12 episodes

I Buy My Own Roses is a self love podcast that encourages Black women to cultivate fulfilling lives with or without a romantic partner.

Join Arielle each week as she shares humorous stories about navigating her life as a thirty something single, childfree woman in a society built for couples. You'll also enjoyed uncensored rants on culture and dating through the lens of Black feminism.

At random, we'll invite expert guests to teach us about financial independence, solo travel, personal safety, and more!

To the woman who is the love of her own life....this one's for you!

I Buy My Own Roses Arielle

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I Buy My Own Roses is a self love podcast that encourages Black women to cultivate fulfilling lives with or without a romantic partner.

Join Arielle each week as she shares humorous stories about navigating her life as a thirty something single, childfree woman in a society built for couples. You'll also enjoyed uncensored rants on culture and dating through the lens of Black feminism.

At random, we'll invite expert guests to teach us about financial independence, solo travel, personal safety, and more!

To the woman who is the love of her own life....this one's for you!

    Her Earring Business Started as a Hobby

    Her Earring Business Started as a Hobby

    Hey Single Roses! In this episode, I’m chatting with my lovely friend, Samone! She is an earring designer and the owner of Custom Clayed, a polymer clay earring business. If you are interested in starting a new maker hobby that
    you can turn into a side hustle, this is the episode for you.

    Sidenote: I’m actually wearing a pair of Samone’s earrings
    in the picture on the screen 😊

    Follow Custom Clayed here: https://www.instagram.com/customclayed/

    Shop Custom Clayed Earrings: https://customclayed.com/

    Candle business mention: https://kyskandles.com/

    I Buy My Own Roses on YouTube

    0:00 Intro

    2:04 How it all started

    3:31 Process of making polymer clay earrings

    4:55 Being a vendor at markets

    6:32 Making money selling earrings online and at markets

    8:15 Full time vs. part time

    9:09 Business goals

    10:15 Marketing on social media and word of mouth

    12:34 Building Community, relationships, and networking

    13:52 Other small business ideas that do well

    14:55 Lessons learned as business owner

    15:34 What makes your business unique

    16:41 Start up cost

    18:33 Classes and workshops

    19:28 Advice for aspiring small business owners

    20:58 Where to find Custom Clayed online


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    • 21 min
    (Self) Love Don't Cost a Thing 💗

    (Self) Love Don't Cost a Thing 💗

    Hey Single Roses! 🌹

    Like many millennials, I love early 2000s music!

    As I was listening to J Lo's 2001 hit, Love Don't Cost a Thing, I thought to myself that with a slight shift in perspective, this song would actually make a good self love lesson, in a world where self love has become entangled with consumerism through our
    fixation on external validation and material possessions.


    In this episode, I talk about self love and her homegirls-self awareness, self acceptance, self esteem, self discipline, and self respect, to express why the most valuable treasures in life are the ones we cultivate within ourselves....for free.

    Treat YOURSELF right and give YOURSELF all the things you need that money can't buy...or Whatever Jennifer Lopez was saying lol

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    ⌚Timestamps⌚

    00:00 Welcome to I Buy My Own Roses Podcast

    00:39- Self love for sale

    06:12- I am human

    06:58- How to be self aware

    09:58-How to accept yourself

    12:09-How to build high self esteem

    14:31- How to respect yourself

    17:36 -Self discipline is hard

    21:05-Gratitude

    22:25- I don't want to be "That Girl"

    23:32- How to actually love yourself




















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    • 26 min
    Skip the spouse. Buy a house!

    Skip the spouse. Buy a house!

    Hey Single Roses! Have you ever thought about buying a home for yourself but feel like it's not within reach? This episode is for you!  I had a conversation with Aerial Austin, a successful local NC real estate agent. Aerial and I talked about the benefits of purchasing a home as a single woman, even if you plan to partner later. We talk about what to look for in a good real estate agent, what red flags to look out for when purchasing your first home, what you’ll need to do to start the process and more!

    I purchased my home in 2022 as a single woman with 1 income (less than 6 figures) and only $20,000 to invest! If I could do it, there's hope for you too! It is completely possible to find a home that fits your lifestyle and budget, even as a single woman. I will share my home buying story in a different episode if you all are interested.

    Please follow Aerial on IG! Her IG is great for homebuying
    education and inspiration. Following her on IG inspired me to take the leap into homeownership!

    Watch on Youtube: Skip the spouse. Buy a house!



    Disclaimer:
    This video is for entertainment purposes only, and the information provided may not be comprehensive. Viewers are strongly advised to independently research and verify any information before making decisions or taking actions based on the content of this video. The views expressed are solely those of the creator, and we disclaim any responsibility for errors or inaccuracies. Viewers assume their own risk and responsibility for their decisions.






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    • 28 min
    I'd rather be the ugly friend

    I'd rather be the ugly friend

    No, I don't actually believe I'm ugly... lol

    In this episode, I revisit a viral moment about a women who felt insecure because she was never approached by men when she goes out with her friends. I share why I don't believe that male attention is worth having and what I do with it when I receive it. This episode explores, desirability politics, pretty privledge, beauty standards, and decentering the male gaze.

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    • 15 min
    Single Black Women Are Just Jealous of Simone's Love Story?

    Single Black Women Are Just Jealous of Simone's Love Story?

    Heeeeey Single Roses! This is a quick episode where I share my thoughts about how Simone Biles took a quiet jab at single Black Women in her response to the backlash her husband received on social media.

    Listen on Youtube


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    • 10 min
    Surviving Matching Pajama Season as a Single Woman Spending the Holidays Alone

    Surviving Matching Pajama Season as a Single Woman Spending the Holidays Alone

    Hey Single Roses! I typically spend the holidays alone and really enjoy my time with myself! If seeing pictures of cute couples in their matching pajamas makes you feel a bit lonely, excluded, or jealous, no worries! I got you! Whether you’re single by choice or by circumstance, don’t let being single and alone for the holidays keep you from participating in your favorite holiday traditions. After listening to this episode, you won’t be too worried about the cute couples on social media because you’ll know how to enjoy being single for the holidays!


    In this single girl’s survival guide to the holidays, I talk about how I deal with being alone for the holidays, what it’s like to be single during the holidays, how to be single during the holidays and love it, being single and happy during the holidays, what to do if you’re single for the holidays, benefits of being single for the holidays, how I take care of myself living alone, celebrating the holidays when you’re alone, and reasons being single for the holidays is the best thing ever.

    If you have any tips, tricks, or fun single woman holiday plans, please share!


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    • 15 min

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