NeuroDiverse Christian Couples

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NeuroDiverse Christian Couples

Like all couples, NeuroDiverse (AS/NT) Christian couples face challenges with communication and connection. Those challenges are nuanced in a way that most couples, therapists, and clergy don't typically recognize. Often NeuroDiverse Couples have children on the spectrum (or or other differences), this podcast will dedicate topics to the NeuroDiverse Couple as well as issues that may arise in spectrum or special needs family systems. We invite you to learn about NeuroDiverse Christian couples to understand those aspects more fully.

  1. How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities & Differences with Dr. Todd & Kristin Evans

    9 DÉC.

    How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities & Differences with Dr. Todd & Kristin Evans

    About our Guests: Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW, and Todd Evans, PhD, MA, are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. They earned their MA in Christian educational ministries at Wheaton College in Illinois and have served together in full-time ministry in church, camping, and retreat settings. Todd received his PhD from Vanderbilt University’s School of Engineering and currently manages his own business. Kristin earned her MSW from the University of Tennessee and is a Licensed Master Social Worker experienced in couples, child and family, substance abuse, and crisis counseling. About Their Book: In their upcoming book How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities (Baker Books, May 2024), Kristin and Todd provide the field guide for success. With extreme practicality and empathy, they present research-based skills for fostering a thriving caregiving marriage. Caregiving parents require an additional set of skills for protecting their marriage amidst emotional, financial, and relational obstacles. Much like on a wilderness adventure, the steps of identifying where you are, setting goals, and planning your path together are vital to the success and enjoyment of the journey. Kristin and Todd apply this easy-to-follow framework in crucial areas such as stress management, communication, problem-solving, and respite to help couples thrive. Kristin and Todd are available for interviews to discuss topics such as: • Grieving the continual losses in a caregiving lifestyle • Prioritizing marital intimacy in an overwhelming schedule • Supporting each other’s mental, physical, and emotional health • Fostering a life of joy despite “unhappy” circumstances https://disabilityparenting.com/ Dr. Holmes says you want to get the book! Get the book! Visit their site: https://toddandkristinevans.com/ Get Connected www.DisabilityParenting.com Instagram @disabilityparenting Facebook /kristin.evans.5895 X @AuthorKristinEv

    58 min
  2. Chronic Illness, Stress, and Building Resiliency with Jana Smith

    25 NOV.

    Chronic Illness, Stress, and Building Resiliency with Jana Smith

    We had 2 questions come in from listeners about chronic stress and autoimmune issues in the ND marriage and how to build resiliency and calm the central nervous system in high-stress environments. Today, Dan and Stephanie talked with Jana Smith, an expert in this area. About Jana: Bio: Jana Smith is a Certified Nervous System and Somatics Coach with a Master’s Degree in Health Education. Jana’s experience with neurodiversity began in her family of origin and included her diagnosis of ADHD as an adult. She also has firsthand experience navigating chronic illness. After 7 years of debilitating symptoms, Jana found relief by learning how to build resilience through nervous system regulation. She has made it her life’s work to help others bounce back so they can thrive instead of just surviving. Talking points: 1. Chronic illness is connected to stress, even if we don’t feel stressed out. Low-level ongoing nervous system dysregulation leaves us vulnerable to developing symptoms and illnesses (physical and emotional). 2. Define and explain the causes of nervous system dysregulation. Factors that affect our propensity to dysregulate: Our neurotype Our personality Our attachment style Our past experiences Our current stress level Our perceptions of safety 3. Dysregulation is not bad! God created our nervous system responses to protect us. However, when we are unable to return to regulation, we can end up living in a chronic stress state. 4. What types of situations, without proper support, create chronic dysregulation? Past trauma Difficult marriage Parenting challenges Neurodiversity (both for the individual and the family) Not feeling emotionally supported or connected; feeling emotionally abandoned Feeling invalidated: not feeling seen and heard Overfunctioning, perfectionism, people-pleasing Co-dependency Lack of sleep 5. Dysregulated nervous system states: fight/flight, freeze, fawn/overwhelm. Examples. 6. It’s never too late to learn nervous system fitness. 7. Knowledge vs experience: you can learn all about the brain, the science, polyvagal theory, etc., and still live in a mostly dysregulated state. 8. Walk through a brief experiential example to help cultivate nervous system balance. Reach out to Jana: https://www.janamsmith.com/

    1 h 3 min
  3. Lessons Learned in Previous Marriage and New Marriage with John Fela

    13 NOV.

    Lessons Learned in Previous Marriage and New Marriage with John Fela

    Today is a special edition of JTG. Our usual crew will be back! Today, Dan discusses marriage, divorce, and a new marriage with John Fela of Joni & Friends. While not officially diagnosed, John has realized later in life his neurodivergent identification. About John: John Fela is the Ministry Relations Manager at Joni and Friends Chicago, working with churches to equip and train them to help the disabled in their communities. Prior to that, he spent almost 20 years in education, working with children from Infants to Middle School, serving in a variety of roles, including Teacher, Mentor Teacher, and School Director. Zoom AI Summary of Conversation: John and his wife have a dedicated time or day to review and update their shared calendar to ensure they are both aware of each other's schedules and commitments. John and his wife consistently express gratitude and appreciation for each other's efforts and contributions, even for small tasks or gestures. John and his wife practice gentleness and empathy in their communication, especially when discussing sensitive or past-related topics. John and his wife continue engaging in regular devotional and check-in times to maintain a strong connection and support each other. John lives in Round Lake, IL, and is married to his wife Faith and father to his son Christopher (ASD.) He is a public speaker, podcast guest on multiple shows, and regular contributor to Key Ministry’s Special Needs Family blog and other special needs blogs, including Hope Anew and The Mighty.

    49 min
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Like all couples, NeuroDiverse (AS/NT) Christian couples face challenges with communication and connection. Those challenges are nuanced in a way that most couples, therapists, and clergy don't typically recognize. Often NeuroDiverse Couples have children on the spectrum (or or other differences), this podcast will dedicate topics to the NeuroDiverse Couple as well as issues that may arise in spectrum or special needs family systems. We invite you to learn about NeuroDiverse Christian couples to understand those aspects more fully.

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