Paper Napkin Wisdom - Podcast for Entrepreneurs and Leaders

Govindh Jayaraman
Paper Napkin Wisdom - Podcast for Entrepreneurs and Leaders

Paper Napkin Wisdom: Podcast for Entrepreneurs, Leaders and Difference Makers Ideas small enough to fit on a paper napkin, but big enough to change your world. Sometimes the most profound insights come in the smallest packages. Welcome to Paper Napkin Wisdom, the podcast that proves you don't need lengthy seminars or thick business books to revolutionize your approach to success. "I share pearls of wisdom small enough to fit on a napkin and big enough to change your life and business." Hosted by Govindh Jayaraman, a seasoned entrepreneur and modern-day Napoleon Hill, Paper Napkin Wisdom distills the collective knowledge of accomplished leaders into actionable, napkin-sized nuggets that pack a powerful punch. Why Paper Napkin Wisdom Resonates with Seasoned Professionals: Concentrated Wisdom: Each episode delivers high-impact insights without the fluff. Perfect for busy professionals who value their time but never stop learning. Real-World Relevance: Our guests aren't just thought leaders; they're battle-tested entrepreneurs and executives who've navigated the complexities of modern business. Cross-Pollination of Ideas: Discover how strategies from diverse industries can spark innovation in your field. Midcareer Momentum: Whether you're scaling your business or seeking a new challenge, find inspiration to reignite your passion and push boundaries. Life-Work Integration: Explore holistic approaches to success that balance professional growth with personal fulfillment. What You'll Gain: Actionable Strategies: Walk away from each episode with concrete steps to implement immediately. Mindset Shifts: Challenge your assumptions and expand your thinking with fresh perspectives. Network Expansion: Join a community of like-minded professionals at similar stages in their journeys. Time-Efficient Learning: Absorb game-changing concepts in the time it takes to enjoy your morning coffee. Who Should Listen: Entrepreneurs looking to scale C-suite executives seeking fresh approaches to leadership Mid-career professionals aiming to make a significant impact Thought leaders wanting to stay ahead of industry trends Anyone who believes in the power of continuous growth Featured Topics: Disruptive Innovation Strategies Emotional Intelligence in Leadership Sustainable Scaling Techniques Work-Life Synergy (Not Just Balance) Future-Proofing Your Business Legacy Building and Succession Planning Join us on Paper Napkin Wisdom, where small ideas lead to big breakthroughs. Subscribe now and transform your approach to business and life, one napkin at a time.

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    EP 201 - Embracing Change: Part 2 with Gina Mollicone-Long on Paper Napkin Wisdom

    In this very personal and transformative Part 2 episode of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Gina Mollicone-Long, co-founder of Greatness U and a transformational expert, dives deeper into the idea of becoming the person you are before external proof appears. Building on the wisdom shared in Part 1, this episode refines that message and focuses on change, authenticity, and the journey of self-discovery.  For me, this conversation was unlike any other. It was deeply personal, as I opened up about things I’ve never discussed publicly before. Gina’s ability to create a safe and reflective space allowed us to explore not just theoretical ideas but practical wisdom that every entrepreneur and leader can apply to their lives.  The Refinement of Transformation  Gina’s napkin wisdom in this episode introduces a crucial evolution of her earlier thoughts: change doesn’t happen in comfort. She eloquently explained, “Change can only happen when you’re perturbed. It’s not supposed to be comfortable.” This truth resonates with anyone on the journey of growth. For leaders, it’s a reminder that moments of discomfort are opportunities to expand, innovate, and grow.  We also discussed how transformation often involves refinement rather than a complete reinvention. Gina shared, “It’s not about throwing everything out and starting over—it’s about taking what’s working and evolving it to the next level.” This perspective is both empowering and actionable, especially for entrepreneurs navigating change.  Becoming Before Proof: A Personal Journey  A central theme in our discussion was the idea that transformation begins internally. Gina emphasized, “You have to become the person who can handle the success before it shows up in your life.” For me, this concept hit home as I shared personal stories of times when I had to grow into the person I needed to be, long before the results showed up.  This mindset shift is especially relevant for entrepreneurs and leaders who often measure success by external metrics. Gina’s wisdom reminds us that true success starts within and that who we are becoming is just as important as what we are achieving.  Owning Your Story: The Path to Authenticity  In one of the most powerful moments of the episode, Gina encouraged listeners to own their personal narratives. “Authenticity is not a luxury—it’s a necessity,” she said. This resonated deeply with me, as I reflected on the courage it takes to show up as your true self, especially in leadership roles.  As leaders, we often feel the pressure to present a polished image, but Gina’s insights remind us that authenticity is a superpower. Owning your story—not just the successes but also the struggles—can inspire others and build deeper connections.  Top 5 Key Takeaways  Change Happens in Discomfort  Insight: Growth comes from moments of discomfort. Change is not supposed to feel easy, and that’s okay.  Take Action: As a leader, identify one area in your life or business where discomfort is signaling the need for change. Lean into it and explore the opportunities it presents.  Refinement Over Reinvention  Insight: Transformation doesn’t require starting from scratch. Focus on refining what’s already working.  Take Action: Look at your current systems or strategies. Identify one that could benefit from small but impactful improvements.  Become Before You See  Insight: Success begins internally. You must grow into the person capable of achieving your goals before they materialize.  Take Action: Write down three characteristics of the person you need to become to achieve your next big goal. Start practicing them today.  Authenticity is Non-Negotiable  Insight: Owning your story, including the struggles, is a cornerstone of impactful leadership.  Take Action: Share a personal story with your team or network this week. Focus on how it shaped you and what you learned.  Celebrate the Journey  Insight: Success isn’t just about the destination—it’s about the lessons learned along the way.  Take Action: Reflect on a recent challenge. Identify and celebrate three things you learned or gained from the experience.  About Gina Mollicone-Long and Greatness U  Gina Mollicone-Long is a global thought leader and the co-founder of Greatness U, an organization dedicated to unlocking human potential. Through her work, she empowers individuals and organizations to embrace transformation and achieve greatness.    Connect with Gina online:  Website  LinkedIn  Instagram  Facebook    Join the Conversation  This episode was a deeply personal journey, not just for Gina but for me as well. I hope her insights resonate with you as much as they did with me. Take a moment to jot down your biggest takeaway from this episode on a paper napkin, snap a photo, and share it with the hashtag #PaperNapkinWisdom.  Transformation starts with a single step. What’s yours?

