UNtracing Trauma- with JeGaysus

JeGaysus

OMG! JeGaysus introduces the all new interview podcast series focused on religious trauma: UNtracing Trauma!! You asked and I listened. We are turning this safe space into a platform to address religious trauma and abuse. A new guest every week to highlight their story, and hopefully make change in the world! --- Even if you can't relate to the exact same past as my guests? I believe us working together through issues can help everyone gain closure. Patreon just Dropped! Become a Patron to join the Discord AND get credit shout outs from JeGaysus!

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    LDS Man Reinvents 'Love Languages' to Transform Outlook on Life | UT Episode 12

    Summary:Paul Z shares his personal story of growing up in a large family with a history of trauma and abuse. He discusses the impact of his grandfather's actions and the hardships his family faced. Paul talks about the strictness and control in his upbringing and the negative effects it had on his father and the family dynamic. He also shares his experience of being raised in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and how it influenced his outlook on love and relationships. Paul explains how he discovered the concept of love languages and initially struggled to understand and apply it to his life. He shares his journey of reinventing the love languages by creating a game using dice and icons to help people practice different love languages each day. Paul emphasizes the importance of giving love and kindness to others and the positive impact it can have on both the giver and the receiver. Key Takeaways: Trauma and hardship can be passed down through generations, but it is possible to break the cycle and create a better future. The concept of love languages can be a powerful tool for understanding and expressing love, but it is important to go beyond just knowing your own love language and learn how to give love in different ways. Giving love and kindness to others can have a profound impact on both the giver and the receiver, and it is a mindset that can be cultivated and practiced. Quotes: "Anything that gives people hope is something good to hold on to, encourage, and uplift one another." - Paul Z "Giving love away is something you have control over, and trusting that it will come back is the secret sauce." - Paul Z "Magnify the good things in others and focus on what you can love about them." - Paul Z About The Guest:Paul Z is a guest on the podcast who shares his personal story of growing up in a large family with a history of trauma and abuse. He discusses how he was able to overcome his past and reinvent the concept of love languages. Note: The quotes provided are direct quotes from the transcript. For all of Jegaysus up to date links and socials please go to: https://beacons.ai/jegaysus

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  2. Satanic Rituals, Recovered Memories? | Author Jimmi Toro Shares- Ep. 11 UNTracing Trauma

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    Satanic Rituals, Recovered Memories? | Author Jimmi Toro Shares- Ep. 11 UNTracing Trauma

    Show Notes (Heavy Episode) See Below for episode quotes! A VERY Helpful Trigger Warning/Way to judge if the content in the episode is ok for you right now. If not? No worries. *About The Guest: Jimmi Toro is an author and artist who has recently uncovered traumatic memories from his childhood. He shares his story in his book, "Heal," and is an advocate for survivors of religious abuse and trauma.​ Episode Summary: Jimmi Toro, author of "Heal," joins the podcast to discuss his journey of uncovering traumatic memories from his childhood. He shares his experiences of being involved in a satanic ring from the ages of three to eight and the physical and emotional toll it took on him. Jimmi explains the process of healing and how he has been able to rewrite the narrative of his past through therapy and self-reflection. He also discusses the prevalence of child abuse and the tactics used by abusers to gain access to children. Jimmi emphasizes the importance of believing and supporting survivors and the need for communities to come together to protect children from abuse. ​*Key Takeaways: - Traumatic memories can resurface years later, causing physical and emotional distress. - Healing from trauma involves identifying and addressing the emotions associated with the memories. - Child abusers often manipulate and groom both children and adults to gain access to their victims. - Child abuse is prevalent in communities, and it is essential to believe and support survivors. - Communities can take action by raising awareness, supporting organizations that protect children, and advocating for stronger laws against child abuse.​ Episode Quotes from Jimmi (A Good way to see if you are ok with the episode content!): (21:47) "They trade them like cards, they do things, they will often age my child for your child." (22:17) "They go where the kids are and they go where the kids will trust them, hence you get the religious stuff." (25:29) "When these memories come back, it's not uncommon to typically don't remember all of the details of the memory, you remember fragments." (26:44) "The fact that the trauma exists in the body is relative to the idea that the body keeps the score." (28:32) "You could literally go back in time for the past and rewrite the narrative, change the story, change the series of events." SEO Babble: trauma, satanic rings, memories, abuse, healing, ritualistic abuse, child abuse, satanic Panic, memories recovery, satanic temple, religious abuse, religious trauma, satanic organizations, sadists, child abusers, child trafficking, child abduction, child exploitation, child safety, child protection, child advocacy, child welfare, child predators, child victims, child recovery, child healing, child trauma, child therapy, child support, child empowerment, child justice, child rights, child education, child awareness, child prevention

