413 episodes

If you are new to the Enneagram or are a hardcore Enneagram junkie, but aren’t sure what to do with this incredible growth tool to take all that work you are doing in Personal Development to actually transform your life, personally and professionally, you have landed on THE Perfect Podcast for YOU.

In case you are new to me, I am Tracy O’Malley, highly sought after Master Performance Coach, Top Enneagram Expert, Multi-Millionaire Entrepreneur and a Mom to two incredible Millennials.
I have helped millions all over the globe; individuals, couples, families, leadership teams, fortune 100 Executives and CEOs step into the leaders they were always designed to be and create an effective and beautiful culture not only in their Professional Teams, but also their Home Teams.

In this show, not only will I teach you the complexities of the Enneagram, I will show you in real time how to integrate it in every area of your life. I will guide you to think and perform differently, uncover and change habits that no longer serve you, plus shift your relationship with money and intimacy by identifying where you are blocked and rewire those limiting beliefs.

You will also be able to listen to this all in action as I feature beautiful candid interviews with people that walk their talk, while sprinkling in some hot seat coaching sessions and Client Spotlights with those that have gone before you on this journey with me.

To do this, I will use a combination of my transformative method of Enneagram framework implementation, along with my unique performance coaching style that has allowed me to help transform millions of lives worldwide for over a decade. Give me your attention twice a week and I promise your life will change in ways you never imagined, personally and professionally. Live your life by design, not default.

Lead with the Enneagram with Host Tracy O’Malley Tracy O'Malley

    • Business
    • 4.9 • 200 Ratings

If you are new to the Enneagram or are a hardcore Enneagram junkie, but aren’t sure what to do with this incredible growth tool to take all that work you are doing in Personal Development to actually transform your life, personally and professionally, you have landed on THE Perfect Podcast for YOU.

In case you are new to me, I am Tracy O’Malley, highly sought after Master Performance Coach, Top Enneagram Expert, Multi-Millionaire Entrepreneur and a Mom to two incredible Millennials.
I have helped millions all over the globe; individuals, couples, families, leadership teams, fortune 100 Executives and CEOs step into the leaders they were always designed to be and create an effective and beautiful culture not only in their Professional Teams, but also their Home Teams.

In this show, not only will I teach you the complexities of the Enneagram, I will show you in real time how to integrate it in every area of your life. I will guide you to think and perform differently, uncover and change habits that no longer serve you, plus shift your relationship with money and intimacy by identifying where you are blocked and rewire those limiting beliefs.

You will also be able to listen to this all in action as I feature beautiful candid interviews with people that walk their talk, while sprinkling in some hot seat coaching sessions and Client Spotlights with those that have gone before you on this journey with me.

To do this, I will use a combination of my transformative method of Enneagram framework implementation, along with my unique performance coaching style that has allowed me to help transform millions of lives worldwide for over a decade. Give me your attention twice a week and I promise your life will change in ways you never imagined, personally and professionally. Live your life by design, not default.

    EP414: THRIVING as opposites in marriage and beyond with Kate and Aaron Howard (SP Enneagram 1 & SP Enneagram 7)

    EP414: THRIVING as opposites in marriage and beyond with Kate and Aaron Howard (SP Enneagram 1 & SP Enneagram 7)

    In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, particularly between individuals with contrasting Enneagram types.

    Our special guests, Kate and Aaron Howard, are a couple who embody the phrase "opposites attract," with Kate being an Enneagram Type 1 and Aaron a Type 7. They share their experiences of working with me and how understanding their Enneagram types has significantly improved their relationship and business ventures.

    We discuss the challenges and benefits of their differing perspectives and how they've learned to navigate their partnership without "throat punching each other on the daily." Aaron, with his assertive and full-of-life Enneagram 7 traits, and Kate, with her meticulous and integrity-driven Enneagram 1 qualities, bring unique gifts to the table that, when harnessed correctly, create a powerful synergy.

    The episode also touches on the importance of patience and delegation in business, especially for Enneagram Type 1s like Kate, who tend to strive for perfection and control. We explore how letting go and trusting others can lead to scaling a business and achieving a better quality of life.

