From Foster to Forever

Rachel Fulginiti
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From Foster to Forever

There are many ways to build your family. Fostering-to-adopt is not the easiest, but it's a beautiful and profoundly impactful thing to do. Join Rachel Fulginiti, a voice actor and two-time foster to adopt mom, as she shares her own story and the stories of others who have successfully navigated the foster care system and landed at adoption. We explore the complex journey, touching on subjects like welcoming newborns or older children into your home, resiliency through loss and heartbreak, transracial adoption, special needs, co-parenting through a divorce, and more. We also aim to amplify the voices of adult adoptees, who can teach us so much through their lived experience. If you've ever considered fostering and/or adoption, experienced it first-hand, or are simply curious to learn more, this show is for you.

  1. APR 2

    Neurodiversity, Special Needs and Foster Care with Christopher Wyatt

    Today’s chat dives deep into the nitty-gritty of parenting while navigating the complexities of autism and ADHD. Our guest, Christopher Wyatt, shares his personal journey of becoming a foster parent, which took a serious turn when his wife was diagnosed with cancer shortly after they welcomed their daughters into their lives. Instead of throwing in the towel, he emphasizes the importance of commitment, stating, “We signed up to be the best parents we could be, whether it was for a year or for a lifetime.” We get real about the emotional toll of foster care, the challenges of navigating medical decisions, and the struggle to advocate for kids who often come with a suitcase full of trauma. It's a heartfelt conversation about how neurodiversity can actually bring unique strengths to parenting, proving that love and support can thrive even amidst chaos. Takeaways: Navigating the foster care system is not just paperwork; it's an emotional rollercoaster that demands a solid support network. Autism and ADHD can actually complement parenting styles, especially in structured environments where routines are key. The impact of trauma on children in foster care is profound, often leading to complex emotional and developmental challenges. Awareness of autism has dramatically increased, yet many still underestimate the importance of tailored support for children with special needs.

    58 min

  2. MAR 25

    Educational Rights & Trauma Informed Parenting with Sharon Dunlevy

    Sharon Dunleavy joins Rachel in this enlightening episode to shed some serious light on the critical role of educational advocacy for kids in foster care. With around 20,000 youth aging out of the system each year, Sharon dives deep into the staggering statistics that reveal a troubling reality—many of these kids face challenges like homelessness and incarceration. We chat about the importance of understanding trauma and how it affects learning, plus the laws that can help foster kids get the educational support they need. Sharon’s insights not only highlight the dire need for advocacy but also serve up some practical advice for foster parents navigating the educational landscape. So, whether you’re a seasoned foster parent or just curious about the system, you won’t want to miss this conversation packed with valuable info and a few laughs along the way! Sharon Dunleavy, a passionate advocate for foster care education, brings her wealth of experience to the conversation, diving deep into the often-overlooked needs of children in foster care. With a background in special education and over two decades in ministry, Sharon's journey into foster care advocacy stemmed from a desire to serve vulnerable kids. She shares how she transitioned to training foster parents on educational advocacy, emphasizing the critical role that education plays in the lives of foster children. The statistics she presents are staggering: 20,000 youth age out of foster care annually, yet 25% fail to graduate high school. These numbers highlight the urgent need for informed advocates like Sharon, who work tirelessly to ensure that every child in the foster system receives the educational support they deserve. The conversation touches on systemic issues within the foster care system and the importance of trauma-informed practices in schools, shedding light on how teachers can better understand and support their students. Sharon's insights serve as a wake-up call for all of us to step up and be advocates for these children, whose futures depend on the support and resources we provide today. Takeaways: Foster kids need strong advocates; their voices often get lost in the shuffle. Educational rights for foster kids can be confusing, so it's crucial for foster parents to understand them. Trauma significantly affects the brain's development; early intervention can help improve outcomes for foster kids. Discipline is about teaching, not punishment; it's essential to focus on the positives in behavior management. Many foster kids face mental health challenges; being trauma-informed is key to supporting their needs. Statistics reveal that a large percentage of youth aging out of foster care face dire challenges; awareness is the first step to change. Companies mentioned in this episode: sharondunlevy.com Every Student Succeeds Act Individuals with Disabilities Act Family First Prevention Services Act Annie Casey Foundation Aquarius Rising Split Rock Studios Joe Fulginiti

