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Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens.  Find her online at @katecbowler.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.8 • 4.2K Ratings

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Are you living your best life now? Not always? This is a podcast for you. Duke Professor Kate Bowler is an expert in the stories we tell about success and failure, suffering and happiness. She had Stage IV cancer. Then she didn’t. And since then, all she wants to do is talk to funny and wise people about how to live with the knowledge that, well, everything happens.  Find her online at @katecbowler.

Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media https://lemonadamedia.com/

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    Listen Again: Bryan Stevenson

    Listen Again: Bryan Stevenson

    Today, we are re-airing one of our favorite episodes.  

     

    Bryan Stevenson (founder of the Equal Justice Initiative) is committed to ending mass incarceration and excessive punishment, to challenging racial and economic injustice, and to protecting basic human rights for the most vulnerable among us.

    In this episode, Kate and Bryan discuss: 


    The hope that motivates Bryan in this slow, sometimes frustrating work of justice
    What it means to be a ‘stonecatcher’ (and why it serves both the one being condemned and the one doing the condemning)
    The power of forgiveness, maybe especially toward those who don’t deserve it 

    CW: discussion of slavery, lynching, and other racist violence, death row

    Looking for the transcript or show notes? Click here.

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    • 1 hr 1 min
    Bless this Beautiful, Limited Day

    Bless this Beautiful, Limited Day

    I am in the habit of blessing, which is different than our culture’s desire to use #blessed: “Everything is wonderful. Isn't that sunrise fantastic?!”

    But what if we say that this can be hard and true and perhaps beautiful, maybe all at the same time? This is a blessing for our limited, beautiful, unfinished lives.

    Katherine May: Becoming Enchanted

    Katherine May: Becoming Enchanted

    Living in uncertainty can lead to a sense of languishing. How do we wake up from this feeling?

    Katherine May has written gorgeous books like Wintering and Enchantment that help us better understand how to live wide-awake to the world around us. 

    In this conversation, Kate and Katherine discuss: 


    How we move from languishing to enchantment
    Why we need community more now than maybe ever
    Why we both hate gratitude journals

     

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    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.

    Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
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    • 51 min
    Bozoma Saint John: Everything Can Be True at Once

    Bozoma Saint John: Everything Can Be True at Once

    Bozoma Saint John is a successful marketing executive, but she is also a woman who knows the rollercoaster of profound love and deep loss. She shares her hard-won wisdom and complicated grief as she faced her husband’s terminal cancer diagnosis. 

    In this conversation, Kate and Bozoma: 


    Give us permission to tell the whole truth (even when it isn’t a neat)
    Speak honestly about the complicated realities of caregiving 
    Discuss how our roles change within families from daughter to parent or spouse to caregiver
    Describe anticipatory grief 

    CW: adult language, death of a child during pregnancy, death of a spouse

     

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    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.

    Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 53 min
    Anna Sale: Hard Topics, Softer Conversations

    Anna Sale: Hard Topics, Softer Conversations

    In this conversation, Kate and Anna discuss:


    How conversations might engender the intimacy we need to get by
    Fostering the right interpersonal and listening skills it takes to approach a difficult topic (especially when you’re feeling nervous)
    Best practices for responding to someone’s hard news
    How learning to listen might bridge differences of all kinds

    What do we lose when we don’t talk about hard things? And what might we gain if we do?

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    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.

    Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 47 min
    Iliza Shlesinger: Laughter is the Best Medicine

    Iliza Shlesinger: Laughter is the Best Medicine

    Comedian Iliza Shlesinger is refreshingly candid, especially about things many women can relate to, like the sheer exhaustion that comes from juggling life's demands (dare we say, it's like a badge of honor?), pregnancy loss—a topic that often remains in the shadows, and how our accounts of self-care really go off the rails when bubble baths become the solution to all of life’s problems. 

    In this conversation, Kate and Iliza address: 


    A plan to make laughter a national healthcare plan (just kidding)
    How comedy connects us with one another
    Redefining self-care into something a little more practical

    This conversation is brought to you by Aspen Ideas: Health and was recorded on location in Aspen, CO.

    CW: miscarriage

     

    Everything Happens is brought to you by Cologuard®. Are you 45 or older? Start screening for colon cancer with Cologuard, an effective and noninvasive screening option for adults 45 and older at average risk for colon cancer. Rx only. Learn more at Cologuard.com/everything

     


    Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here.

    Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler.
    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 27 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
4.2K Ratings

4.2K Ratings

Kasuma724 ,

I love this podcast

I find myself watching for each episode to drop because the conversations Kate has with people scratch an itch in my soul that little else does. I’m so tired of “plastic faith” where everything is shiny and perfect. Kate and friends get into the muck of every day reality, not flinching from the hard things, but always with a hope.

I’m giving her books to more than one person this year.

Bigmomgirl ,

Food for my soul

This podcast is like a warm cup of tea and a cookie on a dreary day. It is like a down vest with pockets when the weather turns chill or a favorite piece of music that lifts your head and your heart. It is often a gentle candle of cheer glowing when the day seems dark. It is deep, rich and wise. Kate’s words and her conversations with her guests bring warmth to my heart and food for my soul. Thank you Kate for sharing your thoughts, your life, your humor and your voice with the world! Your laugh always makes me laugh! Such a gift!

kcougs ,

One of the best of the year 😊

I stumbled upon Kate’s recent episode with David Brooks, and I have to say: that episode is one of the best podcast episodes I’ve heard this year. Maybe the best. Beautiful, beautiful conversation. And Kate’s blessing at the end… no words. I will come back to this episode often (I already have LOL!), and will keep following this podcast. What a gift…

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