    Listeners get a sneak peek into what an Enneagram couple session looks like and gain insights into managing relationships with radically different partners. The Howards also introduce their new joint business venture, which leverages their strengths in social media and video marketing to help other entrepreneurs grow their brands.

    If you're intrigued by the power of the Enneagram in relationships and business, or if you're considering a move to sunny Florida and need a realtor, Kate has the key. For those looking to enhance their social media presence, A. Howard Productions is the go-to resource.

    Connect with Tracy:
    Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
    Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
    Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
    Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
    Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

    Resources:
    Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
    Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
    Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
    Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmebr...

    • 45 min
    EP413: You are on the right track baby, you were born this way. Being Legendary - in all your divine ways

    EP413: You are on the right track baby, you were born this way. Being Legendary - in all your divine ways

    In this solo episode of Lead with the Enneagram I dive into the significance of birthdays and self-celebration, particularly how my own upbringing shaped my reluctance to embrace such personal milestones.

    I recount the stories of my birth and the mixed messages I received, which led to a lifelong journey of striving for perfection and approval, especially from my father. These narratives, while humorous in retrospect, left a profound impact on my self-perception and the way I viewed my own worth.

    Despite the challenges, I've come to recognize the importance of celebrating oneself and the journey we've all undertaken. I discuss the power of the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth and self-discovery, likening it to a navigation system that has helped me map out my life and guide others in their journeys.

    As I reflect on my life's path, I emphasize the value of understanding our biology and biography, recognizing patterns, and embracing every part of our journey. I encourage listeners to be honest, open, and willing as they step into their roles as legendary leaders.

    I am so grateful for the opportunity to share my insights and experiences through the podcast and for the impact it has on listeners. As I celebrate another year of life, I reaffirm my commitment to helping others become the legendary leaders they were born to be.

    Thank you for joining me on this special day and for allowing me to be a part of your journey toward embracing your true self.

    Connect with Tracy:
    Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
    Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
    Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
    Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
    Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

    Resources:
    Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
    Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
    Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
    Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Email info@tracyomalley.com

    • 24 min
    EP412: From avoidant to alignment as an Enneagram 7 with Dr. Megan Daley (SP Enneagram 7)

    EP412: From avoidant to alignment as an Enneagram 7 with Dr. Megan Daley (SP Enneagram 7)

    In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we dive deep into the practical applications of the Enneagram, particularly for those identifying as Type 7. Our special guest, Dr. Megan Daley, a self-preservation Enneagram 7 with a 748 tri-type, joins us to explore the nuances of living as a Type 7. We discuss the challenges and joys of being an Enneagram 7, from the desire for freedom and adventure to the tendency to avoid discomfort and pain.

    Dr. Megan shares her personal story of pivoting careers multiple times, from a math degree to physical therapy, and eventually to coaching. She reflects on the importance of trusting oneself and the universe when making life-altering decisions, even when they seem counterintuitive to others.
    We also delve into the significance of inner child work, particularly for those who have experienced childhood trauma or have been misunderstood. Dr. Megan opens up about her struggles with connecting to her inner child and seeking clarity on what her inner child truly needs.

    Lastly, we touch on Dr. Megan's aspirations to host retreats and speak at events, focusing on self-care, self-forgiveness, and authenticity for high-achieving women. She aims to create intimate, transformative experiences that allow participants to reconnect with their playful, authentic selves and embark on a journey of healing from the inside out.

    Connect with Tracy:
    Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
    Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
    Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
    Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
    Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

    Resources:
    Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
    Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
    Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
    Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Email info@tracyomalley.com

    • 49 min
    EP411: Falling in love with vulnerability and patience with Kaitlin Anthony (SX Enneagram 8)

    EP411: Falling in love with vulnerability and patience with Kaitlin Anthony (SX Enneagram 8)

    Our conversation today is particularly special as I chat with one of my favorite clients, Kaitlin Anthony, who is also an Enneagram 8. Kaitlin has the 837 tri-type, known as the mover and shaker, which embodies high achievement and assertiveness. Despite her success, Kaitlin opens up about the struggles and obstacles that come with her Enneagram type, particularly in parenting, business, and marriage.

    We explore the challenges of connecting with loved ones who have different Enneagram types and the importance of slowing down and tapping into the softer energies of the Enneagram, such as types 2 and 9, to foster deeper connections. Kaitlin candidly shares her experiences and the lessons she's learned about vulnerability, patience, and the power of quiet growth.

