From Foster to Forever

Rachel Fulginiti
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From Foster to Forever

There are many ways to build your family. Fostering-to-adopt is not the easiest, but it's a beautiful and profoundly impactful thing to do. Join Rachel Fulginiti, a voice actor and two-time foster to adopt mom, as she shares her own story and the stories of others who have successfully navigated the foster care system and landed at adoption. We explore the complex journey, touching on subjects like welcoming newborns or older children into your home, resiliency through loss and heartbreak, transracial adoption, special needs, co-parenting through a divorce, and more. We also aim to amplify the voices of adult adoptees, who can teach us so much through their lived experience. If you've ever considered fostering and/or adoption, experienced it first-hand, or are simply curious to learn more, this show is for you.

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    From Cancer Survivor to Mom: Heather Keller's Adoption Journey

    Actress and cancer survivor Heather Keller joins us today, sharing her inspiring journey as a foster-to-adopt mom in a transracial family. Heather shares what led her to fostering and how she managed to begin the journey while also performing a one-woman show overseas. As the episode progresses, we discuss the unique challenges and joys that come with raising a child of a different race and how it has opened her eyes to the realities of the world around her. Heather opens up about her experience navigating the foster system, the emotional rollercoaster of adoption, and the bittersweet nature of fostering, where joy is tinged with the complexity of loss. We also touch on the importance of representation, and how Heather’s daughter has made her aware of the need for diversity in their community. Get ready for some heartfelt stories, relatable struggles, and a few laughs as we explore the ups and downs of creating a family through foster care and adoption! Navigating the world of fostering and adoption can be an intricate dance, and Heather Keller's insights on this journey are nuanced and heartfelt. After her battle with breast cancer, Heather and her husband felt a strong calling to foster a child, leading them to a beautiful yet challenging path. They welcomed their daughter into their lives, a journey marked by uncertainty and hope. Heather shares the emotional weight of the foster-to-adopt process, from initial meetings with social workers to the joy of finally bringing their daughter home. Her candid recounting of their experiences provides listeners with a glimpse into the realities of fostering, including the bureaucracy and emotional intricacies involved. In this episode, the conversation takes a deeper plunge into the complexities of transracial adoption. Heather reflects on her own journey of understanding as a white mother raising a Black child, revealing the eye-opening experiences that made her more aware of racial dynamics in their community. She discusses the significance of representation, the importance of seeking out diverse environments for her daughter, and how her parenting approach has evolved. Heather's journey is not just about providing a loving home; it's about actively challenging societal norms and ensuring her daughter feels a sense of belonging in a world that can sometimes be unwelcoming. Listeners will find themselves moved by Heather's story as she emphasizes the need for open conversations about race and identity within families. The episode serves as a powerful reminder of the love and dedication required in the fostering process and the commitment to nurturing a child's cultural identity. For anyone considering fostering or adoption, Heather's journey offers hope, encouragement, and the understanding that while the path may be fraught with challenges, the rewards are immeasurable. Takeaways: Heather shares her journey of fostering and adopting, highlighting the emotional rollercoaster involved. The conversation dives deep into the challenges and joys of being a transracial family in today's society. Heather emphasizes the importance of being adaptable and open-minded when raising adopted children from different backgrounds. Both hosts discuss the bittersweet reality of fostering, where joy often intersects with past traumas of the child. They stress the significance of community support, especially from those who have navigated similar paths in fostering or adoption. Heather reflects on how fostering can break generational cycles of hardship, providing a brighter future for children in need. Links referenced in this episode: https://www.fromfoster2forever.com/https://heatherkeller.net/https://fosterall.org/https://iloveluluhairspa.com/https://jasonsarubbi.com/ (Split Rock Studios) Companies mentioned in this...