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  3. Ep 10- Will There Be a: Non-Binary, Socialist and Black PRESIDENT in 2024? Meet Candidate: Jasmine Sherman | UNtracing Trauma Podcast

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    Ep 10- Will There Be a: Non-Binary, Socialist and Black PRESIDENT in 2024? Meet Candidate: Jasmine Sherman | UNtracing Trauma Podcast

    About Guest Sherman is a non-binary candidate running for the presidency in 2024 in the Unicorn Party. They are the first non-binary candidate AND first: pansexual, polyamorous, and atheist hopeful. Jasmine Sherman's passionate about creating change and believes the current political system is not serving the people.​ Summary Jasmine Sherman, a non-binary candidate running for president in 2024, joins JeGaysus for a candid conversation. They discuss their decision to run for president, the importance of representation, and their plans for office. Sherman also addresses misconceptions about their identity and clarifies the abilites of a president to make change. Focusing on Gun Control, Universal Basic Income (UBI), Term Limits for congress, and other widespread change. Sherman also highlights the need for inclusivity and progress in politics and express their commitment (via the new Unicorn Party) to making a difference.​ *What is JeGaysus Reading?* Join me in my current book Selections! Scholarly- "The Satan: How God's Executioner Became the Enemy": https://amzn.to/3Zgz2aN Casual Theology- "Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation": https://amzn.to/3ZjKGS1 Key Episode Takeaways: Sherman is the first non-binary candidate running for president in 2024. They believe that the current political system is not serving the people and want to bring about change. Sherman plans to govern like FDR, using executive orders to bypass Congress and make efficient progress. The Unicorn Party, the political party Sherman is a part of, aims to challenge the existing political establishment. Sherman emphasizes the importance of representation and inclusivity. Sherman's policies include universal healthcare, term limits, age limits, and transparency in government.​ Quotes: "I'm taking all my flowers right. I would be the first non-binary, pansexual, polyamorous, atheist president." "I don't like to say religious heavy, but it's obviously one religion, so Christian heavy." "God hates gays and it's like 🤦‍♂️ that was never mentioned." "I'm not a politician. I'm someone that lives in a country that is not serving me." "We've got the pissed off fitness of Gen Z but the violence of Millennials, and that's really the Unicorn Party." "I am the only person giving you Universal Health Care and I tell you how I pay for it and I eliminate property tax as well." "I'm not going away unless I'm dead and I believe that every person listening is worth dying for." "Let's use critical thinking and have a conversation finally instead of just being told which way to go." Become a Patron to join my Discord! Perks include AND video shout outs and credits from JeGaysus! ⁠https://www.patreon.com/JeGaysus⁠ My full Deconstruction Book list- ⁠ Subjects I explore. Christian, Atheist, Sexuality and More!⁠ My Makeup Recommendations- ⁠Affiliate Store: JeGaysus Amazon Storefront- BEST Makeup Deals!⁠ Click here for All my Links (Merch, Wishlist, etc): ⁠https://beacons.ai/jegaysus⁠ You can also support me via Venmo (@ jegaysus)  About Podcast:  JeGaysus hosts the all new interview podcast series: UNtracing Trauma!!! We are turning this safe space into a platform to address religious trauma and religious abuse. Every week a new guest will highlight their story, and hopefully make change in the world. Even if you can't relate to the exact same past as my guests? I believe us working together through issues can help everyone gain closure. It is MY opinion that EVERYONE in America has Religious Trauma. Even if you weren't raised Christian, even if you were NOT religious. Because of Christian supremacy, and the way it infiltrates the media, politics, purity culture, and just the social norm zeitgeist; everyone. EVERYONE has been affected.  So let's undo that trauma. Or should I say, join me in...*UN*TRACING TRAUMA ;) For Press, Sponsorships, or Speaking Engagements- Please email me: JeGaysus@gmail.com Spread love. gAyMEN

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  4. Escaping A Cult: Rae McEwen Ep. 9 | UNtracing Trauma the Podcast

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    Escaping A Cult: Rae McEwen Ep. 9 | UNtracing Trauma the Podcast

