Money Magic Podcast

Vangile Makwakwa
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Money Magic Podcast

Welcome to the Money Magic Podcast with Vangile Makwakwa, this is the podcast where we talk about trauma and how it affects our finances and our lives. The intention with this podcast is to provide you with weekly episodes that help you understand the importance of healing and help you understand your relationship with money better so you can start making different financial decisions and creating a life you love for yourself and future generations.

  1. 29 ЯНВ.

    Episode 129: Stepping into Financial Sovereignty

    In this week’s episode of the Money Magic podcast episode, Vangile talks about explore the transformative journey of evolving from the Fixer Money Archetype to the Sovereign One.   She delves into the origins of the Fixer archetype and explains how unresolved trauma often manifests as a need to control our environment, particularly within family dynamics.   Vangile explains how the need to control is deeply rooted in trauma responses, including feelings of powerlessness, fear, and a desire to avoid vulnerability. She discusses how control may initially create a sense of safety but can have unintended consequences—from fostering dependency and resentment to reinforcing dysfunctional family patterns. These dynamics can block authentic connection, erode boundaries, and perpetuate cycles of over-responsibility and burnout.   This episode also examines how the Fixer archetype impacts family relationships, preventing others from developing self-reliance and stifling mutual growth.    She also explores the Sovereign archetype as the evolved state of the Fixer. The Sovereign One leads with confidence, trusts themselves and others, sets clear boundaries, and creates relationships built on trust and mutual respect.    This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08] - Introduction to the podcast [05:42] - Introduction to the Fixer Archetype [09:30] - The role of a Fixer in the family [15:50] - The Fixer’s role and life lessons [18:29] - How Fixer’s behave as children [25:45] - The parentified child who is an adult at a young age [31:10] The difference between the Destroyer and Fixer Archetypes [38:37] - How Fixer’s respond to family’s financial problems [43:11] - The Fixer’s feelings of guilt around money  [50:38] - Why it’s essential for a Fixer to heal [57:00] - Healing the God Wound as a Fixer [01:02:28] - How the Sovereign One behaves compared to The Fixer [01:09:35} - The Destroyer - Fixer relationship [01:19:10] - Where to get the “What’s Your Money Personality?” book  [01:20:33] - Coaching services    Notable Quotes   “A strong Fixer archetype can move an entire family from abject poverty to true wealth or financial freedom in a single generation.” “The Fixer is determined to keep the family together even if it means doing so on a shaky foundation.” “Fixers don’t mind spending money on things like shares, investing, buying property, art, if art is an investment. If they have a hobby that’s fun, that hobby is making money for them.” “One of the things a Fixer has to do is heal their God Wound because they have a God complex.” “A true Fixer will work on finding a solution to their income problems and work to make it happen, no matter what.”       Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    1 ч. 31 мин.

  2. 22 ЯНВ.

    Episode 128: Stability and Presence: Moving from Financial Avoidance to Empowerment

    In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the "RunAway archetype" and its transformation into the "Grounded Seeker." Vangile explains the behavioral patterns, core wounds, and healing journey of the RunAway, which involves avoiding uncomfortable financial situations and feelings due to learned trauma responses. The RunAway archetype often manifests through avoidance, escapism, and impulsive spending, leading to cycles of debt and financial instability. The RunAway’s transformation involves acknowledging the need for change, practicing self-awareness, and learning to feel safe in the body. The Grounded Seeker archetype embodies stability, presence, and financial awareness, enabling individuals to build generational wealth and improve family dynamics. Vangile emphasizes how the RunAway thrives by developing routines, coming into their bodies and regulating their nervous system. This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08] - Introduction to the podcast [03:59] - Discussion on the runaway archetype and its transformation [08:15] - Characteristics and behaviors of the RunAway archetype [14:03] - Effects of trauma on the runaway archetype and family dynamics [18:14] - Dissociation and externalizing security [25:10] - Discussion on busyness and financial habits of runaways [29:07] - Differences between runaway and sweet one archetypes in conflict avoidance [33:08] - Short-term solutions and the allure of quick fixes [37:29] - Physical manifestations of trauma and its impact on the body [40:38] - Cycles of debt and financial avoidance [44:35] - Impulsive spending and its consequences [51:50] - Addiction tendencies and family relationships [54:34] - Beginning the healing journey and physical symptoms [57:34] - Importance of somatic work and mind-body connection [01:04:21] - Characteristics of the grounded seeker archetype [01:07:08] - Developing self-trust and financial responsibility [01:10:59] - Key practices for the grounded seeker [01:13:36] - Practicing neutrality with money [01:16:10] - Building financial trust and empowerment [01:18:48] - Closing remarks and reflection prompts [01:25:45] - Information on where to find the book and how to work with Vangile [01:32:46] - Details on one-on-one coaching [01:34:03] - Final comments and participant interaction    Notable Quotes   "The runaway archetype has learned to respond to trauma predominantly by going into the flight response."   "Some of us who are the runaway archetype learn to deal with money by avoiding responsibility." "The runaway's role is to metabolize the unseen and unprocessed trauma in the family." "The grounded seeker's role is to teach every family member to acknowledge their own feelings." "The grounded seeker is all about being in the body and setting boundaries."       Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    1 ч. 37 мин.

