Fresh Take: Jessica Calarco on Women as America's Social Safety Net

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During the pandemic, most moms hit a breaking point. All of the increased labor of childcare, at-home teaching, and caregiving seemed to land mostly, or only, on their plates. It was a clarifying moment for many of us that things simply could not continue as they were going—and that perhaps they had been going that way for a long time.

Jessica Calarco is a Professor of Sociology at the University of Wisconsin and the author of the new book HOLDING IT TOGETHER: How Women Became America's Safety Net. In this interview, discusses the forces that place the burden of childcare and domestic labor on women.

Jessica, Amy, and Margaret discuss:

  • how societal expectations around motherhood have always pointed toward a lack of choices
  • how "mom guilt" is weaponized to ensure women keep doing more than their share
  • what Jessica calls "DIY society," and why it's a myth

Here's where you can find Jessica:

  • https://www.jessicacalarco.com
  • @JessicaCalarco on X
  • Buy HOLDING IT TOGETHER: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593538128

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