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The Heart of a Friend podcast was born out of a desire to share some of the most important things learned from a lifetime of experience. It is hosted by Andy Wiegand. Andy retired in 2017 after 40 years of pastoral ministry. He and his wife now reside in Columbus, Ohio. They have raised six children and are now very happy to be grandparents. Andy grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and received his education at Harvard University (B.A. ’73) and Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary (M.Div. ’78). In his retirement Andy devotes time to charitable work, visits with friends and family, exercises and continues to do a lot of reading and thinking about life. 

Heart of a Friend Host : Andy Wiegand

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.9 • 30 Ratings

The Heart of a Friend podcast was born out of a desire to share some of the most important things learned from a lifetime of experience. It is hosted by Andy Wiegand. Andy retired in 2017 after 40 years of pastoral ministry. He and his wife now reside in Columbus, Ohio. They have raised six children and are now very happy to be grandparents. Andy grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and received his education at Harvard University (B.A. ’73) and Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary (M.Div. ’78). In his retirement Andy devotes time to charitable work, visits with friends and family, exercises and continues to do a lot of reading and thinking about life. 

    Ep. 50 | Is Reading the Bible the Fastest Way to Lose Your Faith? A review: How NOT to Read the Bible.

    Ep. 50 | Is Reading the Bible the Fastest Way to Lose Your Faith? A review: How NOT to Read the Bible.

    Highlights: How NOT to Read the Bible (Episode 50)

    The road to atheism is littered with Bibles that have been read cover to cover.

    To most Christians, the Bible is like a software license. Nobody actually reads it. They just scroll to the bottom and click “I agree.”

    Never Read a Bible

    Verse By lifting verses out of context, they can easily be misunderstood. The story-line of the Bible must be understood so that we can see where the verse/passage/book fits into the larger over-arching story.

    We need to enter their world to hear the words as the original audience would have heard them and as the author would've meant them to be understood…If we don’t the possibilities for confusion are endless.

    Stranger Things

    The surrounding people groups who worship other gods and goddesses practiced all kinds of evil things…God did not want Israel to become like them, so he had Moses write down loving guidelines…to keep them distinct from other nations.

    God didn’t create the institution of slavery. Slavery was man-made and was everywhere in the ancient world. The Old Testament rules established unique protections for slaves. Slaves were treated much better in ancient Israel than in surrounding cultures.

    Boys’ Club Christianity

    When we read what Jesus did with regard to women, it should be recognized as countercultural, highly shocking, and extremely challenging to the religious leaders of his day. We see Jesus striving to change the culture he lived in through the way he treated women – with respect, dignity, and equality.

    The Bible verses that at first sound misogynistic and chauvinistic have explanations.

    Misunderstandings are due to not looking at the specific situations and unique culture of that time period.

    Do We Have to Choose Between Science and the Bible?

    The Bible teaches us how to go to heaven, not how the heavens go. (Galileo)

    So many of the debates within Christianity, as well as the mocking criticism of the Bible, end up being irrelevant when we accept that God wasn't providing details to satisfy questions from our modern scientific worldview. God used what the people were aware of at that time to communicate the truth about himself and his work in creating all things.

    Does Christianity Claim All Other Religions Are Wrong?

    Christianity is the one world faith in which people don't have to earn their way to heaven, but it is through the work of Jesus and us putting faith in him.

    The Horror of God’s Old Testament Violence

    If you were carefully reading the entire Old Testament, you would not find a reactionary God who needs a class in anger management, someone who strikes out randomly, without cause. Instead, you find a God who is patient – again and again – with his people. Even in the parts where God is actively behind violence and death, it is not done without first pleading for change, giving warnings, waiting for change and showing great patience.

    Jesus Loved His Crazy Bible

    The Bible Project Podcast (12/06/2021) Interview with Dan Kimball

    The Lost World of Genesis One, John Walton 

    ReGenerationProject.org 

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    Ep. 49 | What’s On My Bookshelf? | A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper - The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 3

    Ep. 49 | What’s On My Bookshelf? | A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper - The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 3