  3. 15 ЯНВ.

    Episode 127: Why the ‘Difficult One’ in the Family Holds the Key to Transformation

    In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the Destroyer Archetype which is known for rebellion and bringing family secrets to light, often seen as difficult or an outcast.   The Destroyer archetype is someone who often rebels against family norms and is seen as a "black sheep." Destroyers carry a strong sense of independence, yet this can lead to feelings of isolation.   The Destroyer’s journey is often marked by deep wounds, including feelings of abandonment, rejection, and self-doubt. Growing up in chaotic environments can lead to difficulties managing finances.   Vangile explains that Destroyers, though often misunderstood, play a crucial role in family dynamics. They bring hidden truths and secrets to light, often disrupting the status quo. This role can be painful but ultimately leads to healing and growth within the family.   The Destroyer’s wounds of not belonging can create an overwhelming fear of failure, particularly regarding money. This can result in stagnation, where this archetype remains stuck in unsatisfying financial situations.   In an effort to feel a sense of belonging or acceptance, Destroyers may overcompensate by spending excessively on material goods or experiences.   This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08] - Introduction to the podcast [04:00] - Discussion on the destroyer archetype [08:27] – The Destroyer’s role in the family [17:32] - Challenges faced by destroyers in following traditional financial advice [20:37] - Introduction to the destroyer archetype's characteristics [24:59] - Importance of the destroyer archetype [30:32] - The independence of destroyers and their challenges in adulthood [35:00] - Importance of healthy conflict initiated by destroyers [39:39] - Core wounds of the destroyer archetype and their financial impact [45:41] - Impact of fear of being too much [49:39] - How fear of rejection affects destroyers' finances [54:02] - The healing journey of the destroyer archetype [58:17] - Releasing thoughts and emotions in the body [01:01:16] - Transition from destroyer to renovator archetype [01:02:39] - Explanation of the renovator's role in the family [01:06:57] - How healing affects destroyers' financial behavior [01:11:18] - The Destroyers' financial transformation after healing [01:19:30] - Information on purchasing the book and accessing resources [01:23:47] - Introduction to one-on-one coaching and its benefits [01:33:47] – Closing remarks    Notable Quotes       "The destroyer reveals and may actually display all the hidden toxic behaviour in the family, often in a violent and unpleasant manner."       "The fixer archetype is the strongest energetically in the family. The second strongest is the destroyer."     "Once you understand your archetype and you start to understand your main way of interacting with money, you can start to see when you are being triggered by money.”       "We all have different reasons for not being able to make money."       "For change to happen, you have to have some chaos. You have to have some friction."   “A destroyer that conforms impacts their income because it goes against their soul-patterning around how they are here to make money."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    1 ч. 35 мин.

  4. 9 ЯНВ.