    53 min

  3. MAR 4

    Hair Care for Black Kids: Tips for White Parents from Terria Roushun

    Terria Roushun joins me today to dive into the heart of hair care and its cultural significance, especially for transracial adoptive parents of Black children. She emphasizes that caring for a child's hair is not just about styling—it's about recognizing and affirming their identity and heritage. Terria, a licensed cosmetologist and trauma-informed care expert, shares her journey from a corporate career to empowering families with the knowledge and tools they need to navigate cultural nuances in hair care. We chat about the importance of understanding the history behind Black hair and how it intertwines with self-esteem and pride. Plus, Terria offers practical advice for parents feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of caring for their child's hair, reminding us all that it's totally okay to learn and grow together in this journey. Terria Roushun, the founder of Hair Essentials and a certified trauma-informed care expert, joins Rachel for a rich discussion that goes beyond hair care – it’s about understanding identity, culture, and love. As we kick things off, Terria passionately explains how learning about the cultural significance of hair is a vital part of parenting black children. She emphasizes that it’s not just about keeping hair neat and styled; it’s about making a profound statement to your child: “I see you, I value you.” With humor and insight, Rachel and Terria dissect the common fears and anxieties that adoptive parents face when caring for a black child’s hair. It’s like diving into a treasure chest of wisdom, where you realize that every coil and curl carries a story and a history. Throughout the conversation, they tackle the misconceptions surrounding black hair, dispelling the idea that it’s a daunting task that requires some magical product. Instead, Terria encourages parents to view hair care as an opportunity for connection – a bonding time that can lead to deeper discussions about identity and self-worth. With relatable stories and practical tips, Terria inspires parents to embrace this journey with love and confidence, reminding them that learning how to care for their child’s hair is not a chore but a beautiful act of love. The episode is not just educational; it’s also heartwarming and empowering. It serves as a reminder that the journey of transracial adoption is filled with both challenges and immense joy. Listeners will leave feeling motivated to not only take care of hair but to also celebrate the unique identities of their children. If you’re looking to enrich your understanding of hair care in the context of cultural identity, this episode is your golden ticket! Takeaways: Understanding the cultural significance of hair in black children fosters self-esteem and identity. Hair care for black children is deeply intertwined with history and personal pride, beyond mere maintenance. Transracial adoptive parents must actively engage in learning about hair care to empower their children. Creating a positive hair care routine can transform it into a bonding experience between parent and child. Parents often underestimate the emotional weight of hair care for their black children, leading to anxiety. Terria emphasizes that learning about black hair is a continuous journey, not just a one-time task. LINKS: Terria's website Terria's Facebook Group

