non-promotable work” and emotional labor are keeping you stuck in the backgroundThe real difference between being valuable to your team and being seen as a leaderHow the confidence cliff (yes, it starts young) follows women straight into the workplaceThree powerful shifts to help you move from manageability to authority...without becoming someone you’re notThis is not about becoming more polished, more agreeable, or more likable. It’s about telling the truth:Leadership isn’t about being easy. It’s about being clear. If you’ve ever caught yourself holding back, softening your voice, or over-carrying the emotional weight of your team - this episode is your wake-up call. And maybe, just maybe, your permission slip.

    24 min
  6. 129. High-Functioning. Self-Aware. Still Exhausted with Paul Lubicz

    Mar 29

    129. High-Functioning. Self-Aware. Still Exhausted with Paul Lubicz

    Season 7 of Embracing Enough is about saying what’salready being said in the group chat - out loud. And today? We’re talking to the woman who has done all the work. Therapy? Check.Books? Highlighted.Podcasts? Saved.Breathwork app? Downloaded. You know the language.You can explain nervous system regulation in a meeting.You’ve taught other people about boundaries. And you are still tired. Not collapsing-on-the-floor tired. High-functioning tired.Polished tired.“Of course I can take that on” tired. I’m joined by Paul Lubicz, executive and transformationalcoach, and we go straight at the question most leaders avoid: What happens when resilience turns into self-abandonment? When discipline becomes disconnection? When “doing it right” slowly becomes overriding yourself? Because here’s the uncomfortable truth: A lot of self-aware leaders are not actually connected. They know the tools. They just don’t trust their own signal. They still call exhaustion commitment. They still call hyper-control maturity. They still confuse self-control with self-trust. And no one’s calling it out because from the outside? You look great. This conversation is not about becoming a better version of yourself. It’s about admitting that somewhere along the way,productivity replaced presence - and you left part of yourself behind. We talk about: The difference between understanding yourself and actually listening to yourselfHow urgency drowns out intuition - especially in leadershipThe emotional labor successful people carry but rarely nameThe truth high-achievers are afraid to admit: “I don’t actually feel connected to what I’m building.”And what rebuilding self-trust looks like - without turning it into another optimization project If you’ve ever walked out of a meeting replaying everythingyou said - even though everyone else thinks you’re confident… If you’re tired of performing wellness while privatelywhite-knuckling it… If you know, deep down, that your body has been trying toget your attention… This episode is not about fixing yourself. It’s about finally listening. To learn more about Paul Lubicz, visit ⁠⁠https://www.thewellbeingmanager.com/⁠⁠or follow him on Instagram at @thewellbeingmanager.

    43 min
  7. 128. Hypervigilance in Heels: The Confidence They See vs. The Doubt You Live With

    Mar 22

    128. Hypervigilance in Heels: The Confidence They See vs. The Doubt You Live With

    Season 7 is about saying what the group chat already knows - out loud. And today’s truth? You are not “low confidence.” You are high-functioning and hypervigilant. This episode is for the woman who leads the meeting.The one with the title.The one people describe as “so confident.” And then the Zoom ends…the door shuts…and the spiral begins. Did I talk too much?Was that too direct?Did I look annoyed?Did he interrupt me because I sounded unsure?Did I just expose myself? From the outside, you look steady.Inside? You’re running a full audit. Replaying the meeting while unloading the dishwasher.Rewriting your answer in the shower.Adding exclamation points so you don’t sound like a villain. Monitoring your tone like you’re your own HR department. And here’s the part no one names: That’s not insecurity. That’s vigilance. That’s a nervous system that learned a long time ago that being capable wasn’t enough - you also had to be palatable. In this episode, we unpack: Why high-achieving women don’t lack confidence — they redirect it into self-monitoring How the “confidence cliff” at 8 or 9 years old turns into chronic second-guessing at 38 The invisible tax of walking into rooms thinking “Will this be received well?” instead of just “Here’s what I think.” Why you’re running two operating systems at once: lead… and protect yourself from leading And the uncomfortable truth that the real fear isn’t incompetence — it’s social cost Because sometimes the doubt isn’t: “Am I capable?” It’s: “If I actually take up the space I’m capable of… will I still belong?” This isn’t about hyping you up. It’s about telling the truth. Confidence at this stage of your life isn’t eliminating doubt. It’s recognizing the old monitoring instinct - and refusing to rearrange yourself anyway. If you’re successful on paper but exhausted from supervising yourself in every room… If you’re tired of being both the leader and the compliance department… If you’re ready to stop shrinking in ways no one else can even see… This one will feel personal. Because the problem isn’t that you’re not confident. It’s that you’ve been trained to watch yourself more than you trust yourself. And that training?We’re done letting it run the show. *********** If you want to learn more about what Enough Labs is about, head to https://www.enoughlabs.com/ and follow us on Instagram and TikTok at @enoughlabs

    27 min
  8. 127. Exhausted from Doing Everything Right with Sophia Mikelionis

    Mar 15

    127. Exhausted from Doing Everything Right with Sophia Mikelionis

    In this episode, Dina sits down with Sophia Mikelionis, founder of Gearing Together, to say the part out loud: You can do everything “right”… and still feel completely drained. Sophia’s résumé checks every box. BBA in Finance from Howard.MBA from Syracuse.Climbed the corporate ladder.Delivered. Performed. Excelled. On paper? Thriving. Behind the scenes? Exhausted. Running on deadlines, pressure, and the promise that relief would come “after this quarter.” (You know. The mythical next week.) This conversation is the one women have in the group chat but rarely in public. We talk about what burnout actually looks like for ambitious women - and why it hides in plain sight when you’re high-performing. Because here’s the truth: Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like being wildly competent… and quietly resentful.Smiling in meetings.Crying in the car.Telling yourself you’re lucky.Wondering why it still feels heavy. We unpack: Why corporate culture rewards over-functioning and then calls it “leadership potential”How guilt keeps high-achievers stuck long after their bodies have started protestingThe identity crisis that hits when you realize you can’t keep running at this paceAnd why stepping back can feel scarier than staying exhaustedThis isn’t an episode about quitting your ambition. It’s about interrogating who taught you what ambition was supposed to cost. If you’ve ever thought: “I should be grateful.”“I just need to push through.”“Everyone else seems to be handling it.” This conversation will feel uncomfortably familiar - in the best way. Because sometimes the bravest thing you can admit isn’t “I can’t do this.” It’s: “I don’t want to keep doing it like this.” ************* To learn more about Sophia Mikelionis and her work with Gearing Together, visit https://www.gearingtogether.com/ or follow her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sophia-mike/

    46 min
See All (135)

5
out of 5
20 Ratings

About

Embracing Enough is a podcast redefining what leadership really looks like - especially for women who are done performing perfection. Each episode invites bold, honest conversations with women who are leading, healing, and unlearning the stories that told them they weren’t enough. Together, we explore what it takes to show up with confidence, courage, and authenticity - in the workplace, in our relationships, and within ourselves. This isn’t about climbing ladders or checking boxes. It’s about leading from the truth of who we are - messy, powerful, and enough exactly as we are.

Information

  • Creator
    Dina Scippa
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    135
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Dina Scippa
  • Show Website
    Embracing Enough