    40 min
  2. 5 DAYS AGO

    Ep 200 - Unlocking Alignment and Authenticity for Entrepreneurs and Leaders with Gina Mollicone-Long

    Introduction to Gina Mollicone-Long and Part 1 of This Transformational Series  Gina Mollicone-Long is a transformational leader, international speaker, best-selling author, and co-founder of Greatness U, an organization dedicated to unlocking human potential through cutting-edge coaching, courses, and tools. She’s no stranger to the Paper Napkin Wisdom community, having been a cornerstone of its origin story. In this special two-part series, Gina brings her unparalleled insights into alignment, mindset, and authenticity to help entrepreneurs and leaders create breakthroughs in their lives and businesses.  In this milestone 200th episode, Gina dives deep into how alignment—not hustle—is the secret to success. She challenges listeners to shift their perspective, embrace their authentic selves, and break through mental barriers holding them back from achieving greatness.  Let’s explore the highlights of this engaging conversation and uncover the wisdom Gina shared.  Aligning with Success: It’s Not About the Grind  One of the core themes Gina discusses in this episode is the power of alignment. "Success isn’t about grinding harder," she emphasizes. "It’s about making sure you’re in alignment with what truly matters to you."  This simple yet profound idea is a wake-up call for many entrepreneurs and leaders who are trapped in the endless cycle of hustle. Gina shares how being in alignment allows you to work smarter, not harder, and how it creates an effortless flow of results. When your actions align with your purpose, everything falls into place with far less resistance.  Breaking Through Mental Barriers  Gina explains that most of the limits people face are self-imposed. "You’re only ever fighting yourself," she says. "The mental blocks we have often show up as invisible barriers that prevent us from seeing new possibilities."  She offers practical advice on how to identify and dismantle these barriers, encouraging listeners to approach challenges with curiosity and openness. This mindset shift can lead to transformative breakthroughs, whether in business or life.  The Role of Authenticity in Leadership  According to Gina, authenticity isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a superpower. "When you show up as your authentic self, you give others permission to do the same," she explains.   Authenticity creates trust, and trust is the foundation of all successful relationships—be it with your team, clients, or partners.  Her advice for leaders? Stop trying to fit into someone else’s mold and focus on cultivating your unique strengths. Authenticity breeds confidence, and confidence inspires others to follow your lead.  Small Actions, Big Results  One of the most compelling parts of the conversation is Gina’s perspective on the ripple effect of small, intentional actions. "You don’t need to take massive leaps all the time," she says. "Sometimes, a small action aligned with your goals can create exponential results."  This principle is especially relevant for entrepreneurs and leaders who often feel overwhelmed by the scale of their ambitions. Gina’s message is clear: Start small, but start with intention.  5 Key Takeaways from Part 1  Shift Your Perspective to Transform Reality  Gina highlights the importance of shifting how you view challenges. "The way you see the world shapes the results you get," she says.  Take Action: Reflect on a current challenge in your life or business. Write down three alternative ways to perceive it, and choose the one that empowers you the most.  Success Comes from Alignment, Not Effort  Alignment with your values and goals leads to effortless success. "It’s not about working harder; it’s about working smarter," Gina emphasizes.  Take Action: Review your daily activities and identify one task that feels misaligned with your purpose. Delegate or eliminate it.  Break Through Limiting Beliefs  Gina encourages leaders to identify and question their self-imposed limits. "You’re only ever limited by the stories you tell yourself," she states.  Take Action: Identify one limiting belief and write down evidence that challenges its validity. Replace it with a more empowering belief.  Authenticity is Your Leadership Superpower  "When you’re authentic, you inspire trust," says Gina. This trust is essential for building strong teams and relationships.  Take Action: Identify one area where you feel you’re not being authentic. Take one step to show up more genuinely this week.  Small Steps Create Big Results  Small, intentional actions can lead to exponential growth. "Start small, but start now," Gina advises.  Take Action: Choose one small action today that aligns with your larger goals and commit to doing it consistently for a week.    Stay Tuned for Part 2  This episode was packed with actionable insights, but Part 2 promises to take things to the next level. Gina will dive into deeply personal stories and share transformational tools you won’t want to miss. Stay tuned—it’s going to be very special.  Connect with Gina Mollicone-Long and Greatness U  Learn more about Gina and her work:  Greatness U Website  Gina’s LinkedIn  Gina’s Books on Amazon    Don’t forget to share your biggest takeaway on social media with the hashtag #PaperNapkinWisdom!

