Institute New Paradigm Intimacy

Elizabeth Willis, PhD

This is the cutting edge of sexual evolution. Allow your body to vibrate and receive the activations from leaders around the world bringing pioneering approaches to sex, business and relating. Hosted by Dr. Elizabeth Willis

Episodes

  1. Eros and Society Series: The Power of Somatic Attunement in Sexuality with Jon Eden Khan

    12/02/2025

    Eros and Society Series: The Power of Somatic Attunement in Sexuality with Jon Eden Khan

    In a world that often prioritizes physical attraction and surface-level connections, the concept of somatic attunement offers a refreshing perspective on intimacy and sexuality. As discussed in a recent podcast episode featuring Institute New Paradigm Intimacy’s Guest Facilitator, John Eden Khan, somatic attunement is about tuning into our bodies and the bodies of others, creating a profound understanding that can enhance our intimate experiences.  Takeaways  • Somatic attunement is crucial for deepening intimacy and understanding in sexual relationships.   • Trust and safety are fundamental elements that can be communicated through our physical presence.   • Emotional awareness is equally important in creating a fulfilling intimate experience.   • Engaging in the practice of somatic attunement can transform our approach to sexuality and relationships.   Keywords: Somatic Attunement, Sexuality, Intimacy, Emotional Awareness, Relationships, Trust in Intimacy, Body Awareness, Deep Connections. About Jon: Jon Eden Khan is a transformational leader, mentor, and facilitator based in Berlin. He founded Singularity, a global political movement aiming for Earth-centered governance by 2050, and AVATARA, which explores new ways of leading, relating, and creating economies rooted in unity and life. Jon mentors a wide range of leaders—from corporate executives and FinTech innovators to LGBTQ+ activists in the Middle East and top self-development facilitators. He also supports men in reconnecting with their bodies, sexuality, and empowered masculinity. His leadership experience includes serving as European Director of the Global Purpose Movement (2016–2018) and co-founding the Synergy Forum in 2014. He also worked with Zero Point Six in Switzerland, exploring how spiritual growth can drive global change. Jon’s personal journey reflects deep resilience. He overcame school dropout, homelessness, and addiction, eventually dedicating his life to healing, growth, and leading projects that inspire collective awakening. Learn more at jonedenkhan.com and connect with him on Instagram.  💚 Subscribe now to The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy, a globally accredited school for embodied sexuality, blending science, somatics, and soul to revolutionize the way we love, lead, and connect. Our signature Self Pleasure Modality™ teaches you to heal attachment patterns, awaken pleasure, and create intimacy from the inside out. 🔔 Enjoy our podcast? Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with your community for more conversations on sacred sexuality, relational alchemy, and somatic transformation. 👉 Apply now for our Somatic Sex Coach Certification, jump on a FREE call and step into your power: newparadigmintimacy.com 📚 Join Our Community for Free: Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive insights, events, and resources to enhance your intimacy journey on the homepage of newparadigmintimacy.com. 📍 Download our FREE Love Addict Workbook and begin activating your security in love. 🎙️ Don’t miss our enlightening New Paradigm Intimacy podcast—stream them everywhere now!  🎥 Subscribe & Watch More: Check out our full-length video, dozens more and learn about our unique approaches to intimacy and personal growth! 💬 Connect with Us: Follow us on Instagram at @newparadigmintimacy and on Facebook for daily inspiration and community support! #instituteofnewparadigmintimacy #newparadigmintimacy #energy #lawofattraction #intimacybuilding #manifestation #love #intimacyunveiled #intimatewellbeing #spiritualawakening #conscioussexuality #loa # #intimacyschool #intimacycoach #intimacy #divinefeminine #divinemasculine #love #lovecoach #relationshipcoach #relationship #relationships #relationshipadvice #embodiment #sensuality #communication #selfcare #healing #connection #passion #couplegoals #marriage #sexualwellness #selflove #couple #couples #relationshipgoals #romance #spiritualawakening #selfpleasure #intimacyissues #menscoaching #womenscoaching

    36 min
  2. Eros and Society Series: Embracing Eros in Public Speaking with Miroslav Bardović

    09/30/2025

    Eros and Society Series: Embracing Eros in Public Speaking with Miroslav Bardović

