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This podcast interprets the latest scientific discoveries in psychology, as well as techniques and principles from ancient spiritual traditions, and gives you tools to put them into practice.

Peace at Last‪!‬ Fabrice Nye

    • Education
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This podcast interprets the latest scientific discoveries in psychology, as well as techniques and principles from ancient spiritual traditions, and gives you tools to put them into practice.

    012: You Don't Get Your Just Deserts

    012: You Don't Get Your Just Deserts

    The expression “getting your just deserts,” according to Merriam-Webster, means receiving the punishment that you deserve. This episode looks at rewards as well as punishment. The idea is to explore whether we can be said to deserve something or not. I explain that there are three separate meanings for this notion: 1. Merit — What we earn through talent and effort 2. Civil Rights — What our culture, society, and laws say we are entitled to 3. Intrinsic Deserts — What we imagine is inherently ours from the simple fact of being human See Also 1. The Tyranny of Merit (2020), by Michael J. Sandel 2. Dependent Origination, in Buddhist Philosophy 3. Not What Should Be, by Alan Watts 4. Changing Attitudes on Same-Sex Marriage (2019), by the Pew Research Center

    • 20 min
    011: Three Little Words That Can Mess up Your Life (Part 3) — Want

    011: Three Little Words That Can Mess up Your Life (Part 3) — Want

    Today’s topic is about the word “want.” Even though we spent the last two episodes talking about how having preferences is a healthy alternative to imposing “shoulds” or “needs” upon ourselves. I present here three reasons why we fall into some thinking traps when we use the word “want.” Those reasons are: We don’t really know what is best for us. We tell ourselves that we want one thing, when evidence points to the contrary. We mainly know what we don’t want, rather than what we do want. See Also (2006), by Dan Gilbert , by Aesop (2009), by Rick Hanson Music: Eastern Thought by Kevin MacLeod Link: License:

    • 18 min
    010: Three Little Words That Can Mess up Your Life (Part 2) — Need

    010: Three Little Words That Can Mess up Your Life (Part 2) — Need

    In this second part of a miniseries on the words we say to ourselves that create tension and distress, today’s word is “Need.” Today we talk about: The psychological theories of needs, which are in fact theories of human motivation. Byron Katie’s radical approach to needs. The fallacy of speaking in terms of absolute needs. How to use the word “need” in a relative context. Practice Semantic Method — replacing “need” with “It would be nice if…” or “I would prefer it if…” and remembering that the use of the word “need” implies the subordinating conjunction “in order to” (relative contextualization). See Also (1943), by Abraham Maslow (2008), by Edward Deci & Richard Ryan (2001), by Byron Katie Music: Night on the Docks - Sax by Kevin MacLeod Link: License:

    • 16 min
    009: Three Little Words That Can Mess up Your Life (Part 1) — Should

    009: Three Little Words That Can Mess up Your Life (Part 1) — Should

    Are you “shoulding” all over yourself? The word “Should” happens to be one of the most insidious in the English language. In today’s episode, we talk about how: Psychoanalyst Karen Horney called “The Tyranny of the Should” this tendency to create an idealized self and a rejection of the real self. Albert Ellis spoke about the three kinds of “musts.” Using the word “should” is conveying criticism, like “scolding” oneself (or others). The value statements implied by that word are arbitrary and relative. The laws of Nature do not follow any “should,” but instead are what they are, and we don’t get a vote. Practice Rephrasing — replacing “should” with “is” or “does” or “I would prefer it if…” Reattribution — considering the alternative causes of events and behaviors. Positive Reframing — acknowledging that Should Statements come out of a very good place in you, that they reflect positive attributes and values, and that there is a helpful side to holding those beliefs. See Also , by Karen Horney , by Albert Ellis , the Online Etymology Dictionary  

    • 14 min
    008: There Are Only Three Kinds of Business

    008: There Are Only Three Kinds of Business

    Byron Katie likes to say that there are only three kinds of business in the world: mine, yours, and God’s. God’s business refers to the forces of Nature or to events that are beyond human control. Your business, is someone else’s life, including what they feel, think, and choose to do. My business is what’s left, that is, what is within my control. In his popular book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey describes the notion of Circle of Concern and Circle of Influence. We add here the Circle of Control, where Circle of Control = What I choose to do and can directly manipulate. Circle of Influence = What is not directly within my control, but can be affected by what I do. Circle of Concern = What I mentally worry about, whether or not I can do anything about it.  

    • 20 min
    007: What Is Enlightenment?

    007: What Is Enlightenment?

    We’re taking a left turn, today, from cognitive theory, and we are going to talk about spirituality and the place it occupies on the path to peace. I refer to Sam Harris’s book, Waking Up, and I quote from an episode of his podcast, Making Sense. The book Ashrams, by Arnaud Desjardins, is probably out of print. So is Spiritual Awakening, by Ram Dass. See Also - A Mind at Home With Itself, by Byron Katie and Stephen Mitchell  - Tao Te Ching, by Lao Tsu, translation by Stephen Mitchell - Ego, by Alan Watts - The Perennial Philosophy, by Aldous Huxley - The Brain’s Default Mode Network (2015), by Marcus Raichle. Annual Review of Neuroscience, 38(1), 433–447. - Why Buddhism Is True, by Robert Wright

    • 26 min

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APWWD ,

Great introductory podcast!

I am so looking forward to what Fabrice has to offer in Peace at Last! Fabrice offers a wealth of knowledge and new perspectives that will be beneficial to any listener who is looking to improve how they think and feel through considering paths of thought and personal growth. Anyone will be able to find something in the podcasts to resonate with or to enhance their life through how they think. I’m looking forward to devouring this whole series!

EMETFORU ,

amazing

was looking forward to this a long time when i heard about it on Feeling Good, that fabrice nye used to host, and i highly suggest you listen to the podcasts he hosted there, all the first ones until recently when he switched to this project. i just wish upload scheduele was more consistent, its almost end of may now and no new episodes since april :/
Lol thanks Fabrice for reading my poorly worded review. :D

RMHNRH ,

Love this podcast

I love these podcasts! They are the perfect length to be both interesting and informative without overdoing it. I take away so much from these podcasts, and they help me in my everyday life because they are easily understood and consumed. Thank you, Dr. Nye!

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