The 3-13, Men Money And Marriage

Andrew Johnson
The 3-13, Men Money And Marriage

This podcast explores what it takes mentally and emotionally to become a man, tips and ideas on personal finance, and what to expect if you get married.

  1. 2 天前

    Family Dynamics, When Women earn More than Men In Relationships and Marriage

    Webpage: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guests discuss the evolving dynamics of gender roles in relationships, particularly focusing on situations where women earn more than men. The conversation explores statistics on earnings in marriages, the impact of education on black women, the role of blue-collar workers, family dynamics, and the challenges faced by African-American women in dating. The discussion also delves into the male ego, the concept of provision beyond financial contributions, and community perspectives on gender roles and earnings. Takeaways The landscape of marriage and earnings has shifted significantly over the years. Women are increasingly becoming the primary earners in households. Education plays a crucial role in the earning potential of black women. Blue-collar workers can also earn substantial incomes, challenging stereotypes. Family dynamics greatly influence a man's earning potential and behavior. African-American women face unique challenges in dating due to economic disparities. The male ego can be affected when women earn more, impacting relationships. Provision in a relationship encompasses more than just financial support. Time and emotional support are critical components of provision. Community perceptions can influence individual relationships and choices. Navigating Gender Roles in Modern Relationships The Evolving Dynamics of Earnings in Marriage "It's hard out there for them." "Money never fazed me, love did." "The male ego can be bruised." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Earnings Dynamics in Relationships 02:58 Statistics on Gender Earnings in Marriage 05:58 The Impact of Education on Black Women's Earnings 08:57 The Role of Blue Collar Workers in Relationships 11:56 Family Dynamics and Their Influence on Adult Behavior 16:53 Challenges for African-American Women in Relationships 20:46 The Role of Male Ego in Earnings Dynamics 24:40 Understanding Gender Dynamics in Relationships 29:32 The Impact of Financial Roles on Relationships 34:11 Navigating Gender Roles in Parenting 39:10 Community Perspectives on Financial Contributions 44:02 Redefining Provision Beyond Financial Means

    47 分鐘
  2. 11月2日

    Personal Finance Principals

    Website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses personal finance principles, emphasizing the importance of financial literacy and sharing his own journey from significant debt to financial stability. He highlights the alarming statistics regarding financial knowledge among different generations and offers practical advice on investing and reading to enhance financial understanding. Andrew encourages listeners to take control of their finances through education and consistent investment practices, ultimately leading to greater financial security.takeaways 47% of US adults rate their financial knowledge as C or lower. 57% of Gen Z believe savings accounts are the best investment. 85% of college students would take a personal finance course. Andrew started with over $8,000 in credit card debt. Investing can begin with as little as $50 a month. Reading 10 investment books increased Andrew's financial knowledge significantly. Investing during market downturns can lead to greater returns. Two recommended books are 'John Bogle on Mutual Funds' and 'A Random Walk Down Wall Street.' The average American reads only one book a year, which limits financial knowledge. Continuous reading and learning are essential for financial success. Mastering Personal Finance: Andrew's Journey Financial Literacy: Bridging the Knowledge Gap "85% of college students want personal finance courses." "I started with over $8,000 in credit card debt." "$50 a month was how I got started investing." "Investing is about buying more when prices drop." "The average American reads one book a year." Chapters 00:00Introduction to Personal Finance Principles 02:09 The Importance of Financial Literacy 06:08 Andrew's Personal Financial Journey 11:51 Investing Basics and Strategies 17:59 Recommended Reading for Financial Knowledge 24:06 Conclusion and Future Directions

    26 分鐘
  3. 10月26日

    Mate Poaching

    website the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary: In this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the topic of mate poaching, defining it as the act of attempting to attract someone who is already in a romantic relationship. He discusses statistics surrounding mate poaching, psychological and sociological factors that contribute to this behavior, the risks involved, and how individuals can protect their relationships from potential poachers. The conversation emphasizes the complexities of relationships and the importance of communication and boundaries. Takeaways Mate poaching is common, with 10-20% of new relationships starting this way. 75% of people report being targeted for mate poaching. Men often engage in mate poaching to maximize reproductive success. Narcissism is a common trait among mate poachers. Mate poaching can lead to feelings of guilt and humiliation. The risks of mate poaching can affect stable relationships. Social media plays a significant role in facilitating mate poaching. Open communication is essential in protecting relationships. Setting boundaries can help prevent mate poaching. It's crucial to address poaching attempts early to avoid escalation. The Consequences of Mate Poaching The Psychology Behind Mate Poaching "Mate poaching is the act of attracting someone else's partner." "10 to 20% of new relationships begin via mate poaching." "Men want to maximize their reproductive success." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mate Poaching 01:11 Understanding Mate Poaching: Definition and Statistics 03:27 Psychological and Sociological Factors Behind Mate Poaching 06:59The Risks and Consequences of Mate Poaching 12:09 Protecting Relationships from Mate Poachers