    What’s On My Bookshelf?
     A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper - The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 3 - Highlights 
    Coronaviruses and influenza viruses are the ones that we are currently worried about. H5N1 (a bird flu)...if it ever gets airborne...it’s got a 60% death rate. (Dr. Larry Brilliant, Harvard Magazine) 
    It is the advance of scientific knowledge, actualized by public policy and private behavior, that has given humans the advantage over microbial threats. Science and state-craft are the keys to the Great Escape. 
    Science 
    As of 1870, only a small Avant-garde of researchers believed that familiar diseases were caused by invisible living agents. But by 1900, for a scientist or medical professional to believe anything else was becoming ignorant. 
    The Hygiene Revolution - The principles of germ theory inspired renewed efforts to disinfect the personal and household environments. 
    The war against bugs - Insects that had once seemed a mere nuisance were now seen as vehicles with deadly payloads. 
    Chemical Control of Pathogens - Dysentery was still a major health problem in the developed world, and typhoid remained – until chlorination. The most important reason we can drink a glass of water today and not feel even a hint of dread is because it has been treated with chlorine. 
    Antibiotics - Starting in the 1940’s...Antibiotics delivered us from the long period of human history when the simplest wound was a mortal threat. 
    Vaccines - Small pox was a success story. So was the measles vaccine. The vaccine was licensed in the U.S. in 1963, and measles infections fell instantaneously. A disease that once caused 1 million cases a year in the United States was reduced to an annual incidence of fewer than 100. Globally, In the early 1980s, 2.5 million children died annually from the measles. By 2018, mortality has been reduced to 140,000 deaths. 
    Public Policy 
    Improvements in life expectancy are generated not by ideas alone but by ideas that are put into action, especially by capable governments that care about the heath of their citizens...The control of infectious disease, by its very nature, requires collective and coordinate action. 
    Investments in public water systems were among the largest, and might even have been the largest, public investments in American history and they had a larger impact on human mortality than any other public health initiative. The household toilet is a private portal into the sprawling subterranean circuitry quietly gathering our collective muck. Several times a day we sit astride a section of the largest and most expensive environmental infrastructure in the world – the vast underground systems of sewers and waste-water treatment plants that are a defining feature of the developed world. 
    The federal government erected an infrastructure for agricultural and veterinary science early on, and precocious American agro-science is an underrated storyline in the global emergence of germ theory and the biochemical control of infectious disease. 
    Paradoxically, we are in some ways more fragile than our ancestors, precisely because our societies depend on the level of security against infectious disease that may be unrealistic 
    We have much to learn from the experience of those who lived and died before us. It is urgent that we do so. 

    • 34 min
    Ep. 48 | What’s On My Bookshelf? | A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper - The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 2

    Ep. 48 | What’s On My Bookshelf? | A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper - The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 2

    What’s On My Bookshelf?
     A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper 
    The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 2 
    Highlights 
    We still have much to learn from the experience of those who lived and died before us. It is urgent that we do so. The long history of disease counsels us to expect the unexpected. The worst threat may be the one we cannot see coming. 
    Bubonic Plague (Black Death)
    Three stages in history - The Justinian Plague (500’s A.D.), The Black Death (1300’s A.D.) and 
    Modern Era Plague (1890’s A.D.) 
    Almost anywhere the evidence in Europe is rich enough to form a quantitative impression, the Black Death carried off 50-60 percent of the population...the death toll is always staggeringly high. Although many a textbook still claims that the Black Death carried off a third of the continent, in reality, the best estimates are closer to half...In Europe alone, forty million or more might have been claimed by this bacterium. The plague is a killer in a class by itself 
    Small Pox 
    Endemic throughout the Eastern Hemisphere. Brought to the Americas by the conquistadors. 
    Major outbreaks of small pox occurred on Hispaniola and other islands in the Caribbean from the earliest days of discovery but then jumped from the Caribbean to the shores of Mexico in 1520. By the time Cortez approached the capital city of the Aztecs a year later, it had been “hollowed out” by the deadly disease. The small pox devastation continued along the trade routes to the north and to central and south America, having the same impact. Measles came alongside and made its way to the mainland continuing its decimation of those small pox hadn’t claimed. 
    In the 1700’s it accounted for 10-15% of all mortality in Europe. 
    As the practice of vaccination extended world-wide, small pox was finally eliminated entirely in 1977. It was a global triumph. To date, small pox is the first and only human pathogen that has been driven to extinction. 
    The Great Influenza (1918/1919) 
    Killed approximately 50,000,000 people. 
    One of the single most deadly events in global history. And it infected perhaps one in three persons alive, making it probably the single most coordinated rapid attack by a parasite in the history of the planet. 
    And the threat of future novel influenza strains, replaying the events of 1918 to 1919 remains one of the most dangerous lurking threats to human health. 