    Episode 126: Pricing, Self-Worth & The Sweet One Archetype: Why Asking for More Money Feels So Hard

    In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa is focuses on understanding the Sweet One Money Archetype. The Sweet One is empathetic and generous, often putting others' needs before their own. While this makes them caring and compassionate people, it can also lead to financial challenges like debt due to overgiving and struggles with setting boundaries.     In this episode Vangile emphasizes the importance of addressing the "not good enough" wound to improve financial behaviour. This involves self-compassion and self-validation instead of seeking external approval.     Vangile also explores the challenges Sweet Ones face in pricing their services and seeking salary increases due to fear of judgment and conflict.   This discomfort with charging often translates to the Sweet One giving their services away for free or undercharging drastically, which, while temporarily preserving relationships, ultimately leads to financial stress.   The Sweet One may even experience guilt for wanting fair compensation (that’s a vow of service), perceiving it as selfish or out of alignment with their identity as a giver.   Vangile also does an EFT Tapping session on pricing and salary anxiety.   This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [05:36] - Discussing the sweet one archetype and financial boundaries [07:08] - Explanation of shadow and golden archetypes [11:17] - Definition of the sweet one archetype [17:08] - The sweet one’s role in family and financial implications [20:06] - Challenges of pricing and asking for salary raises [24:29] - The sweet one's fear of rejection [28:57] - Importance of boundaries for the Sweet One [34:25] - Working through the not good enough wound [40:15] - Misconceptions about pricing and self-worth [44:31] - Aligning financial goals with personal values [53:01] - Transition from sweet one to boundary one [01:04:16] - Making small incremental changes for financial improvement [01:07:28] - Discussion on repressed anger within the sweet one [01:15:34] - EFT tapping session for pricing and salary anxiety [01:20:03] - EFT tapping session for salary concerns [01:43:22] - Working with sweet ones without exploiting them [01:46:05] - Information on where to buy the book and other resources [02:01:07] - Closing remarks and invitation for further engagement    Notable Quotes         "The not good enough wound is a wound that we have because of the fear of criticism."       "The role of the sweet one is to be the glue in the family."       "Anger is one of the top emotions that will block you from receiving money."       "What healing is, is it basically creates space for you to be able to take a breath and a breather before reacting."       "Boundaries are not just for your family. You should also have boundaries with clients and with regards to your finances."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    2 ч. 2 мин.

  5. 1 ЯНВ.

    Episode 125: The Legacy of Oppression: Rewriting Family Money Stories and Healing Parental Wounds

    In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa explores the relationship between money, ancestral trauma, and healing.  This episode focuses on how systemic oppression affects family dynamics and financial behavior, particularly among marginalized groups.     It highlights the effects of colonization, slavery, and apartheid on financial behaviors, leading to a survival mindset that prioritizes immediate needs over long-term planning.     Vangile also discusses the concept of money archetypes and how family dynamics shape them. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's money archetype to understand financial behaviors and develop healthier relationships with money.     She also underscores the need for healing ancestral trauma by understanding how historical and cultural contexts influence financial narratives. It also touches on the psychological effects of oppression and the importance of addressing these issues at a nervous system level.   This is another insightful episode.   Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08]: Introduction to the current episode [05:07]: Discussion on financial behaviors and systemic oppression [06:37]: The impact of systemic oppression on financial advice for women [10:52]: Family dynamics and generational wealth [18:28]: Reflective exercise for listeners on family money memories [22:07]: The role of family money stories and cultural impacts [26:18]: Impact of historical and cultural contexts on money stories [33:53]: The importance of working with personal and systemic factors [36:50]: The impact of societal expectations on personal financial behavior [43:04]: Differences in financial planning between different socioeconomic groups [50:40]: The perpetuation of poverty cycles due to lack of financial resources [56:52]: The impact of single-parent households on ancestral wisdom [59:50]: Research findings on poverty's impact on brain development [01:02:55]: The impact of financial stress on decision-making and self-worth [01:08:43]: Importance of holistic healing in financial trauma [01:16:37]: Recognizing and adapting money archetypes [01:18:07]: Explanation of shadow and golden archetypes [01:19:32]: Book promotion and availability information [01:38:30] : Closing remarks and additional resources offered    Notable Quotes   "A huge part of healing money trauma is also understanding how systemic oppression has impacted our nervous systems so that we can actually heal from that impact as well." "Families under oppression develop a survival mindset. They tend to prioritise immediate needs over long-term planning for many reasons." "Poverty trauma can have a negative impact on children's brain development." "Stress makes it difficult for us to focus on long-term goals and can impact our sense of personal power and self-worth."  "We need to take into account how historical and cultural impacts of systemic oppression impact us."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    1 ч. 40 мин.

