On Tha Mic with M and T

M and T

Welcome to our transformative podcast, where the wisdom of two distinct generations merges, blending old-school mentalities with new-school vibes, all aimed at enriching your life. Our singular mission? Equipping you with knowledge for a more fulfilling existence. Our motto, "Closed Minds Don't Get Fed," embodies our belief that an open mind is the gateway to nourishing your soul. Join us as we navigate life's intricacies, drawing from our diverse experiences to offer invaluable insights. We're here to empower you, encouraging thoughtful decision-making and highlighting that the most meaningful solutions often stem from deeper exploration. Embracing a growth mindset is critical—unveiling your genuine purpose lies at the heart of our discussions. In this podcast, expect unfiltered conversations and substantive content aimed at stimulating your intellect. We're not serving empty calories; we focus on delivering nourishment that fuels real change. Remember, transforming your life requires dedication and deliberate action. Let's embark on this journey together as we provide the sustenance needed for your personal growth.

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    Modern Dating is Broken(AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us a text Modern dating is broken, and this video explores why men and women struggle to connect in today’s world. From unrealistic expectations and financial pressures to a decline in emotional intelligence and leadership, we talk about the challenges destroying modern relationships. Are gender roles outdated? Why are we stuck in a cycle of blame and mistrust? And how do we rebuild healthy connections in a world that overvalues transactions over teamwork? Join us as we unpack these issues with humor, raw honesty, and personal stories, offering insights into what it takes to build meaningful partnerships. Whether you’re frustrated with the dating scene or searching for ways to improve your approach, this video has something for you. Let's navigate the chaos of modern relationships together.  Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real conversations. Share your thoughts in the comments—how do you think we can fix modern dating? #ships #jayshetty #creativewriting #dynamics #relationship CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:25 - Men and Gold Diggers 05:51 - Wife Duties vs Girlfriend Duties 11:28 - Pursuing the Right Woman 14:56 - Emotional vs Logical Thinking 18:50 - Stop Making Poor Choices 22:10 - Self-Control in Relationships 25:40 - Understanding Retainer Fees 28:10 - Leadership in Relationships 32:20 - Importance of Emotional Intelligence 37:49 - Analyzing Your Last Relationship 43:10 - Building a Healthy Relationship 45:48 - Men and Communication 49:48 - Trust Issues Among Men 54:20 - Rules of the Relationship Game 57:05 - Understanding Deception 01:01:50 - Privacy and Trust: Partner's Phone 01:08:20 - Final Thoughts Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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  2. Why Young Men Are Struggling Today 😔(AUDIO ONLY)

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    Why Young Men Are Struggling Today 😔(AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us a text Why are young men struggling today? 😔 In this eye-opening video, we dive into the challenges young men face in today’s world—rising mental health struggles, loneliness, education gaps, stagnant job opportunities, and societal pressures. From alarming statistics on depression and suicide rates to the economic hurdles and lack of male-focused resources, we break down why so many young men feel left behind. But it doesn’t stop there—we explore actionable steps to find purpose, build skills, and create a brighter future. If you’re ready to understand and tackle these issues, this is a must-watch. Join the conversation and let’s work towards solutions together! 💪 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:22 - Mental Health Awareness 01:17 - Employment Opportunities 02:26 - Social Connections 04:00 - Big Picture Perspective 05:51 - College Education Insights 07:11 - Immediate Needs Assessment 13:42 - Education and Boys' Learning Styles 16:53 - The Education System Overview 20:33 - Value of a College Degree 22:28 - Exploring Different Paths 24:47 - Mental Health Challenges 27:10 - Benefits of Trade Schools 29:55 - Financial Discipline Strategies 36:55 - Role of Encyclopedias 38:41 - Engaging Today's Children 41:32 - Supporting Men's Development 46:19 - Women's Increased Responsibilities 49:20 - Importance of Teaching 51:10 - Parenting: Married vs Unmarried 55:00 - Men's Hygiene Awareness 56:10 - Impact of Low Aspirations 57:48 - Backlash of "Be a Man" Culture 59:10 - Necessary Changes Ahead 01:01:15 - Who Will Address the Issues 01:06:20 - Importance of Self-Improvement 01:12:32 - Personal Responsibility in Life 01:13:20 - Celebrating 20,000 Subscribers 01:13:40 - Outro Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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  3. ٤ يونيو