    58 min

  2. FEB 11

    Family Dynamics: Therapist Jeanette Yoffe on the unique needs of adopted children

    Jeanette Yoffe dives deep into the complexities of foster care and adoption in this enlightening chat. As an adult adoptee, she shares her personal experiences, revealing how her journey through the foster system shaped her career as a psychotherapist advocating for children in similar situations. We discuss the crucial role of emotional support for kids grappling with grief and loss, emphasizing that they can't always piece together their stories alone—sometimes, they need a little help from the adults around them. Jeannette stresses the importance of finding an adoption-competent therapist and also introduces some unique interventions for parents, like creating a question box to encourage open dialogue about adoption. She recommends many free resources on her youtube page, as well. Takeaways: Jeanette Yoffe shares her own personal journey through foster care and adoption, highlighting the importance of understanding a child's emotional experiences. She emphasizes the need for open conversations about adoption to help children process their feelings of loss and identity. The concept of genetic mirroring is crucial for adoptees as it helps them understand their identity and where they come from. Jeanette discusses the significance of therapeutic parenting, encouraging parents to validate their child's feelings and foster open communication about their past. She introduces the idea of a question box for adopted children, allowing them to express their curiosities and concerns in a safe space. The episode stresses the need for foster and adoptive families to embrace cultural differences, promoting a sense of belonging and identity within the family. Companies mentioned in this episode: Celia Center Yoffe Therapy Pesi Jeanette-ically Speaking (Jeanette's Youtube)

    1h 12m

  3. FEB 4

    Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster of Foster Care

    Maryanne shares her compelling journey as a foster parent navigating the complex and often tumultuous world of foster care. She emphasizes the emotional rollercoaster that comes with fostering, highlighting the unique challenges of raising children in limbo while waiting for legal resolutions. Maryanne's story dives deep into her experiences with sibling sets, the impact of the legal system on children's lives, and the importance of community support. The conversation also touches on the weight of attachment and the heart-wrenching decisions foster parents must face, as they balance their desire to provide a stable home with the realities of reunification efforts. Join Rachel and Maryanne as they candidly explore the joys and struggles of fostering, while advocating for the well-being of all children involved. The episode unfolds a moving narrative as Maryanne, a dedicated foster parent, recounts her experiences with a sibling set of young children. Her story is interwoven with emotions of love, uncertainty, and the weight of responsibility that comes with caring for children who have faced significant challenges. Maryanne reflects on her initial journey into fostering, guided by her desire to make a difference in the lives of children and the encouragement of her therapist. As she shares her experiences, the listener gains insight into the emotional toll of fostering, particularly the heart-wrenching moments of separation and the constant fear of instability in the children's lives. The conversation takes a deeper dive into the complexities of the foster care system, highlighting the challenges foster parents face in navigating legal battles and the often slow-moving judicial processes. Marianne candidly expresses her frustrations with the system, discussing the emotional whiplash experienced during court hearings and the anxiety that accompanies being a foster parent. She emphasizes the importance of advocacy, not just for the children in her care but for the entire foster care system, urging listeners to recognize the need for change and support for foster families. Throughout the episode, the theme of community shines brightly as Maryanne talks about her support network and the friendships she has forged with other foster parents. This camaraderie provides a lifeline amidst challenges, allowing her to share experiences and strategies for navigating the complexities of parenting in a foster care context. Marianne's story serves as a heartfelt reminder of the profound impact foster parents can have on children's lives, as well as the need for compassion and understanding within the system that supports them. Takeaways: Maryanne shares her emotional journey as a single foster parent navigating complex legalities. The podcast emphasizes the importance of having a strong support network for foster parents. Maryanne discusses the challenges of fostering siblings and the emotional toll it takes. Listeners learn about the intricacies of the foster care system and the ICWA laws. Maryanne reflects on the highs and lows of fostering, including the uncertainty of reunification. Both Rachel and Maryanne highlight the significance of advocating for children's best interests.