  6. 18.12.2024

    Episode 124: Protecting Your Finances in Marriage: Why Women Need to Know the Law Before Saying 'I Do'

    In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa sits down with Tebello Motshwane, an attorney specializing in family law with a focus on marriage. Tebello is also the founder of a platform called Sister-in-law, which is a platform dedicated to empowering women through legal education.   Tebello emphasizes the importance of understanding marriage contracts and financial arrangements before marriage. She highlights the dangers of being married in community of property in South Africa, which can lead to shared liabilities and financial complications, advising instead to consider marriage out of community of property with or without accrual.     She stresses the importance of having an anti-nuptial contract to protect individual financial assets and liabilities.   Tebello also explains that couples should openly discuss finances, including debts, monthly commitments, and financial goals before marrying.   She explains that In South Africa, customary marriages, even without registration at Home Affairs, are legally binding. Proper legal procedures should be followed to dissolve such marriages to avoid future complications.   Tebello also advises being financially and emotionally prepared for the possibility of divorce, highlighting the importance of minimizing litigation costs and being aware of the emotional and financial impacts of transitioning from a dual-income to a single-income household.   This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:19] – Vangile welcomes listeners [03:42] - Introduction to Tebello Motshwane [05:02] – Tebello’s background and mission [07:30] – Tebello explains how she started Sister-in-law [10:21] - Discussion on financial aspects of marriage [14:00] - Questions to ask about finances before marriage [19:05] - Differences between marriage regimes [22:08] - Risks of being married in community of property [27:32] - Cultural perceptions of marriage contracts [33:02] - Legal implications of lobola [37:17] - Legal dissolution of customary marriage [41:06] - Clarification on unregistered customary marriages [43:37] - Deal breakers in marriage discussions [46:36] - Financial preparation for divorce [49:19] - Removing shame from divorce processes [51:07] - Insights on approaching marriage [52:13 – Final words from Tebello Contact Tebello: https://www.instagram.com/sister_in_law_/ https://web.facebook.com/sisterinlawsa sisterinlaw.co.za    Notable Quotes     "It is so important to understand that who you marry is as important as how you get married because that affects your finances." "I want to educate Black women on the importance of understanding how the law exists to serve them." "When you're in a relationship, you should speak about money as often as possible because everything that you do as a couple requires money." "Some of the conversations that couples should be having, first and foremost, is what are your monthly commitments?" "If you're married in community of property, the bank is coming to take the house, they're not going to ask whose name it's in." "When women are financially and legally empowered, it's actually society that benefits as a whole."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    58 мин.

