Money Magic Podcast

Vangile Makwakwa
Money Magic Podcast

Welcome to the Money Magic Podcast with Vangile Makwakwa, this is the podcast where we talk about trauma and how it affects our finances and our lives. The intention with this podcast is to provide you with weekly episodes that help you understand the importance of healing and help you understand your relationship with money better so you can start making different financial decisions and creating a life you love for yourself and future generations.

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    Episode 117: Transforming Your Financial Identity, Embracing Intuition and New Beginnings

    In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile shares a class she did with her clients in the Money Magic group where she talks about the Money Magic course and the power of listening to your own intuition. She delves into the concept of identity transformation and how it relates to financial growth and discusses the importance of aligning one's current identity with the desired future self, using personal experiences to illustrate how identities formed in childhood can impact financial behaviors as adults.  She encourages listeners to actively work on integrating new identities by embracing new habits, mindsets, and even changes in personal style or environment that align with their financial goals. In addition to internal work, Vangile suggests practical exercises such as maintaining a journal to track daily proofs of financial success and personal growth. She highlights the power of recognizing small wins to shift mindsets and reinforce new identities.  She emphasizes the importance of dreaming and planning for the future, using tools like Pinterest to visualize desired lifestyles and environments, ultimately encouraging listeners to creatively and intentionally craft their evolving identities. This is another insightful episode.  Tune in.    During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:10]: Welcoming new Money Magic students [03:53]: Explanation of the course philosophy [08:07]: The power of collective support and sharing emotions [09:26]: Letting go of the need to be perfect [13:17]: Personal journey and mindset shifts [16:04]: Overcoming trauma and shifting identity [19:01]: Personal transformation and identity work [27:09]: Embracing new identities and expanding [31:26]: Practical steps for personal transformation [36:39]: Creating a new identity and vision board integrity [44:59]: Honoring new identities and letting go of old ones [48:22]: Daily practices to affirm new identities. [01:00:00]: Conclusion and invitation to free training.    Notable Quotes  "The important thing is not to get stuck in a particular emotion but to allow every emotion to rise and fall." "The power of the collective is that so many of us are at different points in the group." “It's about slowly allowing ourselves to share our old identities and catch up to the new version of us." "We get to create ourselves."  "We get to choose the version of us that we want to step into, and we get to create her from this point." Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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    Episode 116: Healing Your Heart: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Building Secure Connections

    In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Valerie Rubin, a trauma-informed coach, as a guest to discuss trauma and its impact on relationships and attachment styles.   Valerie introduces herself as a passionate individual dedicated to helping people feel safe in their bodies and heal anxious attachment styles for healthier relationships. She explains that anxious attachment often results from inconsistent emotional support from caregivers during childhood, leading individuals to become hyper-vigilant and people-pleasing in relationships.    Valerie emphasizes the importance of self-soothing and self-care to manage relationship anxiety and build more secure connections.   The conversation delves into the characteristics of anxious attachment, such as chronic anxiety, codependency, and fear of abandonment. Valerie notes that people with anxious attachment lean on external validation and struggle with trust issues. She also explains that these behaviors are symptoms of deeper wounds rather than fixed identities, suggesting that healing is possible through recognizing and integrating these parts.   Valerie elaborates on how these dynamics can lead to patterns like people-pleasing, which can attract emotionally unavailable partners. The discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging one's needs and setting boundaries to foster healthy relationships while addressing the fear of abandonment that often accompanies anxious attachment. Contact Valerie:https://www.instagram.com/healwithval/   This is another insightful episode.  Tune in.    During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08]: Introduction to Valerie Rubin [03:04]: Valerie begins discussing trauma and attachment styles [05:19]: Symptoms of an anxious attachment style [07:05]: How attachment styles are formed in childhood [08:11]: The difference between anxious and avoidant attachment styles [10:01]: How childhood experiences influence attachment styles [13:12]: How attachment styles affect adult relationships [20:12]: Question about managing anxious attachment while dating [25:09]: Valerie provides a meditation exercise for healing abandonment anxiety. [27:43]: Avoidant attachment style and its formation. [37:13]: The link between attachment styles and financial behavior. [45:40]: Healing pelvic floor issues and their connection to attachment styles [47:45]: The connection between pelvic health and receiving [51:48]: Communication in intimate relationships [56:03]: Information on how to connect with Valerie Rubin    Notable Quotes   "If we don't learn how to self-soothe and take care of ourselves and feel safe in our own bodies, then it's going to be harder to maintain relationships and have healthy relationships." "We are wired to seek out what is familiar." "We aren't here to settle. We aren't here for emotionally unavailable hot and cold relationships." "If I don't reject myself, no one else can reject me." "Our mindset doesn't matter. Our nervous system does." "When you're connected to your body, you become unstoppable."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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    Episode 115: The Power of Financial Stewardship: Insights from Marcia Armstrong