    43 min
  3. DEC 12

    EP 199 - Expanding the Scope of Napkin Wisdom with Sean Finter

    In Episode 199 of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Sean Finter, founder of the Finter Group, joins us for the second part of his insightful series. If you caught part one, you already know Sean as a dynamic thinker who blends business acumen with life wisdom. In this episode, Sean dives deeper into the nuances of his philosophy, sharing how his "napkin moments" transcend business frameworks and evolve into tools for personal growth and leadership.  As Sean explains, “I thought my napkin was a business thing, but I realized it had a broader application.” This realization speaks to the adaptability and transformative potential of great ideas. Whether you're leading a team or shaping your personal life, Sean’s insights offer practical tools to navigate complexity, build resilience, and foster meaningful growth.  Simplicity Amidst Complexity  Sean describes the challenges leaders face in breaking down overwhelming problems into manageable steps. “I learned to simplify things—not because it’s easy, but because simplicity makes the complex actionable.” This lesson is particularly relevant in today’s fast-paced world where clarity often becomes the leader’s greatest asset.  Adaptability as a Superpower  Reflecting on his journey, Sean highlights the importance of adaptability, especially during transformative moments in life. “When I became a dad, I realized how much I had to learn—not just about parenting, but about growth as a person.” His ability to translate lessons from one area of life into another is a masterclass in evolving through change.  The Power of Relationships  Sean underscores the role of relationships in shaping success. “I realized the people around me either lifted me up or anchored me. Choosing carefully made all the difference.” Surrounding yourself with the right people doesn’t just amplify your growth; it also keeps you grounded.  Key Takeaways for Entrepreneurs and Leaders  1. Your Napkin Wisdom Can Evolve  What starts as a tool for one purpose can evolve into something much greater. Sean’s journey from business-focused insights to broader life applications demonstrates this beautifully.  Take Action: Revisit one principle that has guided you professionally. Ask: How can this apply to my personal life or other areas of leadership?  2. Simplify for Clarity  Simplicity doesn’t mean cutting corners—it means focusing on what truly matters. Sean reminds us that “simplicity makes the complex actionable.”  Take Action: Choose one area in your business where complexity slows you down. Break it into three actionable steps and implement them this week.  3. Embrace Adaptability  Leaders who evolve with change position themselves for long-term success. Sean’s reflections on becoming a dad exemplify the need to adapt and grow continuously.  Take Action: Identify one unexpected challenge in your life or business. Write down three ways you can adapt to turn it into an opportunity.  4. Cultivate Growth-Oriented Relationships  The people around you can either propel you forward or hold you back. Sean says, “Choose carefully—it makes all the difference.”  Take Action: Audit your relationships. Are the key people in your life aligned with your vision? Take one step to build a stronger support system.  5. Seek Broader Applications for Your Wisdom  What you learn in business can often apply to your personal life, and vice versa. Sean emphasizes that wisdom isn’t confined to one context.  Take Action: Take one lesson you’ve learned in your personal life and apply it to your leadership. Reflect on the results and refine your approach.    Connect with Sean Finter  Website: seanfinter.com  LinkedIn: Sean Finter on LinkedIn  Finter Group: Finter Group Official Site    Your Turn to Take Action  Sean’s wisdom challenges us to think bigger and act bolder. What’s one takeaway from today’s episode that resonated with you? Write it down on a paper napkin and share it on social media with the hashtag #PaperNapkinWisdom. Don’t forget to tag us! Let’s inspire each other to turn small ideas into big results.  Stay tuned for more insights, and if you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your community.