  7. 10.12.2024

    Episode 123: Recognizing Financial Abuse: Breaking Free from Patterns of Control

    In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Brooke Kekos, an expert in helping women heal from abusive relationships, including financial abuse.    Brooke shares her personal journey of enduring abuse from childhood that continued into her adult life, discussing the patterns of control and manipulation she experienced, particularly in financial matters. In this podcast episode Brooke explains financial abuse as a form of control where one partner restricts access to financial resources, making the victim feel powerless. This can involve controlling spending, withholding money, or making financial decisions unilaterally.   She also shares her story of growing up with a controlling father and later entering a similar dynamic in her marriage, highlighting how familiarity with such patterns can trap individuals.   Brooke also discusses her experiences with religious trauma, having been raised in a cult. She details the impact of this on her sense of self and autonomy, drawing parallels to financial and emotional abuse. The conversation emphasizes the importance of reclaiming autonomy, both financially and personally. Brooke talks about reconnecting with one's body and intuition through practices like meditation and yoga to heal from abuse.   Overall, the episode is a deep dive into the complexities of financial abuse and its intersection with other forms of trauma.   This is another insightful podcast. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:    [02:08] – Introduction to Brooke Kekos [04:36] - Brooke shares her personal story and background [08:44] - Brooke talks about the control dynamics in her family and her past relationship [11:33] - Examples of financial control and how it manifests in relationships [12:52] - How financial abuse is identified and the importance of autonomy in financial decisions [18:16] - Identifying happiness in relationships and advocating for oneself financially [21:00] - The value of leaving an abusive situation early for better opportunities in the future [27:26] - The journey from survival to thriving by connecting with the body and intuition [31:13] - The guilt and shame associated with religious trauma, especially around sexuality [36:43] - How disconnection from the body affects decision-making and financial autonomy [39:59] - Meditation and yoga as tools for reconnecting with the body and healing [46:10] - The importance of releasing trauma stored in the body through yoga [50:52] - The importance of curiosity and exploring new belief systems [56:17] - The importance of support and community for healing and achieving goals [01:02:22] – Contact Brooke: Website: https://www.lifecoachinggoddess.com/ https://www.instagram.com/brookekekos https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100075036248909&_rdc=1&_rdr    Notable Quotes           "Our nervous system will choose a familiar situation over something that is not known."       "I think a lot of the times people come into relationships where they have this dynamic because of how patriarchy has happened."       "The brain hates the unknown, the nervous system hates the unknown. It's going to keep us trapped where we're at."       "When we're not connected to the body, I think that we're dissociated from life."       “You get to be curious. Even if it's scary, take that leap. Trust that nudge that says, something doesn't feel good to me." Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    1 ч. 7 мин.

  8. 28.11.2024

    Episode 122: From struggling artist to recognition and fame

    In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Tshepang Ramoba, a musician, artist, and podcast editor.   The conversation delves into Tshepang's journey with money, his experiences as a rock star, and his struggles with financial management. He shares insights into his upbringing, how he learned about money, and the impact of his family's financial habits on his own.   Tshepang discusses how past struggles and trauma affected his ability to manage and hold onto money. He highlights the importance of addressing subconscious beliefs and behaviors related to money.   He also emphasizes the significance of budgeting and how it has helped him manage his finances better, especially in his projects.   The conversation touches on the importance of healing and self-care. Tshepang talks about the role of meditation, tapping, and other healing practices in improving his financial situation and overall well-being.   Tshepang also shares his journey of learning to balance generosity with maintaining boundaries, ensuring that his relationships with others and money are healthy and sustainable.   He discusses the importance of celebrating achievements, which helps to reinforce positive financial behaviors and attract more abundance.   This is another insightful podcast.   Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:     [02:20] - Introduction to Tshepang [05:14] – Tshepang discusses his purpose and work [07:00] -Discussion on music and podcast editing [10:04] – Tshepang’s experience with money and spending habits [14:00] - Life as a musician and financial struggles [21:19] - Band financial issues and resolution [23:22] - Building a relationship with money [27:31] – From struggling artist to recognition [29:04] - Early struggles and perseverance [37:21] - Transition to fame and visibility [44:57] - Impact of trauma on financial habits [51:21] - Discussing money in relationships [56:55] - Budgeting and financial planning [01:02:12] - Paying off debts and financial habits [01:11:58] - Lessons learned about money [01:18:47] - Celebrating financial success safely [01:20:26] - Importance of pleasure and balance [01:23:43] – Contact Tshepang: Website: postpost.co.za Instagram and Facebook: Tshepang Ramoba    Notable Quotes     "I really feel like... I know I've been searching for myself for a long time, so I know that I am sent. I was sent to this world to heal, basically." "When you help people with anything, I feel like that's healing, you know." "I've realized that when you don't have a good relationship with money, just using your money, however your relationships are also like shaky." "Meditation helps me with that. So that's my second lesson, by the way." "The biggest number one shift, the budgeting. Because, even if you have like a little bit of money, and you know that your money is not enough for everything that you have to pay for." "Sometimes when I do something really good, I do something for myself, you know, even if it's a small thing."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

    1 ч. 30 мин.
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Welcome to the Money Magic Podcast with Vangile Makwakwa, this is the podcast where we talk about trauma and how it affects our finances and our lives. The intention with this podcast is to provide you with weekly episodes that help you understand the importance of healing and help you understand your relationship with money better so you can start making different financial decisions and creating a life you love for yourself and future generations.

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    Vangile Makwakwa
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