Mastering Self: A Transformative Two-Part Interview With Red Hawk

What if the way you think isn’t really you? In this mind-expanding conversation, I sit down with Red Hawk, teacher of Gurdjieff's Work, author of twelve books including, Self-Observation: an owners manual and Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness. We explore the hidden forces running your life and the tool necessary to break free.

🔹 Why do we stay stuck in the same patterns?
🔹 What is self-remembering, and how can it transform your life?
🔹 How can observing your mind without judgment create radical freedom?
🔹 What’s the #1 mistake people make in personal growth?

If you've ever felt like you're living on autopilot or wrestling with the same struggles over and over, this episode will give you a whole new perspective on awareness, self-mastery, and freedom.

Timestamps:

00:59 – Red Hawk’s Reluctant Role as a Teacher & His Mission
01:24 – What is Self-Remembering? The Foundation of the Work
02:03 – The Problem with Making Leaders into Gurus
03:00 – Why You Should Question Everything, Even This Conversation
03:53 – The Mammal Mind: Why We Follow the Herd
12:00 – The Chief Feature: Your Hidden Blind Spot That Runs Your Life
14:30 - How Fear Drives Your Personality Without You Knowing It
17:30 – Conscience vs. Morality—What’s the Difference?
23:00 – Remorse vs. Guilt—One is a Trap, the Other is Transformation
27:00 – Why We Follow the Herd Without Realizing It
33:00 – The Illusion of Thought: Why Thinking is a Terrible Master
36:30 – Memory as a Function of Thought & Why the Mind Can’t Love
42:00 – How to Break Free from the Illusion of Thought
45:00 – The Power of Self-Observation in Relationships
48:00 – What Real Love Looks Like: It’s Not a Feeling, It’s a Practice
50:00 – Boundaries, Self-Respect, and True Relationship Growth
53:30 – How Conscience Guides You to Make the Right Choices
57:00 – Present Attention as the Highest Form of Love
1:05:00 – Why Attraction is Not Love—And What To Do Instead

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📖 Red Hawk’s Books:
Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness
Self-Observation: The Awakening of Conscience

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