    35 min
  4. DEC 10

    Ep 198 - The Power of Napkin Simplicity: Sean Finter’s Approach to Leadership and Strategy

    In Episode 198 of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Sean Finter brings a refreshing perspective on leadership and strategy. With decades of experience building high-performing teams and consulting leaders worldwide, Sean distills complex ideas into actionable insights that anyone can use to transform their organization. His approach? Simplicity, clarity, and a focus on what truly matters.  Sean’s wisdom stems from his personal journey of self-discovery, marked by challenges like dyslexia and his early days as a young leader in London’s hospitality scene. His philosophy, captured in the memorable quote, “If your staff can’t articulate your business strategy on a napkin, you don’t have one,” encapsulates his belief in clarity as the cornerstone of effective leadership.  In this blog, we explore Sean’s key insights and actionable steps to implement them.  Simplicity: The Cornerstone of Strategy  Sean’s napkin test is more than a clever idea—it’s a profound principle. He explained during the podcast:  "That napkin changed my life. It came after 12 years of schooling where I learned very little because of dyslexia. It forced me to simplify everything, and I realized that clarity in communication is not just valuable—it’s essential."  The lesson here is clear: if your strategy isn’t simple enough to fit on a napkin, it’s likely too complex to execute effectively. Leaders often get caught up in jargon and over-complicated plans, but Sean’s approach challenges this tendency.  Turning Challenges Into Strengths  Sean openly discussed how being diagnosed with dyslexia shaped his approach to learning and leadership. Instead of viewing it as a limitation, he embraced it as an opportunity to innovate.  "I didn’t know how to learn in a traditional sense, but that pushed me to think differently and find creative solutions to problems," Sean shared.  This mindset of turning obstacles into opportunities is a powerful reminder that our greatest challenges often carry the seeds of our most significant growth.  Leadership Through Clarity, Not Control  Sean’s experience leading diverse teams in high-pressure environments taught him the value of clear communication and alignment over micromanagement. He reflected:  "Leadership isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about creating clarity so that your team can act with confidence and purpose."  This philosophy emphasizes empowering your team by providing them with the tools and understanding they need to succeed.  5 Key Takeaways from Sean Finter  Here are the five most impactful lessons Sean shared in this episode, along with actionable steps for entrepreneurs and leaders:  Simplify Your Strategy  If your business strategy can’t be explained on a napkin, it’s too complicated. Clarity drives execution and alignment across teams.  Take Action: Host a strategy session with your team and challenge them to write your mission or strategy in one sentence. Use their feedback to refine and simplify your vision.  Leverage Your Unique Challenges  Challenges like dyslexia shaped Sean’s innovative approach to leadership. Your obstacles can lead to unique strengths.  Take Action: Reflect on a personal challenge you’ve faced and consider how it has equipped you with unique insights or skills. Share this perspective with your team to inspire resilience.  Build a Dream Team  Sean’s success in hospitality relied on assembling high-performing teams from diverse backgrounds. Success stems from collaboration and shared purpose.  Take Action: Evaluate your team’s strengths and identify areas for improvement. Invest in hiring or training to build a team aligned with your strategic goals.  Communicate for Clarity  Sean emphasized that clarity in communication is essential for effective leadership. Without it, even the best strategy will fail.  Take Action: Create a feedback loop in your organization to ensure that your vision and strategy are understood by all. Simplify your messaging wherever possible.  Commit to Lifelong Learning  Sean’s journey underscores the importance of continuous growth, whether through self-education, mentorship, or hands-on experience.  Take Action: Set a personal learning goal for the next quarter. Whether it’s reading a book, attending a workshop, or seeking mentorship, prioritize your growth   Learn More About Sean Finter  Discover more about Sean and his work through these resources:  Sean Finter’s Website  Sean Finter on LinkedIn  Sean Finter on Instagram    Share Your Takeaway with #PaperNapkinWisdom  What’s your biggest takeaway from Sean’s insights? Write it down on a napkin, snap a photo, and share it on social media with the hashtag #PaperNapkinWisdom. Let’s inspire each other to simplify, clarify, and lead with purpose!    Remember: clarity transforms complexity into action. Take a moment today to simplify one thing in your life or business—and see the results unfold.

