Episode 261: The Great Celibacy Challenge - Is It Even Worse Than NFP?

If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com As the Uncharted Catholic Man embarks on a personal quest for self-discovery, he reveals his decision to undertake a two-month period of celibacy, exploring the impact it has on his relationship with his wife. Join us as we discuss the ups and downs of NFP, the struggles of abstinence, and the unexpected benefits of taking a break from physical intimacy. Tune in for a lighthearted yet insightful conversation about love, parenting, and the quest for balance in a busy family life. Will he succeed in his challenge? Find out as they share their experiences and thoughts on relationships, intimacy, and the journey of parenthood. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! Topics Covered: Follow on Twitter for live updates on the journey! https://x.com/CraigOnan/status/1857795947578716463 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Introduction and Family Birthdays 00:01:37 - Funny Birthday Story 00:02:44 - Understanding Women's Psychology 00:03:06 - Quest for Self-Discovery 00:05:20 - Midlife NFP Crisis 00:06:06 - Active Use of NFP 00:07:15 - Challenges of NFP 00:09:12 - Struggles with a Two-Year-Old 00:12:30 - Mental Strain of Abstinence 00:14:40 - Celibacy vs. NFP 00:17:45 - Discussing the Decision with Wife 00:20:47 - Wife's Reaction to Celibacy 00:22:31 - Accountability and Commitment 00:25:44 - Physical and Mental Challenges 00:26:56 - Weird Dreams During Abstinence 00:30:42 - Positive Changes in Relationship 00:32:14 - Importance of Date Nights 00:34:10 - Addressing Relationship Issues 00:37:37 - Concerns About Long-Term Abstinence 00:40:50 - Spiritual and Psychological Aspects 00:42:11 - Future Plans and Predictions 00:45:47 - Reflections on NFP and Relationships 00:50:17 - Public Commitment to Celibacy 00:51:44 - Conclusion and Next Steps Craig Jonah John Farrell Twitter NFP (Natural Family Planning) Marquette method PMAS (Post-Marital Act Syndrome) DMT (Dimethyltryptamine) Christopher West celibacy postpartum Happy Wife School two months date night children marriage intimacy relationship