    The Great Influenza: The Story of the Deadliest Pandemic in History, by John Barry. 

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    Ep. 47 | What’s On My Bookshelf? | A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper - The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 1

    Ep. 47 | What’s On My Bookshelf? | A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper - The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse | Part 1

    What’s On My Bookshelf?
    Part 1 | A Review: Plagues Upon the Earth, by Kyle Harper
    The Fourth Horseman of the Apocalypse Highlights 
    Up to around 1700 life on earth was short and full of sorrow. Life expectancy was below 30 years. Most people died of infectious disease...around 1900 a great threshold was crossed for the the first time in the history of our species: non-infectious causes of death accounted for a greater portion of total mortality than did infectious diseases. By mid-century dying of infectious disease had become anomalous, virtually scandalous, in the developed world. The control of infectious disease is one of the unambiguously great accomplishments of our species 
    We do not and cannot live in a state of permanent victory over our germs. Eternal vigilance is the price of liberation from infectious disease...In short, germs evolve, and human mastery is always, therefore, incomplete. 
    Malaria: The deadliest of the human infectious diseases...no other affliction has exerted such influence on the species. It is “the mother of fevers,” “the king of diseases.” It continues to devastate human societies unfortunate enough to remain under its spell. 
    Tuberculosis: The burden of this disease on human health, in the past and present, is staggering. Today, there may be 2 billion humans latently infected, so more than a quarter of humanity could be carrying the pathogen. There are more than 10 million new cases annually, and TB still takes 1.5 million lives each year. TB may be in aggregate, the most lethal enemy our species has ever encountered. 
    As farming spread human numbers soared and the result has been a virtually unceasing acceleration of parasite evolution...There is universal agreement that farming was an unmitigated disaster for human health; humans sought more calories and came away with less nutritional variety, harder work, and more germs. 
    Which of the following did NOT contribute to the eventual improvement of life expectancy in the city? 
    The pandemic of 1918 to 1919 was the ultimate manifestation of a disease event in the age of steam ships and railroads. It was in absolute terms one of the single most deadly events in global history, claiming the lives of maybe 50 million victims 
    Modern growth has only made the challenge of controlling infectious disease greater. Urbanization, demographic expansion, modern transportation and intensified pressure on natural resources have made the ecology of infectious disease progressively more dangerous for humans. 
    We do not and cannot live in a state of permanent victory over our germs. Prophets have continually forewarned us that new diseases were one of the most fundamental risks we face as a species. And now, the COVID-19 pandemic makes it all too evident that their alarms were both prescient and unheeded. We were, in short, complacent...For scholars who study the past 
    or present of infectious disease, the pandemic was a perfectly inevitable disaster...we can never entirely escape the risk of global pandemics 

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    Ep. 46 | What’s On My Bookshelf | Part 1 | Eight Ways to Make This Your Best Year Ever

    Ep. 46 | What’s On My Bookshelf | Part 1 | Eight Ways to Make This Your Best Year Ever

    What’s On My Bookshelf |  Eight Ways to Make This Your Best Year Ever 
    4000 Weeks, by Oliver Burkeman 
    We’ve been granted the mental capacities to make almost infinitely ambitious plans yet practically no time at all to put them into action...Stop trying so hard...It’s ok to give up on what’s impossible in the first place. 
    One: Accept the limitations of a life-span that’s way too short. 
    The key to begin resolving this problem is to work with the facts of our finitude rather than against them. I am aware of no other time management technique that’s half as effective as just facing the way things truly are. 
    Two: Don’t expect greater productivity/efficiency to make the problem better. 
    Time feels like an unstoppable conveyor belt, bringing us new tasks as fast as we can dispatch the old ones; and becoming more productive just seems to cause the belt to speed up. Productivity is a trap. Becoming more efficient just makes you more rushed. 
    Three: Stand firm in the face of FOMO. 
    Missing out on something, indeed on almost everything, is basically guaranteed...our every decision to use a portion of time on anything represents the sacrifice of all the other ways in which you could've spent that time but didn’t. 
    Every choice is a renunciation. (Rolheiser)
    Four: Make up your mind that it’s ok to “settle.” 
    When people finally do choose, in a relatively irreversible way, they're usually much happier as a result.The undodgeable reality of a finite human life is that you are going to have to choose. 
    Five: Practice gratitude; it’s the antidote for discontentment. 
    Wouldn't it make more sense to speak not of having to make such choices, but of getting to make them? Each moment of decision becomes an opportunity to select from an enticing menu of possibilities, when you might easily never have been presented with the menu to begin with. 
    The wealthiest person is not the one who has the most. It’s the one who is satisfied with the least. ( Chinese fortune cookie) 
    Six: Wherever you are, be there. 
    It turns out to be perilously easy to...focus exclusively on where you're headed at the expense of focusing on where you are – with the result that you find yourself living mentally in the future, locating the real value of your life at some point that you haven't yet reached and...never will. 
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    Enjoy every sandwich. (Warren Zevon)
    Seven: Get to your highest priorities first.
     Eight: Practice leisure and rest for their own sake. 
    In an age of instrumentalization, the hobbyist is a subversive...A good hobby probably should feel a little embarrassing. That's a sign you're doing it for its own sake rather than for some socially sanctioned outcome. It's fine and perhaps preferable to be mediocre at them. Freedom to pursue the futile. And the freedom to suck without caring.

