Lust or Bust

If sex is another job on the ‘to do’ list, and you find you’re losing sexual attraction for your partner, it’s time to press the Reset button. Clare and Janet chat about why we ‘go off it’ and how we can get it back!

Dip into some of things Clare and Janet chat about in this episode:

5:03    How to prioritise your relationship and not take each other for granted.

06:24  How to stop feelings of being taken for granted and resentment building up

11:23  Attitudes towards sex in long term relationships

20’53  How to manage sexual disappointment

24:32  How to negotiate mismatch desire.

28:06  Don’t rush to break up when lust and sexual attraction leave the room. Staying in a relationship can reap benefits beyond imagination.

33:01  Clare and Janet’s top tips

Want to know more?

If you want to hear more about sexual attraction listen to episode 2 The Arousal Paradox.

Visit our website The Sex and Relationships Podcast  for more information on the issues discussed in this episode. You can also Ask Clare a question or suggest a topic for future episodes.

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About The Sex and Relationships Podcast:

This podcast is for anyone looking for information or help with their sex lives or relationships.  Your hosts Clare Pendergast and Janet Eccles are sex and relationship therapists. In each episode they chat about common problems they see in the therapy room and draw on their years of experience to give you some insights, advice and top tips to help guide you through your relationships and sex lives.