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The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.

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    • 4.8 • 2K Ratings

The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.

    HOD SELECT: How to Turn Someone Down and Handle Ghosting

    HOD SELECT: How to Turn Someone Down and Handle Ghosting

    Kait talks about ghosting, how to handle it, and why we should not do it.

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    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

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    • 25 min
    HOD Select: What If You Eliminate People Based on Height with Hailey Kenyon

    HOD Select: What If You Eliminate People Based on Height with Hailey Kenyon

    Kait and Hailey talk about the hot topic of eliminating people based on height, their own personal stories, and give a few final takeaways at the end. 

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    . . . . . 

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    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

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    • 40 min
    HOD Select: Casual Dating Tell All with Carrie Lloyd and Kat Harris

    HOD Select: Casual Dating Tell All with Carrie Lloyd and Kat Harris

    Today Kait is joined by Carrie Loyd and Kat Harris to talk about their dating lives, specifically, non-exclusive dating. 

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    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
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    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

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    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

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    • 50 min
    How to Keep Yourself From Falling Too Quick: Patreon Bonus (April 2024)

    How to Keep Yourself From Falling Too Quick: Patreon Bonus (April 2024)

    Listen in for a Q&A about anything from spiritual maturity to who should follow up and when PLUS live blind dates!!

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    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating
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    • 15 min
    HOD SELECT: Dating Multiple People as a Christian

    HOD SELECT: Dating Multiple People as a Christian

    Join Kait and JJ as they talk about the hot topic of dating multiple people as a Christian. Learn who dating multiple people is for, and some top questions.

    Check out this week's sponsor:
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    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 38 min
    HOD SELECT: How to Drop the Hanky

    HOD SELECT: How to Drop the Hanky

    Today Kait is solo telling all the ladies how to drop the hanky with a man you’re interested in. 

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    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 27 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
2K Ratings

2K Ratings

Lambssake ,

An excellent resource for an anxious heart

Heart of Dating is a great collection of necessary conversations to help encourage and prepare single Christians in the realm of dating and relationships. It’s been said before (on this podcast even) that we go to college and get degrees in a field that we might not even end up employed in, but we are not educating ourselves on the topic that the vast majority of people will spend the rest of their lives participating in – romantic partnership. I’m grateful for this podcast and the other resources I’ve discovered through Heart of Dating that are helping me build a good foundation for a future relationship. The Mia Fields episode (225) is an incredible testimony, and I look forward to hearing more like it on this show!

FitnessQueen3678 ,

Good advice- too much JJ

Kait gives good advice for Christian singles. She provides positivity & hope towards godly dating.
I’m not sure why JJ is always on the podcast now that they are married & have a baby. If kait needs time with the baby than make it a biweekly podcast instead of leaving JJ with the mic.

chefjcs ,

Amazing Resource

As a Christian, who has struggled for a long time with dating, and what that looks like as a Christian, this podcast has been really helpful. I first discovered Heart of Dating when I heard Kait and JJ on the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast, and the episode was so touching and insightful and helped me so much. Since then I have been following Heart of Dating and it helps me so much. I don’t listen to all their podcast episodes, but I do follow them on Instagram and they have so much good insight!

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