    **About The Guest:** Rae McEwen is a social justice advocate and mental health professional. They grew up in a fundamentalist family and experienced the effects of a cult-like environment. Ray is passionate about raising awareness about social justice issues, particularly anti-trans legislation. **Summary:** Rae McEwen shares their experience growing up in a fundamentalist family that resembled a cult. They discuss the control and isolation they faced, as well as the fear instilled in them about Satanism and the outside world. Rae also talks about their journey of deconstruction and how they started questioning their beliefs. They highlight the impact of watching RuPaul's Drag Race and hearing queer people's stories, which challenged their homophobic views. Rae emphasizes the importance of constructive anger and finding healthier ways to express emotions. ​ **Key Takeaways:** - Rae grew up in a fundamentalist family that resembled a cult, with strict control and isolation. - Fear of Satanism and the outside world was instilled in Rae from a young age. - Watching RuPaul's Drag Race and hearing queer people's stories challenged Rae's homophobic views. - Rae learned to express their emotions in a healthier and more constructive way Please give our guest a follow!  https://www.tiktok.com/@wickedgrumpyqueer To join our Discord Become a Patron! Perks include AND video shout outs and credits from JeGaysus! https://www.patreon.com/JeGaysus My Deconstruction Recommended Reading list: Books I love and Subjects I explore. Christian, Atheist, Sexuality and More! My Makeup Recommendations- Affiliate Store: JeGaysus Amazon Storefront- BEST Makeup Deals! You can also support me via Venmo (@ jegaysus)  Click here for all my Links (Merch, Wishlist, etc): https://beacons.ai/jegaysus More about the Podcast:  JeGaysus hosts the all new interview podcast series: UNtracing Trauma!!! You asked and I listened. We are turning this safe space into a platform to address religious trauma and religious abuse. I will be having on a new guest every week to highlight their story, and hopefully make change in the world. Even if you can't relate to the exact same past as my guests? I believe us working together through issues can help everyone gain closure. It is MY personal opinion that EVERYONE in America has Religious Trauma. Even if you weren't raised Christian, or even if you were NOT religious. Because of Christian supremacy, and the way it infiltrates the media, politics, purity culture, and just the social norm zeitgeist; everyone. EVERYONE has been affected.  So let's undo that trauma. Or should I say, join me in...*UN*TRACING TRAUMA ;) Lastly for press and PR email me at: jegaysus@gmail.com Spread love. gAyMEN Episode Quotes: "I remember being really little and having to sit through a birthday party and all of the adults opening presents and stuff, and I was like, but I knew that if I moved or spoke, I would be in trouble." - Rae McEwen "I was terrified that the Satanists were going to come and kidnap me and kill me." - Rae McEwen "When I lost my virginity, one of the first thoughts I had was like, at least I can't be sacrificed by Satanists anymore." - Rae McEwen "I made the decision that I didn't want to be destructively angry anymore." - Rae McEwen

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  5. Undoing Purity Culture and Addressing the Manosphere: A Professional Therapist's Perspective UNtracing | Trauma Ep. 8

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    Undoing Purity Culture and Addressing the Manosphere: A Professional Therapist's Perspective UNtracing | Trauma Ep. 8

