It’s Impossible To Become Limitless If You Are Stuck – The 4 Stuck Strategies You can be stuck at zero dollars or a million dollars. If you aren’t moving to the next level, you are stuck. Every time you are stuck, you can link it back to one or more of these four Ps. The four Ps apply to everything.
You Won’t Become Limitless If You Are Stuck People-Pleasing Female entrepreneurs tend to struggle more with playing small and people-pleasing.
Perfectionism is another way of trying to control. You can’t be the boss of the outer world if you aren’t the boss of the inner world.
People-pleasing is associated with fear. Instead of putting yourself in front of others, your internal voice says, please her, please them. It is not healthy for your business to please others all of. Pay attention and recognize when you are doing this. Then, you will be able to stop pleasing others, take intentional action, move forward, and get unstuck.
In addition, people-pleasing will lead to a lack of confidence.
Nicole often hears clients say that they wish they could get clients without selling. The clients go on to say that they just want to serve. The cause of these thoughts is a lack of belief in the ability to attract new people. Negative thoughts do not lead to a fulfilling life. They won’t allow growth.
Likewise, for maximum potential, you must put yourself out into the world to connect with others and build relationships. Don’t fall into a comfort zone where you are giving in to fear. Fear will hold you back.
Playing small is the most common thing Nicole sees holding her clients back. When you say that you just want to do the work and don’t want to sell, fear is holding you back. You are afraid of someone saying no.
You Can’t Become Limitless When You Are Playing Small Robyn used the example of Instagram and people saying they don’t like social media; they don’t have time. Fear of failure or not being perfect often holds people back. Do you avoid publishing content because of fear of being judged? This is common. You must remember that likes do not determine your worth.
Likewise, the playing small mindset holds you in procrastination.
And, perfectionism is fear holding you back.
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