    95% of Homes Are Missing THIS Key Value in Raising Kids (Audio Only)

    Send us a text Are 95% of homes missing a crucial code of conduct? 🏠 This thought-provoking discussion dives into the erosion of household values, accountability, and discipline in today’s society. From generational gaps to the decline in instilling respect, manners, and personal responsibility in children, we explore how this cultural shift is impacting families and communities. We talk about the importance of teaching kids key life principles, the role of parents as active guides, and why a strong foundation in morals and standards is vital. Don’t miss this deep dive into a topic that affects us all—let’s talk about what’s missing and how we can fix it. Join the conversation and help restore what matters most. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:40 - Code of Conduct in Relationships 02:30 - Cassie and Diddy Relationship Insights 05:20 - Easy Access to Sex Culture 11:33 - Building a Solid Foundation 17:04 - Importance of Father Figures 22:44 - The Blind Leading the Blind in Society 25:48 - Defining What You’re Looking For 27:30 - Impact of Past Trauma 31:03 - Importance of Accountability 34:40 - Challenges of Accountability 39:54 - Temptation in Modern Life 42:55 - Marriage Perspectives for the Poor and Elderly 43:50 - Recognizing Foolish Behavior 49:28 - Purpose of Marriage 51:14 - Paul Pierce's Influence 55:53 - GPY: Usage and Importance 58:55 - Lack of Teaching Essential Principles 1:00:13 - Consequences of Our Actions 1:05:30 - Keeping It Real in Conversations 1:07:45 - Critique of Young Adult Behavior 1:08:40 - Risks of Sending Nude Photos 1:13:20 - Understanding Revenge Porn 1:16:50 - Selling Self-Worth in Relationships 1:18:23 - Understanding the Real Deal 1:20:18 - Creating Your Own Rules 1:23:00 - Final Thoughts and Reflections Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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  4. The Harsh Truth About Modern Dating in 2025(Audio Only) 💔

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    The Harsh Truth About Modern Dating in 2025(Audio Only) 💔

    Send us a text Modern dating is a whole new game—are we playing it wrong? In this episode, we dive into "The Harsh Truth About Modern Dating 💔" and explore how relationships have shifted over generations. From structured dating traditions to today’s swipe culture, we break down the dynamics of love, commitment and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. With heated discussions on family influences, personal accountability, and the importance of setting boundaries, we’re unpacking what it means to navigate the dating world in 2025. How can we avoid common pitfalls and build genuine connections in a world full of distractions? Hear real talk, raw insights, and practical advice to improve your dating life.  If you’ve ever questioned modern relationship norms or wondered how to approach love differently, this one’s for you. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more honest conversations on life, growth, and relationships. Let’s keep building together! Peace and blessings. #podcast #moderndating #highvaluewoman #redpill #relationshipinsights #selfworth CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:40 - Group Dating Dynamics 02:40 - Nostalgia in Dating 05:55 - Wisdom of Parents 08:40 - Insights from Elders 10:17 - Men's Preferences in Women 17:00 - Ignoring Parental Advice 20:00 - Partner Qualities to Consider 23:20 - The Chicken Wing Lady Story 26:40 - Signs of Infidelity 28:50 - Storytime: Dating with Kids 30:20 - Knowing When to End Things 33:45 - Developing Personal Preferences 38:00 - Understanding Women's Desires 39:50 - Older Women and Younger Men Relationships 43:20 - Marriage Behaviors vs. Dating 45:30 - Defining Casual Dating 49:43 - Men's Spending Habits in Dating 51:18 - Roles of Husbands 55:00 - Men's Dating Strategies 55:40 - Joint Accounts in Relationships 57:55 - Understanding Breaks in Relationships 1:03:05 - Pre-Breakup Considerations 1:09:27 - Duration of Dating Before Commitment 1:12:12 - Challenges of Casual Dating 1:15:20 - Accountability for Women 1:17:30 - Accountability for Men 1:24:34 - Closing Remarks Please subscribe to our channel and hit the bell icon to stay updated with our latest content wherever you listen to podcasts. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCASTS: https://www.youtube.com/@overcome2become THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ========================== You can reach out to us on the following: Merch: https://overcometoobecome.myspreadshop.com/ Website: overcometoobecome.com Email: overcometoobecome@gmail.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/overcometoobecome Audio Podcast website for On tha Mic w/M & T: https://onthamicwithmandt.buzzsprout.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/overcome2become Audio Podcast website for Overcome 2 Become Presents: https://overcome2becomepresents.buzzsprout.com Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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  5. ٣ أبريل

