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Hosted by Judy Dirks and Jacob Campbell The Mother Dearest Show takes place every other week. Mother and son join each other for a call where they talk about everything from mental health counseling services, social work, spirituality, and family history, building connections together.

  1. 12/29/2021

    I'll Give You Something to Cry About

    View Episode 15: I'll Give You Something to Cry About Jacob gives a bit of update about his Ph.D. and where he is at in the process. They use the OSHO Zen Tarot deck to pull the 4 of Fire, Participation card. They talk about learning to be in the moment, Judy’s sister’s polio and her other sister that died of a brain tumor and the impact of that on their family. Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction and Jacob’s Ph.D. dissertation proposal process and progress 07:12 Pulling the 4 of Fire - Participation from the OSHO Zen Tarot 17:26 Some of the challenges and trauma’s faced growing up 37:24 Judy’s realization about wanting to be a social worker Links CIIS Human Research Review Committee application process Nurturing Our Humanity: How Domination and Partnership Shape Our Brains, Lives, and Future by Riane Eisler and Douglas P. Fry on Amazon Books Osho Zen Tarot: The Transcendental Game Of Zen (79-Card Deck and 192-Page Book) How to Love Yourself Cards: A Deck of 64 Affirmations: Hay, Louise: 9781401954444: Amazon.com: Books An article with a good overview for restorative justice practices in the classroom - Clifford, A. (2013). Teaching restorative practices with classroom circles. 64 pages. http://restorativejustice.org/am-site/media/teaching-restorative-practices-with-classroom-circles.pdf Polio - Wikipedia Brain tumor - Wikipedia The OSHO Zen Tarot Card 4 of Fire: Participation.

    42 min

  2. 11/26/2021

    The Temperature Bacteria Grows In

    View Episode 14: The Temperature Bacteria Grows In Jacob and Judy use Rider Waite/Pathfinder Tarot Deck to pull the XI Justice and the Kind of Pentacles. They talk about the process of the new moon, and it is a time for planting seeds and thinking, and how Judy is working on slowing down. They speak of ecology and climate change, building relationships, building rapport with kids, and thinking about healthy eating. Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction and how long it has been since we last recorded 02:26 New moon tomorrow. slowing self down 07:24 Drawing the XI Justice and the King of Pentacles and ecology 14:28 Some Family Updates 20:44 Judy’s Plan to Connect Individually with Grand Kids 27:46 Healthy eating and foods Links Rider Waite Tarot An example of an article talking about the idea of a New Moon - A time of renewal and planting seeds Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World - Cal Newport List of some of my Academic Essays Libra (astrology) - Wikipedia Justice (Tarot card) - Wikipedia, King of Coins - Wikipedia Story by Anna King through Columbia River Toxic Algae: Experts Say Fix What’s Causing It - Northwest Public Broadcasting Climate change and dangerous waters - by Washington State Department of Health - Public Health Connection - Oct, 2021 - Medium An article from a month and a half after we record this episode, but it is still going on. Volcanos in Spain: La Palma volcanic eruption is now the longest seen on the island in 375 years - Spain - EL PAÍS English Edition Wapato, Washington - Wikipedia My sister-in-law did end up passing away soon after recording this. I ended up creating a video for my family Recuredos en Vida de Patricia del Villar Martinez - YouTube Bubble tea - Wikipedia, I often take the kids to the TeaHaus - Facebook What Is Delicata Squash? A photo of Jacob and Judy in Mexico when they went with their family Friend they talk about. Jacob doesn’t have any digital versions of photos from that trip other than this one. Photo of the XI Justice and the King of Pentacles cards from the Rider Waite Tarot Deck in the grass

    35 min

  3. 11/13/2021

    Responsibility and Freedom

    View Episode 13: Responsibility and Freedom Spend some time talking about Jacob’s next steps in working on his Ph.D.. They use OSHO Zen Tarot Deck to pull the Page of Water: Understanding card. They talk about the five gates of grief and Judy’s upcoming retreat she is facilitating. They also talk about the Black Lives Matter movement and a book relating the treatment of Black Americans in the US and various caste systems around the world. Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction and Long Service Times 01:56 Jacob’s Dissertation Progress and Seattle Trip 09:16 Pulling the Page of Water card from the OSHO Zen Tarot deck: Understanding 14:28 Judy’s upcoming grief retreat 22:24 The “Caste” System in the US Links Sorry some connection / sound problems with this episode. Also, was originally recorded back in August so I’m still a little bit behind in posting these. Frost Me Sweet Osho Zen Tarot: The Transcendental Game Of Zen (79-Card Deck and 192-Page Book) The Wild Edge of Sorrow: The Sacred Work of Grief by Francis Weller’s Website and via Amazon Books Ashley Gregory provides a good Brief Introduction to the Five Gates of Grief — Holistic and Somatic Therapy Isabel Wilkerson book Amazon.com: Caste (Oprah’s Book Club): The Origins of Our Discontents eBook : Wilkerson, Isabel: Kindle Store You can read an article about it on NPR America’s ‘Caste’ System: Isabel Wilkerson Says It’s More Than Racism Climate change: IPCC report is ‘code red for humanity The Page of Water - Understanding from the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck

    38 min

  4. 11/08/2021

    What Happens When They Drive Your Dream Car Off a Cliff

    View Episode 12: What Happens When They Drive Your Dream Car Off a Cliff Jacob and Judy start off with some conversation about upcoming events and activities. They use the Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Cards to pull the 8: Community (Tribe) Card. They talk all about forgiveness. How do we help clients learn to forgive, how do we forgive ourselves, and helping our kids learn to forgive? Time Stamps 00:00 Events and Activities Coming Up 03:26 Pulling the Oracle Divination Cards 8: Community (Tribe) Card 08:06 The Dichotomy of Fear vs Love 12:54 Helping Clients Learn To Forgive 21:54 Accepting Our Own Humanness and Fallibilities 24:00 How Judy Raised Jacob Links I’m still going through old episode, this one was from the end of July. Allied Art Association’s - Art in the Park Pasco, WA (PSC) - Amtrak McNary National Wildlife Refuge - U.S. Fish and Wildlife Services Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Cards: Ask and Know by Colette Baron-Reid E-06 - The Right People at the Right Time We pulled the same card. Apple Podcasts to Leave us a Rating Marianne Williamson and her 365 Days of a Course in Miracles An interesting article about Love Vs. Fear: A Scientific Look by Dr. Alex. i couldn’t find a specific article talking about a 15 step method. Psychology Today has an article 9 Steps to Forgiveness by Michel in 2013. There is a book review/summary by Sutton regarding Enright and Fitzgibbons (2000) book Helping clients forgive: An empirical guide for resolving anger and restoring hope. You can read the summary at The Enright Process Model of Psychological Forgiveness Object permanence Cornish, A., & Doucleff, M. (2019, March 4). Storytelling instead of scolding: Inuit say it makes their children more cool-headed. National Public Radio. https://www.npr.org/2019/03/04/689925669/storytelling-instead-of-scolding-inuit-say-it-makes-their-children-more-cool-hea Parables of Jesus on Wikipedia The Tale of Two Wolves - Nanticoke Indian Association Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Tarot - 8 Community (Tribe)

    33 min

  5. 10/10/2021

    They Were On To Something with that Yoga Thing

    View Episode 11: They Were On To Something with that Yoga Thing Jacob and Judy use the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck to pull the Page of Fire - Playfulness. They talk about the values of playfulness and how hard it is sometimes for adults to have a real spirit of playfulness. They also talk about different seasons they like and having done martial arts in Jacob’s younger years. Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction and my mom is worried about how much sun I might get 04:58 Pulling the Page of Fire Card - Playfulness 15:36 What we enjoy about different seasons 21:00 Practicing martial arts Links I’m still a bit behind in posting. This one is from mid July. We spent about a month not posting / recording so I only have about three that I haven’t posted yet… Osho Zen Tarot: The Transcendental Game Of Zen (79-Card Deck and 192-Page Book) In the episode, I say Colin Wood and I meant to say Colin Wilson Gary Lachman was my teacher for The Lost Knowledge of the Imagination that I take at CIIS in the Transformative Studies Department The talk that I discuss is Beyond The Robot: Consciousness And Existentialism With Gary Lachman Therapy Solutions Tai chi chih on Wikipedia How to Protect Your Body From Injury in your Tai Chi Chih Practice a presentation that Sara posted. Tri-Cities Martial Arts & Fitness Kata The style of martial arts we did when I was young was Isshin-ryū A photo of the OSHO Zen Tarot Deck’s Page of Fire Card - Playfulness A photo of Jacob’s Dog, Chewie Sitting Lazy on the Couch A photo of Judy in her Karate Gi A photo of Jacob in his Karate Gi

