34 episodes

Surveying our audience of more than 5 million, we create this show each week to address the personal struggles our viewers face in attempting to achieve successful relationships, self-mastery, and in understanding their purpose.

Mercedes and The Chap (M.A.T.Ch.‪)‬ Mercedes and The Chap

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 53 Ratings

Surveying our audience of more than 5 million, we create this show each week to address the personal struggles our viewers face in attempting to achieve successful relationships, self-mastery, and in understanding their purpose.

    #34 What Do You Bring To The Table In Relationship? Assessing the Strengths and Weaknesses of Our Personality

    #34 What Do You Bring To The Table In Relationship? Assessing the Strengths and Weaknesses of Our Personality

    Sorting out where to focus on improving. Highlighting our gifts and building our confidence. Bringing self-mastery to relationships so we can recognize compatibility when it presents itself.

    You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here:



    You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here:

    Insta: @MercedesTerrell

    Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    Twitter: @MercedesTerrell

    Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal

    YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    • 38 min
    #33 What’s Your Relationship To Money? How to Create a Sexy Bank Account & a Confident Foundation

    #33 What’s Your Relationship To Money? How to Create a Sexy Bank Account & a Confident Foundation

    We discuss the nuts and bolts around how to get your finances in order to create a stable foundation that will enhance your life and confidence. We also address some controversial points about what women say they want vs. what they actually want in relationship, including: sensitivity in a man, and a man who can pull his weight financially.

    This episode is a slight deviation from our usual, but holds tons of value for someone looking to up their financial game!

    You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here:

    Insta: @MercedesTerrell

    Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    Twitter: @MercedesTerrell

    Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal

    YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    • 31 min
    #32 Let’s Get You Laid! How To Unlock Her Heart & Create the Tension of Desire

    #32 Let’s Get You Laid! How To Unlock Her Heart & Create the Tension of Desire

    All about how to stir sexual desire and open your partner so you can be fully accepted. We dive into the ways to communicate with the opposite sex that’ll get you closer to sexual intimacy. Including, how to release the performances and goals that cause unnecessary pressure in the bedroom.

    You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here:

    Insta: @MercedesTerrell

    Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    Twitter: @MercedesTerrell

    Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal

    YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    • 34 min
    #31 Are You a “Safe” Man? How to Become Someone She Wants to Open Herself To

    #31 Are You a “Safe” Man? How to Become Someone She Wants to Open Herself To

    To be clear, “safe” doesn’t mean boring or lacking sexiness, adventure, or edge… rather, it’s the thing about a man that makes a him dangerous AND grounded. In this episode we dance with the topic of INTEGRITY, and how to work toward the wholeness that attracts what you want into your life.

    You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here

    Insta: @MercedesTerrell

    Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    Twitter: @MercedesTerrell

    Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal

    YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    • 50 min
    #30 Speaking the Language of Love & Giving Gifts that Count!

    #30 Speaking the Language of Love & Giving Gifts that Count!

    In this episode we break down the types of Love Languages that people best give and receive love through. We take the shame out of wanting credit for the love and gifts you give in relationship, giving specific tools for giving gifts that will make your partner feel seen and heard. Additonally, we confront the reality of “unconditional love” and explore the more grounded theory of “mutually invested relationships”.

    You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here:

    Insta: @MercedesTerrell

    Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    Twitter: @MercedesTerrell

    Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal

    YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    • 40 min
    #29 Nice Try “Nice Guy”! How to Stop Getting Friend-zoned & Used, & Start Getting the Respect You Desire

    #29 Nice Try “Nice Guy”! How to Stop Getting Friend-zoned & Used, & Start Getting the Respect You Desire

    What’s the difference between being kind and being a doormat? How much is too much flexibility in relationship? This one if for the People Pleasers attempting to meet the needs of others before assessing and addressing our own needs. The truth is, the “nice guy” pose isn’t sexy and doesn’t get us the life we’re after. On the other extreme of the spectrum, being a narcissistic jerk doesn’t quite cut it either, if what we want is deep and genuine relationships with people we adore.

    In this episode we explore making the shift to Conscious Assertiveness, where we know what we want and we embody the skills to attain what we desire, while staying in integrity, treating others with kindness, and moving toward our highest potential.

    You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here:

    Insta: @MercedesTerrell

    Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    Twitter: @MercedesTerrell

    Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal

    YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    • 41 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
53 Ratings

53 Ratings

Winglovesit ,

Love it!

Wonderful podcast. The hosts are awesome!!!

AMDKKT22 ,

Wow!

Love this and all your other podcasts Mercedes. They are real and deep and also keep you laughing at the same time! This episode in particular really helped me manage the dating scene! -Ali

Riconintellect ,

Bold, courageous, and confidence battles within

Interesting take on the science behind a good relationship involves many talking points. The chemistry and confidence it takes to make an evergreen ocean in a prosperous and enriching relationship. Great talking points and very edgy and touchy subjects. People can learn from this podcast. Interesting views on both women and men. Nice work.

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