    Summary In this episode of the Institute New Paradigm Intimacy podcast, host Elizabeth and guest Miroslav Bardović explore the integration of Eros into public speaking and teaching. They discuss the importance of aliveness, vulnerability, and authenticity in communication, particularly in the context of sexuality. The conversation emphasizes the need for speakers to connect with their true selves and the audience, creating a space where both can experience a sense of aliveness. They also touch on the challenges of discussing sexuality and the journey of refining one's voice and message. Takeaways • Aliveness is essential in teaching and public speaking. • Vulnerability should not be a technique but a genuine connection. • Authenticity in speaking creates trust and engagement. • Transmission involves activating a sense of aliveness in the audience. • The cultural environment influences how messages are received. • Unpolished Eros can be more impactful than polished content. • Navigating sexuality in discourse requires sensitivity and awareness. • Reflection and coaching are key to personal growth in speaking. • Embracing the unpolished allows for deeper connection and authenticity. • The journey of refining one's voice is ongoing and valuable. Keywords Eros, public speaking, vulnerability, teaching, transmission, sexuality, aliveness, intimacy, coaching, personal growth Miroslav Bardović is a TedX speaker, facilitator and best-selling author who has worked with over 20,000 people across 4 continents supporting them to bring their message to the world. He is the founder of the Enlivened Speaking Institute where he teaches speakers to deliver their message with authenticity to connect with their audience and build rapid trust. Miroslav has written an academic thesis on the use of embodied presence for engagement (Monash University - Australia’s Leading Education University) which he later utilized to write his bestselling book Give Them Goosebumps: Utilise The Power of Presence To Own The Stage of Communication. Most recently he toured the world with his signature talk Give Them Goosebumps - Advanced Speaking & Facilitation appearing on stages such as Mindvalley.His message and ‘off the beaten path’ approach speaks to leaders, coaches, and entrepreneurs who want to embrace a deeper, more conscious way of communicating and leading through mind, body and spirit. He is fascinated by how we can be more fully alive with everything we do and believes that being in connection with our own personal presence is the most important, dynamic relationship we have in life.  This is the Power of Presence.

    33 min
  3. Self Pleasure Education Series: Jon Eden Khan

    01/28/2025

    Self Pleasure Education Series: Jon Eden Khan

    Welcome to episode six of the New Paradigm Intimacy Podcast, Self Pleasure Education Series. In this episode Elizabeth interviews Jon Eden Khan They speak on: - Jon’s crossing of the Threshold into sexuality. - What is asked of one to be available for extraordinary intimacy and sexuality. - His teaching with the Institute New Paradigm Intimacy as a Guest Facilitator  Jon Eden Khan is a transformational leader, mentor, and facilitator, living in his beloved home city of Berlin.  Jon is initiator of Singularity, a trans-national political party dedicated to global governance sourced in the living Earth, the one humanity, and the power in the core of every being by 2050.  He is founder of AVATARA, which is dedicated to innovating new forms of leadership, relating and economics sourced in the One Life at the heart of all creation.  Jon mentors soul-driven leaders, from top corporate business leaders and FinTech trailblazers, to LGBT rights activists in the Middle East, to some of the most respected facilitators of transformational self-development work in the world.  And he also mentors men on a journey of connecting more deeply to their body, their sexuality, and the integration of their healthy, empowered masculinity.  Between 2016-2018 Jon worked as European Director of the Global Purpose Movement, and in 2014, he co-founded Synergy Forum, an initiative focussed on the integration of spiritual awakening, social innovation and systems transformation. Between 2012-2015 he worked as part of the leadership team of Zero Point Six in Interlaken, Switzerland, exploring how a deeper understanding of spiritual awakening can inform efforts toward global transformation.  Jon’s path has allowed him to experience a wide spectrum of the human experience. From dropping out of school at age 13 to attend a centre for troubled youths, to 5 years of homelessness and heroin addiction in his early 20’s to getting clean alone in a room over 6 months. From re-entering education and going on to turn down a PhD with one of the foremost universities in the world, to dedicating himself fully to self-development, healing his traumas and service, to co-leading international projects dedicated to humanity’s collective awakening through new approaches to leadership, power, and purpose.  Learn more about his work at: jonedenkhan.com

    45 min
  4. Self Pleasure Education Series: Matt Bruce

    10/15/2024

    Self Pleasure Education Series: Matt Bruce

    Welcome to episode three of the New Paradigm Intimacy Podcast, Self Pleasure Education Series. In this episode Elizabeth interviews Mathew Bruce. They speak on: - The importance of heart connection in Men. - What Sexual Dysfunction looks like in relationships. - Signs for men to begin exploring sexuality development. - Attachment Systems. - Nervous System work in Sexuality. - And much more. Mattew Bruce, an ex-Army veteran of 10 years, with active deployments to the Middle East and Australian Special Forces was the exhilarator to a journey of profound healing. Matthew brings a wealth of experience and knowledge to the table. A somatic and trauma expert, he is well-versed in facilitating transformative journeys through various modalities such as Breathwork, Yoga, Sexuality, and Meditation. Matthew’s remarkable ability to hold space has touched the lives of thousands of individuals worldwide, from prestigious organizations like Microsoft to popular platforms like Insight Timer. His true passion lies in guiding men towards self-improvement, encouraging them to embrace their vulnerabilities while harnessing their inner strength.  Matthew credits his 3 years spent training and facilitating in the new paradigm of intimacy as a large catalyst for his own healing and his global impact in the self development space. Explore and connect with Matthew on Instagram and his recent articles on Men’s Sexuality can be read on his Substack page. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matthewbruce.official?igsh=MXE3MDk4cXc2MnQ3YQ== Substack: https://matthewbruce.substack.com/ Elizabeth Willis, PhD. Founder, New Paradigm Teaching Institute @newparadigmteachinginstitute Dr. Elizabeth Willis, Personal Coaching @dr_elizabeth_willis drwillis@newparadigmteaching.com

