Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Ali & Erica
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend & stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    200. The Queer Matchmaking One ft. Dr. Frankie Bashan

    Ali & Erica welcome an OG of queer dating coaching & matchmaking onto the pod this week - Dr. Frankie Bashan! You may know her from the sexually fluid season of Are You The One? or from her company Little Gay Book Matchmaking. Dr. Frankie tells us about the specific challenges her queer clients face compared to other daters (and what parallels she sees!) along with giving advice on approaching dating IRL and coming into your own at a later age. We can’t wait for you to hear our conversation! In Updates, Erica has yet another encounter from her past (what is the universe trying to say??) while Ali recounts her monthly surprise date with Skyline and looks forward to their Paris trip. Where to find Dr. Frankie: On Instagram @drfrankiebashan on TikTok @drfrankiebashan at www.littlegaybook.com. Timestamps: Dr. Frankie joins us at around minute 38. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Rebag: Get 10% off your first purchase with code FMH Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 16m
  2. DEC 9

    199. The Seventeenth Hot Topics One

    Ali & Erica are answering listener questions on the pod this week! But first, we start out with a listener update from a prior Hot Topics episode - remember our distant security guard?? Then, the gals answer 3 new questions. First, what to do if a match’s app profile disappears before your first date? Second, we give advice to a listener who is struggling with getting back onto the apps after a dating hiatus as the only single friend. Lastly, a listener is headed to a wedding where she’ll see an old fling - should she tell her current partner? Don’t forget you can submit questions (and updates!) of your own at findingmrheight.com/podcast! In Updates, Erica has a ~magical~ blast from the past while Ali reveals what she’s getting Skyline for Christmas (and how they decided on gifts!). Skyline, if you’re listening to this, no you’re not. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 22. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    55 min
  3. DEC 2

    198. The First Uncensored One ft. Abigail Jensen

    It’s our first ever public Uncensored episode, featuring Abigail Jensen of the Rat Girls podcast! Abigail was such a popular Patreon Uncensored guest that we had to bring her practical sex and pleasure tips to the main pod. You’ll come away with some amazing tips from this discussion including: navigating mismatched libidos (and why they may not actually be mismatched!), working on initiating sex when it doesn’t feel natural, testing out new things in the bedroom, working through intimacy with body insecurities, and more. In Updates, Ali has a conversation with Skyline that might have been difficult for her in the past while Erica has a very meta first date that takes a turn. Where to find Abigail: On Instagram @vibeslut, on TikTok @abigailjensen_, and on the Rat Girls Podcast. Timestamps: Abigail joins us at around minute 42. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 36m
  4. NOV 25

    197. The Myers Briggs One

    Ali & Erica are breaking down one of their favorite personality tests this week: Myers Briggs! The episode starts with a break down of Myers Briggs as a concept - each aspect of the types and the limitations. The gals then discuss their own (basically opposite, lol) personality types and how they impact relationships, both romantic and otherwise. Plus: What personality type is Skyline?? In Updates, Erica has an IRL encounter with a potential date while Ali recaps her surprise date night with Skyline. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com Cozy Earth: Visit cozyearth.com/FMH and use our exclusive 40% off code FMH to give the gift of luxury this holiday season. Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 10m
  5. NOV 18

    196. The Flirting One ft. Benjamin Camras

    It feels like flirting just comes naturally to some people, but is it possible to learn to be a better flirt? Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, says yes! He’s taking us through his best flirting tips this week, all the way from approaching a stranger at a party to keeping the flirt going in a long-term relationship. You’ll come out of the episode with concrete tips designed to get you out there and flirting! In Updates, Erica is back in LA and reflecting on how life has blossomed in her new city. Meanwhile, Ali returns from a weekend away with her friends where she was part of a couple for the first time ever. Where to find Benjamin: On Instagram @benjamincamras, on TikTok @benjamincamras, & on the Flirtations Podcast.  Timestamps: Benjamin joins us at around minute 33. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Cozy Earth: Visit cozyearth.com/FMH and use our exclusive 40% off code FMH to give the gift of luxury this holiday season. Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com. Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 17m
  6. NOV 11

    195. The Facebook Groups One

    We’ve heard more and more in the dating space about Facebook groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy lately - so we sent a survey out to our listeners asking your thoughts. On this week’s episode, we discuss all sides of these groups, including their original intent, what they’ve become, and how they seem to be impacting our view of dating. In Updates, Erica recounts how dating burnout seems similar across the world and prepares to bring her apps back stateside. Meanwhile, Ali reflects on lessons from last week’s episode as it relates to “sitting comfortably in” her relationship with Skyline. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 42. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com. Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 7m
  7. NOV 4

    194. The Jewish Matchmaker One ft. Aleeza Ben-Shalom

    Jewish Matchmaking remains one of Erica and Ali’s favorite dating shows, and this week we welcome its host: Aleeza Ben-Shalom! We get into her viral dating philosophies including no touching for five dates and “date them until you hate them,” plus her thoughts on what qualities make a good match. In Updates, Ali debriefs a Halloween night that was very out of her comfort zone while Erica discovers that dating app tropes span multiple continents. Where to find Aleeza: On Instagram @aleezabenshalom, on TikTok @aleezabenshalom, at www.marriagemindedmentor.com. Pre-order Aleeza's book "Matchmaker Matchmaker": https://marriagemindedmentor.com/book/ Timestamps: Aleeza joins us at around minute 42. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Cozy Earth: Visit cozyearth.com/FMH and use our exclusive 40% off code FMH to give the gift of luxury this holiday season. Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com. Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 40m
  8. OCT 28

    193. The Nobody Wants This One

    Did you binge Nobody Wants This on Netflix as quickly as we did? Ali & Erica are diving into the show that took over our social media feeds (and for good reason) and how it relates to real-life dating. For Ali, the early days of the characters’ relationship hits very close to home and both gals contemplate how they’d react to some of the scenarios if they happened IRL. In Updates, Erica spends time with her Italian family & learns more about dating/relationships in their culture. Ali is fresh off her 6-month anniversary trip with Skyline, which was magical while also including a frustrating moment or two… Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 46. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Check out Gobble and use our code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Check out Uncommon Goods and use our code FMH for a great deal: www.uncommongoods.com Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Gobble and use my code HEIGHT for a great deal: gobble.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 24m
4.4
out of 5
475 Ratings

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From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend & stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!

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