    1h 6m

  4. JAN 28

    Empowering Foster Families: Brittany Viebrock on Support and Community

    Brittany Viebrock, the Program Success Manager at Austin Angels, joins Rachel Fulginiti to discuss the vital support system for families and youth navigating the foster care system. The mission of Austin Angels is to walk alongside these families, providing volunteers who offer relationship-building and wraparound support. Brittany shares her extensive experience working with children in foster care and highlights the significant difference that community support can make in reducing the number of families who feel isolated in their journey. They also delve into the impact of recent legislative changes on child removal criteria in Texas, expressing concerns about the implications for vulnerable children. Listeners will find inspiration in the stories of kindness and connection that emerge from Brittany's work, revealing the beauty that exists within the foster care system. Brittany Viebrock's compelling story as a Program Success Manager at Austin Angels unveils the transformative power of community support in the foster care system. With a wealth of experience in social work and personal ties to foster care, Brittany eloquently articulates the mission of Austin Angels: to walk alongside families, youth, and children who are experiencing foster care through intentional relationships and comprehensive support. The episode reveals how the organization has evolved from a small community initiative into a national movement, now encompassing 17 chapters across 14 states, all dedicated to improving the lives of those affected by foster care. As the conversation unfolds, Brittany addresses the isolating nature of foster care, sharing her insights on why many families struggle to continue fostering. She highlights the innovative programs offered by Austin Angels, such as the Love Box program and the Dare to Dream mentorship initiative, designed to provide ongoing support and guidance to foster families and youth. Through these programs, volunteers are matched with families and youth based on shared interests and experiences, fostering deep connections that can last well beyond the formal program. The episode serves as a critical reminder of the importance of community in mitigating the challenges faced by foster families, encouraging listeners to consider how they might contribute to this vital work. The discussion also delves into current challenges within the foster care system, particularly the impact of recent legislative changes that have made child removal criteria more stringent. Brittany expresses her concerns about the potential consequences of these changes, which may lead to children remaining in unsafe environments longer than necessary. This segment of the episode sheds light on the complexities of the foster care system and the urgent need for advocates who can champion the rights and well-being of vulnerable children. Listeners are left with a call to action: to engage with their local foster care programs, whether through volunteering, mentoring, or simply raising awareness about the realities of foster care. Brittany's passionate insights and the uplifting stories shared throughout the episode highlight the resilience of foster families and the profound impact that community support can have on the lives of children in care. Takeaways: Brittany Viebrock discusses the importance of support systems for foster families and children. Austin Angels started as a local initiative before expanding into the National Angels program. The mission of Austin Angels is to provide ongoing support for families in the foster care system. Brittany highlights the critical need for volunteers and mentors in foster care support. Children in foster care often face trauma from multiple placements; stability is crucial. Building relationships between volunteers and families can significantly improve foster care experiences. Links...

    48 min

  5. JAN 21

    The Power of Kinship: How Naika Became a Foster Mom

    The heartfelt discussion between Naika Andre and Rachel Fulginiti delves deeply into Naika's profound journey as a foster mom, focusing on her experiences caring for her godson amidst challenging family circumstances. The episode begins with Naika sharing the pivotal moment when she stepped into the role of a foster parent due to her godson's mother's mental health struggles. This transition was not just about taking on a new title but involved a significant emotional commitment and responsibility. Naika reflects on the emotional complexities of her godson's situation, including the need to explain his mother's absence while ensuring he felt loved and supported in their family environment. Throughout the episode, Naika emphasizes the importance of maintaining ties to the child's biological family. She explains how they spoke openly about his mother, ensuring he understood that she was still loved and a part of their lives despite the circumstances. This delicate balance of fostering while honoring the child's roots showcases Naika's dedication to providing a holistic approach to care. The conversation also highlights the support systems that played a crucial role in her journey, including therapists and social workers, who helped both her and her godson navigate the emotional landscape of their new reality.  As the discussion progresses, Naika transitions to her professional career as an interior designer and business owner, expressing a desire to create nurturing spaces for foster families. She talks about how her experiences in foster care have inspired her to advocate for well-designed homes that promote emotional well-being for all the people that live there. Naika's insights into the design process reflect her understanding of the importance of safe, expressive environments for children who have faced instability in their lives, and the adults who care for them. The episode captures the essence of Naika's life changing journey, illustrating how personal experiences can lead to a greater understanding of community needs and inspire a commitment to making a positive impact in the lives of others. Takeaways: Naika shares how stepping into her role as a godmother was a divine calling to care for her cousin during a family crisis. The podcast highlights the importance of community support for those considering foster care and adoption processes. Navigating foster care can be a rollercoaster, especially when family dynamics are involved. Naika emphasizes the significance of creating a safe and happy home environment for foster children. The experience of fostering has made Naika more vulnerable and open to asking for help. Naika's journey showcases how important it is to recognize and support children's emotional needs during transitions. Companies mentioned in this episode: NJA Interiors (Naika's company) City Living