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand themselves better and lead with compassion and effectiveness. Whether you're an Enneagram 8 like us or just curious about the Enneagram, you'll find valuable insights and practical tips on how to use this tool to lead yourself and others more powerfully.

    Remember, the journey of self-discovery and growth is ongoing, and the Enneagram is here to guide you every step of the way. Join us as we navigate the complexities of the Enneagram and transform our lives from the inside out.

    Connect with Tracy:
    Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
    Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
    Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
    Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
    Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

    Resources:
    Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
    Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
    Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
    Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Email info@tracyomalley.com

    • 46 min
    EP410: Unleashing compassion and service, while honoring strong boundaries with Tonya Raybon (Social Enneagram 2)

    EP410: Unleashing compassion and service, while honoring strong boundaries with Tonya Raybon (Social Enneagram 2)

    Our special guest, Tonya Raybon, joins us to discuss her experience with the Enneagram. Tonya has worked extensively with me, participating in retreats, one-on-one sessions, and couple's workshops. She shares her insights as a social Enneagram Type 2, also known as "The Helper," and we explore the nuances of her tri-type, 2-6-8, which is referred to as "The Rescuer."

    Throughout the episode, we tackle the challenges of setting boundaries, especially for Enneagram Type 2s who are naturally inclined to say "yes" and accommodate others. We emphasize the importance of pausing before committing to tasks and asking oneself if the action would still be a "yes" even without external appreciation or reciprocation.

    Tonya and I also discuss strategies for understanding and interacting with loved ones through the lens of the Enneagram. We highlight the significance of the three centers of intelligence (instinctual, feeling, and thinking) and how recognizing these can improve communication and relationships within families, including with children and grandchildren.

    Finally, we touch on Tonya's podcast, "Perfectly Blended," which focuses on the complexities of blended family life and the continuous blending of roles that women often navigate.

    Connect with Tracy:
    Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
    Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
    Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
    Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
    Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

    Resources:
    Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
    Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
    Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
    Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Email info@tracyomalley.com

    • 43 min
    EP409: How to embrace conflict when everything inside you wants harmony and freedom with Julie A (SX Enneagram 9)

    EP409: How to embrace conflict when everything inside you wants harmony and freedom with Julie A (SX Enneagram 9)

    In this special hotline episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we had the pleasure of speaking with Julie A, a one-on-one Enneagram 9 with a 935 tri-type, also known as the thinker. Julie shared her journey of self-discovery through the Enneagram and how it has impacted her both personally and professionally as a leadership and career coach at a high-level university in Chicago.

    We delved into the nuances of being an Enneagram 9, discussing the core emotion of anger and how it often manifests in passive-aggressive behaviors like avoidance and procrastination. Julie opened up about her challenges with confronting anger and conflict, and we explored strategies for nines to develop a healthier relationship with these emotions.

    Julie also touched on her experience of grief and how it has led to feelings of sloth, a common struggle for Enneagram 9s when they are disintegrating. We discussed the importance of contrary action and how leveraging the strengths of her one and eight wings can help her navigate through tough times without getting stuck.

    A significant revelation for Julie was understanding that her core motivator is freedom, not safety, which she had previously believed. This insight has prompted her to reflect on her career choices and how they align with her need for independence, autonomy, and control.

    Lastly, we unpacked Julie's tri-type, the thinker (935), which combines the ambition of a three, the knowledge-seeking nature of a five, and the peacemaking qualities of a nine. This tri-type explains Julie's intellectual approach and her ability to manage situations and relationships effectively.
    Throughout the episode, we emphasized the importance of self-awareness and the use of the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth. By understanding our core fears and motives, and by building the muscles of our supporting cast – our wings and growth/stress numbers – we can navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience.

    For those looking to understand and support an Enneagram 9 in their life, remember to gently probe beyond their initial "I'm fine" response to truly understand their feelings. And for anyone interested in diving deeper into their Enneagram blueprint, I encourage you to visit my website and explore the resources available.


    Connect with Tracy:
    Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
    Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
    Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
    Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
    Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

    Resources:
    Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
    Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
    Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
    Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
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