    20 分鐘
  4. 10月19日

    Dating, Relationships, Marriage, and Mathematics

    Website: www.podpage,com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the intersection of dating, relationships, marriage, and mathematics. He discusses how numbers play a crucial role in partner selection, the current dating market statistics, and the challenges individuals face in finding their ideal partners. The conversation delves into the expectations people have regarding relationships, the implications of the 37% rule, and the reality of settling in relationships. Additionally, cultural influences on partner selection are examined, providing listeners with insights into navigating the complexities of modern dating.takeaways People often choose partners based on quantifiable traits. Statistics show a high interest in committed relationships. Men and women have differing expectations in the dating market. The 37% rule suggests rejecting initial options to find better matches. Settling is a common reality in relationships. Cultural factors influence partner selection significantly. Higher standards can lead to missed opportunities. Understanding the dating market can help in making informed choices. Mathematics can provide clarity in relationship expectations. It's essential to be open to different types of partners. The 37% Rule Explained Dating in the Age of Numbers "Numbers are logical. They cannot lie." "The interest in finding a committed partner remains high." "It's a supply and demand issue." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dating and Mathematics 04:00The Current Dating Landscape 09:56 Understanding Relationship Expectations 15:38 The 37% Rule in Dating 19:41 Settling in Relationships 24:18 Race and Partner Selection 27:05 Conclusion and Future Directions

    29 分鐘
  5. 10月12日

    A Resume of Failed Relationships

    website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Instagram: the313menmoneymarriage Keywords: Failed relationships, childhood trauma, self-sabotage, dating advice, relationship patterns, emotional health, personal growth, accountability, red flags, relationship dynamicssummaryIn this episode, Summary: Andrew Johnson discusses the complexities of failed relationships, exploring themes such as the fantasy of dating, the impact of childhood trauma, self-sabotage, and the importance of taking responsibility for one's role in relationship failures. He emphasizes the need to recognize red flags, avoid carrying excess baggage into new relationships, and understand that personal growth is essential for healthier future connections. Takeaways Most of us have had failed relationships. We often date out of our league, chasing fantasies. Childhood trauma significantly impacts adult relationships. Self-sabotage can be unconscious and detrimental. We must take responsibility for our role in relationship failures. Ignoring red flags can lead to repeated mistakes. Self-doubt can prevent us from pursuing healthy relationships. We don't have endless options in dating. Carrying excess baggage can harm new relationships. Flexibility in boundaries is crucial for relationship success. The Hidden Costs of Dating Out of Your League Letting Go of Baggage: Starting Fresh in Love "A resume of failed relationships." "The prettiest girl is not always the best girl." "You're dating her childhood." Titles Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Failed Relationships 01:12Understanding the Fantasy of Dating 05:21The Impact of Childhood Trauma 11:29Self-Sabotage in Relationships 17:34Taking Responsibility for Relationship Failures 22:02Avoiding Excess Baggage in New Relationships

    26 分鐘
  6. 10月5日

    The Five Classes of Wealth

    Visit the website to join the email list, and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage keywords: wealth classes, financial literacy, economic status, income levels, financial education, wealth accumulation, personal finance, socio-economic classes, financial habits, wealth mindset Summary: In this episode of The 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg Stake delve into the five classes of wealth, exploring the characteristics, challenges, and opportunities associated with each class. They discuss the lower class, working class, middle class, upper class, and wealthy individuals, emphasizing the importance of financial literacy, mindset, and the impact of socio-economic status on personal finance. The conversation highlights the need for education, saving habits, and the influence of networking in wealth accumulation.takeaways Understanding wealth classes helps individuals identify their financial status. The lower class faces systemic challenges but can improve their situation with knowledge. Working class individuals often struggle with consumerism and lifestyle inflation. Middle class households can live paycheck to paycheck despite higher incomes. Education and financial discipline are crucial for moving up the wealth ladder. Networking plays a significant role in wealth accumulation for the upper class. Wealthy individuals have more influence over economic and political decisions. Time is the most valuable asset one can possess. Consistency in saving and investing is key to financial success. Financial literacy is essential for all classes to improve their economic standing. Navigating the Wealth Ladder Understanding Your Financial Class "I always call cap, because the numbers don't line up." "These are individuals in this particular have incomes below the poverty line." "Working class has been called the backbone of America." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Wealth Classes 02:18 Understanding the Lower Class 07:32Exploring the Working Class 12:32The Middle Class Dynamics 18:12Insights on the Upper Class 25:16Defining the Wealthy Class 30:14Wealth Accumulation Strategies Instagram The313menmoneymarriage Youtube Channel: The Men Money and Marriage Hour

    35 分鐘
  7. 9月21日

    The Unicorn Partner Myth

    Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the concept of the 'Unicorn Partner Myth,' exploring the unrealistic expectations many have in modern dating. He discusses statistics on relationships, the impact of social media on dating perceptions, and the importance of self-reflection and compromise in relationships. The conversation emphasizes that while the perfect partner may be a myth, a good partner is attainable and preferable to remaining single. Takeaways 55% of people feel most loved when their partner acknowledges their emotions. The demand for ideal partners often outweighs the supply. Social media contributes to unrealistic dating expectations. Self-reflection is crucial in understanding relationship expectations. Compromise is essential for a healthy relationship. Many people are not 'datable' due to life circumstances. Expectations should be realistic to find a suitable partner. The dating pool narrows as preferences increase with age. People often compare new partners to exes, which is detrimental. A good partner is better than no partner at all. Titles Realistic Expectations in Love The Truth About Ideal Partners Sound Bites "We're never gonna find the perfect partner." "Are you the perfect partner for the one that you want?" "The demand is far outweighing the supply." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Unicorn Partner Myth 02:04 Statistics on Relationships and Dating 05:01 Defining the Unicorn Partner 08:11 The Impact of Social Media on Dating 11:54 Self-Reflection and Realistic Expectations 21:10 The Importance of Compromise in Relationships 24:55 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    27 分鐘
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This podcast explores what it takes mentally and emotionally to become a man, tips and ideas on personal finance, and what to expect if you get married.

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