Give It To Me Strait

Tim Oh, Benedict Tan
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Give It To Me Strait

Welcome to "Give It To Me Strait," the podcast where nuanced views and candid conversations come together. We are just two Singaporeans who met 17 years ago in the army and through shared heartaches in recent years has rekindled our friendship over time. In this podcast, we discuss love, life, and everything in between, addressing even the toughest topics with a dash of humor. Join us as we share stories, laugh, and explore the many facets of life that connect us all.

Episodes

  1. Episode Eight - How Hobbies Can Transform Your Life

    JUN 19

    Episode Eight - How Hobbies Can Transform Your Life

    In the heartfelt finale of "Give It To Me Strait," we explore how hobbies can transform your life. From simple activities like walking to luxury pursuits like collecting watches and sneakers, discover the profound impact hobbies have on mental health, purpose, and identity. Join us as Ben shares his journey as a sneakerhead, turning a $200 investment into a $2000 per pair collection with over 200 pairs! Learn how his passion shaped his personal brand as a financial consultant. And find out what quirky item Tim 'collects' – you'll have to tune in to find out! This podcast itself was born from a shared hobby, and now, eight episodes later, we celebrate the power of starting small and pursuing what you love. Don't miss the final episode of "Give It To Me Strait!" Tune in and get inspired to find or rediscover your own hobby.

    38 min

  2. JUN 12

    Episode Seven: Our Army Gays are Over

    Fall In! National Service Chronicles Get ready to LOL as we dive into the wild world of National Service, the mandatory rite of passage for every Singaporean man—gay, straight, or bi. In this episode, our dynamic duo, who first bonded in the army, take you on a rollercoaster ride through their National Service days 17 years ago. Relive the laughs, the challenges, and the unforgettable moments that made their journey so memorable. Ever wondered what it's like being gay in the army? Is it a different experience? We've got the juicy details! We're answering the burning questions: Should you come out when you enlist? Did Tim spill the tea? Why do some people decide to be upfront? This episode is packed with hilarious stories, candid confessions, and a unique peek into the bonds that unite all Singaporean men. Don’t miss out—it’s a laugh riot you won't forget!

    35 min
  3. Episode Six: Proud to be gay? (Pride Month Special)

    JUN 5

    Episode Six: Proud to be gay? (Pride Month Special)

    Pride isn't just about parties - it's a fight for equality. In this episode, we’ll explore what pride means in 2024. Let’s consider that there are still many countries where being gay is illegal and even fatal, meanwhile other countries are legalising gay marriage and repealing archaic laws like Singapore’s 377a. Tim, despite not getting involved in Pride parties, will share why Pride remains incredibly important to him. We’ll also ask the question is corporate Pride just "rainbow capitalism"? And the ultimate question: should Pride even exist in a world where everyone is truly equal? Join us and get involved in this important conversation that celebrates progress while looking towards a future where Pride might not be necessary.

    36 min

  4. MAY 29

    Episode Five: The Ultimate Lingo Showdown!

    Pride Month is just around the corner, and we're celebrating with our first-ever "Give It To Me Strait Quiz Off: Lingo Edition!" In this special episode, our producer Stuart Crowley takes on the role of quiz master, putting Ben and Tim to the test with lingo from both straight and gay communities. Will Ben spill the "tea"? Will Tim throw some "shade"? These words, now beloved by Gen Z, have become part of pop culture, thanks to the influence of LGBTQ+ representation on TV shows like the Emmy-winning RuPaul's Drag Race. Tune in for a side-splitting episode as our hosts navigate the hilarious world of community-specific slang and discover who really knows their lingo!

    43 min
  5. Episode Four: Spot the office 'Ah Gua'

    MAY 22

    Episode Four: Spot the office 'Ah Gua'

    In this episode, we chat about the delicate topic of being gay at work. We'll share tips on how to have respectful and supportive conversations with gay colleagues, including what questions to ask and which to avoid. Is it tough being gay and navigating the workplace? Should you come out to your colleagues right away, or take your time? Will people judge your lifestyle? We'll discuss these questions and more. Plus, we'll talk about why diversity hire policies matter. As Tim said, people often hire others who are like them. Do you agree? Join us for a friendly and insightful discussion on making work a more inclusive and supportive place for everyone.

    36 min

  6. MAY 15

    Episode Three: Plenty of (Cat)fish in the Sea?

    Is dating truly challenging in Singapore today? In an era where numerous options are just a swipe away, one might wonder whether the convenience of dating apps makes it easier or harder to forge meaningful connections. Are spontaneous, romantic "meet cutes" at places like the gym or train station still a reality, or have digital devices doomed these serendipitous encounters? For straight men in Singapore, societal expectations often dictate a certain "timeline" for relationships. But what about gay men? Does the absence of these traditional pressures make their dating experiences easier, or are there unique challenges they face? In this episode, we delve into the complexities of modern dating, including the pitfalls of online dating where AI and photo-editing apps have elevated catfishing to an art form. Our guest, Adam Tan—a former cabin crew member turned serial entrepreneur—recounts a hilarious and eye-opening story about his own catfishing experience in Singapore. Join us for an insightful discussion, produced by famed producer Stuart Crowley, that explores the evolving landscape of love and relationships in the digital age.

    33 min
  7. Episode Two: Caught in the act

    MAY 7

    Episode Two: Caught in the act

    In this riveting episode, Tim reveals a startling story of coming out to his parents—and his landlord as well! For those growing up straight, life seems straightforward—no grand declarations required. But what intense drama and unexpected turns await during a gay person's 'coming out' journey? Why is representation so transformative? And how can it profoundly influence those on their path to discovering their sexuality?

    29 min

  8. MAY 1

    Episode One: Can a gay man and straight man be friends?

    In the debut episode of Give It To Me Strait, hosts Tim and Ben dive headfirst into the quirky stereotypes of gay and straight men. They explore not just the quirky contrasts but also the delightful commonalities that bind us. Having met 17 years ago in the army, their paths diverged only to converge again through mutual heartbreaks. Now, whether gay, straight, or anywhere in between, Tim and Ben show that embracing our differences—and making an effort to fear less and understand more—can bridge seemingly separate worlds. Join them as they challenge each other’s perspectives and open doors to each other's worlds, illustrating how diversity can foster unity. They'll tackle a mix of sensitive, fun, and cheeky topics—ranging from life and love to careers—through the lens of Singaporeans in their 30s. But the big question they pose is: Can a gay man and a straight man truly be friends?

    50 min
  9. Trailer: Give It To Me Strait!

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    Trailer: Give It To Me Strait!

    Strap in for 'Give It To Me Strait' – a rollercoaster of love, laughs, and life's curveballs with two Singaporean pals. Army buddies turned soul-searchers, we dive deep and dish out the real talk, spiced with humor. From heartache to hilarity, it's the no-holds-barred podcast that connects and cracks you up. Ready to join the ride?

    1 min

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About

Welcome to "Give It To Me Strait," the podcast where nuanced views and candid conversations come together. We are just two Singaporeans who met 17 years ago in the army and through shared heartaches in recent years has rekindled our friendship over time. In this podcast, we discuss love, life, and everything in between, addressing even the toughest topics with a dash of humor. Join us as we share stories, laugh, and explore the many facets of life that connect us all.

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  • Creator
    Tim Oh, Benedict Tan
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Tim Oh, Benedict Tan
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    Give It To Me Strait

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