14 min

EP16: The Journey Is Preparation Fearlessly Fertile Podcast

    • Health & Fitness

Learn a new, more empowered way of viewing the twists, turns, disappointments, and pain that show up on your fertility journey. If you apply the principles I teach, you position yourself to say goodbye to victimhood and powerlessness for good!

Transcript:Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.

I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 16.

The journey is preparation. My darling ones, I am delighted to be here with you this week as we discuss a thought that has been a near constant clanging in my mind since I had what I would refer to as the revelation on my fertility journey. That was the moment I realized after years of disappointment and heartbreak that things were happening for me, not to me, on this journey.

In that moment, despite all of the crazy shit my husband and I had been through, I became 100 percent certain our boy was coming. This is when I said to myself for the first time, I may not know when, I may not know how, but I know my baby is coming. Certainty is a holy grail moment on this journey, because it means you are no longer spinning like a hapless victim, quivering in fear that it will never happen.

You know it is going to happen. When you know it is going to happen, you step into your role as a powerhouse leader, and you can start being the woman who isn't leaving without her baby. There may be some of you that doubt this is possible, but, as a woman who lived this journey and has helped women around the world get to that place too, I can assure you, it's not only possible, it's your f*****g birthright.

You just have to step up to the plate and decide you're going to join us. The foundational thought that makes all of what I've just described possible is simple. This journey is preparing me for my role as mother. The good, the bad, and the sometimes ugly. It is all preparing me. This journey is not punishment, it is preparation.

If you're thinking to yourself, Rosanne, this sounds like some make the best of a s****y situation denial lace b******t sandwich. Think again. Whatever you are going through right now, my darling, is preparing you to be the best f*****g mom you could ever be. I remember thinking early on in my fertility journey that I knew it all.

I was ready for this baby. I had my shit together. I was rocking my role as a lead trial attorney in a sexual assault prosecution unit. I was putting sexual predators in prison for life. I was living in a beautiful home, had a super fun car, great friends, my dogs, an eye watering collection of Manolo Blahniks.

I was traveling the world and most importantly I had my husband, the love of my life by my side. I figured that if I had all of that in place and all of the outward trappings of success, I was ready for this kid. No, I wasn't. My hubris had blinded me to the fact that I had a lot to learn. You see, on the other side of that bright and shiny picture I just painted for you about my life at the time would reveal a deeply insecure woman who mastered having it all together on the outside.

But on the inside, deeply questioned whether or not she was even worthy of love. On top of that, I was living trapped in the grip of gnarly perfectionism.

Learn a new, more empowered way of viewing the twists, turns, disappointments, and pain that show up on your fertility journey. If you apply the principles I teach, you position yourself to say goodbye to victimhood and powerlessness for good!

Transcript:Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.

I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 16.

The journey is preparation. My darling ones, I am delighted to be here with you this week as we discuss a thought that has been a near constant clanging in my mind since I had what I would refer to as the revelation on my fertility journey. That was the moment I realized after years of disappointment and heartbreak that things were happening for me, not to me, on this journey.

In that moment, despite all of the crazy shit my husband and I had been through, I became 100 percent certain our boy was coming. This is when I said to myself for the first time, I may not know when, I may not know how, but I know my baby is coming. Certainty is a holy grail moment on this journey, because it means you are no longer spinning like a hapless victim, quivering in fear that it will never happen.

You know it is going to happen. When you know it is going to happen, you step into your role as a powerhouse leader, and you can start being the woman who isn't leaving without her baby. There may be some of you that doubt this is possible, but, as a woman who lived this journey and has helped women around the world get to that place too, I can assure you, it's not only possible, it's your f*****g birthright.

You just have to step up to the plate and decide you're going to join us. The foundational thought that makes all of what I've just described possible is simple. This journey is preparing me for my role as mother. The good, the bad, and the sometimes ugly. It is all preparing me. This journey is not punishment, it is preparation.

If you're thinking to yourself, Rosanne, this sounds like some make the best of a s****y situation denial lace b******t sandwich. Think again. Whatever you are going through right now, my darling, is preparing you to be the best f*****g mom you could ever be. I remember thinking early on in my fertility journey that I knew it all.

I was ready for this baby. I had my shit together. I was rocking my role as a lead trial attorney in a sexual assault prosecution unit. I was putting sexual predators in prison for life. I was living in a beautiful home, had a super fun car, great friends, my dogs, an eye watering collection of Manolo Blahniks.

I was traveling the world and most importantly I had my husband, the love of my life by my side. I figured that if I had all of that in place and all of the outward trappings of success, I was ready for this kid. No, I wasn't. My hubris had blinded me to the fact that I had a lot to learn. You see, on the other side of that bright and shiny picture I just painted for you about my life at the time would reveal a deeply insecure woman who mastered having it all together on the outside.

But on the inside, deeply questioned whether or not she was even worthy of love. On top of that, I was living trapped in the grip of gnarly perfectionism.

14 min

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