    37 min
  5. DEC 5

    EP 197 - Health and Travel Wisdom with Ashley Perona: A Guide for Entrepreneurs and Leaders

    Episode 197: Paper Napkin Wisdom with Ashley Perona (Part 2 of 2)  In this second part of our conversation with Ashley Perona, founder of Ever Wander Travel, we uncover the secrets to balancing health and thriving in the fast-paced world of travel and entrepreneurship. Ashley’s journey is a testament to how aligning with your core values can drive sustainable success while maintaining a healthy lifestyle.  Whether you’re building a business, managing a team, or living a life of adventure, Ashley's practical tips on health and travel offer game-changing insights that are easy to implement.  Redefining Health on the Move  Ashley believes that staying healthy while traveling is not just about discipline; it’s about creating sustainable habits. “I always tell people, pack a reusable water bottle, prioritize your sleep, and make smart food choices,” she says. Hydration, rest, and nutrition form the foundation of her health strategy.  She shared how she keeps up with her wellness goals by blending small, consistent actions with preparation. "It’s easy to let go of routines when you're traveling, but that’s when you need them the most," Ashley emphasized, encouraging listeners to take ownership of their health regardless of location.  The Power of Travel to Shape Leadership  For Ashley, travel is more than a passion; it’s a way to deepen her leadership skills. “Traveling teaches you to adapt, to think on your feet, and to embrace new perspectives,” she shared. Her ability to turn obstacles into opportunities is a lesson for entrepreneurs navigating the unpredictable landscapes of business.  Through travel, Ashley has honed her ability to connect with diverse teams and customers, an invaluable skill for any leader aiming to grow their influence and impact.  Simple Hacks, Big Wins  Ashley’s travel hacks make life easier without compromising the experience. Her tips range from using apps to streamline planning to rolling clothes to maximize suitcase space.   “Efficiency is key, especially when you’re juggling a packed schedule,” Ashley said.  She highlighted the importance of working smarter, not harder: “You don’t have to reinvent the wheel. Sometimes, the simplest solutions are the most effective.”  Leading with Connection and Experiences  Central to Ashley’s philosophy is the idea of designing your life and business around meaningful connections. “At the end of the day, it’s not the places you go but the people you meet and the memories you create,” she shared.  For leaders, this means building relationships that go beyond transactions. Ashley’s approach encourages entrepreneurs to focus on creating moments that matter—for themselves, their teams, and their customers.  5 Key Takeaways with Action Steps  Prioritize Your Health as a Non-Negotiable  Staying healthy starts with small habits. As Ashley puts it, “Hydration, sleep, and nutrition are not luxuries—they’re essentials.”  Take Action: Evaluate your current routine and identify one health habit to improve. For example, commit to carrying a water bottle everywhere you go this week.  Build Flexibility into Your Plans  “Travel—and life—will throw curveballs. Planning for flexibility ensures you’re ready for anything,” Ashley advises.  Take Action: Review your business plans and identify areas where flexibility could make you more resilient. Adjust one strategy to account for unexpected changes.  Simplify with Smart Travel Hacks  Small adjustments can have a big impact. “Efficient packing and planning make the difference between chaos and calm,” Ashley notes.  Take Action: Research and implement one travel or productivity hack into your routine, such as using a packing cube or a digital organizer for receipts.  Use Travel to Gain Fresh Perspectives  Ashley highlighted how travel sharpens leadership skills. “You learn to navigate challenges and adapt quickly,” she says.  Take Action: Plan a trip or activity that takes you out of your comfort zone. Use the experience to reflect on how you approach challenges in your business.  Design Experiences That Inspire Connection  “Success is about the relationships you build and the moments you create,” Ashley reminds us.  Take Action: Organize a team-building event or customer experience that fosters deeper connections and shared memories.    Connect with Ashley Perona  Explore more of Ashley’s inspiring journey and connect with her:  Website: Ever Wander Travel  LinkedIn: Ashley Perona on LinkedIn    Your Call to Action  What’s your takeaway from Ashley’s insights? Write it down on a paper napkin and share it using the hashtag #PaperNapkinWisdom. Let’s inspire others to take small, intentional steps toward big results!

    43 min
  6. DEC 3

    EP 196 - Explore, Experience, Evolve: Ashley Perona’s Recipe for Growth and Connection

