11 episodes
No More Vacations No More Vacations Podcast
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- Society & Culture
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5.0 • 13 Ratings
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How many times have you booked a vacation just to 'get away'? What if we can re-imagine a life we don't feel the need to vacate from? No more vacations is a safe space for black millennials to explore the inner workings of our daily lives, thoughts, feelings, aspirations and experiences - especially the ones we don't get to talk about and often suppress. We're exploring conversations about gender, relationships, culture, sex, career and pretty much everything that our lives are comprised of. Get ready to unpack. No more vacating. Yes to living!
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What Do Women Really Want?
When was the last time you carved out a moment to think about the experiences, values and expectations you would like to see in a partner? Mo & I thought the only way to begin our 11th episode, season finale, would be by turning the tables, on us. We use this episode to unpack and share some of those ideals in our M & N kind of way. We hope you enjoy our season finale and we look forward to chatting with you during Season 2 😉
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Sis, Can You Afford A Black Man?
Title is loaded, right? Yeah, same for us. In this episode, we discuss an article from Madam Noire titled “Black Women Can No Longer Afford to Save Broken Black Men.” It goes deeeeeep. We agree with some of it, but also recognize some of the perspectives are not so black and white. We knew the title may ring as "black man bashing" but, quite opposite we’re sharing our truths. One being, many black women are just tired. There are lots of issues specific to the black man & black woman dynamic we need to talk about! The point is not to denigrate black men (never is, we love you) but instead to express a painful emotional load many black women carry by being so loyal to black men and the 'black family' w/o reciprocity. And then! In the spirit of talking about deep loaded issues, we also took a dip in the cheating pool, even grabbed an open relationship floaty 😜This one is super sensitive, multilayered and probably needs a part 2 and even 3, but for now, join us as we unpack.
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Men, You’re Having Sex All Wrong
Who taught you how to have sex? If you’re like the average person, porn is the answer. Fact: most people are not fully informed about sex, pleasure, what to do or what not to do before they actually engage in it. The problem is that “porno is not real; women do not look like that in real life; sex almost never goes the way it’s depicted in porn; the average person does not have a ten inch penis. All of this is wrong” according to Stanley Fritz. On this week’s episode we welcomed our first guest and editor in chief of the popular men’s blog Let’s Not Be Trash. We’re talking about sex and it gets raw! As usual, we unpacked - not just porn itself but how the history of porn has pushed racial stereotypes, misguided expectations of men AND women and most importantly how porn as a teacher is f*****g up the game, no pun intended.
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Are You What You Attract or Are You What You Allow?
Inspired by this article from Madam Noire, Men Who Attract “Crazy” Women: It’s All Your Fault, on this week's episode, we're discussing the the article's claim that there are certain tell tale signs of a woman that's "crazy". Is that true or false? Are we responsible by way of our choices for the type of people that we attract? Are the metrics that we use to measure other people a mirror reflection of who we are? Also, some men love calling women "crazy" but, are we really? Or have we been subjected to foolishness and are no longer with the s***s. There's so many layers to unpack - Lets 👏 talk 👏about 👏 it 👏!
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Can I “Grow on You?”
Have you ever met someone and didn’t look at them ‘like that’ at first but later on formed an attraction? Here’s another one: have you ever dated someone where there weren’t any ‘sparks’ at the very beginning but over time you fell in love? In this week’s episode, we exchange perspectives on those initial set of feelings that you get when you just meet someone and we explore the possibility of having a romantic partner ‘grow on you.’ Sparks in the air and butterflies in your belly sound cool but, are they realistic? Sustainable? Maybe a slow and steady burn is better than a rapid fire OR maybe not! Join us as we unpack.
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Unnatural Progression
The 5 stages of dating can be defined as 1. Attraction 2. Uncertainty 3. Exclusivity 4. Intimacy and 5. Engagement. In this episode, we discuss feelings of uncertainty and possible confusion while still ending up with intimacy... How did we sidestep the entire 3rd stage; a conversation about exclusivity? Join us as we begin to peel back the layers of understanding how so many of us end up in the twilight zone of “Unnatural Progression”
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Customer Reviews
Love the conversation!
The conversations are so natural. They really makes me want to be a part of this
ENERGY!
loving the energy on this show can’t wait for you Queens to have me on the show 😉😉
Perfect Opening Salvo
First episode was nicely done. Open, easy flowing, and engaging. Looking forward to what’s to come.