35 Talking About Suicide With Our Patients: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

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May is Mental Health Awareness month and today’s episode begins a 4 part series dedicated to suicide prevention. 

My guest today is Anne Moss Rogers the Emotionally Naked public speaker, registered suicide prevention trainer, TEDx storyteller, and NAMI Virginia fundraising chair. Anne Moss is the author of the award-winning book, Diary of a Broken Mind, and her second book Emotionally Naked: A Teacher's Guide to Preventing Suicide and Recognizing Students at Risk will be out in August of 2021.

Anne Moss helps people foster a culture of connection to prevent suicide, reduce substance misuse, and find life after loss.

Caution: This episode discusses the subject of suicide and may be a trigger for some. If you or someone you love struggles with suicidal thoughts, please reach out. The Hotline for Suicide Prevention is 1-800-273-8255 or Crisis Text Line: text HOME to 741741     

[00:01 - 16:43] Anne Moss Shares Her Story About Her Beloved Son, Charles 

• Anne Moss highlights the difficulty in being able to get a diagnosis or the help they needed from health professionals
• Charles had seen 3 health professionals in the 2 week period prior to his suicide
• In Trying to deal with the devastation Anne Moss started the Emotionally Naked blog and started writing about her experience. 
• Her writing went viral, reaching those who shared her story 
• The moment Charles lost faith in the Mental Health system 
• Shame is a focus on self, guilt is a focus on behavior. Shame is “I am bad.” Guilt is “I did something bad.” - Brene Brown 

[16:44 - 27:02]  What Do Pediatricians and Primary Care Practitioners Need to Know?     

• Looking out for signs of self-harm and drug use
• Anne Moss’ Free Ebook resource titles ‘Signs of Drug Use’ (links below)
• Relationship disruptions
• Transitions
• Susceptible to physical illness 
• Identity issues 
• Mental health issues
• Previous attempts 
• Exposure to suicide 
• Pediatricians need to be prepared for their patients’ honesty and answers if they are going to be screening for suicide prevention  

[27:03 - 32:10] Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

• Set the expectation that you will be uncomfortable 
• Asking and listening with empathy is the best thing one can do   
• We need to make kids a part of their treatment process  
• Ensure the child to know that somebody is in their corner 

[32:11 - 40:49] Things Pediatricians Can Do If Their Patient Admits to Being Suicidal   

• Brief assessments
• Ask Suicide-Screening Questions (ASQ) Toolkit (link below) 
• The potential that universal suicide screening for every visit has to intervene and save lives   
• Approaching and having the conversation with the patient’s parents 
• Taking a gentle but authoritative approach 
• Recovery is possible and probable. We can offer hope by listening and riding the ride.  

[40:50 - 48:15]  Closing Segment 

• To connect with Anne Moss check out her links and resources below 
• Anne Moss shares her finals thoughts
• My Takeaways: 
• Medical Personal didn’t want to discuss suicide and ignored mental health subjects because they felt frozen 
• Get comfortable with being uncomfortable  
• If someone has disclosed that they have suicidal thoughts, the next strategy and phase is to ask <