    In Episode 196 of Paper Napkin Wisdom, we dive into the transformative wisdom of Ashley Perona, founder of EverWander Travel. Known for curating exceptional travel experiences, Ashley brings a unique perspective to personal and professional growth. Her mantra, “Explore, Experience, Evolve,” is not just a statement—it’s a call to action for leaders, entrepreneurs, and anyone striving to grow.  Ashley’s philosophy is beautifully captured in her napkin, which features a symbolic design of hearts and airplanes, representing connection, movement, and transformation. During this first part of a two-part series, she shares how exploration has shaped her entrepreneurial journey, why meaningful experiences matter, and how leaders can embrace evolution as a continuous process.  The Art of Exploration: Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone  One of the core themes Ashley shares is the importance of exploration. Whether it’s traveling to a new place or trying a different approach in business, exploration pushes boundaries and opens doors. Ashley says, “You don’t have to know the destination, but you have to take the first step. Exploration leads to clarity.”  Entrepreneurs and leaders can relate to this concept. Often, growth comes not from sticking to what you know but from venturing into the unknown. Ashley emphasizes that exploration isn’t about perfection—it’s about discovery.  Experiences That Leave a Mark  Ashley’s company, EverWander Travel, is rooted in the belief that experiences are transformative. She explains, “What we remember most are the moments that make us feel alive—the connections, the challenges, and the joy of something new.”  For entrepreneurs, curating meaningful experiences extends beyond personal growth—it’s about creating moments for customers, teams, and communities that resonate on a deeper level. Ashley’s approach shows that when we focus on crafting experiences, we build lasting impact.  Evolution as a Lifelong Journey  Ashley believes evolution is not a destination but an ongoing process. She says, “Every challenge is a chance to evolve. It’s about becoming a better version of yourself every day.”  This mindset is crucial for leaders navigating the ever-changing landscape of business. Evolution requires adaptability and a willingness to embrace change, even when it’s uncomfortable. Ashley’s wisdom reminds us that growth is a journey, not a one-time event.  Building Connections That Matter  A recurring theme in Ashley’s journey is the power of connection. She explains, “At the heart of every meaningful experience is a connection—whether it’s with people, places, or even yourself.”  For leaders, this highlights the importance of building authentic relationships. In business, as in life, meaningful connections are the foundation of trust and collaboration. Ashley’s insights encourage leaders to invest time and energy into fostering genuine relationships.  Aligning Purpose with Passion  Ashley’s mantra, “Explore, Experience, Evolve,” is deeply rooted in purpose. She shares, “When you align your actions with your values, everything feels more intentional and fulfilling.”  Entrepreneurs often face the challenge of staying true to their values while chasing success. Ashley’s journey shows that purpose-driven decisions lead not only to fulfillment but also to long-term impact.   5 Key Takeaways from Episode 196  Step Into the Unknown  Growth begins where certainty ends. Ashley reminds us that exploration isn’t about knowing all the answers but about taking the first step. This could mean trying a new strategy, entering an unfamiliar market, or simply embracing curiosity. By stepping into the unknown, you unlock creativity and new opportunities.  Take Action: Identify one area in your business where you’ve been hesitant to try something new. Take the first step this week.  Create Memorable Experiences  Experiences are the foundation of emotional connection and long-lasting impressions. Ashley shared that creating meaningful moments—whether for customers or teams—can build loyalty and trust. Memorable experiences resonate deeply and help differentiate your business in a crowded market.  Take Action: Brainstorm one way to enhance your customer or team experience and implement it within the next month.  Embrace Change for Growth  Challenges are the universe’s way of pushing you to grow. Ashley pointed out that instead of fearing change, leaders should lean into it as an opportunity for evolution. Whether it’s rethinking a process, adapting to new trends, or overcoming setbacks, each challenge brings valuable lessons.  Take Action: Reflect on a recent challenge and write down three ways it helped you grow as a leader.  Invest in Authentic Connections  Business is personal, and success comes from genuine relationships. Ashley emphasized the value of showing up authentically in interactions with others. Strong connections create a ripple effect, fostering trust, collaboration, and shared success.  Take Action: Reach out to someone in your network this week and schedule a coffee or virtual meeting to reconnect.  Align Actions with Values  Values-driven decisions lead to sustainable success. Ashley shared how staying true to her core beliefs helps her navigate both personal and professional challenges. For entrepreneurs, aligning actions with values ensures every move is intentional and meaningful, leading to greater satisfaction and impact.  Take Action: List your top three values and evaluate one business decision this week to ensure it aligns with those values.     Connect with Ashley Perona  Learn more about Ashley and her inspiring work:  Website: EverWander Travel  LinkedIn: Ashley Perona on LinkedIn    What did you take away from Ashley’s wisdom? Share your thoughts on a paper napkin, snap a photo, and post it on social media with #PaperNapkinWisdom. Let’s continue to explore, experience, and evolve together!

    36 min
  7. NOV 28

    EP 195 - Building Relationships, Not Funnels: Richard Walton's Approach to Sales Success