    In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile introduces her guest, Marcia Armstrong, a personal finance disruptor from Barbados, who shares her insights and experiences in personal finance. Marcia, worked at City Bank for a decade and recounts her journey from financial instability to becoming debt-free. She explains how she realized the importance of stewardship over money and adopted the snowball method to repay her debt.  Marcia emphasizes the significance of acknowledging one's debt, selecting a repayment strategy, and finding ways to increase income. She also highlights the importance of automating payments and having a support system to stay motivated throughout the debt repayment process. Marcia delves into the emotional and mental shifts required to achieve financial freedom, discussing how she had to confront her money script and the trauma associated with it.  She explains that financial literacy is a lifelong journey that requires daily habits such as checking bank accounts, understanding financial goals, and being intentional with money. She stresses the need for a mindset shift from scarcity to abundance and the importance of serving others to create generational wealth and legacy. In her work with clients, Marcia offers one-on-one coaching, group coaching programs, and a personal finance course. She aims to empower individuals to become financially confident and independent, capable of managing their finances without constant reliance on a coach. Contact Marcia: https://www.facebook.com/apurposelife  https://www.instagram.com/a.purpose.life  https://apurposelife246.com/  This is another insightful episode.  Tune in.    During this episode, you will learn about:   [03:17]: Introduction to Marcia Armstrong. [04:44]: Marcia talks about becoming a personal finance disruptor [06:59]: Marcia's debt-free journey and strategies. [08:23]: How to start paying off debt. [12:47]: Importance of automation and support system. [16:24]: Explanation of the snowball method. [24:25]: Importance of community and personal change during the financial journey. [31:50]: Addressing money trauma to prevent future setbacks. [34:14]: Challenges of limited resources and asking for help. [37:40]: Observations on wealth and scarcity mindset. [44:48]: Maintaining daily financial habits. [52:18]: Embracing the road less traveled and creating legacy. [58:04]: Final thoughts on financial literacy and empowerment. [58:47]: How to connect with Marcia Armstrong.    Notable Quotes   "When it comes to debt, money in itself can make people embarrassed, it can make people ashamed, it can make you feel guilty." "My money can only behave like the person who holds it." "You can have a lot of riches, but be thought poor. Then you are thought poor and have tangible riches." "Financial literacy is a lifelong journey. It is not a one-off something that you learn today and then you just put to decide tomorrow." "If you don't heal from your money trauma, you will reach a particular stage in life and that trauma can take you off your platform." "Because I would have sewed in one place, does not mean I will reap in that same place."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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    Episode 114: Surviving Retrenchment and Rebuilding Stronger

    In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Hlulani Rikhotso, an industrial engineer and Money Magic student.  Hlulani discusses her background and her interest in helping young adults with career coaching. She talks about her realization of the impact of ancestral trauma on financial behavior and how this awareness led her to join the Money Magic course.  Hlulani also shares her initial fears about the intensity of the course but acknowledges how it has helped her understand and heal her financial trauma. She recounts her journey after joining the course, including being retrenched from her job and eventually finding better employment opportunities. She attributes her resilience and success to the inner work and tools provided by the Money Magic course. She also highlights the importance of having a supportive tribe to discuss money and expand financial possibilities. She also shares the benefits of the Money Magic course, emphasizing that the deep, experiential work goes beyond surface-level understanding.  This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08]: Introduction of the guest, Hlulani Rikhotso  [03:31]: Hlulani introduces herself and her work [06:43]: ulani's journey to understanding financial trauma  [09:17]: Hlulani’s experience with being entrenched  [10:34]: Importance of getting up and rebuilding after a fall [11:41]: Hlulani’s understanding of trauma and ancestral trauma [13:42]: Emotional relationship with money before the course [22:13]: Cushioning from the full impact of retrenchment [27:42]: Importance of a tribe in discussing money [29:29]: Impactful lessons: inner child, mother wound, and father wound meditations [36:04]: Importance of deep work and discovering root causes [39:06]: Taking breaks and following intuition [42:49]: Contact Hlulani  [45:59]: Closing remarks and invitation to join the Money Magic course    Notable Quotes   "I am a daughter sister and everything in between." "Money is an energy. It is an exchange. It is a means to help you do things. It is Money is a medium of exchange. It helps you do things"  "Since joining the course and going through the bank account and actually seeing where you spend your money and how you spend your money and then listening to your emotions, I've opened a different savings account." "Currently, I'm keeping a circle that I'm freer with to talk about money." "When you have a tribe that talks about money, that is not afraid of money, you start believing in bigger things because you transition from survival mode."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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    Episode 113: What Happens When You Feel Unsafe With Money

