124 episodes

It's Not All Rainbows is a podcast hosted by Lindsay Goodman, a trauma recovery coach & survivor of narcissistic abuse in a queer relationship. Many licensed professionals have called narcissistic abuse "the most severe form of domestic violence" and yet, most survivors of this insidious abuse suffer behind closed doors. Most people, including mental health practitioners and first responders do not understand what this type of abuse can look like and how it can affect survivors. INAR will explore different aspects of narcissistic abuse, how to get out, and how to begin your healing journey. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships Lindsay Goodman

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It's Not All Rainbows is a podcast hosted by Lindsay Goodman, a trauma recovery coach & survivor of narcissistic abuse in a queer relationship. Many licensed professionals have called narcissistic abuse "the most severe form of domestic violence" and yet, most survivors of this insidious abuse suffer behind closed doors. Most people, including mental health practitioners and first responders do not understand what this type of abuse can look like and how it can affect survivors. INAR will explore different aspects of narcissistic abuse, how to get out, and how to begin your healing journey. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

    Using "I Love You" As a Weapon

    Using "I Love You" As a Weapon

    In today's episode, I talk about ways abusive people can use the words I love you as a weapon.

    Website: thelindsaygoodman.com

    1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman




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    • 13 min
    Abuse One in the Home, Abuse ALL in the Home

    Abuse One in the Home, Abuse ALL in the Home

    In this episode, I talk about how when someone is abusing one person at home, they're abusing EVERYONE.



    Website: thelindsaygoodman.com



    1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman


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    • 12 min
    Monkey Branching

    Monkey Branching

    In this episode I talk about monkey branching and what that can look like.



    Website: thelindsaygoodman.com

    1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman


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    • 17 min
    Why Does My Abuser Look SO Happy!?

    Why Does My Abuser Look SO Happy!?

    In this episode I talk about why abusive people LOOK so happy after your relationship with them ends.

    Website: thelindsaygoodman.com

    1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman




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    • 17 min
    You Only Like it the way I Do It: Gaslighting & Sex

    You Only Like it the way I Do It: Gaslighting & Sex

    In this episode, I talk about how some abusive people will tell you that you won't like sex with anyone else. Why do they say this? Is it true?

    Website: thelindsaygoodman.com

    1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman




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    • 14 min
    Why Does My Abuser Always Walk in Front of Me?

    Why Does My Abuser Always Walk in Front of Me?

    In this episode, I talk about what it can look like when your "partner" is always walking in front of you, and why an abusive person might do that.


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    • 19 min

Customer Reviews

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25 Ratings

Boondoggleman ,

Love all this helpful content

I appreciate all this content. Has helped me to step away and stay away from unhealthy friendships. Seeing things is clearly that had been blurry for many years. I can’t say thank you enough. I look forward to Wednesdays when I start my morning run I pull up my favorite podcasts to listen to. Yours is in my top 3! Thank you! Thank you!

hilaryharper ,

Thank you!

Wow. So beautiful knowing there are other single moms like me going thru and overcoming the same relationship struggles!! Thank you for sharing your story!!! Definitely made me feel so much less alone!

Petra Venkman ,

Eye-opening!

I discovered Lindsay from a tiktok called “what a birthday with an abusive partner can look like” and was hooked on all the content. I still deal with ptsd from a relationship with a narc 20 years ago! I even panicked when a doordash delivery person had his name and last initial. It stays with you, and through Lindsay’s content , I’ve finally put a name to many of his behaviors and manipulations. I’m lucky to be looking at it from many years in hindsight, but it’s never too late to understand it better. (many a-ha moments about how it STILL affects my marriage today) Thank you for all you do!

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