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The 7 Poisons Test: Identifying and Overcoming Relationship Pitfalls
Healthy relationships require self-awareness and intentionality. The 7 Poisons Test helps us examine harmful habits that can negatively impact our relationships and provides biblical wisdom for overcoming them.

1️⃣ How Selfish Am I?
Selfishness harms relationships, but serving others cultivates humility. (Philippians 2:3-5)

2️⃣ Do I Set Unrealistic Expectations?
Unmet expectations create conflict, but trusting God’s provision brings peace. (James 4:1-2)

3️⃣ Am I Keeping Secrets?
Secrecy breeds shame, but vulnerability leads to freedom. (Ephesians 5:11-12)

4️⃣ How Negative Is My Speech?
Our words should uplift and encourage rather than tear down. (Ephesians 4:29)

5️⃣ How Much Do I Compare My Relationship?
Comparison fuels discontentment, but gratitude fosters joy. (Galatians 6:4-5)

6️⃣ Do I Fight Dirty?
Attacking problems instead of people leads to healthier conflict resolution. (James 1:19)

7️⃣ Am I Putting Them First?
Prioritizing our personal relationship with Christ keeps relationships in proper order. (Psalm 127:1)

Reflection & Discussion
What stood out to you this week?
Which of these relationship poisons do you struggle with most?
In which area have you seen the most growth? How?
How can your Relate Small Group support you in becoming stronger?
What steps will you take to eliminate these poisons from your relationships?
By identifying and addressing these challenges, we can build Christ-centered, thriving relationships that reflect His love and grace.

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