    In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile discusses the concept of feeling unsafe with money and not having money. She explains that people who feel unsafe with money tend to avoid dealing with it, often by procrastinating on tasks like sending invoices or paying bills.  This avoidance behavior stems from a deeper fear and results in financial instability. On the flip side, those who feel unsafe without money tend to hoard it and are afraid to spend, leading to missed opportunities for investment and growth. Vangile emphasizes the importance of achieving a regulated nervous system around money, where one feels calm and neutral regardless of their financial situation.  This regulation allows for better financial decision-making and investment strategies. She also touches on the psychological aspects, such as vows of loyalty and rebellion, which can unconsciously influence financial behavior and create a yo-yo effect in managing money. This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08] : Introduction to the main topic [06:25]: Example and explanation of avoiding money  [10:00]: Hiding from money and practical examples  [11:13]: Freezing in Financial Situations [13:58]: Why we feel unsafe with not having enough money and with having money  [18:06]: Money as a lover [19:32]: Practical impact of fear of spending money [22:34]: Financial regulation and emotional stability  [27:46]: Vows of loyalty and vows of rebellion  [30:00]: Impact of vows on financial behavior [35:17]: Closing remarks    Notable Quotes   "When we feel unsafe with money, we're going to run away from money." "You want to get to a point where you are calm and have a regulated nervous system regardless of how much is in your account." "If your business depends on you being sound of mind and your team is depending on you to keep it together, you need to know how to regulate your nervous system." "Most of us are behaving with money from a point of view of a four-year-old or a 16-year-old." "We all have a different root cause to our debt." Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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    Episode 112: Bishal Sarkar on Becoming His Family’s First Millionaire

    In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Bishal Sarkar, the highest-paid public speaking coach in India.  Bishal discussing how being the first millionaire in his family changed family dynamics and how he plans to pass on healthy financial habits to the next generation.  Bishal shares his inspiring story of rising from a middle-class background to becoming the first millionaire in his family. He discusses the challenges he faced, including bullying and a lack of self-confidence, and how he overcame them.  Bishal emphasizes the importance of changing one's mindset and surroundings, practicing gratitude, and gradually increasing financial aspirations to achieve success. Bishal outlines three key principles that helped him significantly increase his income: money loves speed, money loves to be circulated, and money loves mission.  He also highlights the importance of being mission-led rather than solely money-focused to attract opportunities and achieve financial freedom. Bishal shares a personal anecdote about how a mentor's challenge pushed him to raise his financial goals and achieve greater success. Contact Bishal: https://www.bishalsarkar.com/ https://m.youtube.com/@BishalSarkarTheExcellenceGuy  This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08] - Introduction to Bishal Sarkar  [03:42] - Bishal's background, his upbringing in a middle-class family, and the challenges he faced [09:48] - The importance of speaking and money, and how his mindset about money shifted [14:28] - The importance of gratitude and the impact it had on his life [18:36] - Three major practices that helped Bishal gain confidence and overcome self-doubt [23:06] - Bishal's experience with changing his surroundings and the impact of proximity to successful individuals [28:59] - The three principles that helped Bishal go from earning $40,000 a year to $40,000 a month. [36:29] - How achieving financial success impacted Bishal's family and how he dealt with their reactions [44:29] - Passing on financial wisdom and ensuring it benefits future generations. [56:22] - Contact Bishal    Notable Quotes   "Money loves speed. Money loves to be circulated. Money loves mission."  "If money doesn't come in the hands of good people, it will reach the hands of bad people."  "It's not what you leave for your children, it's what you leave in your children." "Be a millionaire, not for the million of dollars, but be a millionaire for what it will make of you."  "Don't preach about being a great man, be an example of what a great man can be."  "Whenever God wants to give you a gift, he will wrap it up in insult and challenges."    Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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    Episode 111: Breaking the Cycle of Intergenerational Addiction