    53 min

  4. FEB 25

    Transforming Lives Through Foster Care: A Conversation with Dr. John DeGarmo

    Rachel Fulginiti sits down with Dr. John DeGarmo, a powerhouse in the world of foster care and adoption, to dig into the importance of providing every child with a forever family. Dr. DeGarmo shares his heartfelt journey into fostering, sparked by personal loss and a desire to help kids who have faced unimaginable challenges. With over 60 children welcomed into his home, he’s not just talking the talk; he’s living it. We dive into the nitty-gritty of what it means to foster, the misconceptions that often cloud the process, and the critical need for compassionate support within the foster care system. Trust me, this episode is packed with insight, inspiration, and a few laughs along the way! Dr. John DeGarmo, a passionate advocate for foster care, shares his deeply personal journey in the world of fostering and adoption. As he opens up about his initial reluctance to become a foster parent, he recounts the tragic loss of his first child and how this experience ignited a desire within him and his wife to help other children in need. With a heartwarming candor, John elaborates on how his family has fostered over 60 children and adopted three, emphasizing the profound impact this journey has had on his biological children, instilling in them a spirit of compassion and service to others. The discussion also dives into the challenges faced by foster parents, particularly in light of the mental health crisis exacerbated by the pandemic and the alarming rise in human trafficking cases linked to vulnerable children in foster care. John highlights the urgent need for more foster families and the critical role that support services play in the lives of both foster parents and the children they care for. He candidly shares anecdotes that illustrate the chaos and joy of raising a large family, including humorous moments that arise from the unique experiences of fostering. In a heartfelt conclusion, John reminds listeners that while they may not be able to change the world, they have the power to change the world for a child in their home. His story is a powerful testament to love, resilience, and the transformative power of family, encouraging everyone to consider how they might help children in crisis, even if foster parenting isn’t an option for them. Takeaways: Dr. John DeGarmo emphasizes that every child deserves a loving, forever family, which is a fundamental belief driving his work in foster care and adoption. The podcast highlights the significant challenges in foster parenting, including grief and loss when children are reunified or leave the home for any reason. Foster parents must be well-prepared and supported, as the experiences can vary drastically with each child's unique background and needs. Dr. DeGarmo shares personal anecdotes illustrating the joys and challenges of fostering, including humorous moments that come with raising kids in a chaotic environment. The need for foster families has grown, especially post-pandemic, with rising mental health issues and a lack of resources for both children and foster parents. Awareness and advocacy are crucial; even if one can't foster, there are many ways to support children in crisis within the community. Links referenced in this episode: fromfoster2forever.comfoster2foreverpodcast (Instagram)The FosterCare Institute (Dr. John's organization)

    51 min

  5. FEB 18

    From Cancer Survivor to Mom: Heather Keller's Adoption Journey

    Actress and cancer survivor Heather Keller joins us today, sharing her inspiring journey as a foster-to-adopt mom in a transracial family. Heather shares what led her to fostering and how she managed to begin the journey while also performing a one-woman show overseas. As the episode progresses, we discuss the unique challenges and joys that come with raising a child of a different race and how it has opened her eyes to the realities of the world around her. Heather opens up about her experience navigating the foster system, the emotional rollercoaster of adoption, and the bittersweet nature of fostering, where joy is tinged with the complexity of loss. We also touch on the importance of representation, and how Heather’s daughter has made her aware of the need for diversity in their community. Get ready for some heartfelt stories, relatable struggles, and a few laughs as we explore the ups and downs of creating a family through foster care and adoption! Navigating the world of fostering and adoption can be an intricate dance, and Heather Keller's insights on this journey are nuanced and heartfelt. After her battle with breast cancer, Heather and her husband felt a strong calling to foster a child, leading them to a beautiful yet challenging path. They welcomed their daughter into their lives, a journey marked by uncertainty and hope. Heather shares the emotional weight of the foster-to-adopt process, from initial meetings with social workers to the joy of finally bringing their daughter home. Her candid recounting of their experiences provides listeners with a glimpse into the realities of fostering, including the bureaucracy and emotional intricacies involved. In this episode, the conversation takes a deeper plunge into the complexities of transracial adoption. Heather reflects on her own journey of understanding as a white mother raising a Black child, revealing the eye-opening experiences that made her more aware of racial dynamics in their community. She discusses the significance of representation, the importance of seeking out diverse environments for her daughter, and how her parenting approach has evolved. Heather's journey is not just about providing a loving home; it's about actively challenging societal norms and ensuring her daughter feels a sense of belonging in a world that can sometimes be unwelcoming. Listeners will find themselves moved by Heather's story as she emphasizes the need for open conversations about race and identity within families. The episode serves as a powerful reminder of the love and dedication required in the fostering process and the commitment to nurturing a child's cultural identity. For anyone considering fostering or adoption, Heather's journey offers hope, encouragement, and the understanding that while the path may be fraught with challenges, the rewards are immeasurable. Takeaways: Heather shares her journey of fostering and adopting, highlighting the emotional rollercoaster involved. The conversation dives deep into the challenges and joys of being a transracial family in today's society. Heather emphasizes the importance of being adaptable and open-minded when raising adopted children from different backgrounds. Both hosts discuss the bittersweet reality of fostering, where joy often intersects with past traumas of the child. They stress the significance of community support, especially from those who have navigated similar paths in fostering or adoption. Heather reflects on how fostering can break generational cycles of hardship, providing a brighter future for children in need. Links referenced in this episode: https://www.fromfoster2forever.com/https://heatherkeller.net/https://fosterall.org/https://iloveluluhairspa.com/https://jasonsarubbi.com/ (Split Rock Studios) Companies mentioned in this...

