254 episodes

Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.

The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver Lori Sims & David Sims

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.7 • 247 Ratings

Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.

    256: Stepfamily Vacations

    256: Stepfamily Vacations

    In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about stepfamily vacations. If you have ever been on a blended family vacation, you know how stressful they can be! Lori & David talk about challenges and tips to help have a good blended family vacation.
    In this episode, we discuss the following:
    Preparing for stepfamily vacations
    Expectations
    Separate vacations with kids
    Separate vacations adults only
    Length matters
    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
    “I love Lori and David! You can tell they truly care about you and your blend. They want you to succeed! They cheer you on and support you through your journey. I’ve never felt like someone cared about me so much. Their caring made me want to work harder because I felt like I had someone in my corner!” ~ N.W.
     

    • 32 min
    255: Stepkid Gets An Arrow Through His Head

    255: Stepkid Gets An Arrow Through His Head

    In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to stepcouple Jenn and Zeb. They have been blending for three years, and married six months. The hardest part of the blend for Zeb is establishing and maintaining stepmom’s role within the blend and Jenn’s hardest part is figuring out her place and role within the blend. 
    In this episode, we discuss the following:
    What’s the stepparent role
    Who is responsible for the stepkid
    Stepkid calling stepmom “Mom”
    Feeling pushed out of your bio kid’s life
    When the stepkid gets an arrow through his head
    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
    “I was skeptical of how much this Academy would benefit me/us. I was willing to put the work in, but my partner was against it. I did the bootcamp and within two weeks, my partner was on board because she could not deny the positive changes that were occurring. We love Nacho!” ~ R.S.
     

    • 1 hr 22 min
    254: Lori & David Answer Nacho Questions

    254: Lori & David Answer Nacho Questions

    In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, answer some Nacho questions. You have questions, we have answers! Please note, these are top level answers to questions and in the Nacho Kids Academy Lori and David delve deeper into the questions you may have and provide guidance to help you Nacho properly. 

    In this episode, we discuss the following:
    Triggers
    Nasty Stepkids
    Summertime stepkids
    Stepparent responsibilities
    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
    “This Nacho stuff is gold! I wish we would have found it sooner. My husband and I decided to join because we were really struggling in our blend. Something had to give. This was the best decision we could have made! We have started healing from our past hurts, and are rebuilding our blended relationships every day! Thank you Dave and Lori! You saved our marriage!” ~ J.F.
     

    • 30 min
    253: Parental Alienation ~ A Legal Or Mental Health Issue?

    253: Parental Alienation ~ A Legal Or Mental Health Issue?

    In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to bio dad Chris. Chris has experienced parental alienation with his daughter. Chris shares his story and because of his alienation is working to help other alienated parents. 
    In this episode, we discuss the following:
    Parental alienation
    Boundaries
    Legal issue versus mental health issue
    Divorced parents and school
    Psychological abuse
    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
    “I had decided to leave my partner. A friend at work was watching the Guilty Parent Syndrome course in the Nacho Academy during our lunch break and I heard something that clicked with me. I asked him what he was listening to and he told me it was one of the video courses in the Nacho Parenting Academy. I immediately signed up and have decided my relationship is worth working for and that I’d rather make things work with my partner than to start over with someone else.” ~ M.W.
     

    • 1 hr 4 min
    252: Stepson Wants Stepmom To Be Mom

    252: Stepson Wants Stepmom To Be Mom

    *** DISCLAIMER ***   Mention of attempted suicide in this episode.
    In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to stepmom Jo and bio dad Ben! They have been blending for five years and married two. Ben has two bio kids, one of which lives with him full-time and wants Jo to be his mom! Jo pushed for the  oldest stepson to come live with them full-time and feels she has emotionally adopted him. Jo and Ben’s journey has not been easy, in fact there was a time where Jo attempted suicide.
    In this episode, we discuss the following:
    The importance of getting help
    Stepmom burnout
    Emotional adoption
    Setting boundaries with bio mom
    Having a “golden child” stepkid
    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
    “I don’t normally write reviews, but I had to because I want others to know there truly is help out there! This Nacho Academy stuff is gold! Even if you aren’t in a stepfamily, it teaches you tools you can use in everyday life to help lower your stress. I recommend it for everyone!” ~ L.J.
     

    • 1 hr 25 min
    251: Ruminating In The Blend

    251: Ruminating In The Blend

    In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, and Claudette Chenevert ~ The Stepmom Coach, talk about ruminating. Rumination is something everyone does. It’s natural . But is it healthy? 
    In this episode, we discuss the following:
    Ruminating
    Setting Boundaries as a stepmom/stepdad… heck, as a person
    7 Sins of Memory
    How to handle rumination if it is affecting you negatively
    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
    ***** 100+ STARS *****
    This Nacho stuff works guys! I was ready to walk away. I was losing my mind. I was grumpy all the time. I was not happy!. One morning on the way to work I was thinking about going ahead and signing the lease on this apartment I had looked at the previous week. But I got this weird feeling, and felt something was telling me to just wait until Monday since it was already late Friday. Walking into work and clocking in, I heard two co-workers talking and one said, “Yeah girl, my therapist told me to join this Nacho Academy” and they started laughing.When I got to my desk, I googled Nacho school. Nothing came up, Then I remembered she said Nacho Academy. I found it and read some of the blogs and testimonials, and I cried. These people were me! So, if people like me were improving their lives with this Nacho thing, I was willing to give it a try. LET ME TELL YOU! By day 15 my partner asked me if I was high because I was so relaxed. I laughed and told him that I was trying to do some self-development stuff. He told me he knew something was up. If this is what da 15 feels like, I can’t wait to finish the bootcamp and start the next challenge!”
     

    • 47 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
247 Ratings

247 Ratings

no2525 ,

I listen to you and almost cry tears!

I wish I had heard your podcast when my family was growing up. A lot of times you think you are the ones ones going through something. I regret a lot even though I did the best I knew at the time. I am happy though that others have access to your tools.

MD Pug ,

The blend may not be perfect, but we put in the work. That’s all you can do.

I started listening to your podcast long before I ended up in a relationship with a man who had kids from his previous marriage. I was prepared for the feelings that came, even though I still struggle with guilt. Without your support system, I’m not sure I would have been confident enough to keep this relationship together. I would have carried a large heavy shame that likely would have made me feel so bad that I would have thought that getting out of the relationship was the only way to make the shame go away. I’ve been a member of the Nacho Kids Academy for a few years and from time to time I go through a challenge or watch a lesson and it helps immensely. I can’t thank you guys enough for helping stepparents find a way to stay in the blend and finding a path that allows for grace and forgiveness and imperfection. Every day we wake up and try to do better. Thank you for being excellent coaches.

Bio dad thankful ,

Thankful

Very glad we found this podcast early in our marriage. Things have gotten so much better by following Nacho kids method.

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