What if the best way to learn Finnish isn’t in a classroom — but at lunch with an 85-year-old stranger? Meet Erik Åkesson, a Swedish dad of four, former global head of FX trading, and now a Finnish speaker thanks to one of the most original language learning methods I’ve ever heard. He didn’t qualify for integration courses. So what did he do? He offered to buy lunch for anyone willing to speak Finnish with him — and ended up having over 100 lunches with strangers. In this episode, we talk about: Why Duolingo didn’t work The power of non-reversible promises Finnish vs Swedish education systems The dark side of “easy English in Finland” Why the government should fund immigrant-lonely elderly lunches And why, if you're serious about learning Finnish, this method might be your new secret weapon. 🎙️ Welcome to How I Learned Finnish – with OheHelping immigrants thrive (not just survive) by mastering one of the world’s toughest languages. 👉Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this inspired you or made you think differently about language learning. 00:00 Introduction and Initial Struggles 00:51 Meet Erik Åkesson 01:38 Life Journey and Career Moves 03:11 Challenges in Learning Finnish 05:22 Innovative Methods to Learn Finnish 06:55 The Power of Social Interaction 11:45 Reflections on Language Learning 13:36 The Role of Older Generations 15:37 Final Thoughts and Recommendations 31:11 Challenges of Learning Finnish 31:25 Passive and Active Learning Strategies 33:11 Balancing Multiple Languages 34:18 Making Irreplaceable Promises 36:43 Diversity and Integration in Finland 45:59 Difficulties of Learning Finnish 56:07 Commitment and Social Integration 58:18 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Finnish language, learning Finnish, how to learn Finnish, Finnish fluency, language learning tips, integration in Finland, immigrant experience Finland, Duolingo, language immersion, lunch with locals, language hacks, adult language learning, suomen kieli, suomi, Erik Åkesson, podcast Finland, Finnish for immigrants, unconventional language methods, language and identity, retired mentors, language motivation #LearnFinnish #FinnishLanguage #LanguageLearning #ImmigrantsInFinland #HowILearnedFinnish #SuomenKieli #IntegrationInFinland #LanguageFluency #DuolingoFail #LanguageMotivation #LunchToFluency #FinlandLife #RetiredMentors #ImmigrantStories #Suomi