    Introduction/Show Notes: In this episode of UNtracing Trauma, JeGaysus speaks with Danielle, a clinical sex therapist and clinical sexologist with over a decade of experience in the field of therapy. Danielle specializes in helping individuals who have experienced trauma due to purity culture. She is passionate about helping people heal from their past traumas. All my links: https://five.me/jegaysus/links In this episode, Jegaysus and Danielle discuss the impact of purity culture on individuals and how it can lead to trauma. They explore the role of shame in purity culture and how it can keep people stuck in a cycle of self-blame and self-hatred. Additionally, they dive into the importance of self-compassion and self-care in the healing process, the role of therapy in healing from trauma, and the importance of community support in healing from trauma. They also touch on the impact of compulsory heterosexuality on society and the potential for radicalization of young men who feel entitled to sex. Introduction and background of the guest (00:00 - 01:35) Defining purity culture and its impact on individuals (01:36 - 06:05) The role of shame in purity culture (06:06 - 09:15) How purity culture can lead to trauma (09:16 - 12:50) Danielle's journey to becoming a therapist specializing in religious trauma (10:18 - 14:08) The importance of self-compassion and self-care in the healing process (12:51 - 17:05) The role of therapy in healing from trauma (17:06 - 20:55) How to find a therapist who specializes in trauma (20:56 - 23:30) The importance of community and support in healing from trauma (23:31 - 26:35) The impact of purity culture on power dynamics and sexual assault (15:16 - 18:41) Compulsory heterosexuality and its impact on society (18:41 - 22:15) The impact of compulsory heterosexuality on asexual individuals (20:20 - 22:15) The potential for radicalization of young men and the importance of avoiding incel territory (25:16 - 29:40) The manosphere and its impact on society (30:11 - 34:26) Final thoughts and takeaways (26:36 - 28:33) Hot topics Danielle shares that she was raised Catholic but never subscribed to the faith. She grew up in a strict purity culture environment, which led her to become interested in sex therapy and clinical sex research. Danielle defines purity culture as a system of beliefs that places a high value on sexual abstinence and emphasizes the importance of remaining "pure" until marriage. Purity culture can have a profound impact on individuals, particularly those who were raised in religious households. It can lead to feelings of shame, guilt, and self-blame. Shame is a powerful emotion that can keep people stuck in a cycle of self-blame and self-hatred. Purity culture often uses shame as a tool to control behavior Trauma is not just about what happened to you, but also about how it impacted you and how it continues to impact you. Purity culture can lead to trauma by creating a sense of fear and shame around sexuality, which can impact an individual's relationships and overall mental health. Research in the late 2000s brought attention to the harmful impact of purity culture, which led Danielle to specialize in religious trauma. Therapy can be a powerful tool in healing from trauma, particularly when it comes to religious trauma. Finding a therapist who specializes in trauma is important because they have the training and expertise to help you heal in a safe and supportive environment. Danielle recommends using the Psychology Today Therapist Finder to find therapists who specialize in trauma. It's important to find a therapist who is a good fit for you and who you feel comfortable working with. Compulsory heterosexuality can also play a role in the way that power dynamics and sexual assault are perpetuated within religious communities. Compulsory heterosexuality is the idea that heterosexuality is the only acceptable sexual orientation and that everything else is deviant or wrong.

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  6. Failure to Indoctrinate w/ HilaryAgro | Ep. 7- UNtracing Trauma

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    Failure to Indoctrinate w/ HilaryAgro | Ep. 7- UNtracing Trauma

    Episode 7 of the UNtracing Trauma Podcast. Can't wait to have my amazing guest on, Hilary is a great advocate- supporting Religious reform, LGBTQ rights, and changing the way we criminalize victims. Join us- talk about how the catholic church lost this one. Here is A ChatGPT summary of the episode ;): - Hilary as a PhD candidate in anthropology at the University of British Columbia focuses on drug policy, psychedelics, consciousness alteration, ending the war on drugs, and anti-capitalism. They briefly talk about her personal experience growing up in a Catholic environment and the steps involved in Catholic religious rituals like baptism, first communion, and confirmation. They also mention attending Catholic school and the disturbing history of abuse and neglect in such schools, including the mistreatment of indigenous children. She covers her journey of questioning and ultimately breaking away from religious beliefs. They admit to having a period of atheism during their teenage years and feeling superior to religious people. However, they acknowledge that this attitude was not something they are proud of and that it led some individuals to become racist and Islamophobic. The conversation touches on the effects of authoritarian parenting and the fear and shame associated with questioning religious beliefs or deviating from the expected norms. They also highlight the importance of critical thinking skills, empathy, and solidarity in understanding and deconstructing religious indoctrination. They also discuss the potential benefits and dangers of psychedelics, emphasizing the importance of responsible use and cautioning against their manipulation by cults or religious fundamentalists. Overall, the episode explores various aspects of religious trauma, indoctrination, personal experiences, and the potential role of psychedelics in healing and self-discovery. - Join this Youtube channel to get access to Membership perks (Badges, Emojis, Discord, and more!): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4YmsFWpXSsYKSeiINnfAUw/join Please give our guest a follow! https://www.tiktok.com/@hilaryagro?lang=en Hilary's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hilaryagro - Become a Patron to join the Discord AND vid shout outs from Jegaysus! https://www.patreon.com/JeGaysus My Deconstruction recommended Reading list: https://www.amazon.com/shop/jegaysus-thegayjesus/list/1HWMRKM9Q3I0U?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfjegaysus-thegayjesus_0DS44SA1AWR8XYSP12YY Support my channel by buying the makeup I use: https://www.amazon.com/shop/jegaysus-thegayjesus/list/1HWMRKM9Q3I0U?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfjegaysus-thegayjesus_5PFY80E9Q2DJZ9TC7Q1D You can also support me via Venmo (@ jegaysus) Click here for all my Links (Merch, Wishlist, etc): https://beacons.ai/jegaysus Lastly for press and PR email me at: jegaysus@gmail.com Spread love. gAyMEN - Patron Shout out!  Thank you to my loyal Disciples:  New Disciple! : Lotus!  Erin S | Breanna B. AJ W | Vexter HD Cross | Nana A Psycopathicforstatsminister  Cousin Jake | Kat L Bart | Just Cuz Adele S. | Katie Z. Amy B. | Joseph W.  Arget | Kay M, Anna S. | Crystal P. Candi B. | Carol J. Claire W. | Clare G. TheBanishedOne Megan F | Gena Gothbarbie | Frooddy Chick Heather C. | Clete C Modern Day Masquerade Jubilee C. | Mary M.  YouTube Newest Members! :  Special shout out to:  Yugen Knows Youtube Dedicated  members of Jegayity: Amy B | Crystal D Bart | Carmen ActuallyaDog Freya | Madd’s FlyFamille | NO Hazel | Lucy S Sanny | Soapy Oaks Farm ZaddyLuthian Disciple of Jegayity:  Titi4142  And TWO Patron Saints: Azreal Bartholomew - UNtracing Trauma is: hosted by JeGaysus, The podcast explores religious trauma, aiming to provide different perspectives and tools for dealing with indoctrination and breaking traumatic abuse. #lgbtqia #deconstruction #exvangelical #podcast #freedomfromreligion #religioustrauma #jegaysus #atheism #progressivechristianity

