20 episodes

A weekly convo with two women of a particular age that many of you have referred to as "friend in my head" for years. We'll give you advice as only Drea & Jia can deliver it...a little sass and a side-eye or two, but always honest.
Join us every Friday for your weekly cackles with your favorite cool aunties!

Friend in my Head Friend in my Head

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 196 Ratings

A weekly convo with two women of a particular age that many of you have referred to as "friend in my head" for years. We'll give you advice as only Drea & Jia can deliver it...a little sass and a side-eye or two, but always honest.
Join us every Friday for your weekly cackles with your favorite cool aunties!

    The Roster Gon' Prosper

    The Roster Gon' Prosper

    Happy #FIMHFriday, yall!
    2020  is filled with a lot of things, but one thing it’s never short of is  audacity. Grown men are asking for money outchea, ladies &  gentlemen. Be careful!
    On this week’s episode, Drea is trying her BEST to bring back the word  “scrubs,” while Jia gives a mini tutorial on using “cups” to help niggas  run red lights. Don’t worry; you’ll get it when you listen! The ladies  are also talking about their favorite reality TV show filled with musty  matrimony.
    No need to thank us for the variety!
    We’re  also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us;  show us.  Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your  friends and f*****y Pharaohs that we’re a good time.
    Got  a confession that you’d like us to read on air? 100% anonymity is  guaranteed (just make sure you keep it legal so we’re not implicated in  some b******t). Submit to ask.fm/fimhpod9191
    Don’t  forget to follow us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) |  @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

    • 1 hr 51 min
    James, B*tch! James!

    James, B*tch! James!

    Happy #FIMHFriday, yall!

    Three words: Black women DESERVE.

    This  week, Drea & Jia are discussing marrying up and why it seems that  every other race is “allowed” to while Black women are expected to be  humble and get it out the mud.

    The audacity of having standards!

    And  Ernest, if you’re listening with balled fists, ask yourself why  marrying “you” would be considered a downgrade and work on yourself  instead of worrying about what women (who are far out of your league  anyway) are asking for. 2020 has been a trash year for everyone, but  it’s no excuse for you to continue a life of payment arrangements and  service disconnects.

    We’re  also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us;  show us.  Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your  friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time.

    Got  a confession that you’d like us to read on air? 100% anonymity is  guaranteed (just make sure you keep it legal so we’re not implicated in  some b******t). Submit to ask.fm/fimhpod9191

    Don’t  forget to follow us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) |  @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

    • 1 hr 50 min
    Process That Sh*t as a "Nah"

    Process That Sh*t as a "Nah"

    Happy #FIMHFriday, yall!

    On this week’s episode of your favorite podcast, Drea & Jia discuss  the pitfalls of f****n’ with the Pharoahs (of f**k boys), how to best  define your “situationship,” and why discussing intent ain’t a bad  thing.

    Drea is still perfecting her “left cheek, right cheek” action and  Jia…well, she’s waiting for the right opportunity for someone to try it  so that she can fight.

    We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you  love us; show us.  Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of  your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time.

    Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

    • 1 hr 33 min
    Pero, Pero, Pero

    Pero, Pero, Pero

    Happy Friday, y'all!

    As promised, Drea & Jia are BACK with another dose of the good stuff you can’t get rid of (and don’t want to)!

    This week, your favorite aunties are perfecting their “left cheek, right  cheek” moments for OnlyFans, breaking down the differences between  being private versus secretive relationships, standing DOWN for Cardi  B’s decision making skills, and doing a lil’ praise dance because we’re one of maybe 5 women in America who haven’t let Future go raw (but apparently he makes the f******s panties go HAM, so expect some miraculous births next year).

    We’re also on some show and prove shit, okay? Don’t just tell us you love us; show us.  Make sure you share, rate, and review! Tell all of your friends and fuckboy Pharaohs that we’re a good time.

    Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

    • 1 hr 27 min
    New'ish N*ggas

    New'ish N*ggas

    Bet you didn’t expect to see this sh*t coming…..

    Your favorite aunties are back and 100% ready to remind our cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends that:


    life is always unequivocally better with us in it
    there’s always that one (or in this case, those two) auntie you bet’ not EVER put on speaker phone and
    niggas still ain’t shit

    Don’t  be selfish; share the love for FIMH with your friends and family (and  even that “Ernest” you keep dealing with who claims his mama lives with  him and not the other way around. You probably let that him run the gas  out of your car too. No worries; your aunties are here to save the day).

    Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast!

    Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB) | friendinmyhead (no spaces, Youtube)

    • 1 hr 46 min
    Melodies in the Key of Uncle Tom

    Melodies in the Key of Uncle Tom

     Welcome to the land of wine & congestion…where our days are ending with a lil’ taste of spirit and a whole lotta allergy medicine (bars)!

    On this week’s episode, Drea shares her quirky celebrity crush, while Jia chooses to make it last with a man who doesn’t meet the height requirement for roller coaster rides. And in the spirit of all things love (cuz you know…Drea’s the love zapped sap), the ladies explore backup boyfriend possibilities, the importance of sending out red alerts to your homegirls when they’re about to take a nose dive into Smallville, and whether or not love REALLY is for everybody (and no…battery operated boyfriends do NOT count).

    Oh, and of course there’s a rush to knock the rupees out of Daniel Caesar. It’ll all make sense when you listen.

    Make sure you share, rate, and review the podcast!

    Add us on social media @fimhpod (IG & Twitter) | @friendinmyhead (FB)

    • 2 hr 8 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
196 Ratings

196 Ratings

ShayDeeDame ,

My FAVORITE duo!

I’m so glad you guys are back. You were missed, thanks for making things a little easy for us these day!

Mommyplusus ,

So Glad!

I’m so glad you are back! Missed your podcast so much!

BlkHeadDoc ,

Love Y’all!!!!

Trillificent introduced me to these ladies during his guest appearance. HIGH COMEDY! They keep real, raw, and off the chain. Thin-skinned brothas need not listen.

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