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A true crime podcast that ventures into the darkest crimes with a wife who loves it and a husband who hates it.

Murder With My Husband OH NO MEDIA

    • True Crime
    • 4.8 • 12.1K Ratings

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A true crime podcast that ventures into the darkest crimes with a wife who loves it and a husband who hates it.

Listen on Apple Podcasts
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    Subscriptions Bonus - 101 California Mass Shooting

    Subscriptions Bonus - 101 California Mass Shooting

    Bonus May Episode 2

    Case Sources:

    The San Francisco Chronicle, “Victims – More Than a Tally of Names,” July 3, 1983.

    The New York Times, nytimes.com, “The Broker Who Killed 8: Gunman’s Motives a Puzzle,” by Robert Reinhold, July 3, 1993

    Chicagotribune.com, “San Francisco Gunman’s Rage is Revealed in Four-Page Letter,” by San Francisco Chronicle, July 4, 1993

    Cbsnews.com, “Dark Day in San Francisco: Eight Die in 101 California Massacre,” by CBS San Francisco, August 14, 2018

    Sfgate.com, “101 Calif. massacre law firm closing,” by Steven A. Chin and Erin McCormick, March 6, 1995

    Sfgate.com, “101 California shooting shocked S.F., 1993,” by Sam Whiting, December 6, 2012

    NBC Bay Area News, nbcbayarea.com, “101 California Shooting: 20 Years Later,” by Diane Dwyer and Amanda Hochmuth, June 29, 2013

    University of California, Berkeley, www.law.berkeley.edu, “101 California Street Killings and Gun Control Litigation: Merrill v. Navegar, Inc.” by Bryan Kirk

    Findagrave.com, Gian Luigi Ferri

    Hines.com, 101 California

    Vice.com, “The Time Gun Control Actually Happened After a Horrific Mass Shooting,” by Harry Cheadle, March 7, 2018

    Google maps

    Murderpedia.org, Gian Luigi Ferri

    Alchetron.com, “101 California Street shooting,” updated on September 6, 2022

    Aoav.org.uk, “15 Shootings that changed the law: San Francisco, 1993,” by AOAV, April 17, 2014

    Newspapers.com, Southern Illinoisan, “High-rise gunman had an arsenal – and a grudge,” by AP, July 3, 1993

    Citizens Crime Commission of New York City, “18th Anniversary of 101 California Street Shooting: Officials Call on Congress to Pass Ban on Large Capacity Ammunition Magazines,” June 28, 2011

    Violence Policy Center, vpc.org, “Where’d They Get Their Guns?” July 1, 1993

    Steven Rupp v. Xavier Becerra, in the United States Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit, Brief of Survivors of the 101 California Shooting and Giffords Law Center to Prevent Gun Violence as Amici Curiae in Support of Appellee and Affirmance, June 2, 2020

    Tampa Bay Times, tampabay.com, “Gunman felt cheated, so he killed 8,” July 3, 1993

    Sfweekly.com, “Yesterday’s Crimes: Death Takes the Elevator at 101 California,” by Nuala Sawyer Bishari, July 17, 2017

    Assisted research and writing by Diane Birnholz

    166. Sophie Sergie - The Dorm Room Victim

    166. Sophie Sergie - The Dorm Room Victim

    On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the murder of college student, Sophie Sergie.



    Episode Sources:

    Foxnews.com, “Alaska’s cold case murder of Sophie Sergie: Audio of Maine suspect played at trial,” by Associated Press, February 3, 2022
    Cbsnews.com, “Man found guilty 29 years after woman found dead in Alaska college dorm bathtub,” by CBS/AP, February 11, 2002
    Alaska Public Media, alaskapublic.org, “Sophie Sergie cold case murder trial ends and goes to jury,” by Robyne, KUAC – Fairbanks, February 8, 2022
    Alaska Public Media, alaskapublic.org, “Man sentenced to 75 years in prison for 1993 murder and sexual assault of Sophie Sergie at UAF,” by Robyne, KUAC – Fairbanks, September 27, 2022
    WABI5, wabi.tv, “Steven Downs sentenced to 75 years for 1993 murder of Sophie Sergie in his Alaska college dorm,” by WABI News Desk, September 27, 2022
    Oxygen.com, “Maine Nurse Gets 75 Years For Raping, Killing Woman in Alaska Dorm in 1993,” by Dorian Geiger, September 28, 2022
    Findagrave.com, Sophie Sergie
    Darkdowneast.com, “The Case of Sophie Sergie: Arrest in Maine,” by Kylie Low, January 17, 2022
    Worldpopulationreview.com, Pitkas Point, Alaska
    Fairbanks Daily News-Miner, newsminer.com, “Convicted Maine man gets new lawyer for murder appeal in Sophie Sergie case,” by Christopher Williams, January 4, 2023
    Copper River Country Journal, “Finally, A Trial. Sophie Sergie Was Killed In a Fairbanks Dorm in 1993,” by Trooper News, 2022
    Usda.gov, pitkas point, “Who Will Get the First Bath?” by Tasha Deardorff, Rural Alaskan Village Grant Porgram Manager Posted in “Rural,” September 26, 2011
    Alaska.edu, Bartlett Hall (UAF)
    Web.archive.org, “Death in Bartlett Hall,” by Michael Kern, no date provided
    Newspapers.com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “UAF Sets Up Hotline for Parents After Murder,” by Roseanne Pagano, April 27, 1993
    Newspapers.com, Journal and Courier, “Slaying unnerves campus,” by The Associated Press, April 30, 1993
    Newspapers.com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “UAF Bids Solemn Farewell to Former Student Killed in Dorm,” by Jim Clarke, April 30, 1993
    Newspapers.com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “Students Moving Out of Dorm Following Slaying,” no author provided, April 29, 1993
    Newspapers.com, Detroit Free Press, “Slaying gives college students ‘wake-up call,’” by Jim Clarke, May 2, 1993
    Newspapers.com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “Troopers Say Campus Killer ‘Very, Very Angry at Women,’” no author provided, May 10, 1993
    Newspapers.com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “UA Fairbanks Campus Made Safer After Woman Slain,” no author provided, June 14, 1993
    Newspapers, com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “Family of Woman Slain at UAF Sues for $4 Million,” no author provided, October 27, 1995
    Newspapers.com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “UA Seeks Settlement in Suit Over Campus Death,” no author provided, December 24, 1996
    Newspapers.com, Daily Sitka Sentinel, “Troopers Using Internet In Murder Investigation,” December 30, 1996
    Sunjournal.com, “Anatomy of a cold case: A breakdown of the Steven Downs murder trial,” by Christopher Williams, February 19, 2022, updated March 1, 2022
    Anchorage Daily News, “25 years after Sophie Sergie was found dead in a UAF bathtub, Maine man charged with murder,” by Madeline McGee, February 15, 2019, updated February 22, 2019
    Pfr.Maine.gov, Regulatory Licensing & Permitting, Steven Harris Downs
    News Center Maine, newscentermaine.com, “Maine man appeals convictions, sentences in Alaska murder,” by Associated Press, October 26, 2022
    Assisted research and writing by Diane Birnholz
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    • 53 min
    Dear Daisy, I was almost kidnapped in Italy!

    Dear Daisy, I was almost kidnapped in Italy!

    On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett read listeners stories they’ve written to Daisy, the MWMH mascot.
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    • 21 min
    165. The Vampire of Sacramento

    165. The Vampire of Sacramento

    Trigger Warning: This case includes graphic detail of mutilation.

    On this episode, Payton and Garrett discuss the serial killer of Sacramento and the brutal slayings he committed.

    Case Sources:
    Vampire: The Richard Chase Murders (2015, WildBlue Press), by Kevin Sullivan

    A Thirst for Blood: The True Story of California's Vampire Killer (2017, Open Road Media), by Lt. Ray Biondi and Walt Hecox



    Newspapers.com sources:


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    • 1 hr
    164. Ana Walshe - The Ongoing Case

    164. Ana Walshe - The Ongoing Case

    On this episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss the ongoing investigation of Ana Walshe and how her husband is being accused of her murder. 