    49 min
  5. Self Pleasure Education Series: Gonzalo Salinas

    08/13/2024

    Self Pleasure Education Series: Gonzalo Salinas

    Welcome to episode two of the New Paradigm Intimacy Podcast, Self Pleasure Education Series. In this episode Elizabeth interviews Gonzalo Salinas.  They speak on: • Gonzalo shares his experience with porn and porn addiction. • What porn addiction looks like. • Shame around porn addiction. • How porn addiction is an addiction of the BODY not the mind. • Elizabeth discusses how the Self Pleasure Modality™ supports the nervous system and connection back to the body. • What women’s porn addiction looks like. And much more. Gonzalo Salinas is a writer, researcher, and sex coach. He was born in Lima and moved to the U.S. in 2003. He studied Literature, and later trained at the Robbins Research International and the Landmark Education Institute. In 2013, Gonzalo began his training in masculine development at the Mankind Project, where he learned about male tribal initiations and Men's Circles. Gonzalo has received training on Tantra, Taoist Sexuality, and sacred sexuality. He started his coaching career working exclusively with men, helping them to overcome porn addiction. He published the book "Conquering Porn Addiction" available on Amazon). He then opened his practice to all kinds of people, focusing on issues of Embodiment, Healing sexual trauma, rekindling the sexual spark in couples, and reconnecting with pleasure. Gonzalo studied at the International School of Temple Arts (ISTA) and received certification as a Holistic Sexuality trainer with the Santini Model. Gonzalo loves yoga, soccer, reading, archery, and meditation. He's currently writing his second book and lives in Miami. You can find more on Gonzolo on Instagram and other socials. FOLLOW GONZALO  Instagram: @gonzalosalinas80 Purchase Gonzolo’s Book: "Conquering Porn Addiction"

    45 min
  6. 08/07/2024

    Self Pleasure to Confidence With Lourdes Starshower

    Welcome to episode one of the New Paradigm Intimacy Podcast - Self Pleasure Education Series. Lourdes Starahower is a MA, CCHT, ACTE is an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, Sacred Sexuality Coach, Relationship Coach, Shamanic Breathwork Practitioner, Clairvoyant Energy Healer, Clinical Hypnotherapist and EMDR Therapist. Lourdes is the Founder/Director of the Ecstatic Tantra Practitioner Certification Program, catalyzing the success of Tantra practitioners around the globe. She's the author of an online video program titled "Tantra Practices for Divine Ecstasy." She holds a BA in Psychology and an MA in Wellness. Lourdes coaches, empowers and supports the healing of erectile and intimacy issues in gentlemen. She also counsels, reconnects and ignites emotional intimacy and sexual alchemy in couples. She has helped hundreds of people from all over the world to heal their inner wounding, enhance their intimacy, ignite their passion and expand their joy, pleasure and ecstasy in her private practice in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida as well as on Zoom for clients all over the world. In this episode we speak on: • Our own experience journeying confidence in relationships and dating. • How self pleasure supports connecting back to the body and really understanding your own truth. • The difference between confidence with adrenaline and Embodied Confidence. • Lourdes shares her three parts to Embodied Confidence. • The discovery of your own pleasure and how it supports you to hold your boundaries and much more. FOLLOW LOURDES Instagram: @lourdestantra Website: www.tantrahealerflorida.com FOLLOW THE INSTITUTE NEW PARADIGM INTIMACY Instagram: @newparadigmintimacy Facebook: New Paradigm Intimacy  Apply for the next intake of the Institute New Paradigm Intimacy Receive the Syllabus for the Institute New Paradigm Intimacy SEE INSTITUTE NEW PARADIGM INTIMACY’S FREE OFFERINGS INCLUDING TRANSFORMATION THROUGH TOUCH (INTRODUCTION TO SELF PLEASURE) AND THE SEX MAGIC MINI COURSE.  IN MIAMI? COME TO OUR NEXT ENLIGHTENMENT IN THE BEDROOM EVENT! Instagram: @eitb_miami FOLLOW DR. ELIZABETH WILLIS Instagram: @dr_elizabeth_willis

    39 min

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This is the cutting edge of sexual evolution. Allow your body to vibrate and receive the activations from leaders around the world bringing pioneering approaches to sex, business and relating. Hosted by Dr. Elizabeth Willis