英语冰美式

EP54 英语自我介绍的破冰公式:O-P-E-N模型

本期节目为你揭秘生活与职场两大场景的破冰秘诀 。学习的O-P-E-N模型,只需四步,就能将我们的真实故事打造成一分钟的精彩演说 。从观察、个人故事、情感链接到推动对话,一起告别不知如何开口的窘境。

生活场景“万能表达模板”工具包

场景一:学术会议 / 专业研讨会 / 读书会 (Academic Conference / Workshop / Book Club)

O - Observation (观察)

  • Excuse me, I couldn't help but notice from your name tag that you're from [University/Company Name].
    “打扰一下,我忍不住注意到您的名牌,您来自[大学/公司名称]。”
  • Excuse me, are you by any chance the author of [book/paper title]?
    “打扰一下,请问您是[书籍/论文标题]的作者吗?”
  • Is there any chance you're [Person's Name]? I'm a big admirer of your work.
    “请问您是[对方姓名]吗?我非常欣赏您的作品。”

P - Personal Story (个人故事)

  • I'm actually working in a very similar field. My research focuses on [your research topic].
    “实际上,我目前从事的领域和您非常相似。我的研究聚焦于[你的研究主题]。”
  • I once attended your lecture on [topic] online, and it really stuck with me.
    “我有一次在线上听过您关于[某个主题]的讲座,至今印象深刻。”
  • I read your book last year and it completely changed my perspective on [the book's subject].
    “我去年读了您的书,它完全改变了我对[书籍主题]的看法。”

E - Emotion (情感)

  • Your work/study has been a huge inspiration for me and my own project.
    “您的作品/研究对于我以及我自己的项目来说,是一个巨大的启发。”
  • I found your perspective on [a specific topic] truly fascinating and thought-provoking.
    “我发现您对于[某个特定话题]的见解真的非常吸引人,且发人深省。”
  • I'd love to get your feedback on a similar idea I've been developing.
    “我很希望能听听您对于我正在构思的一个相似想法的反馈。”

N - Nudge (推动)

  • Is there any chance I could ask you a quick question about your research?
    “不知有没有机会能向您请教一个关于您研究的简短问题?”
  • Would you be open to exchanging contact information? I'd love to follow your future work.
    “您是否愿意交换联系方式?我很希望能关注您未来的作品。”
  • I was hoping to discuss this further. Perhaps we could chat during the coffee break?
    “我希望能就此进行更深入的探讨,或许我们可以在茶歇时聊一聊?”

场景二:旅行中 / 偶然遇见 (Traveling / Chance Encounters)

O - Observation (观察)

  • This view is incredible, isn't it? I could look at it for hours.
    (“这里的景色太棒了,不是吗?我能看好几个小时。”)
  • This cafe has a great vibe. Is this your first time in [City Name]?
    (“这家咖啡馆氛围真好。这是你第一次来[城市名]吗?”)
  • Excuse me, I saw you were looking at the map. Are you trying to find [a landmark]?
    (“打扰一下,我看到你在看地图。你是在找[某个地标]吗?”)

P - Personal Story (个人故事)

  • I just arrived from [Previous City]. The journey was [beautiful/exhausting].
    (“我刚从[上一个城市]过来。旅途[很美/让人筋疲力尽]。”)
  • I'm here for a week. I've always wanted to see [a famous landmark, e.g., the Grand Canyon].
    (“我在这里待一周。我一直都想亲眼看看[一个著名地标,如科罗拉多大峡谷]。”)
  • I heard from another traveler that [a cool spot] is a must-see. I'm planning to go tomorrow.
    (“我听另一个旅行者说[一个很酷的地点]是必看景点。我打算明天去。”)

E - Emotion (情感)