    In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast Vangile introduces Karen Bernetti, who shares her expertise on dealing with addiction and its impact on family dynamics and financial trauma. Karen's work focuses on helping families affected by addiction through yoga, meditation, and mindfulness. Karen's journey began with Al-Anon, a 12-step fellowship for families of those struggling with alcohol addiction. She explains how living with someone who has an addiction can lead to various psychological issues like anxiety, depression, and codependency.  Karen emphasizes that families often become enablers or try to control the situation, which only exacerbates the problem. To break the cycle, she suggests mindfulness practices and seeking support through groups like Al-Anon. Karen also delves into the financial impact of addiction on families, sharing her personal experience of divorce and the ensuing custody battle.  She describes how addiction can lead to financial instability, legal issues, and increased stress. Her story highlights the importance of addressing financial trauma and finding ways to heal and rebuild one's life after such experiences. To aid in healing, Karen recommends mindfulness practices such as yoga and meditation, which have been transformative in her own life. Contact Karen: https://mindfulfamilyrecovery.com/ https://serenitycircle.co/ This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08] - Introduction to today's guest, Karen Banetti [04:50] - Karen shares her work with addiction and family impact [05:11] - Karen's journey starting with Al-Anon [06:48] - Challenges with her husband's alcoholism [09:41] - Learning about generational alcoholism [11:06] - Discovering yoga and Nikki Myers' Yoga of 12-Step Recovery [13:20] - Psychological implications of living with addiction [17:18] - Long-term effects of living with addiction [20:11] - How addiction changes family dynamics [26:19] - Codependency and enabling behaviors [28:47] - Breaking the cycle of being the controlling one [31:10] - Finding individual paths to healing [34:18] - Financial trauma related to addiction [41:46] - Financial insecurity and money trauma [45:00] - Financial trauma from divorce and co-parenting challenges [50:48] - Personal emotional breakdown and healing journey [55:31] - Three ways mindfulness, yoga, and meditation helped [01:05:19] - Different forms of yoga and personal preferences [01:06:22] - How to reach out to Karen and work with her    Notable Quotes "I'm someone who has been through hell and back in my life, and I'm very passionate about turning my pain into purpose."  "We don't want to talk about addiction because we think addiction is a moral failing." "I travelled a rough road, and I know and I feel called to share what I've experienced so that hopefully people don't make many of the mistakes that I made." "Our mind can only be in two places, in the past or the future. If it's in the past, it's very often depressed."  "The fastest way to come into the present moment is through the body. And the fastest way to come into the body is through the breath." Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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    Episode 110: Teaching the Next Generation: Lessons in Money and Legacy

    In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile sits down with Nolitha Sinaba, a student from the Money Magic course, who shares her journey of financial transformation. Nolitha is a businesswoman managing a pig farm and in this episode she discusses how the course helped her understand the deeper, intergenerational aspects of money and trauma.  She recounts her own struggles with budgeting and debt, and how she came to realize that her financial issues were rooted in more than just numbers—they were deeply tied to family dynamics and ancestral trauma. Nolitha's experience underscores the importance of addressing these underlying issues to achieve financial stability. Nolitha also talks about the importance of teaching her children about money management and generational wealth.  She explains how she started having open conversations with her children about investments, savings, and financial planning, which has helped them become more financially savvy.  Her story highlights the impact of breaking the cycle of financial ignorance and trauma, and the importance of modeling good financial habits for the next generation. This is another insightful episode. Tune in!   During this episode, you will learn about:   [02:08]: Introduction to Nolitha  [03:17]: Nolitha as a soul [07:49]: How can you explain the concept of money to an alien? [10:38]: Starting to work at 22 and learning to budget [14:51]: Not talking about budgets in our networks [18:46]: The shame of not sticking to a budget [24:23]: Expectations when coming into the Money Magic course [26:55]: Talking to children about money [32:08]: Generational curses and generational blessings [35:39]: Nolitha’s experience of the Money Magic course [40:17]: Dealing with self sabotage [44:27]: Buying a farm and becoming a pig farmer  [50:09]: Nolitha’s income ad savings shifts from the Money Magic course [55:03]: Three lessons that shifted things for Nolitha [01:01:09]: Contact Nolitha  Notable Quotes “I'm a student of life. I seek to know deeper truths." “For me, I have an understanding that we are deeper than our Christian identification." "If you do not understand your lineage, you can never understand who you are and where you are going." "I think one of the things that slavery and Apartheid, and probably to some extent, religion did, was to disconnect us to our history." "The pie is big enough for all of us. I cannot have this information and say, I need it to work for me also, but I can help others to achieve even way better than what I've done."   Additional money trauma resources:   One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching  Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic  7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

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Welcome to the Money Magic Podcast with Vangile Makwakwa, this is the podcast where we talk about trauma and how it affects our finances and our lives. The intention with this podcast is to provide you with weekly episodes that help you understand the importance of healing and help you understand your relationship with money better so you can start making different financial decisions and creating a life you love for yourself and future generations.

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