    50 min

  6. JAN 14

    Adoption, Sobriety and Resilience: a conversation with Beth Dubber

    In this episode, we welcome Beth Dubber, a busy still photographer and an adoptee who later became a foster-to-adopt mom. Beth shares her multifaceted story, including her experiences with IVF, adoption, and navigating life as both an adoptee and an adoptive parent. She discusses the challenges of infertility, her sobriety journey, and surviving breast cancer. Beth opens up about the emotional and psychological aspects of adoption, societal perceptions, and the complexities of her experience. She emphasizes the importance of support systems like foster family agencies (FFAs) and the necessity of open conversations regarding trauma in adoptive families. This episode offers insightful perspectives for anyone interested in adoption, fostering, and overcoming personal hurdles, while always maintaining a sense of humor. Links: The Primal Wound (book she recommends) You Should be Grateful (another book discussed) Paul Sunderland lecture on Adoptees and addiction Adoptees On podcast 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:38 Beth's Family and IVF Journey 02:51 Challenges and Triumphs of IVF 12:49 Adoption and Foster Care Decision 16:07 Adoptee Experience and Support 30:21 Facing the Fear of Loss 31:14 Parenting Reflections and Challenges 31:38 Expressing Emotions and Providing Safety 33:15 Navigating Racial Identity and Adoption 35:55 Adoption Conversations and Normalization 39:59 The Impact of Family Dynamics 43:57 Co-Parenting and Living Arrangements 46:57 Adoption Process and Challenges 55:55 Addressing Pre-Birth Trauma 01:00:09 Resources and Final Thoughts

    1h 6m

  7. JAN 7

    Young, Queer and Suddenly Dad: Billie Oh's Unexpected Foster to Adopt Journey

    I found my way to Billie Oh via a beautiful article in the Huffington Post about their experience with Single Foster Dad Adoption. Billie began the foster journey with no intention of adopting, but life had other plans. No stranger to the foster care system, Billie grew up having foster children in the home. In addition, Billie's aunt and mom (the great writer Jeannine Ouellette,)had been in foster care as children themselves. Billie felt a calling to help. Suddenly welcoming a two year old into their home was a huge step. We talk about the chaotic first few weeks of bringing a toddler home as well as being a younger (20's), single, Queer parent and growing up trail by fire. In this rich episode, we also discuss: -Attachment bonding -Navigating a challenging system: the surprises, realties, and delicate dance of it all -Queer dating as a single parent -Transracial adoption and parenting and its unique demands. -Children with special needs, the importance of early intervention and utilizing all of the services available.

    1h 6m

  8. 12/14/2024

    Using Your Sphere of Influence with actress Jen Lilley

    Days of Our Lives and Hallmark Channel star Jen Lilley is a foster-to-adopt mom and philanthropist who donates tons of her time, money and energy to championing the cause of foster youth. In this episode she takes time out of her busy filming schedule to discuss why she chose to spotlight foster care and adoption as her cause of choice. In the episode Jen details how she and her husband decided to begin fostering and how they ultimately adopted two siblings, as well as eventually having two biological children, as well. She discusses her faith and how it helps guide her in all her decision making, and discusses being a celebrity ambassador for Childhelp.org as well as her work with Tulsa Girls Home (TulsaGirlsHome.org), relaying the magical synchronicities that led her to partner with Founder/CEO Brittany. Jen also discusses the goal of reunification and how and why a child would be adopted when that goal isn't possible. She talks about how she managed / manages being a busy actress and foster mom/mom, and she shares about her previous work with "Christmas Is Not Cancelled" as well as her new venture with RaiseTheReel.com - a very special opportunity to become involved, help charity and filmmakers and have a walk on roll in one of her movies! She also mentions CharityFinder.org as a great way to find legitimate charities to support, and mentions asking for an organization's 990 form https://www.irs.gov/forms-pubs/about-form-990 to see where their money is going.

    1h 1m
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There are many ways to build your family. Fostering-to-adopt is not the easiest, but it's a beautiful and profoundly impactful thing to do. Join Rachel Fulginiti, a voice actor and two-time foster to adopt mom, as she shares her own story and the stories of others who have successfully navigated the foster care system and landed at adoption. We explore the complex journey, touching on subjects like welcoming newborns or older children into your home, resiliency through loss and heartbreak, transracial adoption, special needs, co-parenting through a divorce, and more. We also aim to amplify the voices of adult adoptees, who can teach us so much through their lived experience. If you've ever considered fostering and/or adoption, experienced it first-hand, or are simply curious to learn more, this show is for you.

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  • Creator
    Rachel Fulginiti
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    19
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2025 Rachel Fulginiti
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    From Foster to Forever

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