  • I'm really loving the energy of this place. It feels so different from my hometown.
    (“我真的很喜欢这个地方的活力,感觉和我的家乡很不一样。”)
  • It's a bit overwhelming trying to see everything, but it's a good kind of overwhelming!
    (“想把所有东西都看完有点让人应接不暇,但这是一种很棒的感觉!”)
  • I feel so relaxed here. It's a much-needed break from my busy schedule.
    (“我在这里感觉很放松,这正是我繁忙日程中所需要的休息。”)

N - Nudge (推动)

  • What about you? What brings you on this trip?
    (“你呢?你这次旅行是为了什么?”)
  • Have you found any hidden gems or must-see spots yet? I'm looking for recommendations.
    (“你发现什么隐藏的宝藏地点或必看景点了么?我正在寻求建议。”)
  • What has been the highlight of your trip so far?
    (“到目前为止,你旅途中最精彩的部分是什么?”)

场景三:派对 / 社交聚会 (Parties / Social Gatherings)

O - Observation (观察)

  • This is a great party! So, how do you know [the host's name]?
    (“这个派对太棒了!所以,你是怎么认识[主人名]的?”)
  • Wow, this [dish name, e.g., guacamole] is delicious! I have to get the recipe.
    (“哇,这个[菜名,如牛油果酱]太好吃了!我得要个食谱。”)
  • I love the playlist they've got going. It’s perfect for the mood.
    (“我喜欢他们放的歌单,跟现场气氛完美契合。”)

P - Personal Story (个人故事)

  • I've known [the host's name] since we worked together at [Company]. We have some crazy stories.
    (“我从我们在[公司名]共事时就认识[主人名]了。我们有一些疯狂的往事。”)
  • Speaking of food, I've been trying to learn how to [make a dish, e.g., bake sourdough bread] lately. It's been a fun experiment.
    (“说到吃的,我最近也在试着学做[一道菜,如烤酸面包]。这是个有趣的实验。”)
  • This song actually reminds me of a concert I went to last year. It was unforgettable.
    (“这首歌其实让我想起了我去年去的一场音乐会,太难忘了。”)

E - Emotion (情感)

  • It's so nice to get out and just meet new people for a change.
    (“能出来换个环境,认识些新朋友,感觉真好。”)
  • My baking attempts don't always succeed, but I find the process surprisingly fun.
    (“我的烘焙尝试不总能成功,但我发现这个过程出乎意料地有趣。”)
  • I'm having such a great time. It's been a while since I've been to a fun gathering like this.
    (“我玩得太开心了。我有一阵子没参加这么有趣的聚会了。”)

N - Nudge (推动)

  • So, what's your story? What do you do for fun when you're not at parties?
    (“那么,你的故事是怎样的?不参加派对时,你平时都做什么消遣?”)
  • How about you? Are you a big foodie?
    (“你呢?你是个美食家吗?”)
  • What kind of music are you into?
    (“你喜欢哪种类型的音乐?”)

时间轴

00:29 本期话题:为什么自我介绍比想象中更复杂?

00:49 场景区分:生活 vs. 职场的自我介绍有何不同

02:02 生活场景 (一): iFAST 之 “I” - 自我相关

03:48 生活场景 (二): iFAST 之 “F” - 框架

04:01 社交框架介绍:O-P-E-N 模型

04:11 乔治的个人故事:在波兰学术会议的电梯偶遇,用 O-P-E-N 模型拆解破冰对话

09:27 生活场景 (三): iFAST 之 “A” - 激活知识

09:55 “万能句式”讲解:如何引入个人故事、表达情感和推动对话

12:40 生活场景 (四 & 五): iFAST 之 “S” & “T” - 支架训练与刻意练习

13:09 如何利用 AI 工具优化稿件并进行模拟对话练习

14:57 职场场景:面试自我介绍的四步法

15:46 对比 O-P-E-N 模型,解析职场框架的底层逻辑

16:11 个人案例:面试字节跳动时的内容选择

17:44 iFAST 模型的真正价值是打造独一无二的个人表达