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  7. How She Overcame Controlling Husband and Church | UNtracing Trauma Ep. 6

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    How She Overcame Controlling Husband and Church | UNtracing Trauma Ep. 6

    *From Wesleyan to Lesbyan* UNtracing Trauma Episode 6! This week my guest is Jessica, aka JovialAndCo. Watch as we discuss how she went from the SUPER Strict denomination of Wesleyan, to being in a terrible (God Ordained) marriage, and ultimately how she learned who she was and found the love she deserves with her wife and children. Sorry for the short 2 week break. But we are back with another episode! And will have a LIVE episode this weekend Saturday April, 1st. Please give our guest a follow! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jovialandco?lang=en Become a Patron to join the Discord AND vid shout outs from Jegaysus! https://www.patreon.com/JeGaysus - My Deconstruction recommended Reading list: https://www.amazon.com/shop/jegaysus-thegayjesus/list/1HWMRKM9Q3I0U?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfjegaysus-thegayjesus_0DS44SA1AWR8XYSP12YY - Support my channel by buying the makeup I use: https://www.amazon.com/shop/jegaysus-thegayjesus/list/1HWMRKM9Q3I0U?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfjegaysus-thegayjesus_5PFY80E9Q2DJZ9TC7Q1D - You can also support me via Venmo (@ jegaysus) Click here for all my Links (Merch, Wishlist, etc): https://beacons.ai/jegaysus - Patron Shout out!  Thank you to my loyal Disciples:  Newest Members:  AJ W and Dexter! HD Cross | Nana A Psycopathicforstatsminister  Cousin Jake | Kat L Bart | Just Cuz Adele S. | Katie Z. Amy B. | Joseph W.  Arget | Kay M, Anna S. | Crystal P. Candi B. | Carol J. Claire W. | Clare G. Megan F | Gena Gothbarbie | Frooddy Chick Heather C. | Clete C Modern Day Masquerade Jubilee C. | Mary M.  Youtube Members:) New Members!  ActuallyaDog Carmen Madd’s Bart (x 4??) Hazel! Dedicated members of Jegayity: Amy B Crystal D NO Freya ZaddyLuthian And TWO Patron Saints: Breanna - A Rockstar Bartholomew - #exvangelical #recoveringfromreligion #endtrauma #deconstructingchristianity #jegaysus #deconstruction #edutainmentchannel

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OMG! JeGaysus introduces the all new interview podcast series focused on religious trauma: UNtracing Trauma!! You asked and I listened. We are turning this safe space into a platform to address religious trauma and abuse. A new guest every week to highlight their story, and hopefully make change in the world! --- Even if you can't relate to the exact same past as my guests? I believe us working together through issues can help everyone gain closure. Patreon just Dropped! Become a Patron to join the Discord AND get credit shout outs from JeGaysus!