    Can America be Smart Again (AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us a text Can America be smart again? Join us as we explore the challenges facing modern times and how we, as a society, can reclaim critical thinking, personal responsibility, and old-school common sense. From jaw-dropping legislation like the "Conception Begins at Erection Act" to the evolving dynamics of parenting, accountability, and societal pressures, this episode dives deep into the frustrations and solutions for a smarter, more united America.  We tackle everything from wild laws and over-the-top Uber encounters to the importance of role models, emotional intelligence, and navigating life’s responsibilities. With humor, honesty, and real talk, we examine how adulting has gone off track and what it takes to revive values that truly matter.  If you're ready to laugh, learn, and rethink how we approach modern-day issues, this is the conversation for you. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more unfiltered discussions. Let’s grow smarter, together. #americacriticalthinking #rolemodelsforyouth #commonsensesolutions #socialcommentarypodcast #mentalhealth CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Can America Be Smart Again 02:19 - Conception Begins at Erection Act 11:05 - Final Thoughts 19:08 - Child Support 22:19 - Understanding Child Support Spending 24:26 - Emotional Intelligence Explained 28:28 - The Importance of Emotional Intelligence 32:03 - Parents Turning Kids Over to the State 33:43 - Women Should Give Kids to Men 35:45 - Women and Parenting Statistics 37:10 - Women Are Biologically Designed to Nurture 44:10 - The Importance of Co-Parenting 49:20 - Society's Impact on Childhood 51:40 - Uber Driver Controversy: Overweight Girl 55:00 - Why You Shouldn’t Order A Small Uber 58:20 - Common Sense in Everyday Life 1:01:40 - Final Thoughts 1:02:51 - True Role Models in Society 1:06:29 - Identifying Your Role Model 1:10:44 - Your Core Role Models 1:13:17 - Be Careful Who You Look Up To 1:14:37 - Final Thoughts Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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  6. ١٣ فبراير

    Fix your Mental Health in 2025(AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us a text Fix your mental health in 2025 and face the hard truths you’ve been avoiding. This video gets real about what it takes to prioritize your mental well-being, cut toxic relationships, and get your finances in order. Stop making excuses and start taking control of your life—because the habits, mindset, and decisions you carry into this new year will shape your future. We discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, setting boundaries, and taking actionable steps to improve your mental health. Learn why men often struggle to open up, how poor choices keep us stuck, and why being honest with yourself is the first step to growth. Plus, we dive into the critical need to re-evaluate your relationships and finances—because a truly healthy life means balancing all aspects, not just one. Are you ready to take charge of your mental health, relationships, and money in 2025? Let’s make next year your best year yet. Hit like, subscribe, and don’t forget to tap the bell for more unfiltered advice and real talk that will transform your life. #journalingformentalhealth #selfimprovement #budgeting #financialliteracy #burnoutprevention CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:35 - Mental Health Awareness 07:32 - Unprotected Sex Risks 12:27 - Insights from a Hairstylist 14:57 - Life Coach vs Life Advisor Explained 19:11 - Women's Mental Health Perspectives 22:54 - Evaluating Your Relationships 28:30 - Setting Healthy Boundaries 32:40 - Elderly Wisdom on Needs 33:18 - Allowing Behavior in Relationships 35:39 - Parenting Sons Effectively 38:59 - Breaking Free from Maternal Obligations 48:20 - Understanding Money Management 50:00 - Navigating Student Loans 51:07 - Financial Planning Basics 51:41 - Effective Budgeting Strategies 52:33 - Benefits of Auto Pay 54:47 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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    Why Modern Men Must Level Up: Hard Truths Revealed

