Karaoke Queen: A Conversation with Dominic Lim on Identity and Love

Join us for a conversation with Dominic Lim, the author of "Karaoke Queen," a queer rom-com that explores themes of identity, love, and the complexities of being a queer person of color. Dominic shares his journey as a writer, the challenges he faced in the publishing industry, and the importance of representation in literature. We discuss his experiences growing up Filipino and queer, the acceptance he found within his family, and the supportive community that helped him thrive.

Dominic also highlights the significance of visibility for marginalized communities and the role of storytelling in fostering understanding and connection. We touch on the importance of mental health, the realities behind social media portrayals, and the need for solidarity within the LGBTQ+ community.

As we wrap up, I reflect on the teachings of Buddhism, encouraging listeners to focus on the present moment and make choices that liberate themselves and others. I invite everyone to find opportunities for positive action in their lives, reminding them that every moment counts.

00:00:00 - Introduction and Buddhist Wisdom
Welcome back to Now, No Opportunity Wasted. Angelica Ross shares a Buddhist quote about individual responsibility and self-discipline.

00:01:05 - Political Climate and Responsibility
Discussion on the upcoming election, online discourse, and the importance of taking responsibility for societal issues.

00:02:10 - Boycotting for Change
Angelica talks about boycotting companies that support war and human rights violations, emphasizing the BDS movement.

00:03:39 - Sustainability in Fashion and Tech
A call for transparency in business practices, particularly in tech companies and their environmental impact.

00:04:49 - Introduction to Dominic Lim
Angelica introduces Dominic Lim, author of "Karaoke Queen," and discusses his excitement about the conversation.

00:05:12 - Dominic's Inspiration for Writing
Dominic shares his inspiration for "Karaoke Queen" and the exploration of queer identity within the context of drag.

00:07:47 - The Desire for Adaptations
Discussion on the potential for Dominic's stories to be adapted into movies and the challenges authors face in the industry.

00:09:51 - Challenges for Authors of Color
Dominic discusses the difficulties faced by authors of color in the publishing industry and the importance of supportive allies.

00:11:07 - Growing Up Filipino and Queer
Dominic reflects on his upbringing, family acceptance, and the dynamics of coming out within his family.

00:13:03 - The Role of Music in Writing
Dominic talks about his background in music and how it influences his writing, particularly in his books.

00:17:19 - Navigating the Legal Field
Discussion on Dominic's experience in the legal industry and how it informs his writing.

00:18:57 - Writing from Personal Experience
Dominic emphasizes the importance of writing from personal experience and the need for diverse representation in literature.

00:19:56 - Personal Life and Marriage
Dominic shares about his marriage and the importance of love in his life.

00:20:10 - Concerns for LGBTQ+ Rights
Discussion on the current political climate and fears regarding the future of LGBTQ+ rights.

00:22:09 - Visibility and Representation
The importance of visibility for marginalized communities and the role of artists in promoting diverse stories.

00:25:30 - Creating Inclusive Narratives
Dominic discusses the need for inclusive narratives in media and the importance of recognizing diverse experiences.

00:30:27 - The Importance of Support Structures
Dominic reflects on the support he received growing up and the significance of community in navigating identity.

00:32:12 - Overcoming Writer's Block
Dominic shares tips for overcoming writer's block and the importance of consistency in writing.

00:35:04 - Spirituality and Faith
Discussion on Dominic's relationship with Catholicism and how he finds spirituality within a liberal church community.

00:40:15 - Challenging Problematic Voices
Angelica and Dominic discuss the need to challenge problematic voices within religious communities.

00:41:19 - Opportunities and Challenges
Dominic reflects on the opportunities he has had and the challenges faced along the way.

00:45:01 - Conclusion and Book Promotion
Dominic shares where to find his books and the excitement surrounding the audiobook of "Karaoke Queen."