    • 36 min
    Ep 45 | Ears : The Soft Power of Listening | Part 8 | Six Reasons We Don’t Listen and What to Do About It

    Ep 45 | Ears : The Soft Power of Listening | Part 8 | Six Reasons We Don’t Listen and What to Do About It

    Highlights
     Ears: The Soft Power of Listening - Part 8 (Episode 45) Six Reasons We Don’t Listen and What to Do About It 
    Six reasons most of us don’t listen well: 
    1. We’ve never been taught how. 
    We are encouraged to listen to our hearts, and listen to our gut, but rarely are we encouraged to listen carefully and with intent to other people. ( Kate Murphy, You’re Not Listening) 
    Listening well is not an ability we are born with. It doesn’t get magically downloaded to us as we grow up. Unless we’re intentional about learning and practicing this new skill set we’re doomed, most likely, to relationships crippled by a shortage of understanding, empathy and love. 
    2. We’re always in a hurry. 
    Love takes time and time is the one thing that hurried people don’t have. (John Ortberg) 
    3. We’re too easily distracted. 
    Practice the discipline of silence.
     Find appropriate settings for good conversation. Schedule times for private conversations. 
    4. We’re uncomfortable with certain emotions. 
    The path to more meaningful conversations may require us to step out of our own emotional comfort zone and accept some risk. 
    5. We have an agenda. 
    As soon as you lay your hands on a conversation to steer it, it's not a conversation anymore; it's a pitch. And you're not a human being; you’re a marketing rep. ( The Big Kahuna, quoted by Doug Pollack, God Space) 
    To the extent that we can, we should leave our agenda at the door of the conversation. 
    6. We’re overly self-focused. 
    Our first duty in any conversation is not to talk, but to listen. This is what Christ-like humility demands. 
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    Don’t imagine that if you ever meet a really humble man he will be what most people call “humble” nowadays: he will not be a sort of greasy, smarmy person, who is always telling you that, of course, he is nobody. Probably all you will think about him is that he seemed a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest in what you said to him... He will not be thinking about humility: he will not be thinking about himself at all. (C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity) 
    To surrender the lime-light of the conversation to the other person is not only a profound act of service to them...but, paradoxically, we receive a profoundly important benefit for ourselves too. 
    The world is full of talkers. We don’t need more talkers, but we do need more listeners. 

    • 31 min

Customer Reviews

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Hunter3351 ,

Great Insights. Highly Recommend

Andy picks some very interesting topics to discuss on his podcast. I would especially recommend the one on the importance of listening. I believe it starts with episode 37 or 38. Plenty of great material to learn from!

kftaylo ,

Christianity in Action

I am so appreciative of Pastor Wiegand’s wonderful application of the Christian faith to my life. I have not met anyone who can interpret and apply the faith so well as he and this statement covers 75 years of my own walk with Christ. My time spent in Sylvania, Ohio under his pastoral leadership was life-changing for me. His podcast series enables me to continue to be led by him despite time and geographical separation. I am so appreciative.
Barry Taylor

Jeff Silliman ,

Listening

Powerful insights to truly listening to hear , understand learn and help with effective listening. Wonderful deep look into the Lord’s Prayer that has deepened my understanding and elevated my heart’s response. I’ve know Andy for decades as my pastor and friend which brings great credibility to his thoughts and words. Mere Christianity. Wonderful unpacking of CS Lewis treatment of Pride. Very enlightening and insightful recap of CS Lewis treatment of pride.

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