    29 min

  6. 08/10/2021

    Letting Go

    View Episode 10: Letting Go Jacob and Judy start their conversation by talking about the Mercury Retrograde and its effects on communication. They use the Pathfinder Tarot Deck to pull the Card the VIII of Cups and the IV of Wands. They go on to talk about how we let go and the use of psychedelics in treatment and personal growth. Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction 00:22 Retrograde of Mercury 08:06 Drawing the VIII of Cups and IV of Wands 15:48 The retreat Judy is planning and letting go 19:44 The use of psychedelics in treatment and Jacob’s experience with Ayahuasca Links Pathfinder’s Tarot by David Fontana The Rider Tarot Deck Farmer’s Almanac with Dates in 2021 of Mercury Retrograde Article about Mercury Retrogrades in Astrology.com Episode 2: Connecting with the Divine - Spirituality and Systems Thinking is where we talked about Marianne Williamson and her 365 Days of a Course in Miracles Episode 6: The Right People at the Right Time is where Judy shared about her Weavers group Article about the Buddhist idea of letting it go Therapy Solution Ram Dass Gabor Maté’s website CIIS About the Certificate in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapies and Research New Experiences & Broken Things, a blog post I wrote about the my experience with Ayahuasca The Rider Tarot Deck Cards IV of Wands and 8 of Cups

    33 min

  7. 07/20/2021

    Opening a Portal to Connection

    View Episode 9: Opening a Portal to Connection Jacob and Judy use OSHO Zen Tarot Deck to pull the 2 of Clouds: Schizophrenia Card. They talk about working towards oneness and interconnection. They also imagine the future and talk about what being in the age of Aquarius means. Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction 00:28 Pulling the 2 of Clouds: Schizophrenia card 04:16 The concept of oneness 15:06 The Age of Aquarius 17:44 How the world might be different in the next 10 years Links Osho Zen Tarot: The Transcendental Game Of Zen (79-Card Deck and 192-Page Book) Wikipedia article on schizophrenia Podcast Episode of Forest Wisdom, Mother Trees and the Science of Community by the Bioneers: Revolution From the Heart of Nature Foundation Series article on Wikipedia. It is a great series and I highly recommend it. I’m looking forward to seeing it on Apple TV+ Aquarius/Let the Sunshine In song Wikipedia article Age of Aquarius general wikipedia article Talking about moon cycles in Episode 5 - Completion is Not Final, It’s More of a Phase Play Oregon Trail yourself no on Classic Reload or see the Wikipedia article Trump says he’ll be President again by August, report says article on MSN by Seth Lemon. Photo of the OSHO Zen Tarot Decks 2 of Clouds: Schizophrenia

    37 min

  8. 06/22/2021

    How Do We Figure out What We Really Want: Listening to Our Inner Voice

    View Episode 8: How Do We Figure out What We Really Want: Listening to Our Inner Voice Jacob and Judy use The Rider-Waite Tarot Deck to pull the XVI The Tower_ and the Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Cards to pull the 33 Chaos and Conflict card. They talk about times of transition and the principle of three. They also talk about motivation and how to help clients connect with some of their desires. Time Stamps 00:00 Episode 08 of The Mother Dearest Show 00:26 Pulling the XVI The Tower and 33 Chaos and Conflict Cards 02:54 Principle of 3 09:50 How do we Motivate Clients 20:42 Functions of Behavior 24:54 Liberation and Being Who We Are Links The Rider-Waite Tarot XVI The Tower Card The Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Cards 33 Chaos and Conflict Wisdom of the Oracle Divination Cards: Ask and Know by Colette Baron-Reid Pathfinder’s Tarot by David Fontana We talk about the phases of the moon and make a reference to Episode 3: The Breaking and Breakthroughs in our Lives We talk about the principle of 3. I was unable to find any specifically about that in the same context. The close was some discussion about the Cyclic Universe: Endless Birth, Death, and Rebirth Judy mentions our conversation about drawing tarot cards with clients, which we had in Episode 1: Our First Episode - Tarot Cards and EMDR in Counseling. We talked about Father Greg Boyle at Homeboy Industries. We talked about the functions of behavior. This topic generally comes from Hanley et al.’s (2003) Functional Analysis of Problem Behavior: A Review. The functions of behavior are: Attention (peer / adult) Sensory Escape feeling/tasks Gain agenda or physical control Judy is reading/listening to Untamed by Glennon Doyle link to the author website Reference Hanley, G. P., Iwata, B. A., & McCord, B. E. (2003). Functional analysis of problem behavior: A review. Journal of Applied Behavior Analysis, 36(2), 147-185. https://doi.org/10.1901/jaba.2003.36-147

    33 min
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Hosted by Judy Dirks and Jacob Campbell The Mother Dearest Show takes place every other week. Mother and son join each other for a call where they talk about everything from mental health counseling services, social work, spirituality, and family history, building connections together.

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