    Cnn.com, “Prosecutors detail extensive evidence in murder case against Brian Walshe, accused of killing his wife Ana Walshe. Here’s what we know,” by Kristina Sgueglia and Elizabeth Wolfe, January 19, 2023
    Cnn.com, “Brian Walshe denied bail after prosecutor says he stood to gain $2.7 million in life insurance for the death of Ana Walshe,” by Holly Yan, April 27, 2023
    Cnn.com, “A timeline of the missing Massachusetts mother Ana Walshe and her husband Brian Walshe,” by Eric Levenson, Amanda Watts and Holly Yan, May 3, 2023
    Foxnews.com, “Missing Ana Walshe: Romance with Brian Walshe was ‘love at first sight,’” by Rebecca Rosenberg, Adam Sabes, Stephanie Pagones, January 13, 2023

    Wbur.org, “Prosecutors say Brian Walshe, who is charged with killing wife, suspected affair,” by Kathy McCormack, April 27, 2023
    7News Boston, whdh.com, “Court documents detail husband of missing woman’s rocky family history,” by Jonathan Hall, Michael Yoshida, January 10, 2023
    People.com, “Mass. Mom Ana Walshe Had Months-Long Affair with Man in Washington D.C. Before She Vanished: Court Docs,” by Tristan Balagtas, May 3, 2023
    Cbsnews.com, “Ana and Brian Walshe’s 3 children in state custody as investigation continues,” by Brandon Truitt, January 12, 2023
    Cbsnews.com, “Brian Walshe accused: What we’ve learned about the alleged murder of Ana Walshe,” by Kerry Breen, April 27, 2023
    Cbsnews.com, “I-Team obtains Brian Walshe booking photos from 2018 arrest,” by Cheryl Fiandaca, January 14, 2023
    Nbcboston.com, “Missing Cohasset Woman’s Husband Was Described as Violent, Deceptive During Probate Case,” by Ryan Kath, January 10, 2023
    Insider.com, “Here’s everything we know about what Brian Walshe did in the days, weeks, and years surrounding Ana Walshe’s disappearance,” no author provided, January 18, 2023

    Boston.com, “Court docs confirm Ana Walshe affair, which prosecutors referenced as possible motive,” by Abby Patkin, May 3, 2023
    Google maps
    Apartments.com, 516 Chief Justice Cushing Highway
    Thedailybeast.com, “Police Spoke With Man Having Alleged Affair With Ana Walshe Before Murder: Report,” by Dan Ladden-Hall, April 28, 2023
    Thesalemnews.com, “Husband of missing woman had business, personal ties to North Shore,” by Julie Manganis, January 10, 2023
    Masslive.com, “Who is Brian Walshe? Court records show two versions of missing Cohasset woman’s husband,” by Chris Van Buskirk, January 12, 2023
    Bostonherald.com, “Who is Brian Walshe, Part I? A clash over his father’s estte,” by Flint McColgan, January 10, 2023
    Boston25news.com, “Brian Walshe: Court docs reveal struggles with mental health, relationship between Ana & his mother,” by Lindsey Thorpe, Boston 25 News Staff and Litsa Pappas, Boston 25 News, January 11, 2023
    Boston25news.com, “’He assumed a mantle of entitlement’: Family friend describes Brian Walshe’s scheming behavior,” by Drew Karedes, January 11, 2023
    Assisted research and writing by Diane Birnholz
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    • 53 min
    Subscriptions Bonus - David Castor

    Subscriptions Bonus - David Castor

    Bonus May episode 1 -

    On this bonus episode of MWMH, Payton and Garrett discuss how much money somebody will kill for, addressing the David Castor murder.

    Case Sources:



    Mommy Deadliest (2010, Pinnacle Books), by Michael Benson

    Forensic Files, episode: “Freeze Framed,” aired October 8, 2010, on TruTV


Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
12.1K Ratings

12.1K Ratings

Stace L. ,

Enjoyable pod

This is a good true crime podcast. Yes the hosts are young ( in comparison to me, haha) but they both are kind and empathetic to both the victims/families and is important to me. I look forward to new episodes. Thank you.

BEth_1492 ,

2 stars for inconsistency

How are you supposed to stay loyal when they don’t put out content when it’s due.

HogFan56 ,

Overtook another popular podcast

My first foray into podcasts was one that is very popular for many reasons. However, once I heard Payton and Garrett I felt like these are my people. I LOVE the way they interchange with each other…and that at no time do I hear foul language. To some it’s no big deal…the language…but to me it says a lot. These two I would feel comfortable just having lunch with-❤️

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