    Send us a text Modern men face critical challenges that demand immediate change. In this powerful discussion, we reveal the harsh realities about relationships, family dynamics, and personal responsibility that many men need to hear. From shocking statistics about marriage rates to the real cost of raising children, we're breaking down why "leveling up" isn't just an option – it's essential for survival. Discover why traditional approaches to success aren't working anymore and learn what it really takes to build wealth, maintain healthy relationships, and create generational success. We explore how changing economic landscapes, technology, and social dynamics are forcing men to adapt or get left behind. This raw, unfiltered conversation tackles the uncomfortable truths about personal development, financial responsibility, and the critical importance of obtaining real skills in today's competitive world. Whether you're struggling with career choices, relationship challenges, or finding your path forward, this discussion provides the wake-up call you need. Join us as we break down the essential steps modern men must take to secure their future, protect their families, and build lasting success. This isn't just about survival – it's about thriving in a world that's changing faster than ever before. Subscribe, hit the notification bell, and join our community of men committed to growth and success. #selfimprovement #redpill #moderndatinglife #blackfamilydynamics #mgtow CHAPTERS: 00:00 - The War on the Black Family 01:25 - The Black Marriage Rate 03:51 - Income by Race 06:42 - Average Income for Black Men and Women 07:52 - Poverty Rate for Black Children 08:04 - Dropout Rate for Black Boys 09:58 - Societal Restraints and Rising Above It 12:49 - How the World Has Changed 16:09 - When to Intervene in Kids' Relationships 21:56 - Sowing into Our Children 24:07 - Importance of Marriage 25:45 - Analyzing the Cost of Dating 30:10 - Giving Too Much Too Soon 31:51 - Importance of a Father's Presence 36:56 - Father’s Presence in a Child’s Life 44:57 - Get a DNA Test 49:29 - Don’t Look 52:53 - Importance of Job Training 56:20 - The Next Set of Millionaires 59:43 - Investing in Yourself 01:02:45 - Get a Skill 01:07:10 - Disrespect is Keeping Us Down 01:08:52 - Marriage is More Than Love 01:10:35 - Look at Tyrese’s Wife 01:12:58 - Who It Really Affects 01:14:55 - Outro Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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    Are we raising a Generation of Broken Women?(Audio Only)

    Send us a text Uncover the unseen cost of broken relationships in this thought-provoking discussion. We dive into how social media platforms influence perceptions and expectations in modern relationships, exploring the impact of accountability, self-worth, and societal norms. Discover the importance of personal growth and self-improvement in overcoming relationship challenges, with a focus on the roles of men and women in fostering healthier dynamics. Are you ready to confront the reality of broken relationships and their hidden costs? Join us as we unravel personal stories, share valuable insights, and offer guidance on building a more fulfilling life. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that bell for more enlightening content. #focusonthefamily #modelingsuccessforyourkids #selfimprovement #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Why are women so broken 01:46 - Financial stability without a woman 04:24 - Men and self-worth tied to money 06:34 - Joblessness and self-esteem 08:59 - Men's emotional distance explained 13:06 - Understanding Postpartum Depression 20:33 - Making a positive change 22:10 - Importance of Authenticity 24:53 - Parenting and honesty issues 26:36 - Reasons for having children 33:05 - Men's accountability in relationships 34:20 - Understanding child support 38:30 - Co-parenting dynamics 40:31 - Common excuses men make 43:15 - Guiding a man towards growth 46:54 - Choosing the right partners 48:55 - The 6-6-6 Rule Explained 53:18 - The 4% Rule in dating 56:40 - The men you desire may not reciprocate 59:45 - Societal pressures on attraction 1:05:47 - Historical dating practices 1:09:50 - Suggestions for single individuals 1:13:00 - Readiness before dating 1:13:30 - Building a solid relationship 1:15:00 - Reasons men avoid commitment 1:17:08 - Outro Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

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Welcome to our transformative podcast, where the wisdom of two distinct generations merges, blending old-school mentalities with new-school vibes, all aimed at enriching your life. Our singular mission? Equipping you with knowledge for a more fulfilling existence. Our motto, "Closed Minds Don't Get Fed," embodies our belief that an open mind is the gateway to nourishing your soul. Join us as we navigate life's intricacies, drawing from our diverse experiences to offer invaluable insights. We're here to empower you, encouraging thoughtful decision-making and highlighting that the most meaningful solutions often stem from deeper exploration. Embracing a growth mindset is critical—unveiling your genuine purpose lies at the heart of our discussions. In this podcast, expect unfiltered conversations and substantive content aimed at stimulating your intellect. We're not serving empty calories; we focus on delivering nourishment that fuels real change. Remember, transforming your life requires dedication and deliberate action. Let's embark on this journey together as we provide the sustenance needed for your personal growth.