    58 min

  6. FEB 11

    Family Dynamics: Therapist Jeanette Yoffe on the unique needs of adopted children

    Jeanette Yoffe dives deep into the complexities of foster care and adoption in this enlightening chat. As an adult adoptee, she shares her personal experiences, revealing how her journey through the foster system shaped her career as a psychotherapist advocating for children in similar situations. We discuss the crucial role of emotional support for kids grappling with grief and loss, emphasizing that they can't always piece together their stories alone—sometimes, they need a little help from the adults around them. Jeannette stresses the importance of finding an adoption-competent therapist and also introduces some unique interventions for parents, like creating a question box to encourage open dialogue about adoption. She recommends many free resources on her youtube page, as well. Takeaways: Jeanette Yoffe shares her own personal journey through foster care and adoption, highlighting the importance of understanding a child's emotional experiences. She emphasizes the need for open conversations about adoption to help children process their feelings of loss and identity. The concept of genetic mirroring is crucial for adoptees as it helps them understand their identity and where they come from. Jeanette discusses the significance of therapeutic parenting, encouraging parents to validate their child's feelings and foster open communication about their past. She introduces the idea of a question box for adopted children, allowing them to express their curiosities and concerns in a safe space. The episode stresses the need for foster and adoptive families to embrace cultural differences, promoting a sense of belonging and identity within the family. Companies mentioned in this episode: Celia Center Yoffe Therapy Pesi Jeanette-ically Speaking (Jeanette's Youtube)

    1h 12m

  7. FEB 4

    Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster of Foster Care

    Maryanne shares her compelling journey as a foster parent navigating the complex and often tumultuous world of foster care. She emphasizes the emotional rollercoaster that comes with fostering, highlighting the unique challenges of raising children in limbo while waiting for legal resolutions. Maryanne's story dives deep into her experiences with sibling sets, the impact of the legal system on children's lives, and the importance of community support. The conversation also touches on the weight of attachment and the heart-wrenching decisions foster parents must face, as they balance their desire to provide a stable home with the realities of reunification efforts. Join Rachel and Maryanne as they candidly explore the joys and struggles of fostering, while advocating for the well-being of all children involved. The episode unfolds a moving narrative as Maryanne, a dedicated foster parent, recounts her experiences with a sibling set of young children. Her story is interwoven with emotions of love, uncertainty, and the weight of responsibility that comes with caring for children who have faced significant challenges. Maryanne reflects on her initial journey into fostering, guided by her desire to make a difference in the lives of children and the encouragement of her therapist. As she shares her experiences, the listener gains insight into the emotional toll of fostering, particularly the heart-wrenching moments of separation and the constant fear of instability in the children's lives. The conversation takes a deeper dive into the complexities of the foster care system, highlighting the challenges foster parents face in navigating legal battles and the often slow-moving judicial processes. Marianne candidly expresses her frustrations with the system, discussing the emotional whiplash experienced during court hearings and the anxiety that accompanies being a foster parent. She emphasizes the importance of advocacy, not just for the children in her care but for the entire foster care system, urging listeners to recognize the need for change and support for foster families. Throughout the episode, the theme of community shines brightly as Maryanne talks about her support network and the friendships she has forged with other foster parents. This camaraderie provides a lifeline amidst challenges, allowing her to share experiences and strategies for navigating the complexities of parenting in a foster care context. Marianne's story serves as a heartfelt reminder of the profound impact foster parents can have on children's lives, as well as the need for compassion and understanding within the system that supports them. Takeaways: Maryanne shares her emotional journey as a single foster parent navigating complex legalities. The podcast emphasizes the importance of having a strong support network for foster parents. Maryanne discusses the challenges of fostering siblings and the emotional toll it takes. Listeners learn about the intricacies of the foster care system and the ICWA laws. Maryanne reflects on the highs and lows of fostering, including the uncertainty of reunification. Both Rachel and Maryanne highlight the significance of advocating for children's best interests.