    In episode 195 of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Govindh Jayaraman welcomes Richard Walton, founder of Outsell Sales, to discuss a profound shift in B2B sales. Walton, joining from South Africa, shares his perspective on why sales professionals should “Go back to the ’80s to sell better.” This throwback isn’t about nostalgia; it’s about reconnecting with the essence of human relationships that used to define sales success.  Walton’s core message is that the digital-first, hyper-automated strategies common today often overlook the value of personal, face-to-face interactions. In his view, building trust and credibility with high-ticket B2B clients requires more than emails and LinkedIn messages; it requires taking the time to meet people, listen genuinely, and show up with a sincere desire to understand their challenges.  Revisiting the “Shoe Leather” Strategy  One of Walton’s main points is that sales in the digital age has lost its personal touch. “The competitive advantage that every single person can have is how often they can meet people in the real world,” he explains. Walton believes the sales process has become too reliant on technology, which, while efficient, often sacrifices the trust-building interactions that in-person meetings naturally foster. According to Walton, this return to what he calls the “shoe leather” method—physically meeting prospects and investing time in face-to-face interactions—can make all the difference.  Reflecting on his own experiences in B2B sales, Walton recounts the evolution of his approach. Years ago, his daily grind involved hours of driving to meet prospects, listen to their needs, and form connections. Today, he urges salespeople to apply this mindset to their sales strategies, emphasizing that these real-world connections are essential, especially in high-value transactions.  The Magic Number: Three Meetings to Build Trust  For Walton, building trust is not a one-time event but a process. He argues that three face-to-face meetings within six to nine months are essential to establishing a solid foundation. Each meeting should have its own purpose and progression, focusing on deepening the relationship rather than pushing a sale. “I think three is the magic number when it comes to building trust and credibility,” Walton notes, encouraging leaders to structure their approach around this insight.  The first meeting, Walton advises, should be purely relationship-focused. “You’re building a relationship; that’s it. You’re dropping everything else,” he says. By the second meeting, you’re assessing the prospect’s needs and opportunities for alignment. And by the third, you may find that they initiate interest in your product or service themselves, based on the trust developed through the earlier interactions.  Using Technology as a Supplement, Not a Substitute  While Walton’s approach may sound old-fashioned, he doesn’t reject technology altogether. Instead, he advocates for a balanced approach where tech serves to support, rather than replace, human interaction. “It’s the combination of those activities,” he says, referring to blending digital tools with in-person meetings. He suggests leveraging content creation, PR, and social media to build credibility while maintaining a focus on personal relationships as the heart of sales.  This augmented approach can help entrepreneurs and leaders manage multiple channels without losing the personal touch. Walton’s strategy involves proving expertise through content while using digital tools for practical things like tracking interactions. “The magic wand,” Walton jokes, “is actually getting very focused on who you’re going to meet, putting together a local strategy, and putting in the hard work.”  Building Trust with Genuine Intent  Walton stresses that effective sales require sincerity and curiosity, especially when starting a new relationship. A technique he champions is to approach prospects with questions and a genuine desire to learn about their industry. “You’ve got to really hold that intention,” he says, adding that the best way to understand clients’ needs is by allowing them to become your “professor” in their field. By showing up curious and willing to learn, sales professionals position themselves as allies rather than just vendors.  A Metric for Relationship-Driven Sales: Coffees per Week  One unique metric Walton uses to gauge his sales effectiveness is what he calls “Coffees per Week” (CPW), which represents how many personal interactions he has over coffee or in other informal settings. For him, this metric is not about productivity in a conventional sense but about creating valuable touchpoints with clients. “How many coffees per week are you having?” he asks, encouraging leaders to measure their relationship-building activities as seriously as their digital KPIs.  Walton’s message resonates strongly with today’s entrepreneurs and leaders who feel bombarded by digital communication but are craving authentic connections. His approach emphasizes that genuine relationships don’t just close deals—they drive long-term loyalty and growth.   5 Key Takeaways   1. Prioritize Face-to-Face Meetings  Take Action: Block out time each month to schedule in-person or virtual coffee chats with potential clients or partners. Start with one or two meetings a week to cultivate this practice gradually.  2. Build Trust Through Curiosity and Help  Take Action: In your first meeting with a prospect, aim to learn three new things about their industry or challenges. Come prepared with questions, not pitches, to focus on understanding their needs.  3. Use Technology to Augment, Not Replace, Personal Touch  Take Action: Utilize tools like LinkedIn for relationship maintenance and content sharing, but avoid over-automation. For example, follow up manually after each meeting with a personalized message or useful resource.  4. Commit to Multiple Interactions for Stronger Connections  Take Action: Create a strategy to reconnect with your top prospects three times in the next six months. Think creatively about these interactions—attend local events, meet at conferences, or invite them to your industry talks.  5. Measure Success by Relationship Metrics, Not Just Sales  Take Action: Set a goal to increase your “Coffees per Week” (CPW) by at least one each quarter. Keep a list of contacts and aim to reconnect over coffee, fostering deeper, more frequent interactions.    Walton’s approach to sales is a reminder that meaningful connections can make or break a business. By embracing these strategies, entrepreneurs and leaders can forge deeper relationships, build trust, and ultimately drive success in a way that’s both sustainable and rewarding.   Connect with Richard Walton  Website: Outsell Sales  LinkedIn: Richard Walton on LinkedIn

    33 min
  8. NOV 26

    Ep 194 - Navigating Doubt Days: Stefanie Fox’s Approach to Resilient Leadership in the Salon Industry

