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Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens.  Find her online at @katecbowler.

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    • Society & Culture
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Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens.  Find her online at @katecbowler.

Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media https://lemonadamedia.com/

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    Emma Gannon: The Butterfly Era

    Emma Gannon: The Butterfly Era

    So much of modern culture emphasizes success, hard work, and ambition. But what if we don’t conquer every problem or reach every mountaintop? How do you live with the hunger for more while letting yourself have limits and be tired and say no and shut it down too?

    In this conversation, Kate and Emma Gannon discuss:


    Why ambition isn’t necessarily a bad thing
    How Emma reacted to a season of severe burnout and what wisdom she has for all of us
    How bucket lists can inadvertently place us in a game we are never going to win (Psst… It’s okay to simmer down a bit) 

     


    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here or visiting katebowler.com/podcasts.

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    • 44 min
    Maggie Jackson: The Wisdom of Uncertainty

    Maggie Jackson: The Wisdom of Uncertainty

    These are uncertain times for so many of us. 

    But, according to writer Maggie Jackson, perhaps there is deep wisdom to be uncovered too—surprising gifts of curiosity, creative thinking, open-mindedness, and ways forward through the (often) unpredictabilities of life. 

    In this conversation, Kate and Maggie Discuss:


    How uncertainty might foster creativity, resilience, and mutual understanding
    Why we avoid ambiguity and a few small steps to help us become more comfortable with not knowing
    How the practices of imagination and perspective-taking can help us see the potential in others
    Why focusing on outcomes can close you off from picking up new information, nuance, or other peoples' perspectives
    Why experiences contrary to our beliefs take longer, sometimes even weeks, to process

     


    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here or visiting katebowler.com/podcasts.

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    • 39 min
    For Feeling Wonder Again

    For Feeling Wonder Again

    In moments of dull despair, I pray for wonder. There’s a delightful quote by Diane Ackerman that reads: “Wonder is the heaviest element on the periodic table. Even a tiny fleck of it stops time.” So instead of trying to reach for some of the biggest positive emotions—Happiness! Joy!—let’s try to get at truth a little sideways by praying for a little fleck of wonder.

    Alan Alda: Stay Curious

    Alan Alda: Stay Curious

    We don’t usually have repeat guests on this podcast… except we’re making an exception for the wonderful and wise Alan Alda. Alan Alda, of course, is an award-winning actor, writer, director, and podcast host. You probably know and love him as Hawkeye on M*A*S*H or Senator Arnie Vinick on The West Wing. He is endlessly curious on just about every topic—which makes him the perfect person to talk to about empathy, learning across differences (and disagreement), and how we might age into new hobbies and careers. 

    In this conversation, Alan and Kate discuss: 


     Tricks for staying curious as we age
    How to talk to someone you disagree with
    How Alan hopes to destigmatize Parkinson’s Disease
    The difference between empathy and compassion and how to practice these important skills

     


    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.

    Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
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    • 52 min
    Richard Grant: Finding a Pocket of Happiness

    Richard Grant: Finding a Pocket of Happiness

    When we are in deep grief, we can anticipate some of the horrible parts—the sleeplessness, the denial, the loneliness. But what about the moments of surprising lightness and joy? Moments that don’t erase the pain, but make it a bit more bearable. Academy Award-nominated actor Richard E. Grant practices finding these pockets of happiness while grieving his beloved wife. 

    In this conversation, Kate and Richard talk about: 


    the gritty side of caregiving
    how to support people in grief (even when it makes you uncomfortable)
    the importance of knowing and being known

     


    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.

    Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
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    • 43 min
    Savannah Guthrie: Mostly What God Does

    Savannah Guthrie: Mostly What God Does

    How do you have faith that can hold all of reality—the beautiful, the terrible, and everything in-between? The TODAY Show’s Savannah Guthrie thinks carefully about this question, especially given that her job is reporting the news every morning. 

    In this conversation, Kate and Savannah discuss:


    Savannah’s trick for handling difficult news every day
    How to adjust the dial on fear and hope when there is so much to be afraid of
    Making sense of the wisdom we can learn in the midst of difficult times—without saying ‘everything happens for a reason’ (because we would never do that to you)
    How we hope to be transformed by God’s love


    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.

    Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
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    • 35 min

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