    1h 6m

  8. JAN 28

    Empowering Foster Families: Brittany Viebrock on Support and Community

    Brittany Viebrock, the Program Success Manager at Austin Angels, joins Rachel Fulginiti to discuss the vital support system for families and youth navigating the foster care system. The mission of Austin Angels is to walk alongside these families, providing volunteers who offer relationship-building and wraparound support. Brittany shares her extensive experience working with children in foster care and highlights the significant difference that community support can make in reducing the number of families who feel isolated in their journey. They also delve into the impact of recent legislative changes on child removal criteria in Texas, expressing concerns about the implications for vulnerable children. Listeners will find inspiration in the stories of kindness and connection that emerge from Brittany's work, revealing the beauty that exists within the foster care system. Brittany Viebrock's compelling story as a Program Success Manager at Austin Angels unveils the transformative power of community support in the foster care system. With a wealth of experience in social work and personal ties to foster care, Brittany eloquently articulates the mission of Austin Angels: to walk alongside families, youth, and children who are experiencing foster care through intentional relationships and comprehensive support. The episode reveals how the organization has evolved from a small community initiative into a national movement, now encompassing 17 chapters across 14 states, all dedicated to improving the lives of those affected by foster care. As the conversation unfolds, Brittany addresses the isolating nature of foster care, sharing her insights on why many families struggle to continue fostering. She highlights the innovative programs offered by Austin Angels, such as the Love Box program and the Dare to Dream mentorship initiative, designed to provide ongoing support and guidance to foster families and youth. Through these programs, volunteers are matched with families and youth based on shared interests and experiences, fostering deep connections that can last well beyond the formal program. The episode serves as a critical reminder of the importance of community in mitigating the challenges faced by foster families, encouraging listeners to consider how they might contribute to this vital work. The discussion also delves into current challenges within the foster care system, particularly the impact of recent legislative changes that have made child removal criteria more stringent. Brittany expresses her concerns about the potential consequences of these changes, which may lead to children remaining in unsafe environments longer than necessary. This segment of the episode sheds light on the complexities of the foster care system and the urgent need for advocates who can champion the rights and well-being of vulnerable children. Listeners are left with a call to action: to engage with their local foster care programs, whether through volunteering, mentoring, or simply raising awareness about the realities of foster care. Brittany's passionate insights and the uplifting stories shared throughout the episode highlight the resilience of foster families and the profound impact that community support can have on the lives of children in care. Takeaways: Brittany Viebrock discusses the importance of support systems for foster families and children. Austin Angels started as a local initiative before expanding into the National Angels program. The mission of Austin Angels is to provide ongoing support for families in the foster care system. Brittany highlights the critical need for volunteers and mentors in foster care support. Children in foster care often face trauma from multiple placements; stability is crucial. Building relationships between volunteers and families can significantly improve foster care experiences. Links...

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There are many ways to build your family. Fostering-to-adopt is not the easiest, but it's a beautiful and profoundly impactful thing to do. Join Rachel Fulginiti, a voice actor and two-time foster to adopt mom, as she shares her own story and the stories of others who have successfully navigated the foster care system and landed at adoption. We explore the complex journey, touching on subjects like welcoming newborns or older children into your home, resiliency through loss and heartbreak, transracial adoption, special needs, co-parenting through a divorce, and more. We also aim to amplify the voices of adult adoptees, who can teach us so much through their lived experience. If you've ever considered fostering and/or adoption, experienced it first-hand, or are simply curious to learn more, this show is for you.

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    Rachel Fulginiti
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    23
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    © Copyright 2025 Rachel Fulginiti
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