    In Episode 194 of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Govindh Jayaraman welcomes Stefanie Fox, an influential leader in the salon industry who has made it her mission to empower salon owners and stylists to build fulfilling, sustainable careers. Stefanie’s insights extend far beyond the beauty industry. She offers lessons in self-awareness, resilience, and leadership that apply to entrepreneurs and leaders across all sectors.  Stefanie is a coach, speaker, and visionary who has helped salon owners address the often-overlooked aspects of business: people management, retention, and culture. She’s a data enthusiast who understands the neuroscience behind emotional states and decision-making, making her approach both practical and scientifically grounded. Through her work, Stefanie addresses a unique yet universal challenge: how to lead authentically while managing moments of self-doubt and uncertainty.  Embracing Vulnerability as a Path to Growth  Stefanie candidly shares her struggles with what she calls “doubt days”—those moments when self-doubt, insecurity, or a challenging situation can cloud judgment and hinder progress. Rather than masking these moments, Stefanie’s approach involves acknowledging and embracing them. “I have a ton of doubt days,” she admits, “but I’ve learned that making decisions on those days actually limits my success.”  For Stefanie, recognizing these days has been transformative, both in her personal life and as a business leader. She talks about the importance of emotional self-regulation, pointing out that many people expect leaders to always appear confident and certain. However, she challenges this notion by demonstrating that vulnerability, paired with intentional practices, can actually enhance leadership. “When I actually just recognize that this is not a decision-making kind of day, I can step back and give myself the space to realign,” Stefanie explains.  Strategies for Resetting and Regaining Focus  Stefanie’s journey has led her to cultivate a toolkit for navigating doubt days effectively. Drawing on her knowledge of neuroscience, she incorporates practices that engage both the body and mind, helping her shift from a place of doubt to one of clarity. Physical movement, connecting with supportive friends, and finding inspiration in quotes and journals are some of her go-to strategies. “Moving my body, whether it’s a walk or time in the gym, is preventative medicine for me,” she says.  Stefanie also believes in building a strong support network, which she calls on during challenging moments. “There are five people in my life that I know love me unconditionally,” she shares. “When I feel overwhelmed, I’ll phone a friend and let them help me reframe my thoughts.”  Her story is a reminder that resilience is not just about pushing through difficulties; it’s about knowing when to pause, recalibrate, and seek support. Stefanie’s perspective on resilience is particularly relevant in today’s high-stress entrepreneurial landscape, where leaders are expected to make quick decisions and maintain unwavering confidence.  Key Takeaways and Action Steps for Leaders  1. Don’t Make Decisions on Doubt Days  Stefanie’s rule of thumb, “Don’t make decisions on doubt days,” is a powerful reminder that emotions can cloud judgment. “If I make decisions on those doubt days, I hinder my success because I’m not thinking clearly,” she explains.  Take Action: When self-doubt arises, pause and give yourself the space to regain perspective. Instead of forcing a decision, reflect on your motivations and revisit the choice when you’re feeling more centered. As a leader, acknowledge these moments to your team, creating a culture of transparency.  2. Move Your Body to Shift Your Mindset  Physical activity is essential for Stefanie when it comes to managing stress and clearing her mind. “The likelihood that I’m going to have a better, more productive, less doubtful day is so much higher,” she shares.  Take Action: Integrate physical movement into your daily routine, even if it’s just a walk. When faced with a stressful situation, consider a short burst of physical activity before returning to the task. Encourage your team to incorporate wellness practices to enhance productivity and mental well-being.  3. Lean on Your Support Network  Stefanie’s advice to “phone a friend” is not just about seeking support; it’s about having trusted people who can help you see things from a different perspective. “I have a few friends who love me unconditionally and know me well enough to give honest feedback,” she says.  Take Action: Identify 2-3 trusted individuals in your network who can provide support and honest advice when you need it. Consider creating a group of advisors within your business to support one another in times of doubt, creating a safe space for open dialogue.  4. Seek Inspiration in Words and Quotes  As someone inspired by words, Stefanie turns to quotes and journals for grounding during difficult moments. “Sometimes just reading a few quotes is enough to re-inspire myself,” she shares.  Take Action: Keep a journal of quotes or inspiring passages to turn to on challenging days. Make time for a weekly reflection session with your team, sharing an inspiring quote to kick off the discussion and foster motivation.  5. Prioritize Rest and Mental Recharge  For Stefanie, quality rest is vital for resetting her mind and energy. “Sometimes, sleep is the only thing that can truly reset my perspective,” she explains. Quality rest enables her to approach challenges with a fresh mindset.  Take Action: Schedule time for rest and mental recharge just as you would for work tasks. Create a team culture that respects the need for downtime, encouraging breaks and days off to maintain high energy and mental resilience.    Connect with Stefanie Fox  To learn more about Stefanie Fox and her work, visit her website and follow her on social media:  Website: https://steffox.com  LinkedIn: Stefanie Fox on LinkedIn  Stefanie’s journey serves as a powerful example of the strength in vulnerability and the importance of taking care of ourselves so that we can lead with clarity and purpose. Whether you’re a salon owner, an entrepreneur, or a leader in any field, her insights remind us that self-awareness and resilience are crucial tools for success.

    35 min
4.9
out of 5
18 Ratings

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