Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Ali & Erica
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend & stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    209. The Thirteenth Grab Bag One

    We had so many grab bag questions from you that we’re back to answer more this week! Tune in for our thoughts on: choosing bridesmaids & navigating friends’ feelings about it, texting with someone who canceled a first date, feeling anxious when you haven’t heard from someone you’re dating, admitting romantic feelings for a friend, deciding whether to pay for dating apps, and navigating your partner’s friendship with an ex. In Updates, Erica sees The Roommate twice (!!) before she leaves for the east coast. Ali celebrates a major accomplishment with Mama J. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 32. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20. Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Arya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 4m
  2. FEB 10

    208. Storytime: Dating After Divorce

    TW: Mention of verbal abuse & body shaming. We’re joined by an FMH listener this week for a Storytime about his journey through a bad marriage and into the dating journey that followed his divorce. He takes us through all the lessons he’s learned along the way (and some intense stories) as he worked on himself to lead to his current, healthy partnership (and new baby!). In Updates, Erica recaps her long-awaited first date with The Roommate and reflects on how her upcoming travel could impact their connection. Ali is excited to have Skyline on the Patreon for the first time, but is dealing with some medical issues. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Justin joins us at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Bellesa: FREE TOYS OR GIFT CARDS FOR TOYS! Everyone who signs up to our giveaway with Bellesa wins something! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/findingmrheight-podcast Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 16m
  3. FEB 3

    207. The How To Be Dateable One ft. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu

    This week we are joined by Julie & Yue, cohosts of the amazing Dateable podcast and authors of the new book, ‘How To Be Dateable!’ Julie & Yue have drawn on their deep dating histories to develop the advice in their book (and their podcast). And it turns out our two duos have something in common: we’re both Dreamer/Maverick cohost teams! Ali, Erica, Julie, & Yue dive into how these archetypes have shaped their dating journeys and give advice on how listeners can make their type work for them (plus what pitfalls to look out for). But first, Ali & Erica discuss the upcoming Valentine’s Day holiday and how they’ve approached it in the past. Plus, Ali recaps her January surprise date with Skyline and Erica looks forward to her first date with The Roommate. Where to find Julie & Yue: On the Dateable podcast and on Instagram @dateablepodcast. Order their book, How To Be Datable for more from this episode! Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Julie & Yue joins us at around minute 24. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20. Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Arya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 21m
  4. JAN 27

    206. The Twelfth Grab Bag One

    Ali & Erica are answering your rapid-fire questions in another grab bag episode! Including: filtering out ghosters, dating in other cities besides your own, handling breakups, and managing expectations for a second date. In Updates, Ali is back from her travels and recounts some special & emotional memories from introducing Skyline to her San Diego people. Erica looks forward to the roommate date when she returns to LA. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 46. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Arya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 13m
  5. JAN 20

    205. The Second AITA One

    Erica & Ali have a major podcast update at the top of the episode. It’s an emotional one, and we thank you all for being here for it. We then transition to a lighter topic, discussing several Am I The Asshole situations from Reddit. First, a woman disagrees with her mother in law on who should pay for a broken phone. Then, a husband has issues with her sister in law’s new partner (and they how they got together). And lastly, a woman wonders if she went too far when she told her boyfriend he was being arrogant. Don’t forget we’d love to meet you live in NYC on Saturday, February 22nd! Tickets at findingmrheight.com/live. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 28. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com/FMH and use code FMH20. Arya: Make every date night Valentine’s Day with Arya by your side. VISIT ARYA.FYI AND USE CODE FINDING for 15% off today! Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    58 min
  6. JAN 13

    204. The Conflict Styles One

    We’ve all been in conflict before, but have you ever thought about how your conflict style affects the outcome? And how that style might shift over time and in various situations? This week, Ali & Erica dive into five conflict styles: Competing, Accommodating, Avoiding, Collaborating, and Compromising. Is any one better than the others? Or are some styles more effective than we might think depending on the scenario? We also dive into our own conflict styles and how we’ve experienced them in past relationships. Let us know what parts of this discussion you’d like us to dive into further! In Updates, Erica has a series of frustrating exchanges with the NYE guy but looks forward to returning home for a date. Ali recounts her gift exchange with Skyline as they prepare to leave for Mexico. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 25. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 7m
  7. JAN 6

    203. The Men’s Dating Coach One ft. Blaine Anderson

    If you’ve ever wondered what men are thinking as they’re out there dating, Ali & Erica have got your back: this week, we chat with Blaine Anderson, who exclusively coaches men on their dating journey! Blaine gives insight into what her clients struggle with most, what makes them seek out her coaching, how to make it more likely that a man will approach you IRL, and more. Plus, she gives a plug for giving “nice guys” more of a shot - attraction can grow, y’all! In Updates, the gals are fresh off of New Year's Eve: find out which plans Erica decided to do and how Ali’s hosting went. Plus, Ali shares highlights from her Paris trip with Skyline! Where to find Blaine: On Instagram @datingbyblaine, on TikTok @datingbyblaine, at www.datingbyblaine.com. Timestamps: Blaine joins us at around minute 27. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Life Straw: Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Rebag: Get 10% off your first purchase with code FMH Factor: Head to factormeals.com/50FMH and use code 50FMH to get 50% off. Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 13m
  8. 12/30/2024

    202. The Best Of 2024 One

    It’s our last episode of 2024 and we’ve got a roundup of the year coming at you! We polled our audience for your best superlative categories plus added in a few of our own. Tune in as we discuss our best/worst dates (and kisses) of the year, best new movie, pop culture moment, place to meet people IRL…and more! PS apologies for the occasional ticking sound when Erica is talking in the topic section - we had some audio issues that should be resolved now! In Updates, Erica has a bit of a NYE dilemma coming out of a great first date while Ali makes a new connection on Christmas Eve. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 28. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to ask a question, submit a Storytime idea, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Acorns: Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH Factor: Head to factormeals.com/50FMH and use code 50FMH to get 50% off. Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Rebag: Get 10% off your first purchase with code FMH Our Sponsors: * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out Acorns: https://acorns.com/FMH * Check out LifeStraw and use my code FMH for a great deal: https://lifestraw.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 15m
4.4
out of 5
479 Ratings

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From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend & stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!

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