Kintsugi Conversations Allison Jones

With Father's Day just around the corner, this conversation is especially appropriate, as Allison and Cyndi explore the intricate and often underappreciated aspects of fatherhood. They not only share personal anecdotes but talk through broader societal perspectives on the evolving role of fathers.

Some of the things this mother-daughter duo discuss are:


Celebration and challenges of Fatherhood: the varied experiences of fathers, from personal involvement to societal expectations.


Gifts and Acknowledgments: appropriate ways to honor fathers, including personal stories about their Father's Day traditions and gift-giving.


Father figures and influences: the impact of father figures in each woman’s personal development and their crucial role in shaping relationships and life choices.



This episode is not just a reflection on fatherhood but a celebration of the fathers who actively shape the lives of their children, proving that the role of a father is diverse and continues to be deeply impactful on their children’s lives.



"I do think that male energy is so beneficial around children... It's necessary. Having a father figure in a kid's life as they grow up is invaluable." – Cyndi



Heads up! Do you have any Father’s Day or dad-related questions? Allison’s husband, DJ, will be joining our mother-daughter duo on the next episode! Leave them in the comments, send them an email, or message them @kintsugi.conversations




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‘Tis the season!

Not Christmas (yet) but it IS time to talk #allthingssummer

Allison and Cyndi start today’s conversation talking about graduation (or “gradulation,” as Harper calls it): Cyndi reminisces about Allison’s milestones, and Allison dishes on what she has planned for her own kiddos!

And, of course, that's the perfect segue to share summer plans. You’ll want to stick around to the end, when Allison shares three hacks she’s using to make summer go smoother for the whole family.

They want to hear from you, too! Use this link to share your summer plans, hacks, ideas…whatever you got! We could all use the help! 🙂 



"As a parent, I go back and forth between being very excited about summer, and dreading summer…having those little ones home more…can be a lot." – Allison




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Let’s celebrate women, mothers, and the ties that bind us…

This touching episode of Kintsugi Conversations was recorded live on Galentine's Day, at an event that hosts Allison and Cindy held for family and friends. Over brunch at an Atlanta venue, they dove into the heartfelt dynamics of mother-daughter relationships, and share it with you as their Mother's Day “gift”! The event captured candid moments and raw emotions, offering listeners a unique and authentic experience.

While discussing topics such as aging and dealing with mortality, showing appreciation for loved ones, and the power of flowers and forgiveness, their conversation celebrates the love between mothers and daughters. Cindy talks about her complicated relationship with her late mother, which led to a broader discussion about ensuring meaningful communication with loved ones to avoid regrets. 

The show is a poignant reminder about the challenging relationships that shape us and the importance of expressing love, appreciation, and sometimes forgiveness to those who matter most.



"We all assume that we have all the time in the world but we don’t. And so we wanted to kind of talk about the importance of giving each other our flowers while we can still smell them." – Allison



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What a poignant reminder of the inevitable challenges and changes families face as they navigate the complexities of aging, health, and caregiving!  Through Cyndi and Allison’s transparent conversation, we're reminded of the resilience and beauty that can be found in the face of adversity.

The dynamic duo discusses the importance of open communication, how and what to plan for, and making the most out of the time with our loved ones…

Plus:


How do families cope with the gradual decline of aging parents?


What challenges do caregivers face when they become the ones in need of care?


Why is it important to discuss and document end-of-life wishes with your loved ones?


How can families create lasting memories with their aging parents?



"Let's make sure we create memories now, so we don't have anything left unsaid or any questions about what that person would want." – Allison

And just for fun, Allison shares some bucket list items she wants to accomplish with her mom...

Important Resources on the website: 


Allison and Cyndi’s discussion guide - to make it easier to start those end-of-life conversations


Their comprehensive Mother’s Day gift guide - that sweet-and-special day is right around the corner!



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In this insightful episode, hosts Allison and Cindy delve into the complexities of navigating big feelings in children, especially as they relate to the empathy and sensitivity observed in Allison's daughter, Harper. The conversation explores the fine line between empathetic sensitivity and the heightened emotional reactions it can provoke. Cindy shares her experiences and strategies as a parent and grandparent, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and validating children's feelings while also managing parental reactions.

Some of the questions they discuss include:


How can parents differentiate between tantrums and big feelings in children?


What strategies can parents use to validate their children's emotions effectively?


How does high empathy in children affect their emotional regulation and sensitivity?


In what ways can parents manage their own reactions to their children's big feelings?


How can communication be improved between parents and highly-sensitive children?



“Our children need to be seen and heard... As long as those things are validated and you're given the floor to try to express what it is that you are feeling, that's important.” - Cyndi



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Yes, they even talk about the “S” word in marriage - and we’re not talkin’ sex…

Coming at the topic from two different generations, Allison and Cyndi discuss the topic of submission in relationships, highlighting the need for mutual respect and support, and how it’s impacted both of their marriages. They emphasize the importance of genuinely liking and enjoying each other's company, and keeping lines of communication open. 

Their wide-ranging conversation touches on gender roles and the importance of balancing masculinity and femininity in a relationship, too. Overall, they emphasize the importance of teamwork, laughter, and appreciation in maintaining a long-lasting marriage.

Within their discussion, you’ll hear the answer to some of these questions - and many more!


How important is it to genuinely like the person you marry?


What are the two words to avoid at all costs when your spouse asks “How are you?”


What exactly does submission mean…and look like in a healthy marriage? 


How do you balance the two priorities of spouse and kids?


Who does what? Balancing traditional gender roles and responsibilities while respecting each other’s skills and strengths.


At the end of the day, the three important keys to maintaining a long-lasting marriage.



Enjoy this tender and honest conversation between two moms from different generations who are learning from and supporting each other on this journey of motherhood, marriage, and…life!

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