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The podcast exploring Sex, Relationships, and Liberation. Nicole, M.A., (she/her), is a Queer, Non-Monogamous Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist, Trauma-Informed Yoga Teacher, Doctoral Student in Psychology with training in Psychedelic Integration Therapy, and owner of The Pleasure Practice. She is one of the leading academic theorists on expansive relationship styles and playfully embodied sexulity. Each activist on the show will nominate the next guest for a de-centered and ever-evolving journey of pleasure liberation. Are you ready to dive in?
Learn More: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

Modern Anarchy Nicole Thompson, M.A.

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The podcast exploring Sex, Relationships, and Liberation. Nicole, M.A., (she/her), is a Queer, Non-Monogamous Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist, Trauma-Informed Yoga Teacher, Doctoral Student in Psychology with training in Psychedelic Integration Therapy, and owner of The Pleasure Practice. She is one of the leading academic theorists on expansive relationship styles and playfully embodied sexulity. Each activist on the show will nominate the next guest for a de-centered and ever-evolving journey of pleasure liberation. Are you ready to dive in?
Learn More: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

    162. Queering the Narrative of Psychedelics and Pleasure with Bia LaBate

    162. Queering the Narrative of Psychedelics and Pleasure with Bia LaBate

    On today’s episode, we have anthropologist  Bia LaBate (She/Her) join us for a educational conversation about queering psychedelic healing and activism. Together we talk about ripping out the gendered ribbons, the intersection of our bodily autonomy, and how queers throw the best parties.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Want to support the long term sustainability of the podcast and connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy community, then join the movement at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/162-queering-the-narrative-of-psychedelics-and-pleasure-with-bia-labate

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    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Bia's Community:

    Dr. Bia Labate is a queer Brazilian anthropologist and Executive Director of the Chacruna Institute for Psychedelic Plant Medicines.

    Website: https://www.bialabate.net/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labatebia/

    Chacruna Websites:

    https://chacruna.net/

    https://chacruna-iri.org/

    https://chacruna-la.org/

    Insta:
    https://www.instagram.com/chacruna.institute/

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    161. Relationship Anarchist: Kat Pfligler

    161. Relationship Anarchist: Kat Pfligler

    On today’s episode, we have Kat Pfligler (They/Them) join us for another special episode of the relationship anarchist research series. Together we talk about and getting outside of the monogamy non-monogamy binary, finding your edge of deconstructing internalized systems of oppression, embracing the inevitability of change.

    If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below.

    RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family and support the long term sustainability of the show, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/161-relationship-anarchist-kat-pfligler

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    About Kat:

    Kat is a white, vegan, queer, non binary, exvangelical and sober person from the sonoran desert. specifically they are from hohokam land, now living on lenape land in pennsylvania with their nesting partner and three little void cats. community yoga, meditation, self care, personal development, and antiquing/thrifting take up most of their time when they aren’t working at a zero proof bar as manager.

    Resources to Learn More:

    All About Love: https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780060959470

    Love Without Emergency : https://clementinemorrigan.bigcartel.com/product/love-without-emergency-digital

    • 1 hr 1 min
    160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill

    160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill

    On today’s episode, we have queer sex educator and podcaster Em Hill (She/Her) join us for a conversation about healing from sexual trauma to embodying empowerment. Together we talk about the mindfuck of doming cis-men, the subversion of role play, and the life-long exploration of our erotic narratives.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Want to support the long term sustainability of the podcast and connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice⁠⁠⁠

    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/160-updating-freud-on-the-penis-envy-thing-with-em

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    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Em’s Community:

    Em is a queer sex educator focusing on middle school and high school and host of Sexistentialist, a podcast that seeks to normalize any and all safe and consensual sexuality experiences for adults.

    Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/sexistentialistpod/

    • 1 hr 14 min
    159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner

    159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner

    On today’s episode, we have Allen Turner (He/Him) join us for a conversation about creating narratives of play and nourishing connections. Together we talk about boldly embracing your authenticity, learning to practice love, and stepping into the flow state of play.

    Relationship Reflection : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipreflection

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Want to support the long term sustainability of the podcast and connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/159-finding-sexual-play-and-presence-through-narrative-theory-with-allen-turner

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Allen’s Community:

    Allen Turner designer/artist/storyteller/dancer/teacher believes in play and stories and the emergent moments that arise in between are powerful medicines that help us find our place and nourishment in the world.

    Website : crowmagics.com

    Resources to Learn More :

    Johari Window : https://www.communicationtheory.org/the-johari-window-model/

    • 1 hr 7 min
    158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas

    158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas

    On today’s episode, we have Kristen Thomas (she/her) join us for a conversation about our cultural shift towards more expansive pleasure. Together we talk about unpacking why you might be nervous at your first play party, telling your mom about your first threesome, and embracing the fluidity of our sexuality.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Transcript: ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/158-liberating-non-monogamous-play-and-your-birthright-to-sexual-pleasure-with-kristen-thomas

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Kristen's Community :

    Website : https://www.openthedoorscoaching.com/

    Resources to Learn More :

    All or Nothing Marriage : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781101984345

    Purity Culture with Dr. Rachel Smith : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/e4c490ce/134-healing-from-the-grooming-of-purity-culture-with-dr-rachel-smith

    Sexual satisfaction among individuals in monogamous and consensually non-monogamous relationships: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-13429-005

    Are there “Better” and “Worse” Ways to be Consensually
    Non-Monogamous (CNM)?: CNM Types and CNM-Specific Predictors of Dyadic Adjustment https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-021-02027-3

    The more the merrier? New study suggests polyamorists may have more satisfying relationships: https://www.cbc.ca/life/wellness/the-more-the-merrier-new-study-suggests-polyamorists-may-have-more-satisfying-relationships-1.4681382

    • 1 hr 12 min
    157. Relationship Anarchist: Sarah Caroline

    157. Relationship Anarchist: Sarah Caroline

    On today’s episode, we have Sarah Caroline (she/her) join us for a research conversation exploring the practice of relationship anarchy. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below.

    RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠⁠⁠⁠

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/157-relationship-anarchist-sarah-caroline

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    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Sarah Caroline’s community:

    Ny Times Article : https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/30/fashion/weddings/sarah-lenz-stephen-paskey-wedding.html?unlocked_article_code=1.N00.XYtp.uh0ce93H4sqB&smid=url-share

    Resources to Learn more:

    Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/109-the-relationship-anarchy-smorgasboard-and-finding-queer-belonging-with-maxx-hill

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