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The relationship between a mother and daughter is one of the most important relationships a woman will have. Join Precious Detina as she interviews guests and shares personal experiences on navigating difficult mother-daughter relationships and how to be content if there is no relationship at all. If you want to heal the wounds received from having an absent, part-time or neglectful mother and understand the residual effects of being unmothered, this is the podcast for you! LET’S HEAL, FORGIVE AND THRIVE!

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast Precious Detina

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 59 Ratings

The relationship between a mother and daughter is one of the most important relationships a woman will have. Join Precious Detina as she interviews guests and shares personal experiences on navigating difficult mother-daughter relationships and how to be content if there is no relationship at all. If you want to heal the wounds received from having an absent, part-time or neglectful mother and understand the residual effects of being unmothered, this is the podcast for you! LET’S HEAL, FORGIVE AND THRIVE!

    77: Standoffish or Barely Standing?

    77: Standoffish or Barely Standing?

    It’s been over a year since my last episode. I have truly been struggling. In silence. Life has been all over the place and I had no choice but to retreat and get my mind right. While some think that I have been acting funny, being distant, or standoffish, in reality I was barely making it. In this episode, I explain what has been happening with me and what I have learned from it. It’s been a minute but I’m back, baby!

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    • 38 min
    76: The Donda West Effect

    76: The Donda West Effect

    I was motivated to record this episode after watching Jeen-Yuhs on Netflix. I absolutely loved the relationship that Kanye West had with his mother! She was his #1 fan and loudest cheerleader. It was beautiful to watch. I never expected to get online and see people compare Donda to their own mothers and blame their mothers for their failures. Stating they didn’t accomplish their goals because they didn’t have a mother like Donda. They didn’t go to college because their mom was toxic and they blame her. I was extremely disgusted! These were adult women! You don’t have much choice as kids but there is no excuse for an adult to blame another for the way their life turned out. This is why I had to do this episode. I had some stuff to get off my chest.

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    • 28 min
    75: 5 Things to Understand Before Healing From Mama Trauma

    75: 5 Things to Understand Before Healing From Mama Trauma

    I was so motivated to get this message out! It’s healing time!! In this episode, I share 5 pivotal things that I had to grasp and fully understand before I was able to see a real difference in my healing process. Listen, digest, and move accordingly!


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    • 25 min
    74: Parenting From a Place of Trauma feat. Joycelyn Johnson

    74: Parenting From a Place of Trauma feat. Joycelyn Johnson

    In this episode, I interview Joycelyn Johnson, a Clinical Counselor from Ohio. In an effort to help others heal from their trauma, Joycelyn left corporate America and, in her 50's, went back to school and opened True Calling Counseling & Consulting Services, LLC. The mother of 2, now adult boys, she shares the challenges she faced trying to raise them without allowing her childhood traumas to interfere. Spirituality, communication, honesty, and laughter are just a few things she shared with me that helped her parent from a safe place. 
    This interview was like talking to someone I've known for a long time! We laughed and shared jokes, but mostly I listened to the many parenting nuggets Joycelyn dropped. You may want to grab a pen and paper because you will need it!
    Check out Joycelyn's book on Amazon, Decision Making with God in Mind: A process in helping alleviate anxiety and hopelessness.
    Visit Joycelyn's website: True Calling Counseling & Consulting Services, LLC
    Email her at www.johnson.joycelyn67@gmail.com
    We discussed the Feelings Wheel in this episode so Joycelyn provided us with a link to one that she uses.

    Keep up with the Unmothered + Unbothered podcast 
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    • 1 hr 11 min
    73: I Know Ya’ll Been Talking About Me!

    73: I Know Ya’ll Been Talking About Me!

    Hey y’all! What y’all been doing??

    In this episode, I explain the reason for my dry spell and briefly mention what I have in the works for the future of Unmothered + Unbothered!


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    • 10 min
    72: My Mother Was in a Cult pt. 5

    72: My Mother Was in a Cult pt. 5

    This is the last part of the 4-hour interview that I had with Amanda as she told me her story of growing up with a mother in a cult. In episode 71, Amanda describes her mother's final days and shares the things her mother went through during the last few years of her life. In this episode, we discuss the aftermath of growing up with a mother in a cult and why we think the destruction of her mother's soul was more about HER than her mother. 

    I hope you have enjoyed Amanda's story and her transparency. This is a one-of-a-kind account that I am so blessed to have the opportunity to share. I appreciate your patience in getting the episodes released. I have never faced so many issues when it comes to releasing content and I believe that was on purpose. I am a spiritual person and I feel that the attacks on my life happened so that Amanda's story wouldn't get out. But that's just me. 

    Check Amanda out on IG @cambridgestorm

    Amanda also owns a skateboard company out of LA called Westside Mage. Check it out at westsidemage.com



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    • 1 hr 2 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
59 Ratings

59 Ratings

Rain nauvo ;) ,

SIMPLY AMAZING..... SIMPLY THE BEST

If I could give 20 stars I would. She mentioned that she had a podcast and I took it upon myself to listen. However, I wasn’t ready for such mind boggling content. The content is relatable to individuals with a mother and without. If you’re human you need to listen to this podcast. It will test you at times and cause you to relive moments that you subconsciously hide (sometimes of purpose). However, digging/ reliving is all apart of the healing process. If you’re ready to break generational curses and are tired of the trauma.... THIS IS THE PODCAST FOR YOU. I promise you will not regret it ! It gives you an insight into emotions and feelings that you couldn’t describe before you listened. I recommend taking notes and reflecting back on them when you need it. I pray that this podcast finds someone who’s in the healing process and needs reassurance that there are individuals who are going through some of the same things. I pray that God holds you and keeps you throughout your healing process. I promise it will all work out in the end just trust in God. He will always give you the desires of your heart.

RhonnieRhon ,

Great podcast, except for one guest…

I enjoy this podcast overall; however listening to the guest on the My Mother Was In A Cult episodes was excruciating!!! All of the umms scraped my nerves!!!

Tre Woody133 ,

What a Surprise

This content hit closer to home than I thought.

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